Now Ye're Talking - to a swinger

khaldrogo

For me personally, I would never get it out of my head thinking that my OH would be comparing me to the people they swung with........does that come into your head ?

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khaldrogo wrote: »

For me personally, I would never get it out of my head thinking that my OH would be comparing me to the people they swung with........does that come into your head ?

No... between us we've not been with a lot of people and no one comes close to what we have with and do for each other which is the way it should be.

Tell me how

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote:

Something latex or vinyl usually

I generally don't get the fascination with rubber clothing.

Is it a personal taste or kind of the scene uniform?

dinorebel

Tell me how wrote: »

I generally don't get the fascination with rubber clothing.

Is it a personal taste or kind of the scene uniform?

It's so you can erase the evidence.

I'm a swinger, AMA

Tell me how wrote: »

I generally don't get the fascination with rubber clothing.

Is it a personal taste or kind of the scene uniform?

For me, its very sexy. I love the look of it and the way it feels when I touch it. Doesnt look good on everyone though.:)

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I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

Think I've answered everything now ... Benny79 the ol ball and chain will answer you in detail for your question x

Hope everyone has enjoyed my being here for one night only haha

I'll check back in later to see if anyone else has any questions

Happy Wednesday folks x

Unfortunately its difficult to explain in theory, You really need to try it in person. You actually need for someone to show you. I have actually shown someone how to do it with his lady friend, that was a great moment.

the beer revolu

Brilliant ama, thanks to you both.
You seem like a fantastic couple.

Is dp a common practice in the scene?
Is it something that either of you have tried?

benny79

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

Think I've answered everything now ... Benny79 the ol ball and chain will answer you in detail for your question x

Hope everyone has enjoyed my being here for one night only haha

I'll check back in later to see if anyone else has any questions

Happy Wednesday folks x

Thanks AMA please do! As I find this really fascinating! Especially since you were with your husband years and he never could do it with you, not that he was trying but you know what I mean! Even if he wants to Pm me..

For me its all about pleasing the woman first as lads are easily pleased But I take it that it was still a surreal experience discovering more about your body! I also take it that you liked it..

I am really envious of the bond you have with your husband and would love to have this bond with someone someday. I don't know if I'd be into swinging but you never know am still youngish.. And always have a very open mind, life is for living and sex is a pleasure after all.. Its just the Irish mentally the way it was preached by the church like it was frowned upon!

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the beer revolu wrote: »

Brilliant ama, thanks to you both.
You seem like a fantastic couple.

Is dp a common practice in the scene?
Is it something that either of you have tried?

Hi.
DP is common enough if that's what you want. There is something for everyone so you'll pretty much find and partake in what you want to or stand aside and watch. I've found because we were so young getting together I'm only really in a sexual awakening now so watching something play out could evolve into something I might like to try.

I'd like to try DP but have to find the right 2nd cock to allow for the scenario. I wouldn't and don't share myself or my husband with just anyone. DP is a very intimate act in my opinion so getting the right dynamic is important.

Xx

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benny79 wrote: »

Thanks AMA please do! As I find this really fascinating! Especially since you were with your husband years and he never could do it with you, not that he was trying but you know what I mean! Even if he wants to Pm me..

For me its all about pleasing the woman first as lads are easily pleased But I take it that it was still a surreal experience discovering more about your body! I also take it that you liked it..

I am really envious of the bond you have with your husband and would love to have this bond with someone someday. I don't know if I'd be into swinging but you never know am still youngish.. And always have a very open mind, live is for living and sex is a pleasure after all.. Its just the Irish mentally the way it was preached by the church like it was frowned upon!

I didn't even know it existed for many years and so watching porn was an eye opener but I still felt like it was a myth. But actually, I'm told, it's very simple once you know how. The lady has to be willing to let go and give into it. You feel like you will pee and so many don't give in because of that sensation. It's definitely a need now when we have an intense session, it's part of my climax at stages because it adds to that climax massively.

Happy squirting x

Emme

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

Thanks for your question: There are definitely plenty of them around to contradict that statement

I read a book by an English woman about a club in France she and her husband attended. She said there were several women in their 60s there, all glamorous, in great shape and up for anything. What age is the oldest woman who attends clubs in Ireland? Do men bring a coffin along with them for handiness when they reach a certain age? Sorry, disregard the second question

khaldrogo

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote:

I didn't even know it existed for many years and so watching porn was an eye opener but I still felt like it was a myth. But actually, I'm told, it's very simple once you know how. The lady has to be willing to let go and give into it. You feel like you will pee and so many don't give in because of that sensation. It's definitely a need now when we have an intense session, it's part of my climax at stages because it adds to that climax massively.

So.....you're effectively peeing

dodderangler

I'm a swinger, AMA wrote: »

This reference is from before my time I think

Ah so you're a newbie? I'm
Going back years now.

Purple Mountain

khaldrogo wrote: »

So.....you're effectively peeing

Yes..and sorry to burst anyone's bubble who thinks otherwise but it absolutely is pee.
But in the heat if the moment some people find that hot.

khaldrogo

Purple Mountain wrote:

Yes..and sorry to burst anyone's bubble who thinks otherwise but it absolutely is pee. But in the heat if the moment some people find that hot.

Lovely. Sounds great!

Cleopatra_

I thought that it is fluid from the skene's gland and a little bit of pee mixed in?

I read somewhere that it feels like you need to pee because the skene's gland is next to the bladder.

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Cleopatra_ wrote: »

I thought that it is fluid from the skene's gland and a little bit of pee mixed in?

I read somewhere that it feels like you need to pee because the skene's gland is next to the bladder.

Thank you.


It is most certainly not just pee, it neither smells nor looks like it and what you have said above is what I understood it to be.

Hitman3000

It is predominately urine with a very small amount of milky white ejaculate produced by the Skene gland. Studies have been carried out and that was the findings . Nothing wrong with enjoying seeing or experiencing it just good to know what it is.

eoghan104

Great AMA fair play to you both.

Hitman3000

eoghan104 wrote:

Absolutely not the case but keep on keeping on!

Samuel Salama of the Parly ll private hospital Le Chesnay France. Google is your friend.

Squirt comes from the squirt gland

Hitman3000

Deleted User wrote:

Squirt comes from the squirt gland

Commonly known as the bladder.

the beer revolu

Any chance we could stop this brilliant thread from descending into a stupid argument that even the experts can't agree on?

BorneTobyWilde

Has
'You've got a Friend in Me '' Started to play on the radio as your wife has one of your friend in her.
That would be funny.

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the beer revolu wrote: »

Any chance we could stop this brilliant thread from descending into a stupid argument that even the experts can't agree on?

Thats pretty much it. Nobody can agree on it.

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Emme wrote: »

I read a book by an English woman about a club in France she and her husband attended. She said there were several women in their 60s there, all glamorous, in great shape and up for anything. What age is the oldest woman who attends clubs in Ireland? Do men bring a coffin along with them for handiness when they reach a certain age? Sorry, disregard the second question

We have met one or two in their 60s but not that common. I have heard stories of an over 60s party, they are meant to be absolutely wild for certain reasons.



A lot of people lie about their age and lie in a big way, I dont see the point of it.

Tell me how

What is the trend of conversation like during the actual act?
Is there a tendency for it to be very explicit or more gentle?

What's the funniest experience you've had on the scene?

Moomat

Have either of you read Sex at Dawn?



If yes, what are your thoughts?

Purple Mountain

What is DP?

Gloomtastic!

Purple Mountain wrote: »

What is DP?

I had to Google it too! :rolleyes:

Double Penetration