Men No Longer Want to Date, Why?

Like another poster said everyone dies alone...I believe that even if you are surrounded by a wife, kids, grandkids, your friends, loyal henchman in your motorcycle gang, Bill you play golf with every other Thursday etc ....when it's your time it's your time and no ones walking through that door with you....

But I'm willing to live and die by the sword...either I get who I want or no one at all....

I wasn't always this way but really what's the point of compromise in this area of life....I can compromise on a house a car etc...but not this....makes no sense to me...If I had compromised I might be married and have kids at this stage but it's much more likely I'd be split up and pissed off

In my head if you compromise then the person might as well just be any other product with "features" and at that point it's lost its appeal for me

Dying alone is a lot less scary prospect for me than settling for someone just because everyone else is married etc .....and then living a life of dissatisfaction with someone (not good for me or them imo, recipe for problems).....I reckon I can be less dissatisfied alone than with a consolation prize if it comes to it...

So maybe there's a black and blue pill? 😅

Agreed! 🙌 Some people have told me if their other half was cheating on them, they'd rather not know. I understand the pain of being cheated on and being betrayed is horrific, but I'd much rather know I'm living a lie and being made a fool of than opting for a false 'utopia'.

That's where I'm going wrong! Must take it off my cv.

Seriously!? Is that a thing?

A pill can be quite important.

Get the pill. Being spotified is a problem.

And yet the daycent fellas who don't send dic pics can't even get a match.

Bit of anticipation! Jaysus lads!

Always found that a bit odd...I mean fair enough whatever a person is into I suppose....apparently its a big thing.....the attraction must be the in the risk taking?.....

Lad in college liked to get starkers on 2nd date and wait for the lucky lady to open the door to find him legs akimbo..........I thought it was mildly amusing and a bit odd at the same time.......

Takes all sorts I suppose....

In fairness, that's a pretty nice duck.

Here's a question: Is "fighting" in a relationship expected? Lots of people I know would say yes, roaring and shouting at each other, not talking to each other for hours/days, staying somewhere else for a night or two. Apparently, that's all common and expected, according to people I know. I don't mean physical fights, or even the heavy emotional stuff. The shout at each other type of "fights".

I had 2 seven year relationships, and I had 1 argument in both. First was drink fueled jealousy, second was a simple difference of opinion we let go too far before talking about. Other than those 2, I've never had a fight. I don't understand those that do. And I think that may be part of the problem, that that kind of behaviour is "normal" and to be expected, and this is where the hard work comes from in relationships.

You don't get close to someone and not have arguments. People argue because they give a shit. Frankly, there's something not right about a relationship where no arguments occur. That's just bloody weird.

But it's not the argument that matters. It's what happens after the air has cleared that's the important part.

People argue, especially people who love each other and are on an equal footing. You argue because you want what's best for each other and sometimes that doesn't coincide.

BTW, I said argue, not fight.

In addition, I've been with my wife for over 20 years and married for nearly 12.

Relationships without arguments are creepy.