Anxiety and depression thread (Please read OP)

Baddabing1 · 25-01-2022 07:28PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118532158#Comment_118532158

That's exactly what I need, just something to take the edge off and get me to a state where I can engage with further treatment. Right now, if I was asked to see a psychiatrist I wouldn't be able to make the appointment. I have no motivation to get dressed in the morning never mind leave the house. Just need something to get me back to a position where I can function somewhat normally.

bejeezus · 25-01-2022 07:48PM

Good luck baddabing1.

apache · 27-01-2022 01:38PM

Cut 15mg Abilify in half this morning. Can't really get it exact. It will be more some days and less the next. Back to GP next week and hoping to bring it down to 5mg which will be easier to manage.

It's taking ages but at least things are going in the right direction and I don't have any adverse effects. Working on diet and exercise too.

I'm still on other meds that numbs me and makes everything flat. But can just tackle one thing at a time. I'm a bit more hopeful about things.

Off cannabis a week too. It was a very long week but the brain fog is clearing a bit.

I'm still annoyed that I was pumped full of meds the past 6 years and misdiagnosed. Am very wary about psychiatrists after that.

One More Toy · 31-01-2022 05:31PM

I'm really miserable, someone close to me is in a desperate situation and I cannot help them

apache · 31-01-2022 08:46PM

Anybody any experience of going through A+E? Like the wait times and if it was good or bad treatment..

One More Toy · 31-01-2022 09:29PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118561811#Comment_118561811

Private A&E for an actual injury, was in and out in no time

Sorry I've no experience of it for a mental health issue, but if you think you need it then go

Gremlinertia · 31-01-2022 09:30PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118560812#Comment_118560812

You can still be there for them.. Horrible to feel helpless i know..

Gremlinertia · 31-01-2022 09:32PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118561811#Comment_118561811

Hit and miss to be quite honest about it.. dependant on who you see and how much pressure is on the system.. I've been three times, sent home twice with referral to outpatient where i already was. Other visit they said wait about and if i felt more unstable to come to them again. Just my experience though i suppose

apache · 01-02-2022 06:48AM

I suppose even if I got a follow up appointment and a review of my meds would be something. I don't expect anything much.

I have a letter from my GP. I just don't have the patience to queue for hours in A+E.

Gremlinertia · 01-02-2022 07:01AM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118563414#Comment_118563414

Wait, have you been referred before or is your gp trying to get you in to see the services now?

apache · 01-02-2022 07:10AM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118563419#Comment_118563419

I've been referred from private to public. I'm waiting about 4 months so far. No sign of any appointment coming up. He says I need to go to link in with the services. It's the only way I'll get seen. I am seeing nobody at the moment.

Gremlinertia · 01-02-2022 07:15AM

Oh i see. Get the phone number of local outpatient services and see if they pick up the phone. Ask for updates and do so weekly.. Going through casualty these days may have varying results

apache · 01-02-2022 04:04PM

Yeah but I really need to see someone. I can't remember the name of the clinic or where it is that I'm waiting on so can't ring them.

He gave me a letter because things are bad.

Gremlinertia · 01-02-2022 04:40PM

In that case try midweek after ten in the morning but yes be prepared for a wait.. I feckin hate the system and that you are going through this..

SuperBowserWorld · 01-02-2022 08:46PM

Had to get a medical to renew my driver's license.

That application was delayed for a year due to covid.

All ok now, so forms submitted.

But it was another thing that was really getting to me.

Anxiety + waiting is such torment.

Depression stops me dealing with things, which just increases the waiting and anxiety too.

Wanderer78 · 02-02-2022 10:24AM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118566121#Comment_118566121

its absolutely disgraceful that people are treated like this

apache · 02-02-2022 02:12PM

I am suicidal but the thoughts of going to A&E fill me with dread. The stress of having to talk and explain myself although the letter may help. And the waiting....I can't do it......I wouldn't be able to handle that at all.

Part of me believes that A&E is only for physical complaints. I feel like a burden if I did go in. That's something I need to work on.

One More Toy · 02-02-2022 02:24PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118570325#Comment_118570325

I tried to PM you but it's not working for me...Permission not granted?

Anyway that's besides the point, if you are feeling like that. I remember one time I went to A&E and sat in the car and they rang me when it was time to go in. Do you have a significant other or friend that would go with you? Pity I'm not free today otherwise I would take you, assuming you're in Dublin

As an alternative, do you have an employee assistance program you can ring? Or even the samaritans? I find both very helpful

Mind yourself, these feelings won't last forever trust me

Gremlinertia · 02-02-2022 04:54PM

I'm so angry on your behalf, I really am.. Could you get in touch with your previous private doctor to see if they can push you forward?

apache · 04-02-2022 09:20AM

Thanks very much for the posts.

@One More Toy I have tried that txt TALK number. It's a txt exchange instead of speaking. I find it takes the edge off sometimes.

I wouldn't trust the employee assistence people. They are ordinary Joe Soaps, being in it looks good for the CV if you are interested in getting promoted. In my job anyway.

@Gremlinertia I'll try and find out what local clinic I'm on the waiting list for. I haven't been in touch with my previous private Dr because I'll only have an arguement with him over misdiagnosing me for last 6 years. I'm real annoyed with him. Best leave him in the past.

Dempo1 · 04-02-2022 09:52AM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118570380#Comment_118570380

I have to commend you, if I may and indeed all those who have an continue to be remarkably supportive on this Thread. There is so much negativity, lack of understanding round mental health and its inspiring to see such decency here.

Well done 😉

I've my own challenges, fortunate to have support and have just been reffered for additional supports.

BohsCeltic · 04-02-2022 12:12PM

Hi all

Not been here in a long time. Despite all the crap been thrown at me I fought back.

Last year I suffered a traumatic brain injury which left me paralyzed on the right hand side.

Something happened which amazed everyone. You would have thought I'd just give up but I didn't, it's my 2nd chance.

I thought about many people and things and drew some inspiration. Fast forward nearly one year and I'm walking,cooking e.t.c. Independent so to speak. Just having a little bit of hope can make you do incredible things.

I have traumatic 4th nerve palsy as a result but I learn how to deal with it and hopefully can get back to some sort of normality soon.

I wasn't working due to my anxiety and depression plus drank to beat it, self medication .Not a good combination.

I'm nearly one year alcohol and cigarette free and I'm not on any medication now and have managed to get myself a lovely Girlfriend aswell. I'm not saying this as a 'look at me' type of post, maybe it can inspire others who think it's impossible, it's not, I'm living proof of that.

It's hard watching sports wishing I could play again but small steps, perhaps something is not far away. My arm is still week so I'm using my left hand to attempt to write. I plan on looking for work in June but not sure what I can do now but we will see.

Look after yourself people, You are not alone, don't be afraid to talk.

It's ok not to be ok

One More Toy · 04-02-2022 03:10PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118580455#Comment_118580455

Bohsceltic, it is very nice to hear from you!

Sorry to hear about your troubles. That must have been so difficult for you. But you have come through it even stronger than before.

Don't be a stranger :)

SuperBowserWorld · 07-02-2022 06:41PM

Taking a board.ie break. Sucking up my energy along with everything else. Will check back in a few months. Hopefully we have a good Spring and people here get regular peace and quiet in their lives. Avoid the rushing and chaos, if you can and keep it simple.

07-02-2022 06:59PM

Could anyone who's on Prozac (Or a similar anti-depressant) give me a quick PM? Just want to ask a couple of questions as my doc wants me to be on it

One More Toy · 11-02-2022 03:55PM

Any ideas guys?

I need to ring Pieta house but it's an 0818 number and would cost me 38c a minute. Not sure what to do

Gremlinertia · 11-02-2022 04:30PM

Is there any options to call someone else or would email asking for callback work?.

One More Toy · 11-02-2022 04:54PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118616530#Comment_118616530

I could try ringing their crises number and asking for a call back maybe?

Gremlinertia · 11-02-2022 07:57PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118616664#Comment_118616664

How did you get on?.

apache · 11-02-2022 08:05PM

I looked at Pieta's website there and there's a freephone no 1800247247 or txt Help to 514444. The freephone number should work though. It might charge you for the txts.

Anxiety and depression thread (Please read OP)

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