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  • Moderators, Regional Abroad Moderators Posts: 26,928 Mod ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Ew, no. Paying for it is just wrong.
    come one people you have to think of all the ugly people,they need sex too!
    Beer. Helping ugly people have sex since 1862 :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭Flukey


    Too many risks in doing so, most especially disease. Sex should be with someone special and a prostitute certainly isn't that. Anyway, why pay when you can get it for free? :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,306 ✭✭✭OfflerCrocGod


    bullock wrote:
    Is it true that for Gay people there is a sex club in town where they just pay a cover charge at the door ... and do what they want after that!!!
    The Steam Room....or something like that....bath house may be it. This may be a totally different place to what you're talking about but this steam place is not really prostution according to a friend (he's on Boards) anyone can go there and hook up with someone else but it's not paid it sound like a club but without the drinks or the effort of chatting someone up. I'd never pay for it - that's the reason I'll stay a virgin for my whole life :D It should still be legalised.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,003 ✭✭✭rsynnott


    The Steam Room....or something like that....bath house may be it. This may be a totally different place to what you're talking about but this steam place is not really prostution according to a friend (he's on Boards) anyone can go there and hook up with someone else but it's not paid it sound like a club but without the drinks or the effort of chatting someone up. I'd never pay for it - that's the reason I'll stay a virgin for my whole life :D It should still be legalised.

    The Boiler House. And it is, apparently, otherwise more or less as you described. Wouldn't be my cup of tea at all...


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Gazza22


    No way...absolutely not!

    How somebody can use a hooker is beyond me! Unless you were some guy that just can't get a girl the decent way. It's just very low.

    Sexual urges will drive a man to do crazy stuff, even risk aids for a shag.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,346 ✭✭✭✭KdjaCL


    Prostitute = €50
    Bringing out girl to movie dinner and few pints with the sole intention of sex = €150+


    Bargain alerts :D


    kdjac


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,968 ✭✭✭jcoote


    there is as much risk involved in meeting girl in the pub...the only dose i ever got was off a girl i met thru a friend


  • Registered Users Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    Well, don't guys pay for sex all of the time?
    Buying the girl drinks, dinner, paying for taxi's...


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,968 ✭✭✭jcoote


    not to mention the heartache..oh the heartache..i just wanna watch the football like :p...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ziggy


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 344 ✭✭Coney Island


    "The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less." — Brendan Francis.

    "Sex without love is an empty experience, but, as empty experiences go, it's one of the best." — Woody Allen.

    "Why is it that when a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment, but when a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95/minute ?"


    :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Eoin Madsen


    I wouldn't do it myself, but I don't see anything wrong with it, broadly speaking. You can't blanketly condemn prostitution on the grounds that it's exploitative any more than you can condemn the music industry for the same reason. Any industry where there's a lot of money to be made you'll find exploitation on some level of it.

    Irrespective of that, imposing archaic and judgemental moral systems upon people is unethical. I think illegalising prostitution is a violation of fundamental rights, tbh. Not to mention being a stupid way to inadvertently allow and promote exploitation. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Irrespective of that, imposing archaic and judgemental moral systems upon people is unethical. I think illegalising prostitution is a violation of fundamental rights, tbh. Not to mention being a stupid way to inadvertently allow and promote exploitation. :rolleyes:

    Nice to see someone with some sense


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,306 ✭✭✭OfflerCrocGod


    KdjaC wrote:
    Prostitute = €50
    Bringing out girl to movie dinner and few pints with the sole intention of sex = €150+


    Bargain alerts :D
    You have no clue how expensive prostitutes are. A lot more then €50, more then €150. This place is called Rip-Off Ireland for a reason.


  • Registered Users Posts: 14,182 ✭✭✭✭Pighead


    does he has any self respect for him self.i think thats disgusting
    paying for abusing someone body to satisfy you needs

    thats sick thats really sick :mad:
    dusgusting
    i cant do that not in the next million years

    tell your friend to have some morals and some self respect

    Sexually repressed prudes who think that men who enjoy sex are sexist and demeaning to women and that women who enjoy sex are immoral sluts who cheapen the image of women. Maybe if you'd go out and find someone to **** your brains out, you'd have less time for name calling and finger wagging. Oh, and by the way, this post isn't meant to exonerate people who **** 30 different people per 24 hour period every day of the week and more on weekends and holidays. I'm just saying that having a healthy attitude about sex doesn't mean always "just saying no." There are people who are sexually obsessed, and there are people who have fun and don't feel guilty or ashamed about it. I can recognize the difference between the two. Why can't you? Your phobia is not a viable barometer for human behavior, so stop letting people know how they rate on your Evil Meter just because you've never had a decent blowjob.
    No offence buddy. :D :mad:


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,827 ✭✭✭fred funk }{


    I have paid for sex in the past and see nothing wrong with it. When i was in "the dam" i spent nearly all my money on the prozzies. I dont think i would use an Irish prozzie though.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,003 ✭✭✭rsynnott


    I have paid for sex in the past and see nothing wrong with it. When i was in "the dam" i spent nearly all my money on the prozzies. I dont think i would use an Irish prozzie though.

    That makes you out to be a little pathetic, really...


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,678 ✭✭✭Selik


    I've paid for it before 1.5 times. I say this because one of the times I got tricked and was asked for money in the morning when I never would've agreed to pay for it (didn't even have the cash if I wanted to!). So I thought it was just a random score and she didn't (or was planning or robbing me or something). I'm not ashamed of it or anything as it is what it is and it was what is was. Sex on tap offered to me when I was plastered. Having said that I wouldn't go around boasting about it either and I certainly wouldn't get into it with any female friends/suitors bar one or two really open minded chicks that I know.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 560 ✭✭✭Nidge


    does he has any self respect for him self.i think thats disgusting
    paying for abusing someone body to satisfy you needs

    thats sick thats really sick :mad:
    dusgusting
    i cant do that not in the next million years

    tell your friend to have some morals and some self respect

    That's rich coming from someone whose screen name seems to most aptly reside in between "www." and ".com". Digitally-Yours sounds like some sort of live webcam porn site.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,010 ✭✭✭BizzyC


    No.

    Even when I was incredibly drunk on a rugby trip in belgium at the age of 16, and the other lads I was with went into the brothel, I took the high road, and fell asleep in the dodgy ally next to the brothel until they came out.....
    Probably would've been safer inside, but hey, I'm a no-hooker kind of guy. ;)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,534 ✭✭✭Pataman


    " There is no dearer sex than the sex you get for free"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭shellby


    would i? no
    do i see a problem with other people doing it? no
    as long as they are not paying for something like sex with a child and as long as they are being careful not to catch anything then it's their own business i have a friend who did it i didn't shake his hand or anything but i didn't judge him either


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭shellby


    Pighead wrote:
    Sexually repressed prudes who think that men who enjoy sex are sexist and demeaning to women and that women who enjoy sex are immoral sluts who cheapen the image of women. Maybe if you'd go out and find someone to **** your brains out, you'd have less time for name calling and finger wagging. Oh, and by the way, this post isn't meant to exonerate people who **** 30 different people per 24 hour period every day of the week and more on weekends and holidays. I'm just saying that having a healthy attitude about sex doesn't mean always "just saying no." There are people who are sexually obsessed, and there are people who have fun and don't feel guilty or ashamed about it. I can recognize the difference between the two. Why can't you? Your phobia is not a viable barometer for human behavior, so stop letting people know how they rate on your Evil Meter just because you've never had a decent blowjob.
    No offence buddy. :D :mad:

    well said


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,618 ✭✭✭Civilian_Target


    so stop letting people know how they rate on your Evil Meter just because you've never had a decent blowjob.

    Is that a threat or an offer :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,399 ✭✭✭OFDM


    KdjaC wrote:
    Prostitute = €50
    Bringing out girl to movie dinner and few pints with the sole intention of sex = €150+

    Bargain alerts :D
    Isn't Copper Face Jacks meant to be a cost effective means to getting some action?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,875 ✭✭✭Seraphina


    KdjaC wrote:
    Prostitute = €50
    Bringing out girl to movie dinner and few pints with the sole intention of sex = €150+

    well i have to say thats pretty silly. yeah technically my bf could say that i cost him x amount, but this is him CHOOSING to buy me drinks/pay for the taxi. i ALWAYS offer to pay for my own drinks, and often buy him drinks or pay for the taxi or whatever too.
    you dont have to pay, you just choose to cause you think it'll increase your chances. thats your business. and if girls wont have sex with you without you buying them dinner pints whatever, well then you should reconsider the kind of ladies you look for :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,124 ✭✭✭Jonny Arson


    OFDM wrote:
    Isn't Copper Face Jacks meant to be a cost effective means to getting some action?

    Cost effective yes but only desperate mingers go to Coppers to get some action


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,815 ✭✭✭✭po0k


    RSI is a real dampener on my sexlife.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 691 ✭✭✭Ajnag


    ^^^
    Well stop playing game's then, Youll go blind!!!


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  • Moderators, Regional North East Moderators Posts: 12,739 Mod ✭✭✭✭cournioni


    No, no I wouldn't.


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