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Louise O Neill on rape culture.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,633 ✭✭✭✭Widdershins


    ivytwine wrote: »
    Yep and I'd rather be a Catherine Corless than a numpty on Twitter!

    That's a woman with the courage of her convictions. I can look up to someone like that. And that lady in the news lately, Vera Twomey.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    McGaggs wrote: »
    I've seen a few of these, but only for men. One about getting beaten up (I think), and the other pretty much like this one but with a wallet instead of lippy. Is that not equality?

    Yeah, seen the wallet one (included below) but not the beaten up one.


    walletstreetwise.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    That's different though, because, you know, stuff. And reasons. Important reasons.

    Close ;)


    https://twitter.com/Ciarabelles/status/841545613539966976


    I replied pointing out that there was also a poster saying similar to men (with regards to them 'not having a plan') and Louise chimed in:


    https://twitter.com/oneilllo/status/841625743310356480


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,356 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    "I have had that account muted for ages. I am SO WISE"

    All i can think of, is a kid putting their fingers in their ears going "LALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YouUUU!"

    Shows'em up for their bias. Look hard enough for a problem and you'll find one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    By that logic, awareness campaigns around home security, hi-visbility wear at night, etc are victim blaming. Awareness ≠ blame

    Response:
    They actually do. Which just shows you have no idea of what rape culture is and how it works. Shocking.
    And I really don't give a **** about some random dude's opinion on this, you've never had to deal with this ****.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭ivytwine


    All of these people need to put their phones away and go for a walk.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,356 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    ivytwine wrote: »
    All of these people need to put their phones away and go for a walk.

    Not by themselves, or down dark alleys. and this time of year it still gets dark relatively early. So some Hi-Viz gear, or a torch would be advisable.

    #VictimBlaming


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,583 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    I dunno, would it really be a loss to society if a few of them fell down an open manpersonhole ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    ivytwine wrote: »
    Twitter is such a crock of nonsense though. Especially for discussing such complex issues. At least Facebook gives you the space for debate. Most people use twitter for I don't even know what- I know one person who pretty much follows poker accounts only- and for small numbers of left and right it's a ridiculous echo chamber. I'd dearly love for people to pay it no mind and it'll eventually go away.
    It really has done so much damage to debate and discussion.

    Twitter is slowly but surely dying on it's @rse.

    If you check out the increase in users, year by year, in most social media-twitter is dead last. It's heading towards myspace levels of 'never used again'.

    There was more excitement when Bebo was claiming it would be revived.

    Instagram is a new social media platform, but it has twice as many users as twitter, continually growing. Twitter-the negative press it recieves, means it has half the user base-and has pretty much flatlined (Disney very publicly stated they weren't interested in buying it because of it's toxic environment). You can find charts showing it's user based growth, and in the last 2-3 years, it's the same. Comparitively, facebook, and insta, are constantly growing. So Lon can scream from a cottage on twitter all she wants, as can many-they do nothing.

    I would imagine they got a very harsh wake up call when all their 'activism' on twitter led to Donald Trump winning.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭ivytwine


    Twitter is slowly but surely dying on it's @rse.

    If you check out the increase in users, year by year, in most social media-twitter is dead last. It's heading towards myspace levels of 'never used again'.

    There was more excitement when Bebo was claiming it would be revived.

    Instagram is a new social media platform, but it has twice as many users as twitter, continually growing. Twitter-the negative press it recieves, means it has half the user base-and has pretty much flatlined (Disney very publicly stated they weren't interested in buying it because of it's toxic environment). You can find charts showing it's user based growth, and in the last 2-3 years, it's the same. Comparitively, facebook, and insta, are constantly growing. So Lon can scream from a cottage on twitter all she wants, as can many-they do nothing.

    I would imagine they got a very harsh wake up call when all their 'activism' on twitter led to Donald Trump winning.

    You're right. Instagram for me is a really nice place, I follow loads of photography and art accounts. People don't seem as angry.
    I know tons of really smart people with moderate opinions who just don't engage online, unless something really riles them. It isn't even that they're scared, but that they feel they have better things to do than being screamed at by strangers.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    https://twitter.com/RosemaryMacCabe/status/841064644609474560

    Yes, everyone on boards is an MRA...wow, didn't know that equality meant I was an MRA...so disappointed in myself.... (Actually, even if I was an MRA, which I am not, I would not be disappointed in myself).

    (And the tweet that started it all was about teens on a school trip-ya know, when people haven't figured out their own identity and 'try' to fit in. I would argue the LoN types are doing the same thing now-like they haven't left that phased).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,429 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    Close ;)


    https://twitter.com/Ciarabelles/status/841545613539966976


    I replied pointing out that there was also a poster saying similar to men (with regards to them 'not having a plan') and Louise chimed in:


    https://twitter.com/oneilllo/status/841625743310356480

    That's just infuriating!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭ivytwine


    Ah sure they're only dying for a reaction, don't give them one. Have to say though, the people they are criticising are legally children and that's just scummy. If they're concerned with how they're talking about women, organise a talk in the school?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    https://twitter.com/RosemaryMacCabe/status/841064644609474560

    Yes, everyone on boards is an MRA...wow, didn't know that equality meant I was an MRA...so disappointed in myself.... (Actually, even if I was an MRA, which I am not, I would not be disappointed in myself).

    (And the tweet that started it all was about teens on a school trip-ya know, when people haven't figured out their own identity and 'try' to fit in. I would argue the LoN types are doing the same thing now-like they haven't left that phased).

    She's obsessed with calling people who don't agree with her MRA's, it's actually gas.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    Birneybau wrote: »
    That's just infuriating!

    Ah I don't mind the replies tbh. I find it kind of entertaining to see how people like them repsond to opposing views, even if it is to come out with madness like citing the recent consent survey when I pointed out that the Garda campaign wasn't blaming women on being attacked (yup, she did that).

    What Louise was doing though does annoy me (and she does it often) and that is to try and convince others that they should not be engaging with people on on Twitter, FB etc, that don't agree with their worldview, and would be best to just mute them just as she does... and boy does she.

    Her film Only Ever Yours starts shooting soon enough. She's bad enough now, what'll she be like after her name rolls on the big screen. Saints preseve us.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,633 ✭✭✭✭Widdershins


    I don't know what an MRA is. I'm imagining equally militant and neurotic male versions of this type of pseudo feminist.

    I reckon this is all a symptom of people who have some serious problems with the opposite sex ( opposite to whichever they happen to be)

    Reading those tweets and other gender wars stuff on Boards is bringing on a ''I hate people'' kind of mood


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,310 Mod ✭✭✭✭mzungu


    ivytwine wrote: »
    I cannot understand how "gender is a social construct" is compatible with trans rights actually. In my view there's a fundamental conflict there. Maybe I'm a bit dense. Anyway while I'd agree that certain aspects of gender identity aren't fixed (pink used to be for boys for example) they are the most trivial aspects. Yeah, absolutely fair play to her. Promoting feminism in Ireland is an absolute cakewalk in comparison.
    I believe Adichie's exact words were gender was more "sociology than biology". I think it is the opposite, that it is more "biology than sociology" but at the same time I do think social influences have a part to play in there too. I can totally understand gender roles, they are a social construct. But, this idea that biology is just a myth and it is all social influences? I can't hop on board that one. Thankfully, I doubt many people fully sign up to it either.

    The social construction of gender theory is an example postmoderism's (and gender theorists) casual relationship with science, a relationship that borders on being completely anti-science when it is most convenient (e.g. funding). It ignores even the most obvious of differences. We see it a lot in nature in the animal kingdom and with apes especially, the males are all rough and tumble with the females being more nurturing. In studies, when monkeys are given toys the males will prefer trucks while the females will prefer dolls. Is this behaviour socially constructed too? :D

    There are natural differences between the two sexes, it doesn't mean one is better than the other, it just simply means that we are hardwired differently. I find stuff like gender neutrality, especially forcing it upon children, to be a bit off. It is trying to stifle natural and non-threatening behaviour. In that sense, it is not a million miles away from those barbaric practices of trying to turn gay people straight. I mean, these same people would be up in arms at Mike Pence and his support of conversion therapy, whilst at the same time they are championing more or less the same thing. Both have their own brand of sinister social engineering, although only one of these is demonised. It should be both IMO.

    As regards trans rights, I would agree. Add to that, if it is all a social construct, then is homosexuality a social construct too? If you look at Julie Bindel, she follows this line of thought and her view is that homosexuality is a choice. She started a movement to try get women to identify as gay, as she says it should be a political choice above all else. Sounds barmy, and flies in the face of gay rights campaigners, but this is where a lot of this stuff leads when it is taken seriously.

    It is quite the pickle though, and it does take a lot of fancy dancing and science denial to try and successfully square that particular circle. Rightfully, I am sure many trans activist's do not subscribe to the "it's all a social construct" idea.
    ivytwine wrote: »
    Like so many things intersectionality came from a good place. non white women etc were ignored by feminism by a long time. I would argue tho that nothing has been achieved by this. Practical action is almost non existent, and the infighting has everyone so stuck and afraid to put their head above the parapet. Gay marriage happened because LGBT people put their rights first and fought for them.
    Yep, I think the problem is getting caught up in ideological purity, instead of actively trying to do something. Usually for movements to be successful and get some traction you need to bring along the rest population for the spin too. That's how stuff gets done.
    ivytwine wrote: »
    Anyway in light of the existential crisis facing the human race (climate change) I find all this stuff darkly amusing. It reminds me of nothing more than the characters in GOT slinging it out over the Iron Throne, pretending that the White Walkers aren't coming ever closer to the Wall.
    Well.....that's obviously all a social construct too! :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭ Holland Helpful Pita


    Ah I don't mind the replies tbh. I find it kind of entertaining to see how people like them repsond to opposing views, even if it is to come out with madness like citing the recent consent survey when I pointed out that the Garda campaign wasn't blaming women on being attacked (yup, she did that).

    What Louise was doing though does annoy me (and she does it often) and that is to try and convince others that they should not be engaging with people on on Twitter, FB etc, that don't agree with their worldview, and would be best to just mute them just as she does... and boy does she.

    Her film Only Ever Yours starts shooting soon enough. She's bad enough now, what'll she be like after her name rolls on the big screen. Saints preseve us.

    She's going to get worse with the movie imho - she irks me as there are younger women who are going to be 'brainwashed' /impressionable with the stuff she comes out with and that's a fear for anyone - but looking at the lack of attendance for the consent classes in Dublin and Limerick give hope that they're seeing through her and her ilk


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,845 ✭✭✭py2006


    anna080 wrote: »
    She's obsessed with calling people who don't agree with her MRA's, it's actually gas.

    And straight and white apparently too!! Bizarre stuff.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,429 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    I don't know what an MRA is. I'm imagining equally militant and neurotic male versions of this type of pseudo feminist.

    I reckon this is all a symptom of people who have some serious problems with the opposite sex ( opposite to whichever they happen to be)

    Reading those tweets and other gender wars stuff on Boards is bringing on a ''I hate people'' kind of mood

    Men's Rights Activist...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    ivytwine wrote: »
    Ah sure they're only dying for a reaction, don't give them one. Have to say though, the people they are criticising are legally children and that's just scummy. If they're concerned with how they're talking about women, organise a talk in the school?

    Well, when Louise has spoken at schools--they rightfully call her a manhater. (The students-not the teachers).


    Hence why she targets the vulnerable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    She's going to get worse with the movie imho - she irks me as there are younger women who are going to be 'brainwashed' /impressionable with the stuff she comes out with and that's a fear for anyone - but looking at the lack of attendance for the consent classes in Dublin and Limerick give hope that they're seeing through her and her ilk

    The thing is-book deals to movie deals happen all the time-and no movie takes place.

    Skullduggery pleasant is a good example, the book sale was hyped up when it was planned to be a movie...and then nothing happened. Now the rights have reverted back to the author.

    The author usually makes a couple of grand on a book deal-which is micro-change to a studio.

    If anything comes out of it, it will be either a tv drama, or a tv movie-little else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    py2006 wrote: »
    And straight and white apparently too!! Bizarre stuff.

    Aye and she always at pains to make sure she's never including gay men either.

    In her rant article on pornography for example (which I can't find now - was in the Examiner I think) she said 'heterosexual' porn was misogynistic, making sure to not be including gay porn in her forthcoming rant. She then went on to say though that people should watch porn made by Erika Lust (and to 'thank her later') and has even tweeted the odd time recommending people view her stuff:


    https://twitter.com/oneilllo/status/746425600357842944


    Well I did watch some of her stuff (purely for research purposes you understand - hate the filth usually) and low and behold but what Erika makes has been made a thousand times before and far better too. (Watch some of it tell me different). I even also watched Erika's Tedx talk (included below...skip to the 6m mark) as maybe I had been watching it wrong or something (could happen) and was missing something that Louise was seeing as a result.. but no.. all I found was a nonsensical narcissistic rant from that was really just an attack on men.

    At one point she says that the history of porn has been a discourse (fair enough) which ONLY MEN had participated in thus far and who have ALL been narrow minded chauvinists making misogynistic porn with "little sexual intelligence". Says it all really that she thinks (in 2014) that only men have had a hand in producing pornography for the last 40 to 50 years. The usual ranting on a topic she clearly knows nothing about. It's as if they decide that because they are feminists they can just become an expert on any topic they so choose whenever they like and they are from that point on the first women to have done so... cause patriarchy or something.





    Guess I must have imagined watching all the Candida Royalle, Princess Donna, Nina Hartley, Belladonna (etc etc) produced and directed adult films. Course they don't make "sex positive" feminist porn and so guess they no doubt don't count as being a "female contribution" to the 'discourse' that pornography has been down the years. Funny how feminists get to decide which women's voices count and which one's don't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Aye and she always at pains to make sure she's never including gay men either.

    In her rant article on pornography for example (which I can't find now - was in the Examiner I think) she said 'heterosexual' porn was misogynistic, making sure to not be including gay porn in her forthcoming rant. She then went on to say though that people should watch porn made by Erika Lust (and to 'thank her later') and has even tweeted the odd time recommending people view her stuff:


    https://twitter.com/oneilllo/status/746425600357842944


    Well I did watch some of her stuff (purely for research purposes you understand - hate the filth usually) and low and behold but what Erika makes has been made a thousand times before and far better too. (Watch some of it tell me different). I even also watched Erika's Tedx talk (included below...skip to the 6m mark) as maybe I had been watching it wrong or something (could happen) and was missing something that Louise was seeing as a result.. but no.. all I found was a nonsensical narcissistic rant from that was really just an attack on men.

    At one point she says that the history of porn has been a discourse (fair enough) which ONLY MEN had participated in thus far and who have ALL been narrow minded chauvinists making misogynistic porn with "little sexual intelligence". Says it all really that she thinks (in 2014) that only men have had a hand in producing pornography for the last 40 to 50 years. The usual ranting on a topic she clearly knows nothing about. It's as if they decide that because they are feminists they can just become an expert on any topic they so choose whenever they like and they are from that point on the first women to have done so... cause patriarchy or something.


    Guess I must have imagined watching all the Candida Royalle, Princess Donna, Nina Hartley, Belladonna (etc etc) produced and directed adult films. Course they don't make "sex positive" feminist porn and so guess they no doubt don't count as being a "female contribution" to the 'discourse' that pornography has been down the years. Funny how feminists get to decide which women's voices count and which one's don't.

    Badly shot, badly filmed, without any sense of composition, cinematography or anything else-yeah, feminist porn...aka badly made.

    (And really, LoN, promoting an industry where no matter how much one can argue 'it's a job, their choice' there is no arguing that many performers are people in pain who have been violated-the James Deens (his attacks on women, and rape of his then girlfriend), the Bella Donna's (molested), Jenna Jameson (molested and raped), Jesse Rogers (raped), Nadia Hilton (now a pastor, was a victim of sexual abuse by two individuals as a kid) and the list goes on. It's completely irresponsible to suggest because porn is 'feminist' that it is somehow more valuable or 'better'-nope.)

    As for the 'when women's voices count'...yeah, it's the same crud we got with Ghostbusters-another movie LoN cited with her 'white girl' movie article. They completely ignored the action moves that had come before-the Ellen Ripley's, Sarah Connor's, or the Bride's etc- when they spoke of how 'no movie had a powerful female lead' like this one. (You can find that promotional video on youtube). Never mind that the massive hit movie of the year before, The Force Awakens, was lead by a female lead. (Debating the quality of the movie, as each of us has an opinion on it, the narrative they were pushing ignored a film that had come out months prior).


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 14,568 Mod ✭✭✭✭johnnyskeleton


    Close ;)


    https://twitter.com/Ciarabelles/status/841545613539966976


    I replied pointing out that there was also a poster saying similar to men (with regards to them 'not having a plan') and Louise chimed in:


    https://twitter.com/oneilllo/status/841625743310356480

    I'd be genuinely interested to find out how they can say it is not the same.

    Imagine the HSE put out a series of anti smoking posters. If there was a male poster and a female poster, both saying that it's not healthy to smoke, would they argue that they are not the same and that the male poster is trying to help men live better lives while the female poster is trying to dictate to women what they can or can't do with their own bodies?

    The irony of all this is that the campaign is from an organisation whose job it is to keep us all safe. Gardai see hundreds/thousands of drunk men and women on the streets of Dublin on a Friday or Saturday night.

    Sometimes people are just drunk and making a mess or can't get home. Some times they have to bring people to the hospital, or to the barracks to make a statement. Sometimes they have to go to the morgue. If the Gardai see all this stuff and think "we really have to educate young people about the perils of drinking too much", a part of which is about the risk of being sexually assaulted while drunk, what is wrong with that?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭ Holland Helpful Pita


    I'd be genuinely interested to find out how they can say it is not the same.

    Imagine the HSE put out a series of anti smoking posters. If there was a male poster and a female poster, both saying that it's not healthy to smoke, would they argue that they are not the same and that the male poster is trying to help men live better lives while the female poster is trying to dictate to women what they can or can't do with their own bodies?

    The irony of all this is that the campaign is from an organisation whose job it is to keep us all safe. Gardai see hundreds/thousands of drunk men and women on the streets of Dublin on a Friday or Saturday night.

    Sometimes people are just drunk and making a mess or can't get home. Some times they have to bring people to the hospital, or to the barracks to make a statement. Sometimes they have to go to the morgue. If the Gardai see all this stuff and think "we really have to educate young people about the perils of drinking too much", a part of which is about the risk of being sexually assaulted while drunk, what is wrong with that?

    Honestly these third wave feminists just look deep and hard for anything that is remotely sexist and try to pedal their agenda (bit like the 1 in 4 charity and searching for funding)...

    Maybe its just me noticing things, do a lot of these types of feminists have some type mental issues, LON, RMC and Mullally have had mental issues (documented in their articles)

    Mod: banned


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,310 Mod ✭✭✭✭mzungu


    I'd be genuinely interested to find out how they can say it is not the same.

    Imagine the HSE put out a series of anti smoking posters. If there was a male poster and a female poster, both saying that it's not healthy to smoke, would they argue that they are not the same and that the male poster is trying to help men live better lives while the female poster is trying to dictate to women what they can or can't do with their own bodies?
    When you throw logic out the window all kinds of stuff is possible.
    The irony of all this is that the campaign is from an organisation whose job it is to keep us all safe. Gardai see hundreds/thousands of drunk men and women on the streets of Dublin on a Friday or Saturday night.

    Sometimes people are just drunk and making a mess or can't get home. Some times they have to bring people to the hospital, or to the barracks to make a statement. Sometimes they have to go to the morgue. If the Gardai see all this stuff and think "we really have to educate young people about the perils of drinking too much", a part of which is about the risk of being sexually assaulted while drunk, what is wrong with that?
    There was an opinion piece in yesterdays Irish Times critiquing that campaign and called it an example of "Gardasplaining". :D They're not even trying anymore over at the IT these days are they?

    On a more serious note, I think there is always going to be no pleasing a certain cohort in society. That goes for just about everything in all walks of life. However, I would wager that most rational minded people were able to understand the true message of the campaign, and hopefully they will heed it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,690 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    mzungu wrote: »
    When you throw logic out the window all kinds of stuff is possible.

    There was an opinion piece in yesterdays Irish Times critiquing that campaign and called it an example of "Gardasplaining". :D They're not even trying anymore over at the IT these days are they?

    On a more serious note, I think there is always going to be no pleasing a certain cohort in society. That goes for just about everything in all walks of life. However, I would wager that most rational minded people were able to understand the true message of the campaign, and hopefully they will heed it.

    Oh they are getting crazy by the week-there are people on twitter campaigining against 'Manel's aka panels that consist of just men, and not a mix of women and men.

    I forgot to note how LoN claimed 'one director's' pornography was feminist, yet her 'documentary' included scenes from another porno called All about Anna, a film written by, and directed by, Women. Yet LoN saw it as 'degrading'...

    So loN is now deciding which voices get heard then?


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 14,568 Mod ✭✭✭✭johnnyskeleton


    Feminism seems prepared to give the long-term game away for the sake of a snarky tweet, never mind the hundreds of men who have been alienated in the process. If we want more men to join the Breitbart brigade, the Feminist Left need only keep doing what it is doing.

    https://newmatilda.com/2017/03/16/the-feminist-far-left-is-making-more-enemies-than-allies/

    Good article I thought. Probably explains the LONs of this world talking about how they are ironically misandrists.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,583 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    The comments on that article are telling - the usual numpties telling her she's not a real feminist... :rolleyes:


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