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    #872
    Jessiegirl
    Registered Users Posts: 148 ✭✭Jessiegirl


    Thanks emo.
    Think a lot of it is insecure & childish and needs to look deep at himself. Think a lot of keeping in touch or keeping 'on side' with exes or girls that he could possibly have dated is to stop him feeling bad about himself i.e. he doesn't want to admit he had any role to play in failure.
    Like he's eased off on texts and seeming to want to see me lately (probably cos of bad vibes) yet he says he needs to cut back on bills (I know lol) - but some of these texts are to other girls - hey why not cut down on texts to them but leave me out of that equation ffs Wow that makes me feel so special....needs to cut down on texts but if an old ex texts him he will have to reply. Like Wtf
    Let him have their number and talk the odd time - but don't rub it in my face. The issue being he tells me I am paronoid & annoying when I say this - doesn't give a **** how I feel.
    No wonder he keeps his phone on silence all the time.

    He's also upset me on occassions - had goes at me in public as he didn't like how I was behaving or what I said. Very embaressing and demoralising.

    I see him now transferring my issues back and making out I'm to blame.
    Not for me - been there done that - he needs a big big step up this time etc. but it may not happen...Will be his loss.


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    #873
    xzanti
    Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,437 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    My boyfriend is a pr1ck.. soon to be ex..


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    #874
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    xzanti wrote: »
    My boyfriend is a pr1ck.. soon to be ex..

    Aww what happened?


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    #875
    xzanti
    Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,437 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Aww what happened?

    Refused me affection/sex/acknowledgement and then sent me home so he could go out with his friends.. I hope it was worth it sh1tforbrains.. Cheeribyes..


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    #876
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    well how much time do you spent together?
    did he plan night out with mates while back and he did not want to blow them off?
    when a couple get serious they kind of lose contact with mates, so any chance you do get to spend with them for a bit of banter is special (makes it sound gay but ya get my drift).
    dont be so quick to be angry with him, but i will admit if i had a boyfriend and he refused sex i would be raging, i know its not just about the sex its the rejection makes you feel like crap!
    just talk it out before you make any decisions he may surprise you :)


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    #877
    getz
    Registered Users Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    a letter to my wife
    my darling,my lover,my beautiful wife.marrying you has screwed up my life--i see your face when i am dreaming.thats why i always wake up screaming- kind intelligent,loving and hot.this discribes everthing your not-love may be beautiful,love may be bliss. but i only slept with you cause i was pissed--i thought that i could love no other.that is untill i met your brother--roses are red violets are blue. sugar is sweet,and so are you-but roses are wilting,the violets are dead, the sugar bowls empty and so is your head--i want your sweet embrace.but dont take the paper bag off your face--i love your smile, your face and your eyes. damn i,m good at telling lies--my love, you take my breath away.what have you stepped in to smell this way ?---my feeling for you no words can tell. except for maybe ,go to hell--what inspired this amorous rhyme ?.two parts of vodka, one part of lime ,,,love getz


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    #878
    xzanti
    Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,437 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    I retract everything I said above.. He redeemed himself this weekend... brought me away on a suprise weekend away.. 5* hotel.. great weekend.. He gets to stay :D more of that pleeeze dahling... :) he does love me... *jumps around like a schoogirl*


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    #879
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    hey is it ok for a girl to date a guy 2 years younger than her ..maturity is more important right??


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    #880
    Kablamo!
    Registered Users Posts: 879 ✭✭✭Kablamo!


    Have to meet up with my ex this week to return belongings etc... Dreadin it UGH UGH UGH! Broke up on Friday after two years, I'm gutted :(


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    #881
    joes girls
    Registered Users Posts: 20,448 ✭✭✭✭joes girls


    ok........been with same guy for 17 years we split 6 months ago.......how long should i wait before gettin into something new?

    kablamo......sorry you sad.......but its only been a couple of days......you will get there!


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    #882
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey is it ok for a girl to date a guy 2 years younger than her ..maturity is more important right??

    It is totally acceptable. Wouldn't even blink at the notion.


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    #883
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    joes girls wrote: »
    ok........been with same guy for 17 years we split 6 months ago.......how long should i wait before gettin into something new?

    There is no pre-requisite time period. It is all about where you are at emotionally.
    If this something new is feeling right go for it.


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    #884
    joes girls
    Registered Users Posts: 20,448 ✭✭✭✭joes girls


    Moonbaby wrote: »
    There is no pre-requisite time period. It is all about where you are at emotionally.
    If this something new is feeling right go for it.

    thanks moonbaby......just worried bout what would be said,also have no feelings for my ex,but dont want him thinkin i got on with me life so fast that i never did.but yeah i like my something new......:)


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    #885
    That Girl..
    Closed Accounts Posts: 149 ✭✭That Girl..


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey is it ok for a girl to date a guy 2 years younger than her ..maturity is more important right??


    Yea course it is, I got with my boyfriend around this time last year. I was 19 at the time and he was 17..

    No problems so far:D Go for it!


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    #886
    hobochris
    Registered Users Posts: 2,164 ✭✭✭hobochris


    xzanti wrote: »
    Refused me affection/sex/acknowledgement and then sent me home so he could go out with his friends.. I hope it was worth it sh1tforbrains.. Cheeribyes..
    xzanti wrote: »
    I retract everything I said above.. He redeemed himself this weekend... brought me away on a suprise weekend away.. 5* hotel.. great weekend.. He gets to stay :D more of that pleeeze dahling... :) he does love me... *jumps around like a schoogirl*


    Women be cccccccccrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY...
    :D


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    #887
    shellyboo
    Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    hobochris wrote: »
    Women be cccccccccrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY...
    :D


    You be in the LAAAAAAAAAAADIES LOUNGE. We're allowed be as crazy as we like in here, ta very much.


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    #888
    hobochris
    Registered Users Posts: 2,164 ✭✭✭hobochris


    shellyboo wrote: »
    You be in the LAAAAAAAAAAADIES LOUNGE. We're allowed be as crazy as we like in here, ta very much.

    I knows... that just popped into my head(In a James brown* style voice) just though I'd share..:D

    my other half is a total Nutjob! which is why I love her.

    *may have been more like a hooch is crazy voice from scrubs...


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    #889
    SeekUp
    Registered Users Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭SeekUp


    joes girls wrote: »
    thanks moonbaby......just worried bout what would be said,also have no feelings for my ex,but dont want him thinkin i got on with me life so fast that i never did.but yeah i like my something new......:)

    After 17 years, I'm sure he wouldn't think you never had feelings for him!


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    #890
    NewFrockTuesday
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,405 ✭✭✭NewFrockTuesday


    Women be cccccccccrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY...
    It was more Hooch! :D

    17 years. Ouch. No time to waste so get to it!


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    #891
    coffee_cake
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 81,309 CMod ✭✭✭✭coffee_cake


    joes girls wrote: »
    also have no feelings for my ex,but dont want him thinkin i got on with me life so fast that i never did.

    Meh, I got that once from a guy who'd dumped ME (and I was too stupid to just stay away from)
    "oh you got a rebound, that means you never loved me"
    just f* off and get over yourself is my feeling toward him on the matter!


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    #892
    Kablamo!
    Registered Users Posts: 879 ✭✭✭Kablamo!


    The aul boyfella doesn't want to reconcile. I'm abosultely gutted. This week is just one bit of bad news after another. ARGHHH


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    #893
    panda100
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    Dumped,via email,This brings a grand total of zero nice experiences I've had with men I've been in raltionships with. Thought this one was decent enough though I was much mistaken :( heading home for some tlc


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    #894
    Joey the lips
    Registered Users Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    panda100 wrote: »
    Dumped,via email,This brings a grand total of zero nice experiences I've had with men. Thought this one was decent enough though I was much mistaken :( heading home for some tlc


    Any man that cant finish with you to your face is spineless! Simple! Although its hard you should have acted the sh1t and sent him back a text saying your computer/phone screen is acting up and you cant read the messages you can only see the name or no it came from.

    That would really fcuk him up :D

    Tell joe I wish him my very best and I have no doubt you will meet a decent lad soon enough!


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    #895
    panda100
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    Joey the lips wrote: »
    Any man that cant finish with you to your face is spineless! Simple! Although its hard you should have acted the sh1t and sent him back a text saying your computer/phone screen is acting up and you cant read the messages you can only see the name or no it came from.

    In a way its probably better he did it that way as I would have cried If he told me to my face. Got the whole your great/amazing/beautiful/too good for me spiel but hes still in love with his ex girlfriend. Obviously Im not that amazing so :(


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    #896
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Well for a start he should have known he was still into his ex before he kicked off with you. As for his "too good for you" spiel? I reckon he was being truthful and I also reckon he's right. The email bit was a bit crass though.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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    #897
    hobochris
    Registered Users Posts: 2,164 ✭✭✭hobochris


    panda100 wrote: »
    In a way its probably better he did it that way as I would have cried If he told me to my face. Got the whole your great/amazing/beautiful/too good for me spiel but hes still in love with his ex girlfriend. Obviously Im not that amazing so :(

    You have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince..

    If he was still in love with his ex there's nothing you could have done.It's nothing against you, just I'll timing..

    Best thing to do is do the ice cream + pajamas's thing with some friends for a couple of days and then get back out there and have some fun(go on dates etc..)


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    #898
    Corb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 311 ✭✭Corb


    Hope you're okay Panda, that's horrible :(


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    #899
    sweetheart
    Registered Users Posts: 53 ✭✭sweetheart


    ladies need your advice... recently myself and my oh were texting and the texts slowly ventured into the topic of marriage. he asked me would i marry him and i said yes but he would have to ask me properly when he comes home as he is away at the moment. my head is in turmoil as i dont know if he was serious or not. i would def marry him but when he comes home i dont know if i should bring up the subject or not incase he says he was joking and il look like a total twat. we are not with each other that long but i love him so much and i know he feels the same... any advice pleeeease
    from a desperate dub:confused::confused::confused:


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    #900
    Joey the lips
    Registered Users Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    sweetheart wrote: »
    he asked me would i marry him and i said yes but he would have to ask me properly when he comes home


    When he comes home give him a day if he has not asked just say "Well I am waiting...." Dont worry he is prob planning it all in his head


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    #901
    Novella
    Registered Users Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I now hate men :) So yep, I'm currently a lesbian!


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