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Women commenting on and rejecting men due to height

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    #152
    bb1234567
    Registered Users Posts: 5,501 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    It doesn't matter how old you look, how much body fat you have. You've already stated that the crows feet, the smile lines, the expression lines, the haggarded look on someone's face makes them unattractive. The best you can hope for is the male version of the butterface. Alright body, but old face.
    I guarantee you at 27/28, if you're still chasing after young tail you'll be the pervert. Even more tragic the older you get.

    He's gonna be one of those creepy 55 year old who never gets into an actual relationship because he'll always just wants young 'fertile' girls and spends his time on dating websites trying to get 18 year olds to f**ck him


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    #153
    paddy1990
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    bb1234567 wrote: »
    He's gonna be one of those creepy 55 year old who never gets into an actual relationship because he'll always just wants young 'fertile' girls and spends his time on dating websites trying to get 18 year olds to f**ck him


    If I haven't topped myself by that age im sure I'll be a regular with the local 18-21 year old escorts (in a legal jurisdiction).


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    #154
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    bb1234567 wrote: »
    He's gonna be one of those creepy 55 year old who never gets into an actual relationship because he'll always just wants young 'fertile' girls and spends his time on dating websites trying to get 18 year olds to f**ck him

    He reminds me of the married man that hit on me a few years ago. Wrote to me on Facebook to ask me if I fancied hot fun with him. He was 45, with a wife and child. I was 20. Premier league material and him slugging it out in the 3rd division.


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    #155
    bb1234567
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    Just LOL.

    I suppose if a guy prefers a girl with less skin elasticity, more facial lines and so on, then a late 20s girl could be preferable to a fresher.

    You do know that youre going to age as well , right? Youre talking like you wont and only girls age


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    #156
    Galwayguy35
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I haven't said anything that isn't backed up by science.

    I'm 8% body fat and really take care of myself. I look 18-19 and I'll age gracefully. I don't have to work and I'm not stressed at all. I sleep well and have a perfect diet. I think I'll have plenty of time :D

    Why don't you have to work?


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    #157
    Roquentin
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    bb1234567 wrote: »
    He's gonna be one of those creepy 55 year old who never gets into an actual relationship because he'll always just wants young 'fertile' girls and spends his time on dating websites trying to get 18 year olds to f**ck him

    he moves over to thailand to enjoy the scenery


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    #158
    PucaMama
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    Thanks. I'll have as many prime and fertile 17 year olds as possible. You can have the over 30s. Hopefully the children are healthy - we know that the chances of things going wrong do go up as women age.

    you sound like a bit of a predator, so caught up in the younger girls.


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    #159
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    To be honest the young and vulnerable would be about all that would tolerate him


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    #160
    paddy1990
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 245 ✭✭paddy1990


    PucaMama wrote: »
    you sound like a bit of a predator, so caught up in the younger girls.

    I'd be happy with a 21 year old girl with the right mindset to be honest.


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    #161
    PucaMama
    Registered Users Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    To be honest the young and vulnerable would be about all that would tolerate him

    unfortunatly, i know the type of man.


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    #162
    PucaMama
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'd be happy with a 21 year old girl with the right mindset to be honest.

    and what mindset is that? the "im no good past 25" mindset? or the "im only here until you get something younger" one?


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    #163
    Penny Tration
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    The fact that paddy is so attracted to 17 year olds worries me tbh.

    17 year olds are, in general, emotionally immature, and still finding themselves. That a man in his mid 20s finds that attractive is more than a little bit creepy.


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    #164
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,057 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    ongarboy wrote: »
    Back in the ballroom of romance days it was about being the wallflower or being rejected when asking for a dance. In my day it was the slow set and subsequent "shifting" at the disco, Today, it's online or hook up app rejection....same first impression common denominator....your looks!

    What's interesting is that even with all the advances we have nowadays like social media, online dating, speed dating etc, its actually more difficult to find someone compatible now compared to previous generations. It's a cultural thing too. Look at the Polish for example. Most of them tend to get married and settle down at a young age.

    paddy1990 wrote: »
    Well most men never stop being attracted to 18-20 year old girls, no matter what age the man is.

    I'm not sure whether you are a guy or a girl but I think that 18 year old girls being ugly is a bit of a misnomer. If you compare an "ugly" 18 year old girl to a "pretty" 30 year old woman, in my opinion it's no contest. The 18 year old will generally have great elasticity in the skin, no nasolabial folds, no lines, no sagging skin, no sagging body parts, no cellulite etc. Generally speaking it's no contest. Don't even get me started on the mentality of a 30 year old vs 18-20 year old either. 30 year olds have generally "had their fun" etc. If you are an 18 year old girl and ugly, I would say lose weight and get in good shape and your dating value will be huge (in b4 "value? am i in a market??")

    I'm sorry but this is utter nonsense. Nasolabial folds? Seriously? As for the mentality, I'd much prefer a woman in her late 20/early 30's. If a woman looks after herself she can age gracefully. I work with a Lithuanian woman who is nearly 40 and she's an absolute cracker.


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    #165
    bb1234567
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'd be happy with a 21 year old girl with the right mindset to be honest.

    Serious? Thought 21 year olds would be a bit wrinkly and auld for you. 21 year old skin is s00000 much less elastic than 17 year olds god


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    #166
    Roquentin
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    green_screen wrote: »
    The fact that paddy is so attracted to 17 year olds worries me tbh.

    17 year olds are, in general, emotionally immature, and still finding themselves. That a man in his mid 20s finds that attractive is more than a little bit creepy.

    you are confusing attraction with actually chasing after them. every bloke that sees an attractive woman is attracted to her. the sub conscious mind doesnt deal in age. it sees what it deems attractive and responds. the conscious mind however realizes that like you say they are too young (which i agree) and says they are not worth chasing.

    You could take a 90 year old woman and if she looked like mila kunis, you would be attracted to her. The sub conscious mind has evolved through millions of years of evolutions and relies on visual cues. The conscious mind that only takes in age is about 3000 years old at best


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    #167
    Fat Christy
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    If someone wasn't my type, I would just tell them they weren't my type. Telling someone you wouldn't go near them with a barge pole because they are short/fat/skinny/hairy is downright rude. Them people need to cop on to themselves. Who honestly does that?

    In saying that, you can't be attracted to everyone. People have certain types they go for. I like athletic men or at least I do subconsciously. I've always had slim bf's with athletic figures. It's quite funny because I'm a tall, broad woman, carrying a bitta of weight and I'm quite strong.


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    #168
    Beaner1
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    Women like bigger men because there's more dick to go around.


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    #169
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,057 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Beaner1 wrote: »
    Women like bigger men because there's more dick to go around.

    Aye, poor Tom and Harry can't get a look in. Dick is all she wants.


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    #170
    bb1234567
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    It would make me so uncomfortable having a young daughter and knowing that older men like certain posters on here think of them in that way


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    #171
    bb1234567
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    Fat Christy wrote: »
    If someone wasn't my type, I would just tell them they weren't my type. Telling someone you wouldn't go near them with a barge pole because they are short/fat/skinny/hairy is downright rude. Them people need to cop on to themselves. Who honestly does that?

    In saying that, you can't be attracted to everyone. People have certain types they go for. I like athletic men or at least I do subconsciously. I've always had slim bf's with athletic figures. It's quite funny because I'm a tall, broad woman, carrying a bitta of weight and I'm quite strong.
    Awful people, bad on the inside, those people will end up lonely and depressed when their looks fade and they figure out people only liked them because they were hot , nature always balances out:)


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    #172
    paddy1990
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    bb1234567 wrote: »
    It would make me so uncomfortable having a young daughter and knowing that older men like certain posters on here think of them in that way


    I'm afraid men are wired to find prime fertile women attractive. Its strange that a man is deemed weird for finding a 17 year old attractive but it's ok if he finds Hillary Clinton attractive.

    You only have to go to a shopping centre on a busy day to see which women are turning mens heads. You might be surprised.


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    #173
    bb1234567
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'm afraid men are wired to find prime fertile women attractive. Its strange that a man is deemed weird for finding a 17 year old attractive but it's ok if he finds Hillary Clinton attractive.

    You only have to go to a shopping centre on a busy day to see which women are turning mens heads. You might be surprised.

    Its deemed weird because she cant even legally drink in america for another 4 years, thats why.
    I know what you mean but it puts me off ever wanting a daughter tbh...


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    #174
    Fat Christy
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'm afraid men are wired to find prime fertile women attractive. Its strange that a man is deemed weird for finding a 17 year old attractive but it's ok if he finds Hillary Clinton attractive.

    You only have to go to a shopping centre on a busy day to see which women are turning mens heads. You might be surprised.

    I'm 22, would ya milk me?


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    #175
    Roquentin
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'm afraid men are wired to find prime fertile women attractive. Its strange that a man is deemed weird for finding a 17 year old attractive but it's ok if he finds Hillary Clinton attractive.

    You only have to go to a shopping centre on a busy day to see which women are turning mens heads. You might be surprised.

    this is true. from an evolutionary psychology point of view, a man is designed to see that woman as attractive. The most popular search word with regards porn is teen. Google it if you think i am joking....

    But most men are not stupid enough to go off with a young one(18+). im 27 years old and would go near them. Too much stress.

    our minds dont respond to age. it responds to what it sees as attractive. A 17 year old girl who is one day from turning 18, doesnt suddenly become attractive when she turns 18 ok. the mind doesnt think like that. i wish it did because we would have no sex offenders.

    The mind is still very animal like, even with the tool of language. and sexual attraction is always visual and is highly influenced by the sub conscious mind.


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    #176
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,057 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    Its deemed weird because she cant even legally drink in america for another 4 years, thats why.
    I know what you mean but it puts me off ever wanting a daughter tbh...

    What's America got to do with it?


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    #177
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,057 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    Its deemed weird because she cant even legally drink in america for another 4 years, thats why.
    I know what you mean but it puts me off ever wanting a daughter tbh...

    What has America got to do with it?


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    #178
    Roquentin
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    It would make me so uncomfortable having a young daughter and knowing that older men like certain posters on here think of them in that way

    opinions are like heads, everyone has one.....

    the minute you meet or see anyone of the opposite sex (or the sex you are into). you make inferences about them. everyone you meet in life you label


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    #179
    pwurple
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    paddy1990 wrote: »
    I'm afraid men are wired to find prime fertile women attractive. Its strange that a man is deemed weird for finding a 17 year old attractive but it's ok if he finds Hillary Clinton attractive.

    It's beyond creepy when guys have to go to teen discos to pick up their preferred type of girl. 17 year olds can't even get into a pub. It's certainly not how all men are wired, only a few.


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    #180
    Sauve
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    Mod

    Cut out the bickering and sniping. It's pathetic tbh.
    If you have a problem with a post, report it and move on.


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    #181
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,057 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Just a quick question: how old is too old to be going for 18 year olds?


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