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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389
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stupidusername wrote: »Why though? If there's someone you're interested in,just mail her.
I've only sent out three messages,(I rarely send them first) Sometimes they look and sound to good that i think they could do better so i just don't bother.
As do guys(Me included) which is why i rarely send out messages at first even if at all.Us women have a fear of rejection!
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It's a shame when guys have to do most of mailing at first to start things off. I wish more women would send a message first. I can only hope.
I always fire out mails!
itsallaboutheL wrote: »Prettiest girl in the world just mailed me.
Success
Don't ruin it now!
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wobblyknees wrote: »Haha. Yes, I actually did, and she said yes, although she is feeling a bit ill right now so it will be soon enough when she is feeling a bit better. I was a bit clumsy in my suggestion to meet up but she was lovely about it and what we could do for a 'first date' that would allow for a relaxed conversation etc. It's really nice to talk to her, we seem to have a number of shared interests and she is really down to earth. All in all, I have spoken to a few people, but she is the only one I considered asking to meet up and she has said yes, so I think it is so far so good.....
So we were talking away online through the day and to be honest, we really do seem to have lots of similar interests which is great. She asked about meeting up in a couple of days so that's arranged and we are now continuing the conversation by text. I am now pretending to be perfectly calm and not in the slightest very very very very very very very very very very very very (did I say very?) nervous about meeting up!:eek::D:eek::D:eek: 0 -
wobblyknees wrote: »How have you spoken to him? By text only? And what has the topic of conversation been so far? Perhaps he's being polite and doesn't want to dive in. Probably makes sense to see how it goes as you seem to have a number of positive reasons for doing so? I think at times it can be difficult to judge if the conversation is purely electronic. But having said that, if you really aren't sure, you need to do what is right for you.
By text only, yes. topics have been about lots of things, including Christmas, pets, jobs, every day things etc etc. I would like to hold out and see where it leads, but I would like if there was a clear interest also. I mean if there's no flirting, maybe he feels it's just a friend he's talking with. Maybe I will just meet him and it might be easier to tell if he's interested then. In fact, if he agrees to meet at all it would be an indicator 0 -
VisitingForNow wrote: »I'm curious to get some opinions / experiences on this. I've been writing to someone for a little while now, and yeah he's interesting and funny and smart, and kinda seems interested in me, though not any flirting going on from him... I'm kind of not feeling a spark there much anymore. though i feel like we should meet and see how it goes anyway. has anyone ever been in this situation,where there wasn't much of a spark to begin with, but it went well when you met?
A lot of the time when people meet up after feeling a spark online, there is no spark offline. So I'm sure the opposite can happen too, in fact it may even be more likely.
You've got everything to gain by meeting, and nothing to lose. But by not meeting you've everything to lose and nothing to gain 0 -
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