Fellas buyin' drinks for young wans

Cawk n bawllz · 13-12-2011 07:01PM #1

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

44leto · 13-12-2011 07:03PM

I never did it, nor would I.

Amirani · 13-12-2011 07:03PM

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

arybvtcw0eolkf · 13-12-2011 07:04PM

I hate free loading bitches.

John Doe1 · 13-12-2011 07:04PM

Oh wait are you mr. cawk n balls? well this is awkward.....

minidazzler · 13-12-2011 07:05PM

Um, no. If I have been chatting to/scoring someone and they seem like an alright person and I have a good chance of doing the horizontal tango, I'll get them one. But I won't buy a girl I haven't talked to a drink, and I will generally be able to suss out if a girl is just looking for drinks.

mikom · 13-12-2011 07:05PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).

How else are you gonna administer roofies?

13-12-2011 07:05PM

She's cheating on you

moco · 13-12-2011 07:05PM

Unless things have changed drastically in the last few years since I was in a proper club, her story is bull****. Unless she's doing a hell of a lot of flirting with these guys.

DrumSteve · 13-12-2011 07:06PM

I reckon you should get checked for std's

Cawk n bawllz · 13-12-2011 07:06PM

NiallSparky wrote: »

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

I think it's disgraceful that girls would just take free drinks from a guy and be on their way but on the other hand if the guys are silly enough to do it then the girls are gonna take advantage of that.
But I'm supposed to believe that my girlfriend gets all these free drinks from lovely charitable men who she's not flirthing with or kissing beforehand.

Yakult · 13-12-2011 07:07PM

Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.

El Weirdo · 13-12-2011 07:07PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat.

lol

Arawn · 13-12-2011 07:10PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

mackg · 13-12-2011 07:11PM

Yakult wrote: »

Never have myself but I have woman friends who would go out with €5 for one drink, then sponge the rest off what ever guys will buy it for them, no other intentions other than free drink.

Same here cost of one drink and their taxi fare home!

El Weirdo · 13-12-2011 07:12PM

Arawn wrote: »

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

... and she lets all of them do her up the Gary.

Feeona · 13-12-2011 07:13PM

It's very bad form for your girlfriend to be accepting drinks from guys when she's going out with you-She's not treating them with respect, and even worse she's not treating you with respect.

Drop her like a hot potato!

Scuid Mhór · 13-12-2011 07:15PM

Arawn wrote: »

your soon to be ex is lying, she gives blowjobs to anyone who gives her a drink

yes that's why she's a soon to be ex :rolleyes:

7Sins · 13-12-2011 07:18PM

It's not rocket science lads.

ImpossibleDuck · 13-12-2011 07:18PM

Only done it once and that was because we ordered one drink too many so I gave the extra one to a nice lass nearby :P

PrincessLola · 13-12-2011 07:28PM

Personally I feel put off when a man wants to buy me a drink, I don't like the idea that he feels I owe him something.

I'm a feminist. I buy my own drink, talk to whoever I want, and don't feel indebted to any man

Antomus Prime · 13-12-2011 07:28PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is it commonplace for guys to buy drinks for girls in nightclubs? I don't mean a fella buying drinks for his girlfriend but for guys to buy a girl drinks pretty much as his introduction to her (in the hope of taking her home obviously).
Does this happen to the extent that the girl would just arrive in the nightclub and not have to touch her purse once because of all the guys buying drinks for her?

Maybe it makes me social retard asking this but I'm not into nightclubs. I like gigs and pubs but if I end up in a nightclub I'm usually too hammered to notice what's going on around me anyway.
My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club. Sometimes their admission and taxi is paid for by some nice fellas.
To me that seems like a f**king massive pill to swallow and I'm not convinced. We've had plenty of fights about it but she sticks to that story.

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't buy drinks for women unless I've been chatting with them and it seems we're getting along. I don't just walk about with a WKD or vodka and coke and just hand it to the nearest good looking girl.

So... what do you club goers think?

Sounds like your GF is a scabby bítch!!! It's happened to me a few times that girls have come up to me and started flirting and then ask me to buy them a drink. They all get the same response.... "Why would I buy you a drink if you came over to talk to me?" The look on their faces to be priceless!!!

But judging by most blokes I know there's no way in hell people are buying her drinks if she's not making it clear in the dudes head that he's gonna get somewhere!!

NiallSparky wrote: »

Meh, any girl expecting a drink as an introduction isn't worth pursuing IMO.

Exactly!!!

Chuck Stone · 13-12-2011 07:33PM

If a guy is stupid enough to buy girls drinks because they smile at him then he deserves to lose his cash.

My old Ma said 'a fool and his money are easily parted'*

*shortly after she cleaned me out in a game of poker.

wandatowell · 13-12-2011 07:37PM

Fcuk that!!!! Only creeps and weak men buy women drinks as a way to introduce themselves,

I much prefer Plenty Of Fish

Cawk n bawllz · 13-12-2011 07:39PM

wandatowell wrote: »

I much prefer Plenty Of Fish

Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.

biko · 13-12-2011 07:41PM

Khari Echoing Karate wrote: »

I hate free loading bitches.

Hate the game, not the playa

TheZohanS · 13-12-2011 07:42PM

You're dating a hooker.

wandatowell · 13-12-2011 07:42PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

Is that website any good? I'll be back on the market very soon and I don't fancy a nightclub.

Couldnt tell ya tbh!! Stay in and watch porn. If you are meant to be with somebody, that person will crawl in through your window............................. IF ye are meant to be together

Sky King · 13-12-2011 07:48PM

Cawk n bawllz wrote: »

My girlfriend(soon to be ex) tells me she goes out to the nightclub and guys just buy her drinks. She doesn't flirt with them, she doesn't give them the shift, they just see her and buy her a drink in the hopes of getting somewhere with her but she just takes their drink and doesn't give them any further courtesy except maybe a chat. And this happens all night long and she and her friends don't have to spend a penny in the club.

No. First they buy her a drink, and then she drinks it, and then they slip their hands into her pants and drink of her like a bucket.

Eric Cartman · 13-12-2011 07:50PM

girls who expect / want lads to buy drinks/dinner/taxi's in exchange for sex are little more than inefficient prostitutes

Cawk n bawllz · 13-12-2011 07:55PM

wandatowell wrote: »

Couldnt tell ya tbh!! Stay in and watch porn. If you are meant to be with somebody, that person will crawl in through your window............................. IF ye are meant to be together

Well it is true that men who stay in and watch porn have the most success with women.

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