Things you want to say to husband/boyf/ex's/friends/family/people *MOD NOTE POST #1*

x Purple Pawprints x

Ok. You're kinda taking the p*ss now.

daenerysstormborn3

If you're still out there, please get in touch with someone, if you're not, I hope you're found soon.

SwanSky

Dear ex boyfriend,

You are a fcuking prick and you always were.

The end.

daenerysstormborn3

What were you thinking? What were you doing? Why can you still not answer any questions? This has been the weirdest, saddest Christmas ever. To say goodbye to someone my own age. For such a lovely family to say goodbye to another son, it just wasn't right.

But, the big question, where were YOU? What were YOU doing? What happened?? There are still so many unanswered questions.

I have been drinking since 4 o'clock and I feel as sober as I was in the bike procession this morning. I just can't get these questions out of my head. Why did you leave him? Did you leave him?

ItAintMeBabe

Dear You,

We're both angry, you more so than me..I don't know why, but it's been six months. I thought "Fcuk it, I've gone six months, I'm over you and this stupid row".

But it's Christmas...And I miss you, and my eyes still well up when I have to drive past your house, and I still worry about you and if you're doing ok. I don't know what I did, therefore I can't apologize for it, but at this stage I'll say a million sorry's if that's what you want. Nothing hurts like no you.

X

WinterSong

So here I am in limbo, and all because my timing in reaching out to you was so messed up. What the hell was I thinking? These days not a single logical thought goes through my head where you're concerned. I need you to anchor me. I'm making some stupid decisions but I'm trusting my instincts, like you always told me to. I can only hope it pays off in the end.

I'm not postponing this another six months, or another year, or more. I'm not letting another golden moment pass me by so that I live in regret and think about what I should have said, what I should have done. With a bit of luck, the consequences won't be more than I can handle. It's just a waiting and hoping game for the moment though, and I have all the time in the world.

ScriptedAlibi

Your arms wrapped around me like a blanket in the night

shielding me from the darkness inside and outside of my mind.

Your hand rested upon mine like a feather, providing just enough warmth

to combat the numbness I felt in that moment.

Your eyes, so genuine, gazed into mine as if they believed in me – in all of me;

as if they knew who I was and loved who I was, despite it all.

And I believed you, I believed you just for a second and it was the death of me

because then, you were gone.

boomtown123

Dear Life

Well...This christmas wasnt any different. Why does my family continuosly have to be soo messed up. I guess we know nothing different. There always has to be drama and pain somwhere.

Mam!!! Cop on and start standing up for yourself. Dad is tired of sticking up for you - you'll have no one when push comes to shove. Your nearly 60 for gods sake.

Dad!!! Im your daughter not your 24 hour counsellor. Im only 21. Please give me a break. Try stop seeing the negative side to everything! And stop expecting me to be the happy and positive person i am ALL THE TIME. Bare in mind i do have to listen to your problems and criticism every chance you get when im on my own.

2013 - please please let things be different. All im asking for is a little bit of happiness. A bit of love and a job would be nice. Thats all. And if this is too much -please please try have my family being less messed up. For the very least let me see why my mam and dad got married in the first place.

Quickly diminishing commitment to you,
C.x

WinterSong

WinterSong wrote: »

So here I am in limbo, and all because my timing in reaching out to you was so messed up. What the hell was I thinking? These days not a single logical thought goes through my head where you're concerned. I need you to anchor me. I'm making some stupid decisions but I'm trusting my instincts, like you always told me to. I can only hope it pays off in the end.

I'm not postponing this another six months, or another year, or more. I'm not letting another golden moment pass me by so that I live in regret and think about what I should have said, what I should have done. With a bit of luck, the consequences won't be more than I can handle. It's just a waiting and hoping game for the moment though, and I have all the time in the world.

You always come through for me, in a way that nobody else ever has or will. Thank you so much

Cerulean Chicken

Boyfriend,

Edit: All better, love you

LegacyUser

I lost you because you didn't get to see the real me. I made a mess of it and i'll never get that chance again. I'll never stop loving you.

thepeachyone28

Seeing you tonight set me back. I know I pulled the plug, and it's been almost a year. But I never stopped caring. Seeing you tonight, brief as it was, made me wonder if I'll ever stop caring. Can I ever care for someone else as long as I care this much for you? If only you'd treated me differently. If only you'd even appeared to care more, how different it could have been. Tonight you looked awkward. Awkward yet oddly loving. Maybe I just want you to look that way. If you do care, you didn't let on. Wouldn't blame you, the way I left you. I love you still, but it could never work. :-(

tomthetank

Dear life,

Why can I get everything right except men?

Am I choosing the wrong ones or are they choosing me? Am I the wrong person, not the person I need to be?

Please show me what I'm doing wrong.

I sort of want someone to fall asleep with.

C

x Purple Pawprints x

You're not funny. At all.

koxy

Darling,
2012 has been one of the best years of my life and its mostly thanks to you. You're my rock on good days and bad, my best friend, my lover and now I can say husband. I love you more and more each day. I cannot wait to see what 2013 has in store for us.

All my love

Koxy

seenitall

My dearest,

I want to say thank you. It has been such a hard road, all these years, and I have been such a difficult customer, haven't I? I fought you so much, I spent days and nights and years and decades fighting you, so pointedly, so pointlessly, so uselessly. But finally, finally I know: you've won.

'Gutted'. I get it, I get it, I get it. 'Gutted' is feeling like my insides have been scooped out with a spoon, and tossed away. The English language is no slouch at being descriptive. I must tell you though, dear, that I don't want to feel like this any more. Please, no, never again, you and I both know this can't go on.

I now understand everything, dear, I surrender everything. I now need you to finish what you have started all those years ago. Let the new year be the one in which you do it. My dearest, I am on my knees, I am utterly prostrate, I am begging you. PLEASE.

Dearest Universe, be merciful to me. Just this one thing I'm asking for. Touch me, take me, love me, break me. I want to feel your powerful embrace all around me and I want to slow-dance with with you until night, until dawn, until oblivion is all.

Here's to 2013.

WinterSong

Wednesday. Wednesday Wednesday Wednesday The second day of the new year, the first time I'll have seen you in 217 days. Oh, Wednesday, you're going to be a beauty.

x Purple Pawprints x

I'm sick listening to the whole lot of ye. I know I'm fat but there's no f**king need to tell me to stop eating. You ate 4 eggs and 5 slices of bread for your tea 2 hours after you're dinner and you're 16 stone, you have no right to comment on my weight. I felt like a fat heifer for the entire day and you've made me feel disgusting.

Carter12

Ma,

Why do you not like me ? Ive tried and tried to get some kind of praise from you for the life I have created for myself and all I get is digs and sly comments.

I got out of an abusive marraige and reared 3 children on my own, I now have grand-children and still nothing from you.

My granddaughter asked me yesterday where I was going, and I said "to be insulted by my Ma" Imagine that.

Well enough, im done. I will leave you alone now and you can focus on your alcoholic w@"&er son and phsycho daughter.

You know where I am if you need me !

x Purple Pawprints x

Please don't fight. I already cried myself to sleep last night, I don't want to ring in 2013 doing the same thing.

LegacyUser

When all is said and done, there is you, and there is me, and there was never any doubt.

Next year will be our year.

xxxxxx

x Purple Pawprints x

It's NYE, can you stop being ignorant for one bloody night? Like, do you hate me or something? :mad:

I'm just going to stop giving a toss soon.

WinterSong

You're supposed to be one of my best friends. You're one of the only people I really trusted, and you went and did that. I actually don't understand how you did. I don't think I've ever felt so betrayed, and I'm not even mad or sad, I just feel confused and empty. There's probably an explanation and I know you probably didn't mean to do it or didn't know what you were doing, and I really hope that's the case. For now though, it's just like...oh I don't even know. Doubt I'll be sleeping much tonight anyway.

LegacyUser

I hate the fact that you say this year is your year - not ours - still don't feel like I'm in a relationship - still no sex for the last 5 months. When we talk about it you put it back onto me - it always seems to be my fault but you're still in your own world and seem quite content to stay there. We have 2 months left - I hope things change for the better - so over all the anxiety now - DO SOMETHING! and I know you say she's a work colleague - but you don't work with her anymore so she's now a friend - a friend you tell a lot more to than me. You know exactly what I'm talking about. I was never good at coasting...

msg11

Well that was interesting. I don't see you for nearly 4 months and then you appear stay the night then vanish again. In a weird way it's a good ending, I chased and chased you since I broke up with you (my mistake).

You have brought me to the point where I have realized that nothing will ever happen and I am chasing a lost cause maybe during that chasing the last few months you might have decided to truly give it another go.

Bye Y , do hope you look after yourself and the next guy looks after you cause your a gem. Unfortunate it couldn't work, take care x

Naid23

Was not expecting you to say what you did last night and it cut me in 2 - but you're prob right in it being the best thing to do.

I just hope you can be happy again after everything ive put you through.

take care x

x Purple Pawprints x

Sitting in silence is so much fun. Not. Cop on. I know you're sick but it's like this all the time. Seriously, I feel more at home in his house and that's sad.

WinterSong

Saying goodbye to you is the hardest thing. I wonder if everything would be better if the timing was different. I'm locked in your gravitational pull and yet we're constantly being pulled away from each other, god I can't wait for the days when we're both in the same country for the same time for longer than a week.

It's hard to believe that you're real sometimes.

LegacyUser

I woke up feeling empty and lost. I thought at times that i would want this but whenever i was with you i knew it wasn't and now it has happened it's not what i want. I kept on hurting you and i don't know why, your the one good thing that happened to me. I'm sorry for letting you down yet again.

Fiona

Dear A

You can play nasty all you want but really, fcuk with me and you will regret it I can make life so difficult for you, push me closer to the edge and you will see a side to me you never saw before and I don't think you will like it.

Me

Oh and by the way, I never liked new years as it meant another crappy year with you.

Well I had the best new years ever this year, a new year, a new me and no you!!!!!!

daenerysstormborn3

You are the most horrible people. You haven't even got the decency to remain dignified in silence for the sake of the memory of B. You have taken over a year of J's life and made it absolutely nightmarish for him. First the will, now all these lies. You got half a million! Half a million!! Most people can't even spend half a million in a lifetime, nevermind half a million squandered in a few years. You spent your inheritance, you threw it away, that was your choice. Why do you think it's okay to punish your brother for the decisions made by your parents? If your father saw fit to will certain things to J then doesn't that reflect more on you than anything else? It was all his choice. You need to get over it.

I hope you realise there's no going back after this. After the things your stupid, pig ignorant wife has said. How dare she! That's you and your brother done. Your only real family left in the world and you want to throw that away for the lies of your wife and her friends and family.

I suppose if I'm honest, realistically we're probably better off without you.

tomthetank

2013

Please don't suck

Kind regards,

2012

OakeyDokey

Dear 2013

Brace Yourself!

x Purple Pawprints x

Re-reading those texts you sent made me sob my heart out. I know things are a lot better now but reading those words again brought me right back to the moment I read them for the first time. I still feel so guilty even though I had no idea I was hurting you. I shouldn't dwell on it because I know things are a lot better. Deleting those texts would be a good idea but something is telling me to keep them.

I'm hoping and praying that 2013 is a really amazing year for us. Apart from a few bumps along the road, 2012 was good. But I want this year to be so much better. We've been through a hell of a lot together in two years babe, haven't we? I love you so much and I know you love me too. You say it a lot but your actions tell me it's true and I can see it every time I look into your eyes.

Here's to 2013.

Love you with all my heart baby. xxxx


Dear you,

So Tuesday is the day it begins. Don't give up after 2 weeks this time. Stick with it. You need to do this. Not just for your health but for your confidence. You feel ugly right now and that needs to change because nobody deserves to feel this way. Think about it, once you start doing things differently and you see your body changing you'll be so much more confident. He loves your body as it is but he'll support the changes you need to make. "Do what you gotta do for you," he said. He wants you to love your body the way he does. So stick with it. Do this one thing for yourself and don't give up.

Me x

PS - Try to calm down a bit! Don't let other peoples words and actions get to you so much. Let things go and be happy!

ilovesleep

To my beautiful pet dog,
I love you so much and I can't say that often enough. I know you love food and wish I could show you how much I love you by making you frys with sausages, rashers, pudding, eggs and buying you other yummy foods like packets of ham. But I can't because you are on a diet because you are overweight and you need to lose weight so that you can live longer. But I'll make it up to you in other ways. I promise. I love cuddling up with you and I love it when you come into my bed. I love sleeping with you. You are so warm and I love using you as a pillow. You've helped me through so much. Many times you've licked the tears from my face after asshole pr1cks fcuked me about. I wish men were like you. I love your licks so much. I had so much fun taking it in turns licking my dinnerplate with you this evening. What goes through your mind at all? Anyways I just wanted to say I love you very much. Loads of loving head rubs and belly rubs, hugs and cuddles, from me xxxxxxxx

36Degrees

Dear Brain,

Please stop letting all these negative thoughts creep in and control you.
I cannot continue to live so consumed by doubt and fear.
Let it go and learn to trust more.

Me.

anncoates

Dear T,

I have long suspected that you loved the cat more than me. It's not exactly the most affirming feeling in the world to see it having its every need met while I wait for some affirmation.

I feel bad being so jealous of a cat but it was killing me when you started calling him sweet cheeks which was my nickname.

Sometimes I feel that you should just sleep with him and get it over with.

That's why I have to confess that he didn't 'go missing' last month and instead I secretly gave him to the cat rescue which I now regret and it's eating me up inside.

Yours,

A

IrishEyes19

Dear Anncoates, you need to go to that rescue and try at least to see if you can get that pet back. If not for their relief, but for your own. good luck.

Quirky-K

We have been together 11 months today. I still don't know if I love you. I know I am very fond of you, but you keep saying things, that you probably don't realise, that push me back just as soon as I think I'm getting closer.

I keep thinking about my life, with you and without you. But I like what we have got going on, and I don't want to ruin a good thing, but then I don't want to waste my time waiting to see if I really love you. Then again, it could be me, I think I still have my guard up and I may not be letting you in.

I don't know if you love me either, to be honest, I don't think you do....

Will it take time? Does it take time? Will I ever find out....?

seachto7

I had it in my hands, and I let it slip away....... 2013 . Be good to me!

x Purple Pawprints x

Going back was the first step, now don't give up. Don't fall off the wagon again. You can reach your 5% goal easily in 4 weeks. This is it.

ArtyC

I'm so sorry. I scared myself.

LegacyUser

Girl A,
I broke up with you a year and a half ago and yet, from time to time, I know you still look me up. Why is that? You’re onto your second relationship since our break up. There are things about you that I miss and for a long time I would never even consider driving through your home place because of the memories I knew doing so would bring back. But a few weeks ago when I was up the country I did precisely that. I drove down that road, and you know what I felt? I’m not sure, but it wasn’t the fear or pain that I thought I would feel. We were great together but the important word in that sentence is “were.” Part of me still loves you though; always will.

Girl B,
We texted constantly for two weeks before we finally met and it was possibly one of the most awkward dates I’ve ever been on. I’ve since discovered why that was and even though you wanted nothing romantic I agreed to stay friends. But I’m letting that slide because it’s just too hard. I have this unbearable crush on you and I don’t have the time to have crushes and to be thinking of what might be right now so it’s better this way. I do miss our chats though. Leave yourself open to possibilities – you can’t live your life the way you are doing so right now.

Girl C,
You are a cliché. A head wrecker. I usually give people the benefit of the doubt but you just love to play games, don’t you? Well you’re not playing any more games with me.

Girl D,
We haven’t met yet and we likely don’t even know that the other exists but I hope we meet soon. Doesn’t have to be tomorrow or anything; just soon. And I want us to have this great love affair – passion, obsession., all that.

ilovesleep

To my beautiful dog,

There I was earlier telling you that men are pr1cks. Selfish, selfish pr1cks. Then you came over and smothered my face in licks.

I love you.

Here we are cuddled up on the couch together and you're using my bum as a pillow and you're keeping me warm. Keep me safe and mind me please. I love you so much.

x Purple Pawprints x

He's right, you need to stand up for yourself. I know it's hard but the confidence from starting to change your body will be a massive help. You are worth standing up for.

LegacyUser

Micky,

"There is a lie in between a promise and many excuses".
Toba Beta

I gave you the benefit of the doubt at the very start. You appeared so charming and kind with that but in time it was all false from you. I still held out something like a little hope. I held a door open with a little maybe on my mind and in time that dwindled. You allowed the mess to continue and linger with your excuses. You weren't even man enough to tell me the truth. You smacked the trust that I gave you back in my face.

kat.mac

M,

Seriously, you're disgusting to me. How dare you do that, then make it out like it was my fault?! All I did was take your apology at face value, and let my defences down again. I thought you were so genuine. And talking about your deceased mother and how she would have loved me... You're a disgusting human being. I honestly have never held such ill-will against anyone. I hope you never find love again. The way you treated me, you don't deserve it. I hope those little boys don't inherit any of your traits.



A, A, B and M,

Ye are seriously four of the greatest women in the world, I am so happy to be able to call ye my best friends. Three of ye live far, far away, but it seems to make no difference to the solidity of our friendships. I'm emotional even thinking about how amazing our friendships are. I know there is *nothing* I can't get through with yer love and support. Here's to many, many more years of the same. xxx

tomthetank

I had totally given up on you.

It was timing really, we both sort of got lost in our own little misinformed worlds of what was going on between us. I thought you just weren't that into me; you thought I needed space. You gave me space; I felt hurt and backed away.

Then it's the New Year, and you pop up on my facebook again and all of a sudden we're sitting across from one another at that sushi place, not really knowing what to think of one another. We're talking about anything and everything, but keeping a cautious distance, and I'm curious about you, but guarded. Scared to hope again.

And then we're at the subway station and I'm looking up at you and you kiss me and you're not pulling away and suddenly I'm hoping again. Please don't let me down this time.

C

LegacyUser

Attention apartment people with people living under you, your WII playing is very f$&king annoying. Along with vacuuming at ridicoulously early hours of the morning, please think!!

lazorgirl

Beautiful girl -
you have helped me to develop an inner strength
you have enabled me to see that change is not something to fear but embrace
you have given me the opportunity to place my trust in some one else and my self
you have allowed me to love you with no conditions no rules no boundaries no limits
you will be my anam chara always - live in the moment, believe in yourself & trust in the love you can give and equally recieve
for all we have learned
thank you
o