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Belfast rape trial - all 4 found not guilty Mod Note post one

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,840 ✭✭✭Nermal


    The only thing that shocks me about this thread...is how threatened men (and some woman) seem to be at the suggestion that we take great shame on our rape conviction rates.....

    Your shame isn't threatening, but your hare-brained suggestions on how to undermine the basic principles of an adversarial justice system are.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    They did not....

    The young lady was like any other rape case was treated as a witness in her own trial....it is perverse...
    Eh....what? You don't think people who bring accusations of rape should be cross examined?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 626 ✭✭✭Bob_Marley


    Mickeroo wrote: »
    Do you think a murder victim's clothing shouldn't be allowed in court too? :D

    Do you really think that if your wife / sister / mother /daughter was raped, her underwear should be passed around in court while the accused's is not ?
    Would you have the big grin then ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 612 ✭✭✭irishrebe


    Omackeral wrote: »
    irishrebe wrote: »
    So if it didn't happen to you, it didn't happen. You do realise we're two different people, from two different areas, and that people's lives and realities can be....different? But if it makes you feel clever to dismiss an account of sexual harassment, go ahead and do so. I'll never understand your mentality.

    It was the everyday and random aspect of it that made it tough to believe. Everyday from the age of 11 up. Well I’ll say this, it’s harrowing if it’s true. And if it is I’m sorry. It didn’t happen me or my family or friends that I know about growing up but you’re right, everyone is different. If it genuinely happened you everyday from strangers then you were very unlucky and I apologise if my original doubts upset you.
    Never heard of anyone being bullied? That's what these lads were doing, picking on lone women for a cheap laugh. Bit of fun at the end of their boring work day. I'd bet you a thousand euro not one of those lads would consider themselves a sex offender or even a bully. They would have said they were having a bit of banter and sure, we should have loosened up. You know, the same kind of minimising being done by people posting on this very thread. Disregarding of people's boundaries, insistence that it's all a bit of fun. No thought to how unpleasant and intimidating it must be for young girls to be roared at by grown men. I imagine now many of them will be fathers, that they wouldn't want their own daughters to be subject to that, but they weren't thinking of us as someone's daughter,  a child, were they? They saw pretty (not even) teenage girls in school skirts and treated us like objects to be used for their own entertainment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,086 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Bob_Marley wrote:
    Do you really think that if your wife / sister / mother /daughter was raped, her underwear should be passed around in court while the accused's is not ? Would you have the big grin then ?

    Her underwear was evidence, there's wasn't. For obvious reasons.

    It sounds bawdy but it wasn't like there was whispering and giggling. And only jury and barristers were involved.
    What other way could evidence have been reviewed?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,082 ✭✭✭Fann Linn


    The only thing that shocks me about this thread...is how threatened men (and some woman) seem to be at the suggestion that we take great shame on our rape conviction rates.....

    Not threatened at all. Just shocked at some suggestions that there should be a somewhat lesser burden of proof so that conviction rates might increase.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    The State is the Guardian of the rule of law. That is why the DPP/PPSNI take cases against accused in every case. In Rape, Murder, GBH cases et al.

    If she had her own private legal representation, it would be a civil case. Not criminal.

    What do you not understand about that?

    In the republic...if a defense team wishes to examine a victims sexual history, she is allowed access to legal support...

    What is wrong with allowing her to have access to legal support every day of the trial???????

    What do you not understand about that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 626 ✭✭✭Bob_Marley


    Her underwear was evidence, there's wasn't. For obvious reasons.

    It sounds bawdy but it wasn't like there was whispering and giggling. And only jury and barristers were involved.
    What other way could evidence have been reviewed?

    Who was actually on trial ?

    And according to the press there was considerable whispers, giggles, and laughing from the public gallery during the trial.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    Nermal wrote: »
    Your shame isn't threatening, but your hare-brained suggestions on how to undermine the basic principles of an adversarial justice system are.

    Ok genius...what would you do to achieve a higher conviction rate of 15 out of 825 alleged rape incidents...or do you think that the rate is something we all should be proud of?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 612 ✭✭✭irishrebe


    optogirl wrote: »
    Is that a fact? I can't believe that you honestly think this. How absolutely dismissive and horrific a thing to say to rape victims, male and female.

    It is not a fact it is merely my opinion. This girl ended up drunk and in an orgy with a few guys in the bedroom of an international rugby personality. I would be absolutely and utterly disgusted if a daughter of mine ended up in the same location and then cried rape. You have no business ending up in a bedroom of a rugby star, drunk. Sorry but please start taking some personal responsibility for where you end up at the end of a night.
    I've often ended up in the houses of men, while drunk. Often drinking there. I loved video games as a teenager and a college student and would play for hours and hours while drinking beer or stronger stuff, or having a jam session or sometimes just sitting around talking sh1te like friends do. I lived at home for most of college, so it was fun to go back to people's student houses or halls and do the proper student thing. Quite often I would be the only woman there, or one of two, maybe. Let me get this straight. Are you telling me my behaviour was shameful and I deserved to be raped? I had no legitimate business getting drunk around men?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    Eh....what? You don't think people who bring accusations of rape should be cross examined?

    I have no problem with a person being cross examined in court...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,086 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Bob_Marley wrote:
    Who was actually on trial ?

    It wasn't evidence because she was on trial, it was evidence because it was said to have contained blood which was deemed evidential to what had occurred.

    It's not complicated.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    Fann Linn wrote: »
    Not threatened at all. Just shocked at some suggestions that there should be a somewhat lesser burden of proof so that conviction rates might increase.

    So everything is hunky dory then...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,314 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    Ok genius...what would you do to achieve a higher conviction rate of 15 out of 825 alleged rape incidents...or do you think that the rate is something we all should be proud of?

    You tell us, what genius Reformation of the system did the protesters today come up with? Or did all their energy go into witty signs?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 612 ✭✭✭irishrebe


    Pelvis wrote: »
    irishrebe wrote: »
    Again, if you don't believe me, then I'm exaggerating and lying. The age old trick to minimise abuse and harassment. It can't have happened. They must be lying. It's too far fetched. Hundreds of gymnasts can have a doctor's hand up their vagina in front of their parents without anyone suspecting anything but a schoolgirl in a short tight skirt getting beeped at is so ludicrous that it must be false. 
    I minimised it to my dad because I knew he'd go mental and I didn't want him to get hurt. One older man against loads of fit young men. He thought things had improved after he talked to the boss that one time. I didn't want him talking to the boss again and things becoming even worse for me or for him. I just hoped they'd get bored and stop eventually. I was f*cking 12 years old. Sorry if that wasn't the 'right' reaction for you.

    There you go again, misrepresenting. I'm not trying to minimize the abuse, I'm saying outright that I don't believe it happened to the extent you say it did.

    I'm not saying a girl getting beeped at is ludicrous at all, another misrepresentation from you. I'm saying being harassed daily over a number of years to the extent you say you were is ludicrous. And the fact you're bring up Larry Nassar in the context of being beeped at tells us all we need to know really.
    Nice twisting of my comparison there. No, it tells us all we need to know that girls can be molested for years in the presence of their parents with nobody noticing, but apparently, men beeping, whistling and shouting sexual harassment at minors walking home alone for years is so far fetched that you don't believe it. A couple of other women have confirmed similar harassment. Are they liars too?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 755 ✭✭✭NAGDEFI


    optogirl wrote: »
    So sober people don't get raped. And anyone who is drunk when they're raped is asking for it. Got you.

    BS. I'm referring to alcohol intake for both genders. If some of the parties in the north were sober the outcome might be different. Why do you assume i mean the female???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,082 ✭✭✭Fann Linn


    So everything is hunky dory then...

    Nopes but ill humour you. Guilty until proven innocent.

    Can you not see any problems with that scenario?


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    irishrebe wrote: »
    Never heard of anyone being bullied? That's what these lads were doing, picking on lone women for a cheap laugh. Bit of fun at the end of their boring work day. I'd bet you a thousand euro not one of those lads would consider themselves a sex offender or even a bully. They would have said they were having a bit of banter and sure, we should have loosened up. You know, the same kind of minimising being done by people posting on this very thread. Disregarding of people's boundaries, insistence that it's all a bit of fun. No thought to how unpleasant and intimidating it must be for young girls to be roared at by grown men. I imagine now many of them will be fathers, that they wouldn't want their own daughters to be subject to that, but they weren't thinking of us as someone's daughter,  a child, were they? They saw pretty (not even) teenage girls in school skirts and treated us like objects to be used for their own entertainment.

    When I think of kids of 11 and 12 being bullied I think of other kids doing it through name calling and other stuff like that. What you described is horrific. Grown men doing that to children. Pedophillic really. If I caught anyone doing that to a child, I’d up-end them. Twice as much if it were a friend or family member.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,551 ✭✭✭SeaFields


    The State is the Guardian of the rule of law. That is why the DPP/PPSNI take cases against accused in every case. In Rape, Murder, GBH cases et al.

    If she had her own private legal representation, it would be a civil case. Not criminal.

    For DPP cases the state provides legal representation to complainants in rape cases if they are being cross examined.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,314 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    Fann Linn wrote: »
    Nopes but ill humour you. Guilty until proven innocent.

    Can you not see any problems with that scenario?

    He has no interest in discussion, just throwing some random numbers about.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    Fann Linn wrote: »
    Nopes but ill humour you. Guilty until proven innocent.

    Can you not see any problems with that scenario?

    My problem, as is obvious from previous posts...is the pitiful conviction rate for rape....we as a nation should be embarrassed by it...but of course that would involve a degree of self awareness...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    SeaFields wrote: »
    For DPP cases the state provides legal representation to complainants in rape cases if they are being cross examined.

    And that is fantastic. A significant improvement on what is available in the UK/NI. And other jurisdictions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    My problem, as is obvious from previous posts...is the pitiful conviction rate for rape....we as a nation should be embarrassed by it...but of course that would involve a degree of self awareness...
    Solutions?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭Silentcorner


    hynesie08 wrote: »
    He has no interest in discussion, just throwing some random numbers about.

    https://www.belfastlive.co.uk/news/belfast-news/823-alleged-rapes-reported-northern-14477973

    If I had no interest in discussion I wouldn't be here....you muppet...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,042 ✭✭✭optogirl


    NAGDEFI wrote: »
    BS. I'm referring to alcohol intake for both genders. If some of the parties in the north were sober the outcome might be different. Why do you assume i mean the female???

    I don't. Men get raped too. Sometimes without alcohol being involved.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 755 ✭✭✭NAGDEFI


    That is not what the poster said. And I haven't been in anyway opportunistic in my opinions on this thread. If anything, the opposite.

    Now he is comparing his comments to George Hooks?

    I only saw that post of Mr. Edinburgh and you called it retarded. It's not retarded to suggest excessive alcohol use among both sexes is problematic.

    And it's a fact that if you have your wits about you you may not end up at a party where you know nobody. However unpalatable it is to say.

    The problem with common sense today is it's uncommon. The standard response to saying people should take personal responsibility is 'oh you troglodyte, you're saying the girl was asking to be raped'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,055 ✭✭✭Fakediamond


    Fann Linn wrote: »
    Okay, and what did your parents or teachers do?

    How would they know? children generally don’t tell an adult these things. And if that surprises you, ask the people who were raped by priests/swim coaches/ uncles/neighbours etc why they didn’t tell their parents or teachers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    https://www.belfastlive.co.uk/news/belfast-news/823-alleged-rapes-reported-northern-14477973

    If I had no interest in discussion I wouldn't be here....you muppet...

    That's for a different jurisdiction.

    Now in the South

    https://www.irishtimes.com/news/crime-and-law/courts/district-court/how-rape-trials-in-republic-differ-from-those-in-north-1.3443644
    And our recently passed Criminal Law (Sexual Offences) Act 2017 has introduced substantial new procedural protections for victims within the trial process, and for the first time creates a statutory definition of consent – very important in those cases which turn on that precise issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,476 ✭✭✭neonsofa


    NAGDEFI wrote: »
    Originally Posted by John4Edinburgh View Post
    If you take some personal responsibility, you will not be raped.




    It's opportunistic to jump on someone making these type of comments today.

    The mob jumps down someone's throat if they suggest responsible drinking, being careful what parties to attend and so on.

    A person raped by someone they trust- an uncle, a friend, step father, family friend- what "personal responsibility" should they have taken? Not lived in the family home?

    A woman asleep in bed with her partner. He rapes her. She just shouldn't have slept? If she took personal responsibility she wouldn't have been raped according to that poster.

    A woman dragged into a house and raped by a stranger? "If she took personal responsibility" she wouldn't have been raped.. what exactly should she have done differently, not left her house that day?

    You cannot say that if you take personal responsibility you will not be raped.

    It was an utterly ridiculous comment and it deserved to be questioned.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 755 ✭✭✭NAGDEFI


    optogirl wrote: »
    I don't. Men get raped too. Sometimes without alcohol being involved.

    Yes of course people get raped without alcohol being involved..but not remembering what's happening, blackouts and so on.. it doesn't help anyone.


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