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Is it okay for your partner to masturbate to porn to sleep?

  • 12-05-2015 3:13pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9


    My partner and I are together a good few years and enjoy a good sex life. However to get him to sleep at night he often turns on pornographic material or even just erotic/sexy pictures of girls posing to 'get him off'. I don't say anything about it as it doesn't really get to me until last night... Would be interested to hear views on this.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,647 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    *follows thread*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,438 ✭✭✭TwoShedsJackson


    As long as all involved are consenting adults, and it doesn't bother you, then no harm really.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    *grabs popcorn*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Why did it get to you last night?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,526 ✭✭✭Slicemeister


    Only if he's saying "gowanyagoodting" while he's tearing himself.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    smash wrote: »
    Why did it get to you last night?


    Pictures of her sister


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,258 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    Sometimes it's the best kind of sleeping aid...

    I don't see anything wrong with it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,839 ✭✭✭Caovyn Lineah


    Watch it with him


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    TheDoctor wrote: »
    Pictures of her sister
    I was going to say that but I thought I'd give her a chance :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Jump on him and stop being so lazy.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 369 ✭✭walkingshadow


    I'd find it hard to get to sleep after watching porn- what with being wet and all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,079 ✭✭✭✭Duke O Smiley


    I hate to say it op, but if he has resorted to this sort of lark, you're obviously not doing a good enough job


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    Looking forward to the best thread ever.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 yougoodthing


    smash wrote: »
    Why did it get to you last night?
    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!


    Better get started so


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!

    I hope you are looking forward to some good love and understanding on AH.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,647 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    ...i'm generally considered fairly good looking...
    Pics or gtfo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!
    Do you expect him to whack off looking at ugly chicks?


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,668 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hyzepher


    Pictures cant hold things


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,258 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    The girls were really beautiful...i'm generally considered fairly good looking but I'd want plastic surgery ten times over to have the size of the bits they do!

    This is a mistake a lot of women make. Porn is fantasy fulfillment.

    I doubt he'd want a relationship or probably even want to really shag some vacuous porn star with artificially inflated bits.

    It doesn't mean that he fancies you any less.

    Anyway if you fancy him at all does it not turn you on that he's horny no? Why not help him out a little? Hell... you might even enjoy it!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 yougoodthing


    I hate to say it op, but if he has resorted to this sort of lark, you're obviously not doing a good enough job
    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 612 ✭✭✭ForstalDave


    We all enjoy a good yank but if its every night that seems a bit much it seems more like a habit than anything and lets face it they look so good because there unrealistic


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!
    that's a cop out. Buy some KY Jelly... be grand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!

    All I hear is excuses


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,258 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!

    Well then he has a higher sex drive. You'll just have to deal with it.

    Like I said it's just fantasy fulfillment, try and not let your insecurities get to you too much.

    Ohh wait this is after hours.

    Erh... pics or gtfo.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    Honestly, I think my girlfriend is relieved that I'd rather relieve myself to porn, than some woman I've seen about.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    Don't see the issue as long as he isn't turned off you and watching porn instead of having sex. Maybe watch it with him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    How about you make some pics and videos of you for him to watch instead.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    TheDoctor wrote: »
    How about you make some pics and videos of you for him to watch instead.
    How about she lends a hand... or a mouth... or an other body part?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,647 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    TheDoctor wrote: »
    All I hear is excuses
    And this from a medical man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    I cannot keep up to his testosterone levels!!! I'm not able for much more, only so much a girl can give!!!

    Pop some oestrogen pills into his nightly cocoa.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    smash wrote: »
    How about she lends a hand... or a mouth... or an other body part?

    Armpit sex is all the rage nowadays.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,882 ✭✭✭Saipanne


    Chucken wrote: »
    Pop some oestrogen pills into his nightly cocoa.

    The fact that he drinks a nightly cocoa already makes him a woman.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,052 ✭✭✭Un Croissant


    Can you provide a link, op? To the hot girls, not the munters he was whacking it to before last night. We'd all like to see.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 505 ✭✭✭zanador


    Hyzepher wrote: »
    Pictures cant hold things

    Or make sandwiches


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    smash wrote: »
    Why did it get to you last night?
    He's practice has obviously increased his range. Just get him to do it into a sock, that should control the ejaculate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Armpit sex is all the rage nowadays.

    Do Durex make deodorant yet?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,604 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    He should be more considerate and master the art of a danger ****. Wait until you've drifted off to sleep and then ever so gently does it in order not to wake you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,444 ✭✭✭fergiesfolly


    MrVestek wrote: »
    This is a mistake a lot of women make. Porn is fantasy fulfillment.

    I doubt he'd want a relationship or probably even want to really shag some vacuous porn star with artificially inflated bits.

    It doesn't mean that he fancies you any less.

    Anyway if you fancy him at all does it not turn you on that he's horny no? Why not help him out a little? Hell... you might even enjoy it!

    Said no man ever


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Fat Christy


    Yes. I watch porn, my ex watched porn....so fcuking what?

    If I got with someone and they said I had to stop getting off to porn, I'd be gone! It's one of my favourite hobbies.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Yes. I watch porn, my ex watched porn....so fcuking what?

    If I got with someone and they said I had to stop getting off to porn, I'd be gone! It's one of my favourite hobbies.

    We can be xhamster buddies.....PM me your fav scenes of the week :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Yes. I watch porn, my ex watched porn....so fcuking what?

    If I got with someone and they said I had to stop getting off to porn, I'd be gone! It's one of my favourite hobbies.

    You seem to not have read the thread at all. It isn't actually about you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭TheDoctor


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    You seem to not have read the thread at all. It isn't actually about you.


    Looks like we've found the guy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    You seem to not have read the thread at all. It isn't actually about you.

    Shut up... We need more girls to talk about stuff like this! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,258 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    Said no man ever

    I'm sorry I have standards. I'd like to think that other blokes do too but maybe I'm wrong?

    I'm really not into the big lipped fake plastic huge tits look at all.

    *edit*

    Also hearing the big fake screams of 'pleasure' coming from these yolks really turns me the **** off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    MrVestek wrote: »
    I'm sorry I have standards. I'd like to think that other blokes do too but maybe I'm wrong?

    I'm really not into the big lipped fake plastic huge tits look at all.

    *edit*

    Also hearing the big fake screams of 'pleasure' coming from these yolks really turns me the **** off.

    I'd get up on a cracked plate tbh!

    Thanks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,258 ✭✭✭MrVestek


    kfallon wrote: »
    I'd get up on a cracked plate tbh!

    Thanks

    Good for you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    smash wrote: »
    Shut up... We need more girls to talk about stuff like this! :D

    OK I can pitch in.

    Teehee I'm a girl, I'm practically a nympho, I want it all day long, I watch porn, my favourite porn is girl on girl cause teehee, I'm so great. like me please!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    OK I can pitch in.

    Teehee I'm a girl, I'm practically a nympho, I want it all day long, I watch porn, my favourite porn is girl on girl cause teehee, I'm so great. like me please!

    That's the spirit!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,406 ✭✭✭sjb25


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    OK I can pitch in.

    Teehee I'm a girl, I'm practically a nympho, I want it all day long, I watch porn, my favourite porn is girl on girl cause teehee, I'm so great. like me please!

    Pm sent :)


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