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18-06-2018, 16:29   #1
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Now Ye're Talking - to a swinger

Our next guest and his wife are both swingers. He is here to answer questions and maybe dispel some myths and inaccuracies about the lifestyle it involves.
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18-06-2018, 16:31   #2
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Do you worry about STDs.
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Do you ever get jealous when your man with the huge hammer walks in and destroys your wife in front of you. I mean absolutely demolishes her.
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How did you/ye initially discover an interest in swinging and how was the topic first broached?

What kinds of ground rules do ye have in place?

I imagine you'd have to be quite secure in yourself, your body, and your relationship; how do you keep any rising insecurities at bay?
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Is back door action common at these swingers' gatherings?
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What initially got you into it, where you both interested from the start or did one of you persuade the other one?
If you have kids so they know that you are swingers or if they are children will you tell them when they grow up?

I don't see the attraction of it myself, do you still feel like you are in a faithful relationship or does you feel it helps your partnership.
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18-06-2018, 17:16   #10
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Hello,

Just had a quick look at the questions, some really good ones so far.

I have been a user of Boards for nearly 15 years. I am a huge fan of AMA. I wanted to try and give a more Positive Impression of the lifestyle because its gotten some negative press in the last year or so. This in my opinion is from the more extreme members of the sites that we use and I just wanted to show people its really not like that for most people.

I hope I can achieve that and I hope you can appreciate what its done for our relationship. Perhaps even encourage some users on here who might want to persue it, to go for it.

Remember, nothing we do is illegal and personally its not immorral if you are both honest with each other.

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Not my real name btw

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Have you ever had nutters that get a bit stalky outside of swinging nights.
For example approaching you down the pub or turning up at work?
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Is it usually dedicated clubs or private houses that ye attend?
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18-06-2018, 18:28   #14
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Do you worry about STDs.

No. We havent really talked about it, we havent been with that many people between us. Probably a little naive on our part but I would think in the near future we should both have tests done.
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Do you ever get jealous when your man with the huge hammer walks in and destroys your wife in front of you. I mean absolutely demolishes her.

Thankfully I dont but been honest, thats the hot thing seeing your wife getting destroyed in front of you is a good thing.


I don't have Penis envy either far more important things to concern you with the lifestyle.
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