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    #362
    RubyXI
    Registered Users Posts: 1,596 ✭✭✭RubyXI


    maple wrote: »
    Crap. Utter sh1te. Tripe. Rubbish. How many ways can I say it?

    Although I do know that it won't happen if you stay with someone who doesn't fulfill you at all. You're missing out on someone who could.

    What on earth have you done that makes you think you don't deserve it? Thats utter sh1te imo, negative defeatist sh1te.

    I know you're trying to help, but i've kinda resigned myself to the fact that i'll never have perfection. I have a guy that cares about me and understands me. It could be worse.


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    #363
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    phi3 wrote: »

    I know you're trying to help, but i've kinda resigned myself to the fact that i'll never have perfection. I have a guy that cares about me and understands me. It could be worse.

    Its not perfection, its wanting good things for yourself and knowing you deserve them.

    Well if you're not going to do anything about it, then just suck it up and stop whinging about it. Its the same crap over and over.


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    #364
    RubyXI
    Registered Users Posts: 1,596 ✭✭✭RubyXI


    maple wrote: »
    Its not perfection, its wanting good things for yourself and knowing you deserve them.

    Well if you're not going to do anything about it, then just suck it up and stop whinging about it. Its the same crap over and over.

    This thread is called rant about your relationship. If u dont want to hear people doing that then dont read the posts.


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    #365
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    hey, remember the lad i was meeting, well he told me last night that he only wanted to meet me, but i saw him holding hands with his ex today, surely to god thats not right . he said they are friends do friends hold hands?


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    #366
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    phi3 wrote: »

    This thread is called rant about your relationship. If u dont want to hear people doing that then dont read the posts.

    Yeah well sometimes you'll get advice/comments you won't want to hear.


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    #367
    Cathmandooo
    Registered Users Posts: 17,324 ✭✭✭✭Cathmandooo


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey, remember the lad i was meeting, well he told me last night that he only wanted to meet me, but i saw him holding hands with his ex today, surely to god thats not right . he said they are friends do friends hold hands?

    Ex's shouldn't hold hands! I havent followed your story sorry but that's wrong what hes doing


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    #368
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey, remember the lad i was meeting, well he told me last night that he only wanted to meet me, but i saw him holding hands with his ex today, surely to god thats not right . he said they are friends do friends hold hands?

    I would say no. Sorry to hear that missus, very suspicious.


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    #369
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey, remember the lad i was meeting, well he told me last night that he only wanted to meet me, but i saw him holding hands with his ex today, surely to god thats not right . he said they are friends do friends hold hands?

    no, only if drunk, and even then i wouldnt hold an ex's hand.
    what does he mean he only want to meet you? just kiss you?


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    #370
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    thanks guys i figured so, he wanted to do other stuff but i said no because i'm not a s**t and won't do anything with someone i'm not exclusive with


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    #371
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    thanks guys i figured so, he wanted to do other stuff but i said no because i'm not a s**t and won't do anything with someone i'm not exclusive with

    fair play!
    it sounds to me like he was trying to have a big cake!


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    #372
    Quality
    Registered Users Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    thanks guys i figured so, he wanted to do other stuff but i said no because i'm not a s**t and won't do anything with someone i'm not exclusive with


    Dump him, Dont even answer the calls, Dont even reply to the texts and if you bump into him, Tell him youve moved on, and to get over himself!!


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    #373
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    aye wrote: »
    fair play!
    it sounds to me like he was trying to have a big cake!

    Have his cake, eat it and make trifle out of it too.

    You going to try sort it out with him Nikki?


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    #374
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    yeah and i nearly gave it to him! can't believe i fell for it again, why do all the lads i go for only want me for 1 thing????

    I'd like to dump him but i know he will talk me around i see him all the time and i'm terrible for the face to face stuff

    yeah i'd sort it out if i can , just curious about having a long term relationship longest i've lasted is 3 months its quite sad!!


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    #375
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    yeah and i nearly gave it to him! can't believe i fell for it again, why do all the lads i go for only want me for 1 thing????

    I'd like to dump him but i know he will talk me around i see him all the time and i'm terrible for the face to face stuff

    yeah i'd sort it out if i can , just curious about having a long term relationship longest i've lasted is 3 months its quite sad!!

    didnt you say in a post you were 18?

    i think its just lads at that age. could be just the type of guys you are going for as well, i dunno.

    i wouldnt rush for a long term relationship, just try have fun and chill about it.

    3 months isnt sad, better than people that go from one relationship to another and never have time to be single and do their own thing!


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    #376
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    aye wrote: »
    didnt you say in a post you were 18?

    i think its just lads at that age. could be just the type of guys you are going for as well, i dunno.

    i wouldnt rush for a long term relationship, just try have fun and chill about it.

    3 months isnt sad, better than people that go from one relationship to another and never have time to be single and do their own thing!

    the thing is i've been doing my own thing for ages, don't mind too much not having a relationship, just want someone to cuddle;) maybe i should go for older lads! it's funny i go for lads that aren't good looking because i thought they would be nicer but it's not true!


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    #377
    Sherifu
    Registered Users Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    Probably because they think they're good looking. :) How can you go for someone you don't like to look at? That's just wrong in my mind.


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    #378
    RxQueen
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,821 ✭✭✭RxQueen


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    the thing is i've been doing my own thing for ages, don't mind too much not having a relationship, just want someone to cuddle;) maybe i should go for older lads! it's funny i go for lads that aren't good looking because i thought they would be nicer but it's not true!

    that pointless going for somebody your not attracted to, maybe you should just be on your own for a while and try and figure out what it is you really want, we all want cuddle from time to time but you dont meed to be in a realtionship to get one of those


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    #379
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    i don't know its not that i'm not attracted to them i'm attracted to thier personality!!

    yeah you're right i probably sound desperate ha ha well i'm not! just sick of the same routine constantly, i always go out with the girls it's getting old!


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    #380
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    the thing is i've been doing my own thing for ages, don't mind too much not having a relationship, just want someone to cuddle;) maybe i should go for older lads! it's funny i go for lads that aren't good looking because i thought they would be nicer but it's not true!

    hmmmm, well looks wont decide if they are nice or not. plenty of ugly dickheads around.
    older guys can be only looking for one thing too!
    we're not coming across well here are we!?!

    there are decent blokes who arent ugly, and there are guy's who wont pressure you into things.

    some guys aren't looking to have multiple girls at the same time, it gets tiring :p!

    you seem like a strong minded girl, i'm sure it'll happen!


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    #381
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    aye wrote: »
    hmmmm, well looks wont decide if they are nice or not. plenty of ugly dickheads around.
    older guys can be only looking for one thing too!
    we're not coming across well here are we!?!

    they are decent blokes who arent ugly, and there are guy's who wont pressure you into things.

    some guys aren't looking to have multiple girls at the same time, it gets tiring :p!

    you seem like a strong minded girl, i'm sure it'll happen!

    hey so are you single? LOL i'm probanly looking too hard! all i want is someone that does not mess around and is straightforward!


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    #382
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    yeah and i nearly gave it to him! can't believe i fell for it again, why do all the lads i go for only want me for 1 thing????

    I'd like to dump him but i know he will talk me around i see him all the time and i'm terrible for the face to face stuff

    yeah i'd sort it out if i can , just curious about having a long term relationship longest i've lasted is 3 months its quite sad!!

    ah, its not all lads missus. Just some fools.


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    #383
    RxQueen
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,821 ✭✭✭RxQueen


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    i don't know its not that i'm not attracted to them i'm attracted to thier personality!!

    yeah you're right i probably sound desperate ha ha well i'm not! just sick of the same routine constantly, i always go out with the girls it's getting old!

    theres plenty of other things to do, and if routine sucks do something about it, and who is to say if you do get a guy that, that you wont get sick of that routine either. Realtionships arent the answer to every problem.


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    #384
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    well its the fools that are attracted to me! true about the routine thing that won't take much to change... can i get an opinion on something?? now please don't think i'm vain or arrogant but one of my ex's told me i'm the type of girl lads only want 1 thing off because any decent lad would not put up with other blokes staring at me all the time... please tell me it's all bull!


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    #385
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    hey so are you single? LOL i'm probanly looking too hard! all i want is someone that does not mess around and is straightforward!

    i am.
    after reading my post i'm wondering how!

    must be the good looks and the charm, ladies immediately think i must be with someone :D


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    #386
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    well its the fools that are attracted to me! true about the routine thing that won't take much to change... can i get an opinion on something?? now please don't think i'm vain or arrogant but one of my ex's told me i'm the type of girl lads only want 1 thing off because any decent lad would not put up with other blokes staring at me all the time... please tell me it's all bull!

    HA.
    what a mad way to compliment a girl.
    i think that would relate back more to the guys insecurity than anything!


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    #387
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    aye wrote: »
    i am.
    after reading my post i'm wondering how!

    must be the good looks and the charm, ladies immediately think i must be with someone :D

    ha must be!! don't know what you look like though. i said it before and i'll say it again why can't more lads be as nice as you! although you could be one of those who is a great mate but a terrible boyfriend... ah just kidding!!!


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    #388
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    aye wrote: »
    HA.
    what a mad way to compliment a girl.
    i think that would relate back more to the guys insecurity than anything!

    i did not take it as a compliment it made me very conscious . Hope you're right !


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    #389
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    nikki 122 wrote: »
    well its the fools that are attracted to me! true about the routine thing that won't take much to change... can i get an opinion on something?? now please don't think i'm vain or arrogant but one of my ex's told me i'm the type of girl lads only want 1 thing off because any decent lad would not put up with other blokes staring at me all the time... please tell me it's all bull!

    its rubbish. and it says more about his insecurity than anything else.

    Not all blokes are like that.


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    #390
    nikki 122
    Closed Accounts Posts: 307 ✭✭nikki 122


    well i really hope not he is texting me and it's so hard not to reply he obviously knows i saw him with her ! maybe i should give him a chance!


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    #391
    Tragedy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭Tragedy


    He played you once, dont let him play you twice.


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