Fellas buyin' drinks for young wans

AgileMyth

Jaxxy wrote: »

Why shouldn't they go to a club if they're not on the pull?

Why would anyone want to go to a club if they're not on the pull?

AgileMyth

where do i go from here wrote: »

I buy random fellas drinks the odd time I'm on the razzle.

What does this make me?:eek:

I believe the term is 'homosexual'.

recylingbin

I hope she had the decency to wash the cum out of hair before she hit you with that bullsh*te.

boomkatalog

I accepted a drink from a random lad one night. I asked for a vodka, he got me sambucca or something. On taking the first sip of it, he stuck his hand up my skirt and grabbed my arse.

I don't accept drinks anymore >.>

Belle E. Flops

A friend of mine is disappointed with a night out if the majority of her drinks aren't bought for her by guys. In fact last Stephen's night she completely led a guy on because she knew he'd buy her as many drinks as she wanted. Once she'd had enough she ran off and left him standing there like an eeijit!

recylingbin

boomkatalog wrote: »

I accepted a drink from a random lad one night. I asked for a vodka, he got me sambucca or something. On taking the first sip of it, he stuck his hand up my skirt and grabbed my arse.

I don't accept drinks anymore >.>

I was a bit drunk.
Sorry about that.

boomkatalog

recylingbin wrote: »

I was a bit drunk.
Sorry about that.

What a jerk!
You could've at least got me the drink I asked for!

recylingbin

boomkatalog wrote: »

What a jerk!
You could've at least got me the drink I asked for!

I knew you'd want a mixer for the voddy as well and I would have felt obliged to touch more than your arse then. For your sake, I got you the sammy.
Can't accuse me of not being a gentleman.

G-Money

I barely even buy drinks for my friends! There's no way I'd buy a drink for some girl I'd just met.

Or if you insist on it, just make sure she buys the first round.

G-Money

Belle E. Flops wrote: »

A friend of mine is disappointed with a night out if the majority of her drinks aren't bought for her by guys. In fact last Stephen's night she completely led a guy on because she knew he'd buy her as many drinks as she wanted. Once she'd had enough she ran off and left him standing there like an eeijit!

And you are friends with this girl?

Jaxxy

AgileMyth wrote: »

Why would anyone want to go to a club if they're not on the pull?

To socialise with their friends? To have a dance? To have a few drinks in a bar that stays open later?

scholar007

recylingbin wrote: »

I would have felt obliged to touch more than your arse then. For your sake, I got you the sammy.

She got the Sammy and then he got the Chlammy

PlayGirl

Was with a friend a few years ago at a club and two guys came up to us (already waiting at the bar to be served) offering us drinks, I said no, but thanks, and my friend gave me the evil eyes and accepted the drinks for us, I said no again, but was too late. I then said thanks to the lads, and said to the friend let's go over to the smoking area (I don't smoke but felt awkward, she does) she whispered to me I was being rude and they just bought us drinks, that I have to at least talk to them. She then proceeds to go off kissing one of them, leaving me standing like a numpty with the other. Felt very awkward and bad about the whole situation, also lost respect for the 'friend'.

floorpie

If some loser wants to lavish drinks upon a girl in the hopes that he'll get felt up then he deserves to lose his money. OP's girl may or may not be sucking the guys off in the jacks, but them buying her drinks doesn't prove ****, so don't listen to em, OP. And if you've never seen guys trying to impress girls by buying them stuff then ye need to pay more attention, it's probably the most common 'flirting' tactic there is.

And all the people in the thread who are sore-arsed about a girl 'taking advantage' by taking drinks without intending to score are sad cases. Rely more on your personality than your sad-case debt-ridden wallet and this will never be a problem for you.

(my wallet is debt ridden too but for different reasons )

scholar007

PlayGirl wrote: »

Was with a friend a few years ago at a club and two guys came up to us (already waiting at the bar to be served) offering us drinks, I said no, but thanks, and my friend gave me the evil eyes and accepted the drinks for us, I said no again, but was too late. I then said thanks to the lads, and said to the friend let's go over to the smoking area (I don't smoke but felt awkward, she does) she whispered to me I was being rude and they just bought us drinks, that I have to at least talk to them. She then proceeds to go off kissing one of them, leaving me standing like a numpty with the other. Felt very awkward and bad about the whole situation, also lost respect for the 'friend'.

Your friend sounds like a good caring person -

Kev.OC

After reading through this thread now i feel like a fool for occasionally buying people A drink (notice the "A" and that it's not followed with "few").

I don't buy some random chick a drink and then expect her to leave with me. I just do it to be nice. But maybe that's just me. Get a few pints in me and i get generous to everyone.

Cawk n bawllz

Jaxxy wrote: »

To socialise with their friends? To have a dance? To have a few drinks in a bar that stays open later?

To have a few drinks in a place that stays open late, yes. That would be the main attraction for me I guess and at that it's not much of an attraction.
But... to socialise? The nightclub version of socialising is screaming in eachothers' ears yet still not hearing a word anyone is saying and just nodding and smiling. It's horrible.
And... dancing.... what's with this passion for dance that women have? I personally don't find it a fun or interesting thing to do not even in the slightest. And none of you are professional dancers, you just go out there and bop about and girate and "get low on da flo" whatever that's supposed to achieve. You're just out there for the lads to see you and revel in the fact that they can look but they can't touch.
And guys..... honestly..... you don't enjoy it in the slightest do you? Own up. It's just to get near the girls, get the shift and drop the hand.
None of you give two ****s about dancing.

Sky King

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

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I like your username.

Jaxxy

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

To have a few drinks in a place that stays open late, yes. That would be the main attraction for me I guess and at that it's not much of an attraction.
But... to socialise? The nightclub version of socialising is screaming in eachothers' ears yet still not hearing a word anyone is saying and just nodding and smiling. It's horrible.
And... dancing.... what's with this passion for dance that women have? I personally don't find it a fun or interesting thing to do not even in the slightest. And none of you are professional dancers, you just go out there and bop about and girate and "get low on da flo" whatever that's supposed to achieve. You're just out there for the lads to see you and revel in the fact that they can look but they can't touch.
And guys..... honestly..... you don't enjoy it in the slightest do you? Own up. It's just to get near the girls, get the shift and drop the hand.
None of you give two ****s about dancing.

The only reason women dance in night clubs is to taunt men with what they can't have? Wtf, I swear, some men have ****ed up notions. Just because you don't like it and don't see the appeal doesn't mean everyone else is the same.

Cawk n bawllz

Jaxxy wrote: »

The only reason women dance in night clubs is to taunt men with what they can't have? Wtf, I swear, some men have ****ed up notions. Just because you don't like it and don't see the appeal doesn't mean everyone else is the same.

I understand the appeal of certain types of dance. Some forms of dance are poetry in motion and take a lot of skill and when mastered the performer can achieve a state of euphoria. But in nightclub it's just throwing your arms about and wiggling your arse to THUMP THUMP THUMP THUMP!
I'm baffled at where the fun is in that kind of "dancing". I think people are doing it because it's... just what ya do when you're there.
And if girls aren't doing it to show off to men why are most girls' array of dance moves sexually provocative?

DL Saint

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

To have a few drinks in a place that stays open late, yes. That would be the main attraction for me I guess and at that it's not much of an attraction.
But... to socialise? The nightclub version of socialising is screaming in eachothers' ears yet still not hearing a word anyone is saying and just nodding and smiling. It's horrible.
And... dancing.... what's with this passion for dance that women have? I personally don't find it a fun or interesting thing to do not even in the slightest. And none of you are professional dancers, you just go out there and bop about and girate and "get low on da flo" whatever that's supposed to achieve. You're just out there for the lads to see you and revel in the fact that they can look but they can't touch.
And guys..... honestly..... you don't enjoy it in the slightest do you? Own up. It's just to get near the girls, get the shift and drop the hand.
None of you give two ****s about dancing.

Completely agree with this. I often see the girls with the short skirts girating on the dancefloor and looking at all the lads as if to lure them in, then when a guy gets too close to her she does the backstep away and goes onto her next victim. These girls are teases and feed on attention. When I see these bi****s on the dancefloor I do my best to pay them no attention, more often than not this drives them berserk and they put in extra effort to get up in my face. These are the same kind of teases who blag drinks off guys leading them on.

I just find it hilarious that they are so attention hungry and need so much of an ego boost. Of course not all women who dance in nightclubs are teases, but they are gradually becoming a majority :rolleyes:

7Sins

"Please can I buy you a drink, just talk to me for five minutes so I don't have to spend all night in the corner by myself"

7Sins

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Jaxxy wrote: »

To socialise with their friends? To have a dance? To have a few drinks in a bar that stays open later?

To have a few drinks in a place that stays open late, yes. That would be the main attraction for me I guess and at that it's not much of an attraction.
But... to socialise? The nightclub version of socialising is screaming in eachothers' ears yet still not hearing a word anyone is saying and just nodding and smiling. It's horrible.
And... dancing.... what's with this passion for dance that women have? I personally don't find it a fun or interesting thing to do not even in the slightest. And none of you are professional dancers, you just go out there and bop about and girate and "get low on da flo" whatever that's supposed to achieve. You're just out there for the lads to see you and revel in the fact that they can look but they can't touch.
And guys..... honestly..... you don't enjoy it in the slightest do you? Own up. It's just to get near the girls, get the shift and drop the hand.
None of you give two ****s about dancing.

I agree, you're 110% bang on.

gmac102

i buy my own drinks r if im in rounds with friends

i wouldnt let anyone buy me a drink, even on dates im a bit weird about it and would only go into rounds... i pay my own way i dont wana feel like i own anyone anything

Jaxxy

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

I understand the appeal of certain types of dance. Some forms of dance are poetry in motion and take a lot of skill and when mastered the performer can achieve a state of euphoria. But in nightclub it's just throwing your arms about and wiggling your arse to THUMP THUMP THUMP THUMP!
I'm baffled at where the fun is in that kind of "dancing". I think people are doing it because it's... just what ya do when you're there.
And if girls aren't doing it to show off to men why are most girls' array of dance moves sexually provocative?

It's the modern evolution of dance, no? It's just the style nowadays really. I just disagree that every woman who dances in a nightclub is doing it to tease other men, or that you shouldn't go to nightclubs if you're not single. I think that's ridiculous. I go out with my friends to clubs every so often, enjoy having a bop and a few drinks. I have a boyfriend.

I understand that your girlfriend's actions in clubs are seriously questionable, but not all women are like that.

XxMCRxBabyxX

DL Saint wrote: »

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

To have a few drinks in a place that stays open late, yes. That would be the main attraction for me I guess and at that it's not much of an attraction.
But... to socialise? The nightclub version of socialising is screaming in eachothers' ears yet still not hearing a word anyone is saying and just nodding and smiling. It's horrible.
And... dancing.... what's with this passion for dance that women have? I personally don't find it a fun or interesting thing to do not even in the slightest. And none of you are professional dancers, you just go out there and bop about and girate and "get low on da flo" whatever that's supposed to achieve. You're just out there for the lads to see you and revel in the fact that they can look but they can't touch.
And guys..... honestly..... you don't enjoy it in the slightest do you? Own up. It's just to get near the girls, get the shift and drop the hand.
None of you give two ****s about dancing.

Completely agree with this. I often see the girls with the short skirts girating on the dancefloor and looking at all the lads as if to lure them in, then when a guy gets too close to her she does the backstep away and goes onto her next victim. These girls are teases and feed on attention. When I see these bi****s on the dancefloor I do my best to pay them no attention, more often than not this drives them berserk and they put in extra effort to get up in my face. These are the same kind of teases who blag drinks off guys leading them on.

I just find it hilarious that they are so attention hungry and need so much of an ego boost. Of course not all women who dance in nightclubs are teases, but they are gradually becoming a majority :rolleyes:

I would agree that there are some girls that do that but there are plenty that don't as well.

My only aim when on a dancefloor is to have a laugh. I'm most likely to be found there when the proper cheesy stuff is being played giving it socks and laughing my head off. Though in fairness, my dancing isn't the type that could attract anyone

PASSION8MAN

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Any time I've had the misfortune to end up in a club populated by drink freeloaders I have the good fortune to be unique enough* looking to rarely get bothered by them.

On the off chance that one of them does approach me the exchange usually goes along the following lines:

Her: Hi.
Me: Hi.
Her: Would you like to buy me a drink?
Me: Would you like to buy me a drink?
Her: Eh.... No
Me: But how are you gonna sleep with me if you don't get me drunk?
Her (disgusted): I don't want to sleep with you.
Me: Then why are you offering to buy me drinks?
Her (confused): I'm not offering to buy you a drink.
Me: You probably should - I'm a bit slutty when I'm drunk.
Her: Ugh. *walks off*
Me: Ok bye now, thanks for playing!



*ugly enough

Thats brilliant Im stealing it

7Sins

Jaxxy wrote: »

It's the modern evolution of dance, no? It's just the style nowadays really. I just disagree that every woman who dances in a nightclub is doing it to tease other men, or that you shouldn't go to nightclubs if you're not single.

No it's not.

cosanostra

I used to buy random girls drink as an ice breaker but it doesn't really get you anywhere the girl just sees you as a mug and takes your free drink, the reason i stopped doing it was after i bought a girl a drink she went over to her mates and next thing her mate came over beside me at the bar looking for a drink.

PASSION8MAN

I think the reason most guys offer to buy a drink is because
its his only chat up line and buying a female something
buys a bit of her time .

I think its the worst thing a fella can do in a pub or club
because almost every woman has at one time been
bought a drink from some guy only to have him follow her
around all night expecting a shift or sex .

so as soon as a fella say's "would you like a drink"
she feels the same way about him as she did with
the guy who expected sex from her in previous
similar situations .

theres plenty of cool girls who will buy a round aswell

Ive met plenty of scottish girls that are great for buying rounds
scottish girls are great fun to drink with .