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    #242
    Natasha_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭Natasha_


    squishykins wrote: »
    Yeh, that's what I'm saying! I'm not making myself very clear today am I :(

    and @Natasha, I trust my boyfriend totally. But I prefer the closeness and intimacy of him trying himself, I don't like the idea of him not even touching me and being able to do that, it's just not my thing, fair play to you for liking it. I did say before that it was my opinion, I don't care if other people like it I was just offering my 2 cents!

    I'm sorry, I thought that when you said:
    squishykins wrote: »
    It's all about trust, and to be honest I wouldn't trust my boyfriend if he could make me orgasm just by telling me to!

    You meant that you "wouldn't trust [your] boyfriend...."

    Silly me :rolleyes:


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    #243
    squishykins
    Registered Users Posts: 2,338 ✭✭✭squishykins


    Natasha_ wrote: »
    I'm sorry, I thought that when you said:



    You meant that you "wouldn't trust [your] boyfriend...."

    Silly me :rolleyes:

    Ok, I'll lay it out again. I do trust him completely, *however*, if he could do something without my consent, then that would affect my trust. As in, if god forbid we break up at some point, and he knew that about me.


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    #244
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    squishykins wrote: »
    Ok, I'll lay it out again. I do trust him completely, *however*, if he could do something without my consent, then that would affect my trust. As in, if god forbid we break up at some point, and he knew that about me.


    He can't do it with out your consent, the more psychological and esoteric sexual activities depend on high levels of trust and consent and to be honest from your words, it doesn't sound like there is that trust there in your relationship. They can be exploited and misused though, that much is true but if your trust someone you have confidence that they wont breach that trust.


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    #245
    Natasha_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭Natasha_


    Oh no, I understood what you meant....you trust him until you don't.

    Look, it's really none of my business *what* your relationship is like with your guy...I was simply responding to your comment about what the "right" way to build intimacy is....yanno, just exploring the irony there ;)


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    #246
    squishykins
    Registered Users Posts: 2,338 ✭✭✭squishykins


    Natasha_ wrote: »
    Oh no, I understood what you meant....you trust him until you don't.

    Look, it's really none of my business *what* your relationship is like with your guy...I was simply responding to your comment about what the "right" way to build intimacy is....yanno, just exploring the irony there ;)

    I didn't mean for it to come across that way, me saying what was right or wrong, I was just giving my opinion. And lol, my guy :rolleyes: (that's his name, Guy)


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    #247
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    Reward/Natasha, this is not the thread for passing whatever your perceived judgements are on Squishkins relationship, please get back on topic.

    Thanks,

    Maple.


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    #248
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    28064212 wrote: »
    :pac: I take it you don't masturbate so? Since you're "desensitising" yourself to the feeling of actual sex? Yes, if either sex is masturbating to the point that it's the only way they can reach orgasm, it's a problem, but that point is not "small doses"



    What I meant was that its better if strong vibrations are the treat rather than the norm. sometimes women are so used to vibrations and mechanical toys that they find it difficult to orgasm easily in other ways, others need very high levels of stimulation to over come mental blocks, both situations can be over come with conditioning, for example, its possible to condition a person to orgasm on vocal command alone so, problems reaching orgasm with physical stimulation alone or otherwise are rooted in mental blocks and/or de-sensitisation from over reliance on mechanical toys.


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    #249
    Natasha_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭Natasha_


    Reward wrote: »
    What I meant was that its better if strong vibrations are the treat rather than the norm. sometimes women are so used to vibrations and mechanical toys that they find it difficult to orgasm easily in other ways, others need very high levels of stimulation to over come mental blocks, both situations can be over come with conditioning, for example, its possible to condition a person to orgasm on vocal command alone so, problems reaching orgasm with physical stimulation alone or otherwise are rooted in mental blocks and/or de-sensitisation from over reliance on mechanical toys.

    I agree, when I first got my Celebrator, I was a bit preoccupied with it, lol. Then it got to the point - fairly quickly- where it was increasingly difficult to cum without it...in fact I think I actually could NOT cum without it for a little while.
    A looooooooong break from it (actually, am I still on this break? When can we do that again? lol) and a lot of non buzzy stimulation and I was back to normal.


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    #250
    Lia_lia
    Registered Users Posts: 6,691 ✭✭✭Lia_lia


    So this one time I was in Ann Summers with my very camp gay friend when I was about 17 browsing around next thing I hear my friend shouting "OMGGG AOIFE YOUR MOMS A VIBRATORR!!!!" :/ Was so hilarious!

    There is vibrator in Ann Summers with the same name as my Mother.http://annsummersireland.ie/shop/sex-toys/ann-summers-serena?vmcchk=1 Bit of a running joke between me and my friends now haha!


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    #251
    TouchingVirus
    Registered Users Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    Ann Summers Serena is a strange name :P


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    #252
    Lia_lia
    Registered Users Posts: 6,691 ✭✭✭Lia_lia


    Well...Serena! It's also the name of a car! (must...resist...making...jokeouttathat)


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    #253
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Lia_lia wrote: »
    So this one time I was in Ann Summers with my very camp gay friend when I was about 17 browsing around next thing I hear my friend shouting "OMGGG AOIFE YOUR MOMS A VIBRATORR!!!!" :/ Was so hilarious!

    There is vibrator in Ann Summers with the same name as my Mother.http://annsummersireland.ie/shop/sex-toys/ann-summers-serena?vmcchk=1 Bit of a running joke between me and my friends now haha!

    Haha! I have that one! Not too bad ;)


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    #254
    28064212
    Registered Users Posts: 10,501 ✭✭✭✭28064212


    Lia_lia wrote: »
    So this one time I was in Ann Summers with my very camp gay friend when I was about 17 browsing around next thing I hear my friend shouting "OMGGG AOIFE YOUR MOMS A VIBRATORR!!!!" :/ Was so hilarious!

    There is vibrator in Ann Summers with the same name as my Mother.http://annsummersireland.ie/shop/sex-toys/ann-summers-serena?vmcchk=1 Bit of a running joke between me and my friends now haha!
    :pac: Does your mother know?

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    #255
    suey71
    Closed Accounts Posts: 805 ✭✭✭suey71


    The Celebrator is basically a rip off of the world famous Eroscilator.

    I'd love to hear from anyone who owns one of these.

    http://eu.eroscillator.com/default.aspx

    A little on the expensive side, but as Henry Royce once said of his cars, "The quality will remain when the price is forgotten.

    The same can be said of any "Branded" Vibrator.

    I'm sure the ladies here who own a Funfactory vibe or a Lelo will agree with me on this.


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