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What the Loungers did Next... [off topic chat]

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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 4,644 Mod ✭✭✭✭Daisies


    Good luck bluey. You'll be amazing, I know it!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,565 ✭✭✭Cerulean Chicken


    Sitting here worrying about a vengeful nasty situation that is hanging over our heads indefinitely. Best case scenario we have to shell out a few hundred euro, not what we need :( Don't even want to think about the worst case scenario. I hate waiting, I just wish we knew either way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 938 ✭✭✭Ice Storm



    Seriously who wants to talk about that kind of thing on a night out? You think they'd be happy to talk about adult topics of conversation with other adults. Also, know their audience!!!
    Yeah, I just don't get this.

    Went out a while ago, on a 'girls night out' where most of the group were mothers (I'm not).

    They ended up discussing childbirth over dinner and as the night went on it continued to be all about the kids, dirty nappies, cleaning up sick etc.

    Now I understand that their kids are the most important thing in their lives and as a couple of the women were on maternity leave at the time that they didn't have much else going in their lives, but all frickin night it was all they wanted to talk about!!

    When myself and my (childless) friend decided to call it quits, one of the women - a friend of a friend that I'd never met before - asked me if I was going home to the kids! I just had to laugh.


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Reed Muscular Rocker


    Well I suppose if most of them were mothers it might be reasonable to assume you might be one too
    Sounds like it was too much if that was it for the whole evening


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Hope your mum is better soon Ella x

    Yeah pixiebean it's such crap, I had another friend going on and on last night, she's a funny mix, she thinks I hate her child because it's a child, but she's my friend so of course I like her kid! The fact that she is a no nonsense mum most of the time helps, kid is very well behaved. But then at the same time while we were chatting -in a niteclub, I just wanted to dance! - she was saying how cute our kids would be, omg so adorable... :rolleyes: Not my style of niteclub conversation, luckily my bro in law was there asking my opinion on various girls boobies :p
    And then if you DID have kids, the same people will be telling you how to bring them up.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Sitting here worrying about a vengeful nasty situation that is hanging over our heads indefinitely. Best case scenario we have to shell out a few hundred euro, not what we need :( Don't even want to think about the worst case scenario. I hate waiting, I just wish we knew either way.
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for the best case scenario! Best of luck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 938 ✭✭✭Ice Storm


    bluewolf wrote: »
    Well I suppose if most of them were mothers it might be reasonable to assume you might be one too
    Sounds like it was too much if that was it for the whole evening
    I think there were 4 mothers out of 7 so not a huge majority.

    I was apprehensive about going because I thought it might turn out like that as the mums hadn't seen each other for a while but was convinced to go. They were just so wrapped up in their conversation (which in fairness they were all enjoying) that it didn't occur to them that it wasn't always appropriate for the setting e.g. epidurals and dinner.

    Ella - sorry your mam isn't well. It always seems to be the way in families that a few of the kids do sweet fcuk all when it comes to looking after parents. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Ice Storm wrote: »
    I think there were 4 mothers out of 7 so not a huge majority.

    I was apprehensive about going because I thought it might turn out like that as the mums hadn't seen each other for a while but was convinced to go. They were just so wrapped up in their conversation (which in fairness they were all enjoying) that it didn't occur to them that it wasn't always appropriate for the setting e.g. epidurals and dinner.

    Ella - sorry your mam isn't well. It always seems to be the way in families that a few of the kids do sweet fcuk all when it comes to looking after parents. :(

    I know I like talking about my baby and stuff but I try to keep it limited and not too much with people who don't have kids. I'll talk to other mothers about their experiences but usually off to the side, not as the main conversation in a group, if you get me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,401 ✭✭✭✭x Purple Pawprints x


    I feel so alone right now :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,513 ✭✭✭✭Lucyfur


    Ella, I hope you and your mam are ok x


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    I feel so alone right now :(
    (((Hugs)))

    How's your course going?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,401 ✭✭✭✭x Purple Pawprints x


    (((Hugs)))

    How's your course going?

    I've only got a week done but I'm liking it so far :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 938 ✭✭✭Ice Storm



    I know I like talking about my baby and stuff but I try to keep it limited and not too much with people who don't have kids. I'll talk to other mothers about their experiences but usually off to the side, not as the main conversation in a group, if you get me.
    Oh absolutely, I don't mean to offend any mothers. I know parents love to talk about their kids and I do like to hear about them, but within reason.

    I just felt like I'd crashed a mothers group night out that particular time. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Ice Storm wrote: »
    Oh absolutely, I don't mean to offend any mothers. I know parents love to talk about their kids and I do like to hear about them, but within reason.

    I just felt like I'd crashed a mothers group night out that particular time. :)

    Oh I know you weren't! :) It's just I don't understand mums who can't talk about anything else. Especially when Pancake was very small, I had the horrible smothered feeling that I wasn't a person anymore, I was just Pancake's mum (cos when people would call or visit noone asked me how I was, it was all about the baby). I am a mother, yes, so i will talk about that, but I was a person before and I am a person independent of my motherhood now. I LOVE when I can get out and talk about things that are absolutely NOTHING to do with babies! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Too much of any talk, babies or work, weddings etc is boring.

    I have kids but I try and limit myself regards how I talk about them. But I'm not going to not mention them either iykwim.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Sitting here worrying about a vengeful nasty situation that is hanging over our heads indefinitely. Best case scenario we have to shell out a few hundred euro, not what we need :( Don't even want to think about the worst case scenario. I hate waiting, I just wish we knew either way.

    Hope it works out okay for you CC


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,401 ✭✭✭✭x Purple Pawprints x


    Hope whatever you're worried about works out CC.

    I seem to be saying all the wrong things today. If I offend you don't hesitate to call me on it :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,965 ✭✭✭SarahBeep!


    I know I like talking about my baby and stuff but I try to keep it limited and not too much with people who don't have kids. I'll talk to other mothers about their experiences but usually off to the side, not as the main conversation in a group, if you get me.

    To be fair, the mommas in tLL aren't 'those mothers'. You, Neyite, Java and Das don't blabber on 'Ohmygod, my baby blinked today. ALL ON HIS OWN!!!!' ye aren't merely relaying the day of your child, you have your own opinions and stuff you talk about and if your child is part of your day then you're gonna talk about it. You're not braindead, only talking about your child!

    TLDR: We're lucky the mommas in here aren't silly. <3


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,565 ✭✭✭Cerulean Chicken


    Aw, the person who was rabbling on about us having a kid just sent me a text saying he's sorry for drunken ramblings but that he was just trying to make the point that we'd be great parents. Bless. It came from a nice place I suppose.

    This person doesn't have a memory as long as mine, he doesn't remember that he told my boyfriend that I was a rude b!tch years ago (when I very definitely wasn't being rude, I remember it well). I never forget!!!!!


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Reed Muscular Rocker


    Don't wana do this stupid feis anymore :mad:
    I'm hoarse


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,066 ✭✭✭Miaireland


    Sitting here worrying about a vengeful nasty situation that is hanging over our heads indefinitely. Best case scenario we have to shell out a few hundred euro, not what we need :( Don't even want to think about the worst case scenario. I hate waiting, I just wish we knew either way.

    In an similar situation. You have my sympathies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,247 ✭✭✭Tigger99


    SarahBeep! wrote: »
    To be fair, the mommas in tLL aren't 'those mothers'. You, Neyite, Java and Das don't blabber on 'Ohmygod, my baby blinked today. ALL ON HIS OWN!!!!' ye aren't merely relaying the day of your child, you have your own opinions and stuff you talk about and if your child is part of your day then you're gonna talk about it. You're not braindead, only talking about your child!

    TLDR: We're lucky the mommas in here aren't silly. <3

    I'm smiling at this post. It's completely true and if anything you (mam's) do only mention it in passing and it's other posters, myself included that want to know more. its funny really, how could you ever explain to a non LL that we know your babies as pancake, oreo etc :)
    bluewolf wrote: »
    Don't wana do this stupid feis anymore :mad:
    I'm hoarse

    Ah you'll be gald you did it. A nurse recommeded a great cure to me - egg whites mixed in a glass with glysterin (spelling prob completely off!) is supposed to be gd for the vocal cords.

    Well I'm having a very chilled relaxing weekend. Did huge spring clean of my place and its so pretty now :D Went out for a quiet one last night and a nice nightcap. All good in da hood :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,947 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    SarahBeep! wrote: »
    To be fair, the mommas in tLL aren't 'those mothers'. You, Neyite, Java and Das don't blabber on 'Ohmygod, my baby blinked today. ALL ON HIS OWN!!!!' ye aren't merely relaying the day of your child, you have your own opinions and stuff you talk about and if your child is part of your day then you're gonna talk about it. You're not braindead, only talking about your child!

    TLDR: We're lucky the mommas in here aren't silly. <3

    I lolled :D That's totally going to be my sarcastic response when I'm forced to endure hours of Mammytales on nights out.

    I had a most excellent Paddys Day- stayed in all day, OH was gone overnight so I had my mammy up and we just chilled out doing nothing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,401 ✭✭✭✭x Purple Pawprints x


    MCR Baby, you might be interested in this link to the new Thirty Seconds To Mars song and the following quote from Jared Leto: "We are plotting and planning as we speak... We're going to be announcing, very soon, plans to play the rest of the world." Please let Ireland be included!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,513 ✭✭✭✭Lucyfur


    SarahBeep! wrote: »
    To be fair, the mommas in tLL aren't 'those mothers'. You, Neyite, Java and Das don't blabber on 'Ohmygod, my baby blinked today. ALL ON HIS OWN!!!!' ye aren't merely relaying the day of your child, you have your own opinions and stuff you talk about and if your child is part of your day then you're gonna talk about it. You're not braindead, only talking about your child!

    TLDR: We're lucky the mommas in here aren't silly. <3

    My baby did that first. So there.

    :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Lucyfur wrote: »
    My baby did that first. So there.

    :P
    My baby is soooo much better than ALL of your babies. FACT. /end thread/ <insert other annoying things here>


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Reed Muscular Rocker


    I was so nervous when starting I choked twice. How humiliating. But the judge was lovely and said don't worry take your time.
    But once I got properly going I really got into it and it went very well. Not a fcuking scratch on the others, but it was great experience and next year I might be actually able to compete. Some of them there are doing degrees like


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I was so nervous when starting I choked twice. How humiliating. But the judge was lovely and said don't worry take your time.
    But once I got properly going I really got into it and it went very well. Not a fcuking scratch on the others, but it was great experience and next year I might be actually able to compete. Some of them there are doing degrees like
    Delighted you had a good experience! And now at least you know what the level is, you have a good year to prepare! :)


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Reed Muscular Rocker


    Lol apparently everyone else introduced themselves first and said what they were singing, I was so scared I didn't think to :pac:
    my family are being very nice and supportive and i think they genuinely liked it, even my grandmother :pac:
    doing the casual concert on Friday, I'm looking forward more to that though :)

    It'll be good to see my comment sheet! I think I'll have to wait a week or so, you can hang around there and get it but I was defo running straight out the door after


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,565 ✭✭✭Cerulean Chicken


    I'm in such an odd mood today. Tired from night out, cold, fed up over the thing hanging over us, happy with work related stuff, happy after visiting family, cranky because I'm tired, annoyed that I haven't done C25k or 30 Day Shred but in no mood to do them either.

    Humph! I r confused.


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