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Gloomtastic! wrote: »

When you say they aren’t able for it, do you see them crack there and then? Are there couples you used to know well that are no longer together because of the scene? Does one of them keep going and how are they perceived by the ‘scene’

Oh we have seen it and its not pretty. If you are anyway jealous forget about it.

We dont know any couples who have split up but have heard of a few. Some of the single ladies had been on it in the past with their partner and since split up but we wouldnt have known the partner.

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AndrewJRenko wrote: »

Is there much cuckolding on the scene, or the related femdom, or chastity scene?

Thanks in anticipation.

Certainly some cucks on it, havent seen it play out but have been told about one or two ladies on it as single with the hubby at home knowing all about it.


Only just last week we met someone with a cage. Fairplay to them. if thats what you are into.

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pc7 wrote: »

You mentioned breeding in a post, what is that?

As you might think, women who sleep with other men in the hope of getting knocked up and raising someone elses kid.



Its rare and i have only read about it but completely extreme for obvious reasons.

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wirelessdude01 wrote: »

So what is the secret?

Strength I find is important, other hand on the belly, two fingers curved, almost scraping at the inside about 3 inches in. but you need be gentle. Dont use the finger nails.

deco nate

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Anal
Swallowing
Cumming inside her with a condom
Cuddling:)

With or without a condom?

AndrewJRenko

wirelessdude01 wrote: »

Have either of you been in the middle of something and pulled the plug on it as it just wasn't doing it for you or your wife?

Phnaarrr, phnaarrr, phnaarrr (NSFW)

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wirelessdude01 wrote: »

Have either of you been in the middle of something and pulled the plug on it as it just wasn't doing it for you or your wife?

Oh yes thats happened, we have a code word for it. Its actually common in a lot of scenarios.

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Purple Mountain wrote: »

Is there any 50 Shades antics?
S&M etc?

Yes theres plenty of that stuff.


Sex Swings
Flogging
Bondage.

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deco nate wrote: »

With or without a condom?

If shes having sex with someone he needs to take his lad out and cum in the condom or on her, like her belly or boobs.


No unprotected sex.

Purple Mountain

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Yes theres plenty of that stuff.


Sex Swings
Flogging
Bondage.

For you?

deco nate

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If shes having sex with someone he needs to take his lad out and cum in the condom or on her, like her belly or boobs.


No unprotected sex.

Thanks for answering, and I take it that rule is for you too?

Dizzyblonde

Dizzyblonde wrote: »

Thank you for your openness and honesty.

My question is - have you and your wife discussed what would happen should one of you decide that you've had enough of swinging and want to give it up? Would the other be happy enough to stop, and do you think your relationship would still be as good without the excitement of swinging?

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

I have already answered this for most part. I really dont know what effect retiring as such would have on our relationship, i would like to think we would like back with great nostalgia.


I do know this though, if I told my wife tomorrow we were done with it, I dont think she wouldnt argue with me.

Dizzyblonde wrote: »

And if your wife was done with it - would you be okay with that and willing to stop?

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

That was a spelling mistake, i left out the nt.:eek:

I see you've edited it to add the 'nt'. My next question was whether you'd be happy to stop if your wife wanted to? I'm not being argumentative, I promise - I'm just very interested.

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deco nate wrote: »

Thanks for answering, and I take it that rule is for you too?

Most definitely.

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Purple Mountain wrote: »

For you?

Not my thing, didnt like the swing, i prefer resistance.

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Dizzyblonde wrote: »

I see you've edited it to add the 'nt'. My next question was whether you'd be happy to stop if your wife wanted to? I'm not being argumentative, I promise - I'm just very interested.

No problem, i would definitely need some persuading but if it was what she really wanted then of course i would accept it.

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I think I have answered everything, if I missed any please let me know. If theres anymore tomorrow, I will get my wife to answer them. I hope i have done some service to the world we exist in and show to you what its done for our relationship. Thanks

myshirt

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No tongue, lifeless. Like a corpse. Seriously.

Like a corpse? Good god, how far does it go at these parties?

What site did you use to get into this? I might do some window shopping ...

lukesmom

Im not judging you. I think each to their own as long as nobody gets hurt but is it conscientiously difficult to bring up your children and teach them moral values and to have respect for themselves and for others, when their mammy and daddy are out shagging total strangers they have just met?

Jaysci20

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

Yes theres plenty of that stuff.


Sex Swings
Flogging
Bondage.

Ever any animals there?

Terrontress

Why do you not want someone to pop inside your wife if he is wearing a condom? I’d have thought that less intrusive than taking it off and depositing it all over her body.

pc7

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As you might think, women who sleep with other men in the hope of getting knocked up and raising someone elses kid.
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Lol not what I was thinking at all! I thought it might mean some sort of animal role play style positions like animals or something. You learn something new everyday! Ta

1hnr79jr65

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1. No, thankfully i havent heard of that.
2. Definitely more liberating for self confidence. My wife loves the attention she gets, its shallow but I have seen it make her happy, the fact that shes nearly always the hottest lady help as well. It hasnt made much difference to my, I have always been happy with my appearance.

3. Pegging! Its not for me but more common than you think especially with straight men but I definitely would not be into that. Great question though. A lot of women i think like it as well. Like to be giving it to the men.
4. No , naturism doesnt interest us.

Thanks for answers, seems like you and wife have head screwed on correctly to both get the most from your relationship as friends and a couple but also to ensure you have a happy and sane love life.

1 last thing i would ask, have either of you been asked or are aware of other being asked to be a surrogate for another couple/individual or sprem/egg donor?

Seth Brundle

Out of curiosity what was your sex life like before you got into swinging? Was sex relatively frequent? In hindsight wasnit fairly normal or were you somewhat adventurous then? Did you both watch porn together?

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ArthurG

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I hear ya!

nikkibikki

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Set your alarm for 5.45am and start your day on a happy note! Or go to bed 15 mins earlier, you'll sleep way better!

I wouldn't be at it twice a day myself that often but sure you can make time for it if you want to!

OP, do you worry that you'll miss it when you do eventually stop? Do you worry that your marriage might not survive without it?

Emme

OP you say you and your wife are childhood sweethearts which is sweet. You also say the lifestyle has enhanced your relationship and made you closer.

Does the lifestyle put pressure on some couples relationships? If so do you find that couples who have been together a long time like yourselves benefit more from the scene than couples who have been together for a shorter time?

Also are all the women in supertoned bikini model size 6, 8 or 10 shape? If not do the women who are over a size 12 get treated worse than the slimmer women?

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You could have had a quickie in the time it took you to type that!