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Fellas buyin' drinks for young wans

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  • 13-12-2011 7:01pm
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    Cawk n bawllz
    Registered Users Posts: 99 ✭✭


    Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
    Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

    Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
    My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
    To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

    I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

    So... what do you club goers think?
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    44leto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    I never did it, nor would I.


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    Amirani
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    Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.


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    arybvtcw0eolkf
    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    I hate free loading bitches.


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    John Doe1
    Registered Users Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭John Doe1


    Oh wait are you mr. cawk n balls? well this is awkward.....


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    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Um, no. If I have been chatting to/scoring someone and they seem like an alright person and I have a good chance of doing the horizontal tango, I'll get them one. But I won't buy a girl I haven't talked to a drink, and I will generally be able to suss out if a girl is just looking for drinks.


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    mikom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).

    How else are you gonna administer roofies?


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    AdamD
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    She's cheating on you


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    moco
    Registered Users Posts: 972 ✭✭✭moco


    Unless things have changed drastically in the last few years since I was in a proper club, her story is bull****. Unless she's doing a hell of a lot of flirting with these guys.


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    DrumSteve
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    I reckon you should get checked for std's


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    Cawk n bawllz
    Registered Users Posts: 99 ✭✭Cawk n bawllz


    NiallSparky wrote: »
    Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

    I think it's disgraceful that girls would just take free drinks from a guy and be on their way but on the other hand if the guys are silly enough to do it then the girls are gonna take advantage of that.
    But I'm supposed to believe that my girlfriend gets all these free drinks from lovely charitable men who she's not flirthing with or kissing beforehand.


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    Yakult
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators Posts: 7,941 Mod ✭✭✭✭Yakult


    Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.


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    El Weirdo
    Registered Users Posts: 11,646 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat.
    lol


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    Arawn
    Registered Users Posts: 3,158 ✭✭✭Arawn


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
    Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

    Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
    My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
    To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

    I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

    So... what do you club goers think?
    your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink


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    mackg
    Registered Users Posts: 3,938 ✭✭✭mackg


    Yakult wrote: »
    Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.

    Same here cost of one drink and their taxi fare home!


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    El Weirdo
    Registered Users Posts: 11,646 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    Arawn wrote: »
    your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink
    ... and she lets all of them do her up the Gary.


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    Sitec
    Registered Users Posts: 2,964 ✭✭✭Sitec


    I was out last night and a one came up to me, started talking to me then asked for a fag! One of the lads butted in and said "there's a machine at the front of the bar". Mane bitch.


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    Feeona
    Registered Users Posts: 1,633 ✭✭✭Feeona


    It's very bad form for your girlfriend to be accepting drinks from guys when she's going out with you-She's not treating them with respect, and even worse she's not treating you with respect.

    Drop her like a hot potato!


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    Scuid Mhór
    Registered Users Posts: 2,326 ✭✭✭Scuid Mhór


    Arawn wrote: »
    your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

    yes that's why she's a soon to be ex :rolleyes:


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    7Sins
    Closed Accounts Posts: 526 ✭✭✭7Sins


    It's not rocket science lads.


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    ImpossibleDuck
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    Only done it once and that was because we ordered one drink too many so I gave the extra one to a nice lass nearby :P


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    PrincessLola
    Registered Users Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    Personally I feel put off when a man wants to buy me a drink, I don't like the idea that he feels I owe him something.

    I'm a feminist. I buy my own drink, talk to whoever I want, and don't feel indebted to any man :)


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    Antomus Prime
    Registered Users Posts: 2,463 ✭✭✭Antomus Prime


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
    Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

    Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
    My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
    To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

    I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

    So... what do you club goers think?

    Sounds like your GF is a scabby bítch!!! It's happened to me a few times that girls have come up to me and started flirting and then ask me to buy them a drink. They all get the same response.... "Why would I buy you a drink if you came over to talk to me?" The look on their faces to be priceless!!!

    But judging by most blokes I know there's no way in hell people are buying her drinks if she's not making it clear in the dudes head that he's gonna get somewhere!!
    NiallSparky wrote: »
    Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

    Exactly!!!


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    Chuck Stone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,030 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    If a guy is stupid enough to buy girls drinks because they smile at him then he deserves to lose his cash.

    My old Ma said 'a fool and his money are easily parted'*





    *shortly after she cleaned me out in a game of poker.


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    wandatowell
    Registered Users Posts: 8,435 ✭✭✭wandatowell


    Fcuk that!!!! Only creeps and weak men buy women drinks as a way to introduce themselves,




    I much prefer Plenty Of Fish :D


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    Cawk n bawllz
    Registered Users Posts: 99 ✭✭Cawk n bawllz


    wandatowell wrote: »
    I much prefer Plenty Of Fish :D

    Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.


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    biko
    Registered Users Posts: 81,223 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Khari Echoing Karate wrote: »
    I hate free loading bitches.
    Hate the game, not the playa


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    TheZohanS
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    You're dating a hooker.


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    wandatowell
    Registered Users Posts: 8,435 ✭✭✭wandatowell


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.

    Couldnt tell ya tbh!! Stay in and watch porn. If you are meant to be with somebody, that person will crawl in through your window............................. IF ye are meant to be together


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    Sky King
    Registered Users Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    Cawk n bawllz wrote: »
    My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club.

    No. First they buy her a drink, and then she drinks it, and then they slip their hands into her pants and drink of her like a bucket.


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    Eric Cartman
    Registered Users Posts: 26,282 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    girls who expect / want lads to buy drinks/dinner/taxi's in exchange for sex are little more than inefficient prostitutes


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