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Womens Attitudes in Nightclubs
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Despite the amount of them in this area I could nearly count on my fingers the amount of Irish lads Ive seen walking around with EE girls who they are obviously with. Ive seen loads more walking around with Chinese, African, South American etc etc. Despite their lesser numbers in this country Id know of far more Irish-W European couples (Spanish, French, German, Italian etc etc) than with the more ubiquitous easterners. Actually Ive probably seen more African lads with E European girls (not common either, but more so than Irish around here). And Im not sure Ive ever seen, let alone known, of an Irish girl with an eastern dude.
Hmm it's not always obvious by just looking though. Most people who see myself and the BF together assume he's German/Polish/EE and I'm Spanish or Italian when in fact we're both Irish. A Nigerian friend is going out with a blonde Spaniard who everyone thinks is Polish. It might not apply to that many people, but it's something to consider.
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CursedSkeptic wrote: »I think two minute in your company would be just as soporific for me as it would be for you
Well, we're both happy then, I could do with a bit of shut-eye right now!
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Tha Gopher wrote: »Fact of the matter?
As said previously, I have trouble dragging mates to decent dance nights in clubs in town because the majority of the girls will be EE. Yes, some of them will be fluent but there will be alot who know basic English. Hardly easier to talk to, hence the reason none of the lads will go.
I find that very hard to believe that the lads would be against going to it.... some of the EE girls are insanely good dancers. The language thing isn't generally a problem for me, on a friday night I'm looking for light easy conversation which they usually have picked up by now! You're on the button though about them liking the electro scene, though I'm not complaining at all 0 -
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People dress for comfort, practicality, increasing sexual attraction and as a means to fit in with whatever social group they feel allied to. There is an element of competition in that group as well.
When people say they dress for themselves what does that actually mean? It means that on one level dressing a certain way makes them feel better. Why does it make them feel better? It makes them feel better because it makes them accepted and admired by their group and those they wish to attract. It's a chicken and egg situation.
Women as the peacocks dress as much to impress other women as to impress men. Two women show up to a party wearing the same dress? Aaaawkward and nastiness may ensue. Two men show up in the same shirt and trousers? Bugger all. Maybe a joke about it. That's why the question "does my arse look big in this" can never be really answered by men, as it's more a case of "will other women think I've a fat arse and bitch about it".
In our society women dress up more than the men. They are by and large the peacocks. In other societies it's the men. Even the expression to "dress up" suggests increasing whatever signals he or she wishes to express to the group. By doing so in a sexually charged social environment will attract attention from those in that environment. Throw in lack of inhibition from alcohol etc. In which case, while it is at times irritating when unwelcome it is hardly unexpected.
If you look at the extremes, say a woman dressed in fúck me heels, a mini skirt that barely covers her arse and a low cut top that exposes her charms. She would have to be naive(dense really) in the extreme to think that she will not attract sexually charged attention from men. After all that is what that mode of dress is primarily designed to do. It's not for comfort, its hardly practical and it's certainly not (directly) aimed at women. Now it may make her feel better about herself, but it does so because it makes her feel higher value in the attraction stakes. The same woman in a pair of baggy dungarees is not going to garner the same attention. Simple as that.
In an ideal world men would be respectful and polite and ogling and unwelcome comments would not happen. Sadly we don't live in an ideal world and have to at times accept that. I'm not going to march down the Falls road in a Union Jack tee shirt, though it is my "right" to do so. I would expect unwanted attention. A clumsy example to be sure, but not a million miles away.
Men should have manners and cop on. sadly enough of them don't. Women should have manners when dealing with someone who is being polite to them, but again sadly enough of them don't.
Oh yea, YORE MA dresses like a slappa.
^Wibbs, cutting through most of the bull$hit in this thread, as usual. 0 -
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Well proper nouns, unless otherwise indicated, are meant to begin with a capital letter
Heh, it seems to be a guarantee, hence the concept of Muphry's Law. I once applied for a job and in my covering letter I wrote "I have a good grasp of the English languge"...0 -
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And I completely second thatIs that the Irish women's "to do list" ? Then please go ahead.
After experiencing real women, I never ever will have the slightest intention of even looking at an Irish girl ever again.
Irish women are a glass of dirty greasy dish water compared to foreign women who are a glass of red wine. :cool:0 -
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