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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389
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Writing is fun....
Do eeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :pac:Why? Your just wasting you time until up upload a photo and write a profile.
Hehe, I am queen of procrastinating. Hamlet ain't got nothing on me!
But I have a pic and something half decent written up now, that'll have to do until I can sit down tomorrow and waffle properly
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Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee wrote: »I am inclined to agree and thats what I am getting at I think. But has anyone here felt a "spark" through messaging?
EDIT: Maybe I am wrong on arrange a date ASAP. Imagine the pure arkwardness if there was originally no spark, jaysis.
Think it's best to move quickly on the date - after all, there could be competition
But really more about the fact that you won't know if there is a real spark until a real-life meeting. In fact, the prospect of meeting up can give the online interactions that bit more spark 
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Was looking at some profiles on CS and one girl has as one of her profile pics....
a picture of her....
in her underwear...
kissing a dude....
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wobblyknees wrote: »Meeting up tomorrow evening. Hopefully the fact we've lots in common translates well to meeting face to face....
Well, I have to say, that was much more than just enjoyable. She is really lovely and I think we have pretty much agreed to meet again. 0 -
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wobblyknees wrote: »Well, I have to say, that was much more than just enjoyable. She is really lovely and I think we have pretty much agreed to meet again.
Nice one man :-) Now aren't ya glad you mailed her.. Sweet! 0 -
Alas, 'tiz one of the great mysteries of online dating. I've lost count of the amount of people I've been chatting to who agreed provisionally to go on a date/meet for coffee or whatever, even exchanged numbers with only for them to disappear off the radar and cease all contact with me before said date could occur.
Ze mind, she boggles! :pac:
Best thing you can do really is not to get too excited when chatting to people, that way if they do disappear on you it's no biggie. Just focus your time/effort on someone else. It can be frustrating by times, but there aint nothin' ya can do about it.
You should probably hold off sending the naked pics by text until after the first date... 0 -
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Things going great with the GF a few weeks in, New years was awesome,and met another friend of hers who had met her fella on POF also. Keep at it folks, its a terrible site but its worked for me
good for you!
i met my guy on connecting singles, my first time ever trying that site.. we're dating about 6 weeks and have confirmed bf/gf status but im just wondering when is it an acceptable time to bring up closing down the accounts on the site? without sounding too forward or whatever.. 0 -
good for you!
i met my guy on connecting singles, my first time ever trying that site.. we're dating about 6 weeks and have confirmed bf/gf status but im just wondering when is it an acceptable time to bring up closing down the accounts on the site? without sounding too forward or whatever..
I would close down/deactivate mine either way if I felt comfortable with how things were going, so I would suggest you do this anyway. In fact I am a fairly straightforward person when it comes to these things and would probably shy away from using the site at all very quickly. But that's me. However, in your situation, you both seem to be getting on well so I am sure you know how to bring it up in a nice enough way. Something along the lines of "Are we serious enough now to delete our online profiles?"....0 -
wobblyknees wrote: »I would close down/deactivate mine either way if I felt comfortable with how things were going, so I would suggest you do this anyway. In fact I am a fairly straightforward person when it comes to these things and would probably shy away from using the site at all very quickly. But that's me. However, in your situation, you both seem to be getting on well so I am sure you know how to bring it up in a nice enough way. Something along the lines of "Are we serious enough now to delete our online profiles?"....
yeah, i really don't have the interest in logging in anymore but i have noticed that he's still logs in at times
now, in saying that he'd be sending me flowers and messages & that but still, im not comfortable that he's still active on it.. i cud be over-reacting but thats just me.. to be honest id afraid he may be nabbed by someone else!! it is a dating site afterall..
im gonna bring it up the next time i see him.. i wudnt dream of it this soon normally but like i said we have confirmed our status and are quite smitten 0 -
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yeah, i really don't have the interest in logging in anymore but i have noticed that he's still logs in at times now, in saying that he'd be sending me flowers and messages & that but still, im not comfortable that he's still active on it.. i cud be over-reacting but thats just me.. to be honest id afraid he may be nabbed by someone else!! it is a dating site afterall..
im gonna bring it up the next time i see him.. i wudnt dream of it this soon normally but like i said we have confirmed our status and are quite smitten
Maybe he is only logging in to check if you are logging in and the two of you are in a self repeating circle of checking the others activity?0
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