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Jordan Peterson interview on C4

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Gynoid wrote: »
    No everyone could use the third space. But sex segregated spaces would be safeguarded.

    Yes, this a good solution. A buffer zone. The problem is it’s often been women’s spaces that have been converted to a gender neutral space because many places can’t or won’t provide a third space.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    20Cent wrote: »
    Comments made in this thread was that someone male would make them feel uncomfortable. If a transman who has fully transitioned goes into the ladies then this would be the same discomfort.

    Okay. Heres a thing. I walk alone in a very secluded forest regularly. If I meet a woman I say howaye. If I meet a man I say howaye AND there is a small instinctive part in the back of my brain that is more alert now. It is NOT because all men are rapists, they absolutely are not. It is because more men than women are rapists, and I am vulnerable as a woman. So the instinct is to be on heightened awareness. This instinct is a good protective evolutionary thing.

    Transwomen will be in the same group statistically as men when it comes to sexual assault rates. Sex segregated spaces protect females from higher rates of assault. It is not fair to have young girls or females generally in intimate public spaces with male bodied people. Especially where self ID lowers / removes all the barriers for safeguarding. A girl is not entitled in those circumstances to deploy her evolutionary instinct for self protection. She must hands down accept an unknown male bodied person beside her in the swimming pool showers or in the often very confined space of a public toilet waiting space. If she is miscarrying, likewise. If she is bleeding heavily, likewise. Etc.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Gynoid wrote: »
    Okay. Heres a thing. I walk alone in a very secluded forest regularly. If I meet a woman I say howaye. If I meet a man I say howaye AND there is a small instinctive part in the back of my brain that is more alert now. It is NOT because all men are rapists, they absolutely are not. It is because more men than women are rapists, and I am vulnerable as a woman. So the instinct is to be on heightened awareness. This instinct is a good protective evolutionary thing.

    Transwomen will be in the same group statistically as men when it comes to sexual assault rates. Sex segregated spaces protect females from higher rates of assault. It is not fair to have young girls or females generally in intimate public spaces with male bodied people. Especially where self ID lowers / removes all the barriers for safeguarding. A girl is not entitled in those circumstances to deploy her evolutionary instinct for self protection. She must hands down accept an unknown male bodied person beside her in the swimming pool showers or in the often very confined space of a public toilet waiting space. If she is miscarrying, likewise. If she is bleeding heavily, likewise. Etc.

    I keep thinking back to 11 year old me, horrified that my period had arrived early, deeply uncomfortable with my fast-developing body. The idea of having to share changing facilities or loos with a biological male at that point in my life is not a pleasant one. I notice that a lot of the people who say “What’s the big deal?” seem to be men. This doesn’t affect them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    I keep thinking back to 11 year old me, horrified that my period had arrived early, deeply uncomfortable with my fast-developing body. The idea of having to share changing facilities or loos with a biological male at that point in my life is not a pleasant one. I notice that a lot of the people who say “What’s the big deal?” seem to be men. This doesn’t affect them.

    I have recently been experiencing severe menorrhagia and was having to use unisex toilets abroad. It was horrible struggling to cope in cubicles which were open on top and bottom and men on either side of me. I get pissed off at male trans allies telling me I am phobic to want a safe and comfortable space.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,940 ✭✭✭20Cent


    I keep thinking back to 11 year old me, horrified that my period had arrived early, deeply uncomfortable with my fast-developing body. The idea of having to share changing facilities or loos with a biological male at that point in my life is not a pleasant one. I notice that a lot of the people who say “What’s the big deal?” seem to be men. This doesn’t affect them.

    Are you nervous going into bathrooms and changing rooms now though?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,940 ✭✭✭20Cent


    Watched the Peterson Zizek debate.
    You can hear the crowd laughing at Peterson several times during it.
    Says it all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,713 ✭✭✭cloudatlas


    Who’s going to clean his room now that he’s in hospital?


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I keep thinking back to 11 year old me, horrified that my period had arrived early, deeply uncomfortable with my fast-developing body. The idea of having to share changing facilities or loos with a biological male at that point in my life is not a pleasant one. I notice that a lot of the people who say “What’s the big deal?” seem to be men. This doesn’t affect them.

    I've experienced similar reactions from women when you talk about embarrassing moments when getting an erection. It's generally something that we can't control... and worse yet, when you have an uncontrollable ejaculation. Awesome stuff.:D You'll get the giggles or huge laughter from the ladies, but no real understanding of the shame involved.

    The truth is that neither gender understands or appreciates the physical differences, and the experiences that come with them. They're alien experiences to the other gender. And it's only when you start living with a female partner (not housemates) that a male gets his first real chance to appreciate what women have to go through. I'm very glad I'm not female.

    TBH though, i completely understand the desire for females to have different changing rooms. While it's different in sunny countries where people become accustomed to the revealed body, countries with worse weather often have issues with degrees of nakedness. Basically, boys/men will look. Not all of them, but many will. It's understandable that females would prefer privacy for changing, or anything else that they need to do. I also appreciate the risk of violence/abuse... and I agree with the ladies here completely.

    The funny thing about this transgender debate and the desire to share male changing rooms, is that many tansgenders who haven't made the full transition, or have had the less expensive operations, will be noticeably different. Might be the voicebox, or more physical signs, but they're going to get noticed.. and they're going to get uncomfortable with the looks, the comments, etc. Probably won't be nasty comments or insults because most males, in these kind of areas, are rather polite, but even just common observations to friends, or a kid telling his father. I just know it's going to happen.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    20Cent wrote: »
    Are you nervous going into bathrooms and changing rooms now though?

    Not at all. But this isn’t just about me. Others are going through the same as I describe at any given time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭creditcarder


    Not at all. But this isn’t just about me. Others are going through the same as I describe at any given time.


    Wouldn't a woman not want other women nervous? :P



    I honestly do believe that there are differences in male and female mentalities at a biological level , but moving past I am kind of against trans in a very, very passive way. If a man wants to be a woman, it's fine, we all have our cross to bear, but I do not think we can be saying that it is 'brave' for a man to change his gender in the current anti attitudes towards men and how that will affect young man.


    On the flip side, you can't support trans rights and say you do not want to be around trans :P


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    Make up and high heels do make women look more appealing, but why should that matter to any respectful guy? He’ll think in his head “Damn, she looks good”. No harm done. Wearing high heels and make up in no way justifies workplace sexual harassment and honestly, a guy who is a workplace harasser probably doesn’t need much encouragement. A man isn’t going to be turned into a harasser by the sight of a reddened lip and if that’s what Peterson suggesting, he has a pretty low opinion of menfolk.

    Peterson wasnt suggesting that at all and I think you know it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭creditcarder


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    markodaly wrote: »
    I think his point was that its a hell of a lot more complicated than out of control men oggling women in make-up and high heals, when you factor in that make-up and high heals themselves have physiological conotations in finding a mate, from a evolutionary point of view.


    I agree with what your saying tbh. Harresment as bullying is a different kettle of fish, but men will be attracted if you are showing signs of sex in the same way that women would stare if you were stuffing socks down your pants.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    markodaly wrote: »
    Peterson wasnt suggesting that at all and I think you know it.

    I disagree. So no, I don’t know it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    Tordelback wrote: »
    Irrelevant to the larger topic at hand, but

    Dare I say its very relevant, otherwise why are wards segregated by sex?
    A&E is a bit of a mess alright, but do you think 17 year old girls should be sharing wards with 60+ year old men?

    Hopsitals certainly don't and in fact try and avoid that situation if possible, but we know it happens because of resourcing issues.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    I disagree. So no, I don’t know it.

    Well, you need to refresh your memory on the actual interview itself before to come to baseless conclusions.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    I've experienced similar reactions from women when you talk about embarrassing moments when getting an erection. It's generally something that we can't control... and worse yet, when you have an uncontrollable ejaculation. Awesome stuff.:D You'll get the giggles or huge laughter from the ladies, but no real understanding of the shame involved.

    The truth is that neither gender understands or appreciates the physical differences, and the experiences that come with them. They're alien experiences to the other gender. And it's only when you start living with a female partner (not housemates) that a male gets his first real chance to appreciate what women have to go through. I'm very glad I'm not female.

    TBH though, i completely understand the desire for females to have different changing rooms. While it's different in sunny countries where people become accustomed to the revealed body, countries with worse weather often have issues with degrees of nakedness. Basically, boys/men will look. Not all of them, but many will. It's understandable that females would prefer privacy for changing, or anything else that they need to do. I also appreciate the risk of violence/abuse... and I agree with the ladies here completely.

    The funny thing about this transgender debate and the desire to share male changing rooms, is that many tansgenders who haven't made the full transition, or have had the less expensive operations, will be noticeably different. Might be the voicebox, or more physical signs, but they're going to get noticed.. and they're going to get uncomfortable with the looks, the comments, etc. Probably won't be nasty comments or insults because most males, in these kind of areas, are rather polite, but even just common observations to friends, or a kid telling his father. I just know it's going to happen.

    If that happened to a self-IDing transgender woman beside me in a changing room, I doubt I’d laugh!

    Yes, I agree. There are things people don’t understand about the opposite sex. And people who transition won’t understand all those things either.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    markodaly wrote: »
    Well, you need to refresh your memory on the actual interview itself before to come to baseless conclusions.

    I came to my conclusions by watching the interview with my eyeballs and listening with my ears. :) I came to a different conclusion as you, that’s all. You don’t agree with my conclusion but that doesn’t make it incorrect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    I came to my conclusions by watching the interview with my eyeballs and listening with my ears. :) I came to a different conclusion as you, that’s all. You don’t agree with my conclusion but that doesn’t make it incorrect.

    Well, in my opinion you watching the interview and coming to that conclusions is akin to someone reading a SuperMacs menu and thus thinking they understand Quantum Mechanincs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    20Cent wrote: »
    Comments made in this thread was that someone male would make them feel uncomfortable. If a transman who has fully transitioned goes into the ladies then this would be the same discomfort.

    Hey 20Cent, you didnt answer my last question (you seem to have form here)

    Are 17 year old girls stupid for feeling uncomfortable sharing hospital wards with strange 60+ year old men?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,332 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    20Cent wrote: »
    Don't know the scientific terminology but...

    Never a truer word spoken. :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    markodaly wrote: »
    Well, in my opinion you watching the interview and coming to that conclusions is akin to someone reading a SuperMacs menu and thus thinking they understand Quantum Mechanincs.

    Well, happily enough, you’re not the authority on this. All you’ve said is “Yeah, that’s not what he meant”. Wow, my hair is blown back by your amazing persuasion skills.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,827 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    Gynoid wrote: »
    Slavoj Zizek, the stuttering Marxist so many here seem to love, advocates for third spaces. Many transgender people advocate for third spaces. It is the fairest solution.

    Is it a shock to you that everyone on the left doesn’t agree on every issue?
    Because not all transwomen are a threat to females but some are. If you say it never happens you will find many very disturbing examples here - https://www.womenarehuman.com/
    The numbers of assaults increases all the time.


    A transwoman who has self identified as female has the same sex drive and muscle mass as a man. Male sex offense rates are far higher than female rates (By the way this does not mean men are more generally physically abusive than women, those figures of general abuse may be far closer, but in terms of sexual attack rates by males are much higher).

    The population of transwomen and especially those who may self ID with no chemical or surgical change will sexually offend at the same RATE as the male population. This is logical and rational.
    Note - hormones and surgery are becoming less popular among the trans population because of the dreadful harm they cause including loss of sexual potency and pleasure.

    The population of natal women and girls deserve SAFEGUARDING.

    The UN fights campaigns in the developing world for single sex spaces including toilets for girls precisely because girls do not attend school due to high levels of sexual assault in communal or unisex toilets.

    Safeguarding women and girls from a higher rate of sexual assault trumps the rights of those who identify as females to enter their sex-protected spaces. I for one will not accept an attrition rate of sexually assaulted girls/ women, to satisfy activists. A third space is the solution.


    A third space is a solution. I agree. Now, how do we police the bathrooms and changing rooms to insure no pretty trans women infiltrate the women’s spaces?

    they/them/theirs


    The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all of the people.

    Noam Chomsky



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    Brian? wrote: »
    Is it a shock to you that everyone on the left doesn’t agree on every issue?




    A third space is a solution. I agree. Now, how do we police the bathrooms and changing rooms to insure no pretty trans women infiltrate the women’s spaces?

    I have been left wing on many issues since you were dribbling into your bib. I am just not stupidly so. Biology is real.

    Why would I police them? Just agree with me on something without the reflexive need for snark.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    My analysis of globalist capitalism is likely far more radical that all these woke lefties who casually cast aspersions of bigotry and hate.
    As regards the culture war, I believe in personal freedom. There have however arisen challenging anomalies in the war of "rights", clashes of interest, and I reserve the human right to rationally adjudicate for myself on each culture war issue as it evolves. And evolve they do.
    I am sick to death of being presumed to be "right wing" just because I will not automatically hold your hand and skip along with you to your Utopian lala land.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    Brian? wrote: »
    A third space is a solution. I agree. Now, how do we police the bathrooms and changing rooms to insure no pretty trans women infiltrate the women’s spaces?

    A more pertinent question re safeguarding is how - with unlimited self ID - could one police any intimate public space from ANYONE. Anyone, trans, not trans, woman, man, anyone, including the people with bad intent who we all know exist unless we are imbeciles, can self declare the right to enter all public spaces where others, no matter how young or vulnerable, are in a state of undress and no one has the right to in any manner question their presence. A young girl out for her exercise must simply and limply bow her head and follow in the unknown man into the swimming pool showering area or allow the man to follow her in. No questions allowed. Any man. As Dr. Debbie Hayton, transwoman, says "It is an abuser's charter."


  • Posts: 7,714 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Legally it will probably lead to a myriad of problems just generally though..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Brian? wrote: »
    A third space is a solution. I agree. Now, how do we police the bathrooms and changing rooms to insure no pretty trans women infiltrate the women’s spaces?

    Well, with self-ID, we can’t. Realistically, nobody is going to be able to demand to see a gender recognition cert and I doubt they’d be entitled to ask that of anyone so we can’t really police it. And that is an undeniable loophole that can be exploited.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,711 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    markodaly wrote: »
    Are 17 year old girls stupid for feeling uncomfortable sharing hospital wards with strange 60+ year old men?


    Nobody is stupid for feeling uncomfortable having to share a space with strangers. Get that out of the way first of all. Now the thing is, in the example you gave, the circumstances of that case were that the male assailant wasn’t even trying to pass themselves off as a woman. There is no reason to suspect or suggest that people who are transgender are more likely than anyone who is not transgender, to commit assault in a shared space. The spaces are shared precisely because there is a resourcing issue, so the idea of a third set of facilities for people who are transgender (technically speaking it would really require a third and fourth set of facilities) at a time when overcrowding in hospitals is already an issue, is something of a non-starter. Such a suggestion would also require an inordinate amount of supervision to ensure the dignity and safety of every individual, and essentially if everyone were to be accommodated, they would require their own individual rooms and facilities. Government has been unable to address the issue of the rising number of patients on trolleys in corridors, so what do you imagine are the chances of them acceding to every individuals particular whims? They’re currently accommodating patients as best they can with what resources they have, and unfortunately that means patients having to share a space with people they otherwise wouldn’t feel comfortable with.

    As for the idea of separate public bathroom spaces, again it’s simply a question of resources and balancing that with a responsibility for people’s wishes for complete safety and privacy and so on. I don’t think anyone is in any position to demand that employers and proprietors make any accommodations which are considered unreasonable and they can argue are simply unreasonable based on the fact that the bathrooms are unlikely to be used, given that we know up to this point the majority of people who are transgender have been using public bathrooms without incident, and in only a small minority of cases there have been assaults on women and girls by men who weren’t even claiming to be transgender - they didn’t even have to wear a dress or any of that other nonsense. In that case it can easily be argued that there is no correlation between people who are transgender using public facilities, and the number of assaults on women and girls. We do know that people who are of a mind to assault women and girls will either find or make opportunities for themselves to assault women and girls, but there is no reason to assume that simply because a person is transgender, they are more likely than someone who isn’t transgender, to assault women and girls. Therefore placing restrictions on a minority in society for nothing other than what it is claimed they might do, reasons which are based entirely upon prejudice, is simply unreasonable, unfair, unworkable and unethical.

    The public facilities isssue is such a non-starter as far as I am concerned in relation to the much wider discussion of accommodating everyone in society that it simply is hardly worth talking about. People are simply going to use whatever bathroom they’re most comfortable with and that is undoubtedly going to make some people uncomfortable. but given the lack of resources and the lack of public support for the idea of separate spaces at a time when the idea of eliminating single-sex schools and introducing unisex bathrooms in schools is happening, I think it’s far more likely that people who want to be accommodated in single sex spaces are going to feel like they’re losing out. There are still men today who feel as though they are losing out to women in employment and being denied opportunities as a result of measures to promote equality for women in employment. They have no legitimate reason to object, simply based upon their prejudices against women which are completely unfounded. I don’t see why anyone should be denied equal opportunities as anyone else simply on the basis that there is an assumption that they are more likely to commit wrongdoing on the basis of characteristic traits which are protected by anti-discrimination laws. The same anti-discrimination laws already allow for exceptions in circumstances which are determined to be intended to achieve a legitimate aim.

    It was long argued for example that Section 37 of the Employment Equally Act allowed for religious organisations to maintain their ethos by discriminating against people on the basis of their sex or gender, until that clause was removed because it was determined to be no longer a legitimate reason to allow religious organisations to discriminate against people on that basis -

    Dáil passes Bill to make it illegal to discriminate against LGBT teachers

    And if there were a legitimate argument could be made to ensure discrimination against people on an arbitrary basis such as one of the protected characteristics, I might consider supporting it, as I have done in cases previously such as Yanniv and so on. But to arbitrarily discriminate against people as a whole and deny them equal opportunities and call that fair, or suggest that’s more like “equality of outcome”, when circumstances are unequal in the first place? I don’t see attempting to appeal to people’s prejudices and fears as a legitimate reason to place what I consider to be unfair restrictions on anyone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    When I think back on all these decades when Mammies have been fascist bigots bringing their little boys in with them to the ladies changing rooms. Until said boys might be approaching puberty in which case they reluctantly sent them into the mens with stern warnings ringing in their ears. Why were they such bitches? Maybe because the RATE of sex assault is higher among men and they wanted to mind their boys?


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,827 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    Gynoid wrote: »
    I have been left wing on many issues since you were dribbling into your bib. I am just not stupidly so. Biology is real.

    Honest question, how do you know what age I am?

    Of course biology is real. No one is arguing it isn't. It would be stupid to.

    The issue at hand is gender expression, not biology.
    Why would I police them? Just agree with me on something without the reflexive need for snark.

    I am pointing out the logical hole here. You want a third space for transgender people to use. How do ensure they use it?

    they/them/theirs


    The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all of the people.

    Noam Chomsky



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