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New here Girlies and I have been reading for a long time. Have a big problem myself with my ex but wont go into it just yet. Im a bit insecure
. metaoblivia I read your post and I do feel for you. I have had a similar issue. I was told tho that the reason I had to endure such hardship was because I was not really open or any good in bed. Are u confident that you were pleasing your BF. I have a lot of guy friends and nearly all have told me that bad sex life is a major reason for straying. If this guy isn't the first to stray with other women it may be worth a thought. I know that may seem very harsh to say and fickle for people to leave due to something like sex but there is no point fooling ourselves cause it happens. Like I said I have a lot of male friends and its all they think off :mad: 0 -
New here Girlies and I have been reading for a long time. Have a big problem myself with my ex but wont go into it just yet. Im a bit insecure. metaoblivia I read your post and I do feel for you. I have had a similar issue. I was told tho that the reason I had to endure such hardship was because I was not really open or any good in bed. Are u confident that you were pleasing your BF. I have a lot of guy friends and nearly all have told me that bad sex life is a major reason for straying. If this guy isn't the first to stray with other women it may be worth a thought. I know that may seem very harsh to say and fickle for people to leave due to something like sex but there is no point fooling ourselves cause it happens. Like I said I have a lot of male friends and its all they think off :mad:
I think you should look at who you are keeping as a friend. If a person in a realationship has a problem with how things are in the bedroom then you talk about it, you dont leave/cheat on them.0 -
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New here Girlies and I have been reading for a long time. Have a big problem myself with my ex but wont go into it just yet. Im a bit insecure. metaoblivia I read your post and I do feel for you. I have had a similar issue. I was told tho that the reason I had to endure such hardship was because I was not really open or any good in bed. Are u confident that you were pleasing your BF. I have a lot of guy friends and nearly all have told me that bad sex life is a major reason for straying. If this guy isn't the first to stray with other women it may be worth a thought. I know that may seem very harsh to say and fickle for people to leave due to something like sex but there is no point fooling ourselves cause it happens. Like I said I have a lot of male friends and its all they think off :mad:
Oh no, if you had read the post thoroughly, you would have seen it was a long distance relationship. Obviously there wasn't a lot of sex because he lived on one side of the country and I lived on the other, and we live in a very big country. However, we both entered into the relationship knowing that, and knowing the sacrifices it entails. And to his merit, he said he hadn't slept with her when we broke up, and I have no reason to disbelieve him. And even if he did... oh well.
Honestly, I haven't given much thought as to what I did or could have done, etc.. He said he met someone else and when you're in a long distance relationship there's always that risk. I don't blame or question myself on anything in regards to this relationship because, well... I'm either very confident or a little bit arrogant. :pac:
In any event, I'm not into creating situations that will give me insecurities, which I think is the only road your suggestion leads down. Faulting yourself for someone else's actions is no way to go through life. I agree with Puddleduck; if something isn't right in the bedroom, you should talk about it with your partner. It's no excuse to stray.0 -
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So I have been meaning to ask for the Advice of the pros about something that is going on with me recently :rolleyes:
Long story short. I cheated on my ex boyfriend about 7 months being with him however It was with ex boyfriend and there was some serious history. Anyway I was stupid and regretted it and everntually told my bfriend at the time. He flips out as ud expect then after a while decided he will try get on with things as normal!
Of course you all probably guessed it, it never really worked out and after a few months he jst couldnt keep on going with me.
Queue about a year and a half later and we talk occasionally and have met up a few times nothing to serious
. But Im confused and dont want to get emotionally involved and hurt.
Do you think its a waste of my time to try see if he is willing to give it another go?0 -
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Nor would I, I think it'd be downright disrespectful to rant about any problems in your relationship to strangers on the internet. Even bad-mouthing a recently-dumped boyfriend I'd see as bad form.
i'd agree with you but..
People seem to have a problem with communicating to there friends about such problems I do and its always good to get a perspective on something if your unshore, and the internet can be a wonderfull place to do that granted some bloke could get mersolously chastised buy a bunch of internet women but.... what makes me chuckle is that they could end up with that bloke.... 0 -
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