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Why do men do it?

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    #152
    blackbetty69
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    i think after 10 pages of this thread, we deserve a picture from the op at the very least..!


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    #153
    FutureGuy
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    ffs 150 posts and no pics. Waste of my time. IMO.


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    #154
    opinion guy
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    Um.....stupid question - how tall are you ? How tall is he ?
    Orlaithc9 wrote: »
    LOL...its not like that, he just cant stop looking at them. Maybe I should try take it as a compliment but it makes me feel really self concious when I know he has been staring at them so its hard to make that into a good thing. Maybe I should try wrap them up in clingfilm before I leave the house to try and flatten them down?!

    Hmmm you seem to have hypno-breasts. Maybe you should leave subliminal messages on their for him? Things you want him to do - "speak with customer X", "fire person y". Things you don't want to do. Or "€5 per gawk. transfer to a/c XXXXX". He'll soon get the message when he starts doing things without realising it, and if not, meh you have a gopher at your disposal.


    To be serious thou, if you consider him a decent guy/friend, use some humour ala "face is up here" and then follow up with you do that alot and it makes me uncomfortable in a non-confrontationl way - if he\s a decent guy he'll apologise and get the message. If you don't like him or think he wouldn't get it then take a more confrontational route.


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    #155
    OutlawPete
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    FutureGuy wrote: »
    ffs 150 posts and no pics. Waste of my time. IMO.

    Here you go .. ;)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tk3R_Z76cx0


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    #156
    AnonoBoy
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    FutureGuy wrote: »
    ffs 150 posts and no pics. Waste of my time. IMO.
    blackbetty69 wrote: »
    i think after 10 pages of this thread, we deserve a picture from the op at the very least..!


    Yes I too have never seen a woman's breasts in real life and would enjoy slyly attempting to peek at a photo representation of somebody's chest while hoping my parents/boss doesn't come in and see the small bulge in my fitted slacks.


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    #157
    opinion guy
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    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Here you go .. ;)

    Hahaha - the song on tha clip is epic. Sounds like its the South Park boys?


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    #158
    OutlawPete
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    :D

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTtVZ9MS-hM


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    #159
    robbie_998
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    #160
    stovelid
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    jdivision wrote: »
    A former boss of mine used to say to people who stared at her boobs "hello, my face is up here" and wave at them.

    Was anybody tempted to say "but look at the state of it, these are much nicer".


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    #161
    OutlawPete
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    Girl from Tatu with same problem ..

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0CPvTPut30


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    #162
    yogidc26
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    Fratton Fred wrote: »
    phew, I see you are in Waterford....that means you're not talking about me :pac:

    I was just thinking the same thing :D


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    #163
    WeeBushy
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    For a terrifying, terrify second I thought that was my sister...

    jokes about my sister's bewbs will not be appreciated, I'm still recovering from the shock


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    #164
    southsiderosie
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    Liam Byrne wrote: »
    Can I ask another question ? Why is the title of the thread "Why do men do it ?" when the question is about one specific - and slightly sleazy - man ?

    Given many of the comments on this thread, I doubt that the man in question is that much of an outlier. :(


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    #165
    FutureGuy
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    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    Yes I too have never seen a woman's breasts in real life and would enjoy slyly attempting to peek at a photo representation of somebody's chest while hoping my parents/boss doesn't come in and see the small bulge in my fitted slacks.

    Wait...gimme a second...just want to check we are posting in After Hours and not Personal Issues...oh so we are in After Hours. Great.


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    #166
    star.chaser
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    don't get too excited. he's looking at your tats as opposed looking at your eyes or your mouth either of which would show he liked YOU. looking at your tats just shows he sees you as a piece of meat that he might get to ride in a few weeks when your piised at the christmas party. anyway, sounds from your post that you might be up for it. good luck. enjoy the akwardness that will follow.


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    #167
    [Deleted User]
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    Now I'm not saying that what he's doing is right, however there is a man in work who is seriously well endowed, and any time I see him I find my eyes drifting towards his zippage area. He is not in the least bit attractive by the way, actually he's a bit ick, but it's HUGE, it's difficult not to look.


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    #168
    southsiderosie
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    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Im a size 10 with big boobs and I could actually be holding a conversation with some-one where they will be talking to me, but looking at my boobs the entire time. I'm looking into their eyes, so how could they not think I can see where they are looking.
    It makes me feel so uncomfortable.
    To the idiot who said 'in a few years you'll be wishing men were looking at your boobs' eh it's not a good thing, it can make a woman feel very very uncomfortable. how would you like if everywhere you went people didn't talk to your face, they just gawped at your chest.
    I generally cover up and wear baggy clothes, If I wear anything that slightly fits me I feel so exposed all the time.

    I agree that people shouldn't stare, but I don't agree with covering up because some men are ridiculous and can't control themselves. This isn't to say that one should wear a halter top and miniskirt and expect not to get looks. But I'm not dressing like a rapper because some men are morons...and TBH the most obnoxious ones will still have something to say anyway, so why bother?


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    #169
    WeeBushy
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    Now I'm not saying that what he's doing is right, however there is a man in work who is seriously well endowed, and any time I see him I find my eyes drifting towards his zippage area. He is not in the least bit attractive by the way, actually he's a bit ick, but it's HUGE, it's difficult not to look.

    Why does he walk around the office with his cock out :confused:


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    #170
    [Deleted User]
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    WeeBushy wrote: »
    Why does he walk around the office with his cock out :confused:

    Does Orlaith walk around her office with her tits out? :rolleyes:

    It's just very very large, or else he's got a few pairs of socks down there :pac:


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    #171
    WeeBushy
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    Does Orlaith walk around her office with her tits out? :rolleyes:

    It's just very very large, or else he's got a few pairs of socks down there :pac:

    Oh... its THAT big. Well I feel inadequate.


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    #172
    OutlawPete
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    southsiderosie wrote: »
    I don't agree with covering up because some men are ridiculous and can't control themselves.

    If you see a cyclist wearing skin tight spandex and you can see his cock is nice and big - you not gonna look?


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    #173
    Warfi
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    Just tell him that you can see him looking at your chest and that you'd like him to stop because it's making you feel very uncomfortable. Surely he has plenty of time to have a gawp when you're not looking in his direction?

    Basic manners really


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    #174
    Warfi
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    OutlawPete wrote: »
    If you see a cyclist wearing skin tight spandex and you can see his cock is nice and big - you not gonna look?

    Well I wouldn't look if they can see I'm looking, it's embarrassing for both people


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    #175
    southsiderosie
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    OutlawPete wrote: »
    If you see a cyclist wearing skin tight spandex and you can see his cock is nice and big - you not gonna look?

    See my comments re: halter tops and miniskirts. I think spandex shorts go in the same category.

    And, as other posters have noted, it's one thing to take a quick glance, go "hmm" to yourself, and move on. Staring - and especially staring EVERY DAY AT WORK - is ridiculous.


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    #176
    OutlawPete
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    Warfi wrote: »
    Well I wouldn't look if they can see I'm looking, it's embarrassing for both people

    She said he looks away when she looks up.


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    #177
    Warfi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 633 ✭✭✭Warfi


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    She said he looks away when she looks up.

    Obviously not quick enough. What's worse is that he knows that she knows he does it, and they're both embarrassed yet he doesn't stop.


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    #178
    stevoslice
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    tell him you made a thread about him looking at your boobs on an internet forum.


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    #179
    robbie_998
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    thebhoy wrote: »
    tell him you made a thread about him looking at your boobs on an internet forum.

    and then tell him to come here so we can tell him he's doing a great job :pac:


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    #180
    OutlawPete
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    Warfi wrote: »
    Obviously not quick enough. What's worse is that he knows that she knows he does it, and they're both embarrassed yet he doesn't stop.

    I don't think anyone is saying that it wouldn't be uncomfortable at work to STARE but if it's glancing and looking away then it's harmless.

    However, the comments here about "sleazy old guys" is just boring. Someone stopping jogging etc :rolleyes:


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    #181
    stevoslice
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    robbie_998 wrote: »
    and then tell him to come here so we can tell him he's doing a great job :pac:

    yeah, and i bet you he'd let us look at the pics too..


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