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Breast Feeding in Restaurant

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  • #452
    Sittingpretty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,872 ✭✭✭Sittingpretty


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    IF a person believes that I shouldn't do it or that I should only do it at home then they are PERFECTLY entitled to do so! I dislike the thought of breastfeeding and I would like women to do it at home, I am allowed to be offended by something which you disagree with.

    But u still haven't explained why?

    I suppose u are entitled to feel how u feel but your side of the debate doesn't have any legality.

    Can anyone give me an understanding of exactly what about breastfeeding is offensive?


  • #453
    Chain_reaction
    Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭Chain_reaction


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Of course you would immediately become homophobic, what a wonderful defence. I absolutely love a good breast with a baby hanging off it, what lesbian doesn't?


    I think she was trying to find out the specific reason why it makes you so ill?

    You should also be allowed to be affectionate to your partner in public with out naysayers wading in.

    People are well within their rights to do legal things in public no matter how much other people are annoyed by them.

    Turn a blind eye, discreetly puke whatever. Mind your own business.


  • #454
    Bubblefett
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,032 ✭✭✭Bubblefett


    I hate the responses of "it's my opinion and I've a RIGHT to say it."
    Your opinion is wrong. It's stupid. It's illegal. It's discriminatory. And it's against nature.
    Women have been breastfeeding for ever. Genuinely, i know it's shocking to hear but yes they have. Since the start of mankind. Do you think that's long enough a time frame to realise "huh, maybe it's not so weird" :rolleyes:
    Cop on to yourselves. Grow up. Accept nature and move on.


  • #455
    Namlub
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,298 ✭✭✭Namlub


    Paco Rodriguez wrote: »
    Mothers dont have to breast feed either. They can use a bottle

    Hmm, breastfeed for the benefit of the baby or bottle feed for the benefit of some stranger who can't mind their own business. Tough choice.


  • #456
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Paco Rodriguez wrote: »
    Mothers dont have to breast feed either. They can use a bottle
    Jeez, thanks - mothers wouldn't have known that had you not pointed it out!

    The whole point is: many babies don't suck a bottle teat, or there isn't always a bottle to hand - it could have unexpectedly been used up, or a woman might just prefer to feed a baby breastmilk over formula, and expressing is time-consuming and tiring with a baby to look after, and why should she express anyway just to placate uptight individuals who can look away?

    There's a variety of reasons why women breastfeed in public - merely doing so to make others uncomfortable though would be far down the list, if on it at all.
    I'd suggest those who don't have a clue do a bit of research first before offering "expertise" - google is just a click away.

    Not saying women who don't breastfeed are wrong btw - it doesn't work out for all women, and forcing women to breastfeed is obnoxious too.


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  • #457
    lasser
    Registered Users Posts: 13 ✭lasser


    Cheeky_gal wrote: »
    Was out for lunch in a very busy restaurant today and a woman at the table next to us started breast feeding. Couldn't believe it. I thought it was so ignorant. I looked around at people's reactions and everyone seemed shocked. Obviously it's not something people haven't seen before, but in a restaurant while people are eating?

    There's a time and a place.

    I wonder if the majority of people feel this way. Going by people's facial expressions in the restaurant they weren't too impressed.

    your pathetic a restaurant is for eating a bf baby is doing exactly that eating are bf mothers expected to stay inside 24/7 in case someone is offended at them feeding their child when their child is hungry

    your attitude makes me sick!!!


  • #458
    Chain_reaction
    Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭Chain_reaction


    Namlub wrote: »
    Hmm, breastfeed for the benefit of the baby or bottle feed for the benefit of some stranger who can't mind their own business. Tough choice.

    I think paco meant that women should have the choice of bottle or breast feeding and not that they should be forced to do one or the other.


  • #459
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    http://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=breastfeeding%20in%20public%20law&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CCoQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FBreastfeeding_in_public&ei=plR4T-DsFoWXhQe1keCxDQ&usg=AFQjCNG_QHAN6soG5ftZMSSL0n3hXy7TzQ

    http://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=breastfeeding%20in%20public%20law&source=web&cd=2&ved=0CDUQFjAB&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mumslikeus.ie%2Findex.php%2Flegal-information%2Fbreastfeeding-in-public&ei=plR4T-DsFoWXhQe1keCxDQ&usg=AFQjCNFArYs6OjTGmzW7ugMnknu8UQuowQ

    I think we can all agree some people are ok with it and some are not. I think most mothers are so discreet about it we don't notice it at all.


  • #460
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Of course you would immediately become homophobic, what a wonderful defence. I absolutely love a good breast with a baby hanging off it, what lesbian doesn't? You find my post ignorant and I also find your post incredibly ignorant, however you demonstrated my point. You are entitled to express your opinion, as am I.
    I was taking the piss - responding to an idiotic post with an idiotic post. I an not in the slightest bit homophobic, but handy card to defend yourself with eh? On the whole, I would imagine I'm more openminded than you, given your actual breathtaking assertion that women should breastfeed at home just because you personally don't like it.
    I posted a more constructive follow-up comment, if you could reply to that when you've a chance, rather than just the ones you find easy to respond to. Ta.

    Given you dislike children, you wouldn't like a baby screaming with hunger either I'm sure. But of course parents should stay at home all the time, even if in desperate need of a getaway, when they can't get a babysitter, so as not to annoy selfish people.


  • #461
    Namlub
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,298 ✭✭✭Namlub


    Chain_reaction wrote: »
    I think paco meant that women should have the choice of bottle or breast feeding and not that they should be forced to do one or the other.

    I'm not contradicting that, but the fact breasteeding in public is a choice doesn't make it any less acceptable, and that choice shouldn't be dictated by what other people think


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  • #462
    Medusa22
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,400 ✭✭✭Medusa22


    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    Dudess, you are trying to backtrack now. Of course I defend myself when someone posts something incredibly homophobic, to suggest that I am attracted to every pair of breasts that I see, you are just perpetuating a common stereotype and then to suggest that it is a handy defence card? I explained why I dislike breastfeeding and I don't feel the need to explain myself further. I mentioned that I was a lesbian because I knew that some hypocrite would comment, and you did, well done ;)


  • #463
    Namlub
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,298 ✭✭✭Namlub


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    Thank the lord your personal views don't even come into the equation then...


  • #464
    Neyite
    Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    bensweeney wrote: »
    They are both natural bodily functions. I see I use a PRIVATE area to have a piss. Women should also use a PRIVATE area when they are being relieved of bodily fluids.

    You have your private area called a TOILET. In pretty much every single establishment. Name me one place where they have a private area called "BABY FEEDING AREA"

    ...Thats right. Nowhere does. They cater for your bodily functions, but not breastfeeding.
    Paco Rodriguez wrote: »
    Mothers dont have to breast feed either. They can use a bottle

    So, to avoid offending people who look to be offended by stupid crap I should:
    • Buy a heap of bottles
    • Buy a steriliser
    • Buy a bottle brush
    • Buy a breast pump
    • Pump for hours to get mere ounces of milk
    • Freeze in sterilised containers to use when I need.
    • Wash bottles
    • Sterilise bottles
    • Make up bottles
    • Refrigerate bottles
    • Put bottles in my bag and carry these around with me
    • Hope baby needs the feed in time before unrefrigerated milk goes off
    • Heat bottle in a teapot for 10 mins while baby is screaming its head off in a restaruant
    • Feed baby
    • Put empty bottle back in bag.
    • Put up with sour milk smell in my bag until I get home.
    • Go home, wash bottle
    • Sterilise bottle.
    ...or I could just turn into a corner, unbutton a few buttons and feed my baby straight from source with sterile, warm milk.

    Look. I wont be getting more than 3 hours consecutive sleep for several months after the middle of May when my baby is born. Why the f*ck should I go to so much hassle and expense to avoid offending some gobsh!ite who thinks that the primary function of breasts is for his titalation?


  • #465
    Chain_reaction
    Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭Chain_reaction


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    Maybe I'm wrong but shouldn't a child being fed by any method make you sick then?


    Actually this has got nothing to do with child behaviour, you're using that as a crutch to get you're view across because you can't provide a valid reason.

    Where did you get the idea that its the same as taking a pee from? Because it comes out of a body?

    The bile coming out of you're mouth I'd equate to taking a dump in public though.


  • #466
    cruiser178
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,654 ✭✭✭cruiser178


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    wow, just wow. Ive read some drivell in this tread but this tops the lot of them.


  • #467
    lasser
    Registered Users Posts: 13 ✭lasser


    hondasam wrote: »
    I'm sorry everyone but I'm with the OP on this one ignorant or not I would prefer if it did not happen in the restaurant but then again kids in restaurants tend to annoy me anyway.
    Having said that I'm sure she was discreet about it but I also think she could have gone to a private location to feed the baby or fed the baby before she went to the restaurant.

    i wonder what people would say if i said i'd rather a mother who was bottle feeding go to a private place cos i don't want to see an artificial plastic teat with artificial unnatural milk in it shoved in a babies mouth?


  • #468
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.
    Grand. Your very specific, personal and non universal opinion - although if you're comparing giving breast milk to a baby with public sh1tting and pissing which involve no baby, perhaps think that one through a bit more.
    But feeling uncomfortable with it - fair enough, just seriously face reality though if you think it's ok to force that view on others. You just have to put up and not look I'm afraid.


  • #469
    forfuxsake
    Registered Users Posts: 829 ✭✭✭forfuxsake


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    Your're right, a mammal feeding its offspring with its breast is hardly natural. In fact it's absurd. Everyone knows that breasts are for fondling. Breastfeeding is exactly like public urination, sometimes I'm not even sure if a woman is feeding her child or pis$ing against a wall, them being so similar.

    and don't even get me started on hugs....


  • #470
    Micky Dolenz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    People who don't strongly encourage public boobage will should be banned.


  • #471
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    ck83 wrote: »
    breastfeeding is one of the most selfless things a mother can do for their baby... that opinion is just ridiculous and offensive.

    Gotta disagree with the first part of your post! I don't think breastfeeding is selfless, there are many benefits for the mother also. Second part I agree with.

    I think the thread is a lost cause. The OP has been given lots of information about why mothers can't plan their day to not have to breastfeed in public to inform her ignorance on the subject and she is not budging.


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  • #472
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Dudess, you are trying to backtrack now. Of course I defend myself when someone posts something incredibly homophobic, to suggest that I am attracted to every pair of breasts that I see, you are just perpetuating a common stereotype and then to suggest that it is a handy defence card? I explained why I dislike breastfeeding and I don't feel the need to explain myself further. I mentioned that I was a lesbian because I knew that some hypocrite would comment, and you did, well done ;)
    I'm not backtracking - are you a mind-reader? And do you know me? I posted that stupid comment as a response to your stupid comment that women should stay at home to breastfeed just because you personally don't like it. I mean really, it is one of the most imbecilic things I've ever read - and that's my opinion.

    And what I said was not homophobic, that's just your hypersensitive interpretation. Same thing has been said to lots of guys here -is that heterophobia? But fabricate homophobia if it makes you feel better about your selfish attitude. Lol - "people should pander to me! MEEEE! even though they're protected by law..."


  • #473
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    I find the idea of breastfeeding utterly nauseating. I wouldn't be able to continue eating my meal if I saw someone breastfeeding in a restaurant. I agree with the OP, do it somewhere else. If you CHOOSE to breastfeed then do it at home. I don't want to look at it. In fact, I despise children being in restaurants at all, unless they are well behaved, but that is a rarity in this country.

    Why don't you just stay at home?
    Why should people use formula just to please moronic people like you.


  • #474
    darlett
    Registered Users Posts: 2,313 ✭✭✭darlett


    Ok, it seems most of us agree at this stage it is acceptable for a woman to breast feed a baby. And so it should be.

    But...where do you look?! I recently went on an extended family sort of trip and we were driving along in a people carrier, with myself in shotgun position. At one random stage I turned around to chat to people behind me. My sister in-law sat by the window holding her child and I paused for a moment to admire this beautiful scene of the babe in arms and smiled at the scene. In that instant I realised her baby was on the boob. She was been that discreet.

    Smooth as you like (not)! I rotated back in my seat eloquently explaining ,"Oh sorry, I didnt realise..."

    I probably do have issues (And I know the good people of AH will be quick to inform me if they think so :D )but the thoughts went like Lua Lua backflips through my mind. Did she or her husband see me looking and smiling? Did they know I was doing so because of the baby and not because Im male in my 20s seeing some boob? Would she have been ashamed that I recoiled in such a way? I didnt mean to put her in a shame by looking away-work on madame please, and I didnt mean to casually stare as if I was having a cheap perv.
    But now Im thinking if it happens at a table where Im eating, ...can I look at the baby and the boob? Should I make out I dont see it and am unaware by steely looking into the bf eyes as if I want to make out the back of her head?
    Should I stare at the lightbulb and pray for temporary blindness?


    Whats that???? Act normal you say? Oh for heavens sake :o

    I think if I was a lady I would carry around a baby and breastfeed it whenever this situation arises. Sorted. If you cant beat them...
    But as a male, and yes a clearly non qualified issued filled childless one at that, a big over sized pair of sunnies I reckon. HELP!


  • #475
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    Dudess, you are trying to backtrack now. Of course I defend myself when someone posts something incredibly homophobic, to suggest that I am attracted to every pair of breasts that I see, you are just perpetuating a common stereotype and then to suggest that it is a handy defence card? I explained why I dislike breastfeeding and I don't feel the need to explain myself further. I mentioned that I was a lesbian because I knew that some hypocrite would comment, and you did, well done ;)

    You can do that all you want, you're still wrong.


  • #476
    Chain_reaction
    Registered Users Posts: 241 ✭✭Chain_reaction


    Princess Peach wrote: »
    Gotta disagree with the first part of your post! I don't think breastfeeding is selfless, there are many benefits for the mother also. Second part I agree with.

    I think the thread is a lost cause. The OP has been given lots of information about why mothers can't plan their day to not have to breastfeed in public to inform her ignorance on the subject and she is not budging.

    I presume its hard to change the opinions of people who think that they're so self important that something that we've evolved to do shouldn't take place in front of them.


  • #477
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Yeah it probably is difficult to know where to look - and the mother should make allowances for that by covering the boob as much as she can. But if you're chatting to her, just look in her eyes!


  • #478
    BackScrub
    Registered Users Posts: 353 ✭✭BackScrub


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    ....and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency.

    Seriously?

    I just can't get my head around a statement like that.

    Maddest thread I've seen in a while.


  • #479
    Medusa22
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,400 ✭✭✭Medusa22


    Contrary to what you seem to believe, you are not omnipotent and you cannot decide that I am simply wrong. It is your opinion that I am wrong and you are entitled to that, it is my opinion that you are a moron, in fact that you are all morons :)


  • #480
    BackScrub
    Registered Users Posts: 353 ✭✭BackScrub


    darlett wrote: »
    But...where do you look?

    Stare at the unoccupied boob and shout "Bitty".


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  • #481
    Namlub
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,298 ✭✭✭Namlub


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Contrary to what you seem to believe, you are not omnipotent and you cannot decide that I am simply wrong. It is your opinion that I am wrong and you are entitled to that, it is my opinion that you are a moron, in fact that you are all morons :)

    lol


  • #482
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Contrary to what you seem to believe, you are not omnipotent and you cannot decide that I am simply wrong. It is your opinion that I am wrong and you are entitled to that, it is my opinion that you are a moron, in fact that you are all morons :)

    the door is that a way ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


  • #483
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Micky Dolenz wrote: »
    People who don't strongly encourage public boobage will should be banned.

    Are you promoting breastfeeding or topless women?


  • #484
    Bubblefett
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,032 ✭✭✭Bubblefett


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home.

    Please take your own advice.


  • #485
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Chain_reaction wrote: »
    I presume its hard to change the opinions of people who think that they're so self important that something that we've evolved to do shouldn't take place in front of them.

    I'm not a mother, never had a problem with breastfeeding. I knew the health benefits but I learned a lot from this thread about how expressing milk is not so easy and how complicated it is to carry around sterilized bottles, and how often babies get hungry. I now understand a lot better the need mothers have to breastfeed in public, I always knew they had the right.

    Some people who are of the opinion its wrong have either not read the whole thread to get this information or have read it but think its false :confused:

    And the OP has not made a constructive post in hours, she just keeps posting about how upset she is at people's reactions to her post. Not sure if she is reading the thread properly, or just focusing on the posts that agree with her opinion.


  • #486
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Contrary to what you seem to believe, you are not omnipotent and you cannot decide that I am simply wrong. It is your opinion that I am wrong and you are entitled to that, it is my opinion that you are a moron, in fact that you are all morons :)
    So if a person says homosexuality is depraved, you will concede that because it's their opinion it's not wrong. But of course we know it is wrong and that people who say such a thing are morons. ":)" Opinions aren't sacred things not to be disputed, love, especially ones based on selfishness and being uptight.

    Calling people morons because they are able to put forward well thought out and logical arguments that negate yours - oh dear, the child-hater is regressing to childhood. ":)"


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  • #487
    tvnutz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,788 ✭✭✭tvnutz


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q7NrfhWPL1I


  • #488
    Micky Dolenz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    Contrary to what you seem to believe, you are not omnipotent and you cannot decide that I am simply wrong. It is your opinion that I am wrong and you are entitled to that, it is my opinion that you are a moron, in fact that you are all morons :)


    Mod

    Banned :)


  • #489
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    tvnutz wrote: »
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q7NrfhWPL1I

    Now now, thats so ignorant:rolleyes:


  • #490
    darlett
    Registered Users Posts: 2,313 ✭✭✭darlett


    Dudess wrote: »
    But if you're chatting to her, just look in her eyes!

    Lol, so it is that simple then! ;) This might sound peculiar but babies are just a phenomenon I've never had in my life as the youngest child in my own family. I love the baby but before he strengthened up I was petrified of holding him in case his head rolled off in my hands. Er so Im a bit new and unused to it all!


  • #491
    nlgbbbblth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    I find the idea of breastfeeding utterly nauseating. I wouldn't be able to continue eating my meal if I saw someone breastfeeding in a restaurant. I agree with the OP, do it somewhere else. If you CHOOSE to breastfeed then do it at home. I don't want to look at it. In fact, I despise children being in restaurants at all, unless they are well behaved, but that is a rarity in this country.

    Where the f*ck is Perseus when we need him?


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  • #492
    nlgbbbblth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    bensweeney wrote: »
    What does that matter? they both involve exposing yourself. Breast feed in a private area like I piss in a private area. Thats my view on it.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=77774968&postcount=10


  • #493
    forfuxsake
    Registered Users Posts: 829 ✭✭✭forfuxsake


    darlett wrote: »
    Lol, so it is that simple then! ;) This might sound peculiar but babies are just a phenomenon I've never had in my life as the youngest child in my own family. I love the baby but before he strengthened up I was petrified of holding him in case his head rolled off in my hands. Er so Im a bit new and unused to it all!

    I fcuking hate it when that happens.


  • #494
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Medusa22 wrote: »
    For me, breastfeeding is not 'the most natural thing in the world'. I am not maternal, I dislike children who misbehave in public and I equate breastfeeding with public urination or public indecency. If a child is capable of sitting relatively quietly in a restaurant then that is fine, but I find that Irish society is very much child-oriented and if you don't like it then you are supposed to stay at home. I have no issue with family-friendly restaurants, I would just avoid them. I find the idea of breastfeeding nauseating in a restaurant, I believe that it is something private.

    I've read some bilge in my time, but you're so full of intolerance, it's staggering.

    It's a wonder you ever leave your house at all.


  • #495
    MungBean
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,915 ✭✭✭MungBean


    Cheeky_gal wrote: »
    Didn't realise people weren't entitled to their own opinion on Boards.

    Some of you would want to relax. Especially you Dudess with the foul language.

    Breast feed elsewhere, not a restaurant.

    Easy mistake to make. Unless your stating the obvious, thanks whoring or attacking someone your opinion is not wanted in AH's it seems. I disagree entirely with the OP and I think there is nothing wrong with feeding a child in public btw.

    But the reaction of people to your OP is worse than the reaction of people to the woman breastfeeding her child. Over the top childish and extremely ignorant.


  • #496
    Luap
    Registered Users Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭Luap


    Thought you aren't allow to eat food in a restaurant that's not from the restaurant. :pac:


  • #497
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    MungBean wrote: »

    But the reaction of people to your OP is worse than the reaction of people to the woman breastfeeding her child. Over the top childish and extremely ignorant.

    Childish woman calls a mother breast-feeding her baby ignorant, looks for opinions, gets opinions and all of a sudden it's us who are in the wrong....ok.

    I'm genuinely angered by such backward views and will continue to challenge anyone who holds them. If that makes me childish and ignorant, so be it.


  • #498
    MungBean
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,915 ✭✭✭MungBean


    dark crystal wrote: »
    Childish woman calls a mother breast-feeding her baby ignorant, looks for opinions, gets opinions and all of a sudden it's us who are in the wrong....ok.

    I'm genuinely angered by such backward views and will continue to challenge anyone who holds them. If that makes me childish and ignorant, so be it.

    No, poster offers opinion on a topic. Happens to be in contradiction of what most people think , cue stampede of ignorant comments attacking the poster and not the post.

    You can be angered and challenge it all you want but you dont have to direct it at the poster. Argue your point against the topic of the OP, name calling, crys of trolling, and attacked on the OP for being "backward" is whats childish and ignorant.

    The first few pages are littered with it, its still continueing unabated and as someone who disagree with the OP I find myself more disturbed by the level of hatred directed towards her than her having an opinion I disagree with. Its an AH angry mob and its rather pathetic to be honest.


  • #499
    lisatu
    Registered Users Posts: 38 ✭lisatu


    well im a mother who breastfed her child in public and there is no way you would be catching me hiding in my car or in the toilets to feed her.

    If someone was to say anything to this women about feeding her child on their premises then they are obliged by law to protect her and to ensure that she is not harrassed by any other customer.

    You are the one that would be asked to leave not the breastfeeding mother.

    If you had seen a couple kissing or holding hands in the same place would you have been disgusted by that and expected them to wait until they were in their own house before doing it. I doubt it and I also bet you would have been annoyed if that womans baby had been roaring to eat while you were eating to.

    People of this country need to wake up to the fact that breastfeeding in not something that needs to be hidden away.


  • #500
    Fighting Irish
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,065 ✭✭✭Fighting Irish


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  • #501
    namloc1980
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,367 ✭✭✭✭namloc1980


    MungBean wrote: »
    No, poster offers opinion on a topic. Happens to be in contradiction of what most people think , cue stampede of ignorant comments attacking the poster and not the post.

    You can be angered and challenge it all you want but you dont have to direct it at the poster. Argue your point against the topic of the OP, name calling, crys of trolling, and attacked on the OP for being "backward" is whats childish and ignorant.

    I'm not talking about you or anyone in particular but the first few pages are littered with it and as someone who disagree with the OP I find myself more disturbed by the level of hatred directed towards her than her having an opinion I disagree with. Its an AH angry mob and its rather pathetic to be honest.

    OP offered more than an opinion in fairness...using words like "ignorant", "shocked", "there is a time and place" is inflaming and verging on trolling.


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