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Confused About my fiancé watching gay porn

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    #212
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    I only said I was not gay, I did not say I was straight and you quoted a few of my lines but i never said i was straight.
    Sorry if you don't understand.

    Edit @ summer:
    If your going to quote please do it correctly see below I said as example and it's a good example of someone who may identify as straight but have sex with other men.
    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    I never said I was either, why does my Sexual identity matter so much to you ?
    If I said as an example that: (It's not BTW)

    My Sexual identity is straight as I have romantic and sexual attraction to women, however I also just sleep with men but are not romantic attracted to them.
    Would that settle the topic for you ?


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    #213
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    syklops wrote: »
    The OP asked a question. She talked to her fiance, she came back and reported it here. Time to close the thread.
    Yes absolutely.

    Top item in the trending list on the front page two weeks after the OP indicated it was all sorted. Not very nice exposure for something so personal... Also I don't even know what the other recent repies are on about at this point, don't think it's related to the topic any more though.


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    #214
    Summertime8989
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭Summertime8989


    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    I only said I was not gay, I did not say I was straight and you quoted a few of my lines but i never said i was straight.
    Sorry if you don't understand.

    I've have quoted above where you say you are straight. I'm sorry you can't understand. You can't deny it any more x


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    #215
    Summertime8989
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭Summertime8989


    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    I never said I was either, why does my Sexual identity matter so much to you ?
    If I said as an example that: (It's not BTW)

    My Sexual identity is straight as I have romantic and sexual attraction to women, however I also just sleep with men but are not romantic attracted to them.
    Would that settle the topic for you ?

    Second paragraph Jimmy x


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    #216
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    I've have quoted above where you say you are straight. I'm sorry you can't understand. You can't deny it any more x

    If your going to quote please do it correctly see below I said as example and it's a good example of someone who may identify as straight but have sex with other men. Marked in bold this time for you.
    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    I never said I was either, why does my Sexual identity matter so much to you ?
    If I said as an example that: (It's not BTW)

    My Sexual identity is straight as I have romantic and sexual attraction to women, however I also just sleep with men but are not romantic attracted to them.
    Would that settle the topic for you ?


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    #217
    Summertime8989
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭Summertime8989


    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    I only said I was not gay, I did not say I was straight and you quoted a few of my lines but i never said i was straight.
    Sorry if you don't understand.

    My Sexual identity is straight as I have romantic and sexual attraction to women, however I also just sleep with men but are not romantic attracted to them.
    Would that settle the topic for you ?

    I can keep proving you wrong x
    Proven wrong x


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    #218
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    Anyhow on the topic.

    The OP's fiancé watching a bit of gay porn does not mean he's gay, i know lots of straight men and women who watch all types of porn.
    People even when in a relationship or marriage will have own thoughts and Fantasies and as long as they don't act on the fantasy
    behind the partners backs then i don't see the problem.

    Porn is just porn nothing more nothing less.


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    #219
    LorMal
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,372 ✭✭✭LorMal


    jimdublin15 wrote: »
    Anyhow on the topic.

    The OP's fiancé watching a bit of gay porn does not mean he's gay, i know lots of straight men and women who watch all types of porn.
    People even when in a relationship or marriage will have own thoughts and Fantasies and as long as they don't act on the fantasy
    behind the partners backs then i don't see the problem.

    Porn is just porn nothing more nothing less.

    Honestly, who do you hang out with?


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    #220
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    I can keep proving you wrong x

    You mean you can keep half quoting to confuse the matters more like.
    I explained as an example how someone could self identify as straight yet fall under "MSM"

    Originally Posted by jimdublin15 :
    I never said I was either, why does my Sexual identity matter so much to you ?
    If I said as an example that: (It's not BTW)

    My Sexual identity is straight as I have romantic and sexual attraction to women, however I also just sleep with men but are not romantic attracted to them.
    Would that settle the topic for you ?


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    #221
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    LorMal wrote: »
    Honestly, who do you hang out with?

    Normal people as far as I know, I know a few women who watch gay porn


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    #222
    Summertime8989
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭Summertime8989


    Jim is seriously deluded people. I quoted every contradiction he made several times and yet he denies it lol . People can read you know jim


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    #223
    pl4ichjgy17zwd
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,053 ✭✭✭pl4ichjgy17zwd


    He specifically said '(It's not BTW)'. I think you're the one reading wrong.


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    #224
    jimdublin15
    Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭jimdublin15


    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    Jim is seriously deluded people. I quoted every contradiction he made several times and yet he denies it lol . People can read you know jim

    Yeah, and they will see you the one deluding. You kept hammering on that I must agree and think it's okay for "closest gays to marry women" and got childish when called out that I never said I agreed with that and went on to misquoting.

    Anyhow I'm done talking to you about the closest gays and i've told you I think the OP''s fiance is just a fella watching porn and I see no harm in that as long as it's fantasy that he does not act out outside the relationship.


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    #225
    Annasopra
    Registered Users Posts: 41,001 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I'm locking this thread temporarily until it is reviewed by another moderator.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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    #226
    coffee_cake
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 81,309 CMod ✭✭✭✭coffee_cake


    Stepped in on request


    LorMal, if you have a problem with a post please report it
    LorMal wrote: »
    Some moderate moderator

    Summertime8989 do not post in this thread again if it is reopened.
    I am giving you a chance as a relatively new user but this kind of posting will get you a ban in future.
    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    How incredibly slow to think someone who can fall in love and be sexually attracted to the same sex is exclusively straight? Are you ok Joey?

    How can you identify as straight if you have mulitple boyfriends. Explain that Joey please

    Dazzle me with your psychobabble
    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    How juvenile. You'll post a full paragraph stating why you won't answer a question instead of just saying yes or no. Your wife's depression meeting her in a gay bar etc had nothing to do with OP either but you were happy talking about that. Once again you don't want to answer because you think it's ok for a closeted gay man to marry a women. You Watch gay porn and go to gay bars so I understand why you mightn't want to answer if it's ok for a closeted man to marry a women. Hmm
    Summertime8989 wrote: »
    Still hasn't answered does he think its ok for a closeted man to marry a women. You said you watch gay porn and you're marriage failed so maybe you're another closet case in denial hence you don't want to condemne yourself. Lol no evidence to suggest he's gay apart from **** to two men having sex frequently.


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