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Is it okay for your partner to masturbate to porn to sleep?

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  • 12-05-2015 4:13pm
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    yougoodthing
    Registered Users Posts: 9 ✭


    My partner and I are together a good few years and enjoy a good sex life. However to get him to sleep at night he often turns on pornographic material or even just erotic/sexy pictures of girls posing to 'get him off'. I don't say anything about it as it doesn't really get to me until last night... Would be interested to hear views on this.
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    El Weirdo
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    *follows thread*


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    TwoShedsJackson
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    As long as all involved are consenting adults, and it doesn't bother you, then no harm really.


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    TheDoctor
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    *grabs popcorn*


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    smash
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    Why did it get to you last night?


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    Slicemeister
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    Only if he's saying "gowanyagoodting" while he's tearing himself.


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    TheDoctor
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    smash wrote: »
    Why did it get to you last night?


    Pictures of her sister


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    MrVestek
    Registered Users Posts: 9,198 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    Sometimes it's the best kind of sleeping aid...

    I don't see anything wrong with it.


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    Caovyn Lineah
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    Watch it with him


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    smash
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    TheDoctor wrote: »
    Pictures of her sister
    I was going to say that but I thought I'd give her a chance :D


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    Chucken
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    Jump on him and stop being so lazy.


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    walkingshadow
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    I'd find it hard to get to sleep after watching porn- what with being wet and all.


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    Duke O Smiley
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    I hate to say it op, but if he has resorted to this sort of lark, you're obviously not doing a good enough job


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    galljga1
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    Looking forward to the best thread ever.


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    yougoodthing
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    smash wrote: »
    Why did it get to you last night?
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!


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    TheDoctor
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!


    Better get started so


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    galljga1
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!

    I hope you are looking forward to some good love and understanding on AH.


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    El Weirdo
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    ...i'm generally considered fairly good looking...
    Pics or gtfo.


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    smash
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!
    Do you expect him to whack off looking at ugly chicks?


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    Hyzepher
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    Pictures cant hold things


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    MrVestek
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!

    This is a mistake a lot of women make. Porn is fantasy fulfillment.

    I doubt he'd want a relationship or probably even want to really shag some vacuous porn star with artificially inflated bits.

    It doesn't mean that he fancies you any less.

    Anyway if you fancy him at all does it not turn you on that he's horny no? Why not help him out a little? Hell... you might even enjoy it!


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    yougoodthing
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    Duke O Smiley wrote: »
    I hate to say it op, but if he has resorted to this sort of lark, you're obviously not doing a good enough job
    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!


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    ForstalDave
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    We all enjoy a good yank but if its every night that seems a bit much it seems more like a habit than anything and lets face it they look so good because there unrealistic


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    smash
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!
    that's a cop out. Buy some KY Jelly... be grand.


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    TheDoctor
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!

    All I hear is excuses


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    MrVestek
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    yougoodthing wrote: »
    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!

    Well then he has a higher sex drive. You'll just have to deal with it.

    Like I said it's just fantasy fulfillment, try and not let your insecurities get to you too much.

    Ohh wait this is after hours.

    Erh... pics or gtfo.


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    Dravokivich
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    Honestly, I think my girlfriend is relieved that I'd rather relieve myself to porn, than some woman I've seen about.


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    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    Don't see the issue as long as he isn't turned off you and watching porn instead of having sex. Maybe watch it with him.


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    #29
    TheDoctor
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    How about you make some pics and videos of you for him to watch instead.


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    #30
    smash
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    TheDoctor wrote: »
    How about you make some pics and videos of you for him to watch instead.
    How about she lends a hand... or a mouth... or an other body part?


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    El Weirdo
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    TheDoctor wrote: »
    All I hear is excuses
    And this from a medical man.


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