Why do men do it?

Orlaithc9 · 02-12-2009 3:59pm

Johnnnybravo wrote: »

I guess you could just say "what is there toothpaste on my top or something" and then go what are you staring at you have me all paranoid??

lol... i like that one thank you

Johnnnybravo · 02-12-2009 4:00pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

lol... i like that one thank you

well with that one he cant go your imagining it Im not staring bla bla and be an ass about it, also he`l get the message and hopefully cop on that you can infact see him staring.

Porkpie · 02-12-2009 4:02pm

You should confront him over it. But be sensitive to his feelings, don't make him feel a right t!t.

opinion guy · 02-12-2009 4:02pm

Just stare at his crotch in return until he gets unnerved and leaves

OutlawPete · 02-12-2009 4:11pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

I catch him and he quickly removes his eyes ..

Sounds like a cyborg. Is your name Sarah Connors?

Fuhrer · 02-12-2009 4:13pm

Why do men do it?

Because you are very boring and have nothing interesting to say, therefore we need to do something to occupy the time where you just keep on yapping and yapping.

southsiderosie · 02-12-2009 4:22pm

WindSock wrote: »

I was the only female in mine up until a few months ago and I certainly wouldn't put up with it.

It is unprofessional in the workplace.

If you are clearly making your collegue uncomfortable by staring at her breasts all the time and doing little to control yourself then you are socially retarded and should be sent off on a course on how to conduct yourself as an adult in a working environment.

OP, it is NOT your fault. Most men know how to behave themselves, regardless of the comments you come across on here.

+1000

OP, since you say that you have an otherwise good working relationship with this guy, the next time he does it I would make a joke out of it that signals that you know he is looking. I used to work in a predominately male environment, and found that having a sense of humor while still drawing boundaries worked better than immediate confrontation. However, if he keeps doing it, and you are uncomfortable, you need to tell him directly to stop and/or go to HR.

Johnnnybravo · 02-12-2009 4:25pm

Fuhrer wrote: »

Why do men do it?

Because you are very boring and have nothing interesting to say, therefore we need to do something to occupy the time where you just keep on yapping and yapping.

Id say this lad has plenty dates with pam and the 5 sisters

smegmar · 02-12-2009 4:28pm

It is breast cancer awareness month, he's just looking out for any lumps.I think he's trying to save your life, you should reward him with a full show

Bewbs_Guy · 02-12-2009 4:30pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

This is probably in the wrong section but I figured if I need answers the good people in After Hours are the ones to ask.

So...theres a guy in work I get on with very well. We are both in our mid - late 20s. We work very well together and have a laugh. Hes married by the way so anything more than that is a no no plus Im in a very loving committed relationship myself.

However, he stares at my chest alot...Its not all the time but its quite frequently. It goes to the point where I know hes doing it and I look up and catch him and he knows I catch him and he quickly removes his eyes and looks away and theres like a milli-moment of silence before we start talking again. But its really embarrassing for both me and him.

Ive noted not to wearing clingy tops and low cut stuff and he still does it.

Seriously, what do I do? I mean do I just say it to him or make a joke outta it or ask him nicely to stop?
Ok its nice to be admired or feel a suggestion that someone might like the shape of my body or my looks but this is a bit...i dunno...uncomfortable.

Can you tell me whats going on in his head, I mean he has a wife with a pair of her own? Why look at mine? Why put us both in the situation of being really embarrassed?

Actually I was looking at your knees

Orlaithc9 · 02-12-2009 4:34pm

Johnnnybravo wrote: »

Id say this lad has plenty dates with pam and the 5 sisters

LMAO....

NothingMan · 02-12-2009 4:36pm

Bewbs_Guy wrote: »

Actually I was looking at your knees

I can only imagine what you were googling when you stumbled across this thread and decided to join boards.

Pedro K · 02-12-2009 4:38pm

You like Jokes? You're gonna love this one.

Why, do women have boobs?

......

So ya got somethin' to look at when you're talkin to 'em.

hehehehehehehehehehe.

beertons · 02-12-2009 4:40pm

maddogcollins wrote: »

Tell him to "take a picture, it will last longer"..that will embarass him and get your point across

Better again, take the picture for him!

Cadiz · 02-12-2009 4:57pm

tbh wrote: »

also, even if he is staring, bear in mind the concept of default hot

I love:

"In any situation there are bound to be some participants of the female variety."

A well rounded, socialised guy, obv :rolleyes:

OutlawPete · 02-12-2009 5:00pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

Why put us both in the situation of being really embarrassed?

Do you check out his (or any other guy's) tush / bum / arse?

stovelid · 02-12-2009 5:07pm

I think I'm going to think boobs whenever I see the OP's user name in future.

Cadiz · 02-12-2009 5:07pm

Seinfeld says it best, whether it's boobs, crotches or asses:

"it's like looking at the sun, you don't stare at it, it's too risky, you get a glimpse of it then you turn away"

Orlaithc9 · 02-12-2009 5:09pm

OutlawPete wrote: »

Do you check out his (or any other guy's) tush / bum / arse?

No I can honestly say I dont...dont cross that line

damoz · 02-12-2009 5:10pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

No I can honestly say I dont...dont cross that line

waistline?

NothingMan · 02-12-2009 5:10pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

No I can honestly say I dont...dont cross that line

That's cos ya don't work with me and my sexy moobs. If I was in your office you'd be staring at my moobs and it would be me giving out about you perving!

kincsem · 02-12-2009 5:11pm

Instead of posting on boards you could buy a burka (only $27.99).

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Sold out. They must be popular.

seanybiker · 02-12-2009 5:14pm

ah your from waterford. Where ya working. Ill pop down and have a look.

OutlawPete · 02-12-2009 5:18pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

No I can honestly say I dont...dont cross that line

So if there is a hot guy in front of you walking down the street with a cute tight sexy arse - you don't think hhhmmm, that's cute?

robbie_998 · 02-12-2009 5:19pm

OutlawPete wrote: »

So if there is a hot guy in front of you walking down the street with a cute tight sexy arse - you don't think hhhmmm, that's cute?

Do you ? :pac:

Orlaithc9 · 02-12-2009 5:21pm

OutlawPete wrote: »

So if there is a hot guy in front of you walking down the street with a cute tight sexy arse - you don't think hhhmmm, that's cute?

Outside work...then fine yes I would probably pass a comment if I saw a nice looking guy or smile to myself while he walked by but not in a work and not to a fellow worker

MIN2511 · 02-12-2009 5:25pm

A lot of women crotch watch

But i do understand where you're coming from. If you don't want him to stare, cover them

(easier said than done)

OutlawPete · 02-12-2009 5:27pm

Orlaithc9 wrote: »

Outside work...then fine yes I would probably pass a comment if I saw a nice looking guy or smile to myself while he walked by but not in a work and not to a fellow worker

Ahhh Haaaaa then!!!!!!

No idea why I said that.

Maybe he's in love.

Orlaithc9 · 02-12-2009 5:29pm

MIN2511 wrote: »

A lot of women crotch watch

But i do understand where you're coming from. If you don't want him to stare, cover them
(easier said than done)

After the first few times of catching him I re-evaluated my choice of tops in the morning and noted not to wear the low cut or clingy ones...he still looks. Even if im in a t shirt and jeans day he will still look. I just cant win.

OutlawPete · 02-12-2009 5:29pm

robbie_998 wrote: »

Do you ? :pac:

Yes, loving your tush Wobbie

Why do men do it?

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