Fellas buyin' drinks for young wans

Cawk n bawllz

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

44leto

I never did it, nor would I.

Amirani

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

arybvtcw0eolkf

I hate free loading bitches.

John Doe1

Oh wait are you mr. cawk n balls? well this is awkward.....

minidazzler

Um, no. If I have been chatting to/scoring someone and they seem like an alright person and I have a good chance of doing the horizontal tango, I'll get them one. But I won't buy a girl I haven't talked to a drink, and I will generally be able to suss out if a girl is just looking for drinks.

mikom

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).

How else are you gonna administer roofies?

She's cheating on you

moco

Unless things have changed drastically in the last few years since I was in a proper club, her story is bull****. Unless she's doing a hell of a lot of flirting with these guys.

DrumSteve

I reckon you should get checked for std's

Cawk n bawllz

NiallSparky wrote: »

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

I think it's disgraceful that girls would just take free drinks from a guy and be on their way but on the other hand if the guys are silly enough to do it then the girls are gonna take advantage of that.
But I'm supposed to believe that my girlfriend gets all these free drinks from lovely charitable men who she's not flirthing with or kissing beforehand.

Yakult

Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.

El Weirdo

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat.

lol

Arawn

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

mackg

Yakult wrote: »

Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.

Same here cost of one drink and their taxi fare home!

El Weirdo

Arawn wrote: »

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

... and she lets all of them do her up the Gary.

Feeona

It's very bad form for your girlfriend to be accepting drinks from guys when she's going out with you-She's not treating them with respect, and even worse she's not treating you with respect.

Drop her like a hot potato!

Scuid Mhór

Arawn wrote: »

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

yes that's why she's a soon to be ex :rolleyes:

7Sins

It's not rocket science lads.

ImpossibleDuck

Only done it once and that was because we ordered one drink too many so I gave the extra one to a nice lass nearby :P

PrincessLola

Personally I feel put off when a man wants to buy me a drink, I don't like the idea that he feels I owe him something.

I'm a feminist. I buy my own drink, talk to whoever I want, and don't feel indebted to any man

Antomus Prime

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

Sounds like your GF is a scabby bítch!!! It's happened to me a few times that girls have come up to me and started flirting and then ask me to buy them a drink. They all get the same response.... "Why would I buy you a drink if you came over to talk to me?" The look on their faces to be priceless!!!

But judging by most blokes I know there's no way in hell people are buying her drinks if she's not making it clear in the dudes head that he's gonna get somewhere!!

NiallSparky wrote: »

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

Exactly!!!

Chuck Stone

If a guy is stupid enough to buy girls drinks because they smile at him then he deserves to lose his cash.

My old Ma said 'a fool and his money are easily parted'*





*shortly after she cleaned me out in a game of poker.

wandatowell

Fcuk that!!!! Only creeps and weak men buy women drinks as a way to introduce themselves,




I much prefer Plenty Of Fish

Cawk n bawllz

wandatowell wrote: »

I much prefer Plenty Of Fish

Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.

biko

Khari Echoing Karate wrote: »

I hate free loading bitches.

Hate the game, not the playa

TheZohanS

You're dating a hooker.

wandatowell

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.

Couldnt tell ya tbh!! Stay in and watch porn. If you are meant to be with somebody, that person will crawl in through your window............................. IF ye are meant to be together

Sky King

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club.

No. First they buy her a drink, and then she drinks it, and then they slip their hands into her pants and drink of her like a bucket.

Eric Cartman

girls who expect / want lads to buy drinks/dinner/taxi's in exchange for sex are little more than inefficient prostitutes

Cawk n bawllz

wandatowell wrote: »

Couldnt tell ya tbh!! Stay in and watch porn. If you are meant to be with somebody, that person will crawl in through your window............................. IF ye are meant to be together

Well it is true that men who stay in and watch porn have the most success with women.

Siuin

If you wanna ride in the car, you need to put petrol in first!
Nah, I don't drink

Jaxxy

It's not totally uncommon for women to con men out of drinks, I've seen this, but taxi fare and night club entrance fees too? Off total randomers? Your girlfriend is full of **** OP.

Logical Fallacy

Jaxxy wrote: »

It's not totally uncommon for women to con men out of drinks, I've seen this, but taxi fare and night club entrance fees too? Off total randomers? Your girlfriend is full of **** OP.

No doubt there are guys out there who will fall for that ****, but there are not enough of them in the world for the OP's girlfriend to keep running into them.

krudler

"hi!!!! whats your name?"
"krudler"
"will you get me a drink?"
"sure wait here"
*goes to talk to someone who isnt a freeloading twat*

RichieC

I would never do that. mind you I would never advise a man to be as **** at me at pulling :c

orourkeda

Siuin wrote: »

If you wanna ride in the car, you need to put petrol in first!
Nah, I don't drink

And when you've finished dipping your wick you have to pay for the oil too.

Red21

I often ask women what they'd like to drink, when they tell me, I show em where their beverage of choice can be got and give them a rough idea of the costs involved. Its a great ice breaker.

JohnMearsheimer

I've never done that. If I'd been talking to a girl for a good while over the course of the night I'd offer to buy one.

Once a girl I'd never set eyes on before came up to me and demanded I buy her a drink, not even a please. Weird.

ZzubZzub

(AH Response: Your girlfriend IS buying her own drinks. By giving all the guys a quickie in the jacks.)


Bollocks to the lot ye.

OP, I have on many occasion had drinks bought for me. I do not in anyway flirt, flutter my eye lashes or in any way insinuate that they will get lucky should they ply me with drink.

It usually happens after you get chatting for a bit. If I'm bought one, I offer the guy one back but 9 times out of 10 that offer is refused.

I will keep on chatting if it's someone I'm getting along with, and to avoid looking like a scabby bitch I will drop that I have a boyfriend as early into conversation so they know I'm not looking for anything extra.

So what if your girlfriend is having drinks for free? It doesn't mean she's doing anything for them.

If a fella wants to buy a girl a drink, where's the harm?! (So long as they know it's just a drink!)

Loanshark Blues

I can barely afford to buy drinks for myself. I'd give them a sip of my naggin though if they were sound.

mattjack

By the sounds of things OP , she's not just your girlfriend ..have you considered stalking following her on her nights out.

paddy kerins

What is this 'the shift'?

Red21

Cleeo wrote: »

OP, I have on many occasion had drinks bought for me. I do not in anyway flirt, flutter my eye lashes or in any way insinuate that they will get lucky should they ply me with drink.

It usually happens after you get chatting for a bit. If I'm bought one, I offer the guy one back but 9 times out of 10 that offer is refused.

I will keep on chatting if it's someone I'm getting along with, and to avoid looking like a scabby bitch I will drop that I have a boyfriend as early into conversation so they know I'm not looking for anything extra.



If a fella wants to buy a girl a drink, where's the harm?! (So long as they know it's just a drink!)

So you get on well with idiots :rolleyes:

Jaxxy

Cleeo wrote: »

(AH Response: Your girlfriend IS buying her own drinks. By giving all the guys a quickie in the jacks.)


Bollocks to the lot ye.

OP, I have on many occasion had drinks bought for me. I do not in anyway flirt, flutter my eye lashes or in any way insinuate that they will get lucky should they ply me with drink.

It usually happens after you get chatting for a bit. If I'm bought one, I offer the guy one back but 9 times out of 10 that offer is refused.

I will keep on chatting if it's someone I'm getting along with, and to avoid looking like a scabby bitch I will drop that I have a boyfriend as early into conversation so they know I'm not looking for anything extra.

So what if your girlfriend is having drinks for free? It doesn't mean she's doing anything for them.

If a fella wants to buy a girl a drink, where's the harm?! (So long as they know it's just a drink!)

His girlfriend maintains she doesn't have to spend any money on drinks. She's also on occasion getting her taxi fare and club entrance fees paid for. What's the harm? Well there's no harm done really, except the harm done to the easily manipulated fool's wallet.

This attitude really pisses me off. When someone I do not know offers to be me a drink I politely decline. I buy my own gargle, thanks. If they come back with one for me anyway (which is rare, since I've already said NO THANK YOU) I don't "offer" to buy them one back to give them the opportunity to refuse my offer, I just go up to the bar and get them one.

Even playing field and paying your own way ftw.

ZzubZzub

Red21 wrote: »

So you get on well with idiots :rolleyes:

I'm in after hours am I not?!

Jaxxy wrote: »

I don't "offer" to buy them one back to give them the opportunity to refuse my offer, I just go up to the bar and get them one.

Unfortunately, I don't know every drink concoction by the look of it.. Hence asking...

And I should of clarified, if I'm straight up offered one, I would decline. If I'm at the bar, and someone buys it before I do, hey ho.

It's harmless IF it is an even playing field ie the guy knows that the girls not gonna get with him for a drink...

If someone wants to waste their money, let them at it.

krudler

paddy kerins wrote: »

What is this 'the shift'?

go to Coppers, you'll find out in about 2 minutes.

bonzodog2

Scuid Mhór wrote: »

yes that's why she's a soon to be ex :rolleyes:

So, what are you waiting for?

7Sins

krudler wrote: »

go to Coppers, you'll find out in about 2 minutes.

What are coppers?

stovelid

Dose one of the free drinks with laxatives for the craic.

ringadingding

This is where rohypnol levels the playing field ;-)