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Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

  • 20-03-2017 6:20pm
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    Boards.ie Employee Posts: 12,597 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Boards.ie Community Manager


    This week's AMA is with an independent female escort working in Ireland, LaraLushhhhh. She is willing to answer any questions regarding her escorting.

    She will not be answering any questions about her home or personal life; please do not ask questions of this nature and be respectful at all times.

    Thanks!
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    Sorry to have to do this again after Niamh's request earlier but can posters please respect the intent of this thread. Our poster has kindly offered to answer any questions you may have (with reasonable limitations).
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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,170 ✭✭✭Bredabe


    Hi Laura, has anything funny happened to you in your work?

    "Have you ever wagged your tail so hard you fell over"?-Brod Higgins.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,911 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Hi Lara

    This is a subject which has always fascinated me, so apologies in advance for bombarding you with questions. I'll limit myself to a few to start, and thanks for your time.

    Are you Irish?

    What brought you into this kind of work?

    What are your thoughts on the "Happy Hooker"/"all sex workers are exploited" duality?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 646 ✭✭✭hungry hypno toad


    Hi, are you fully tax compliant?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭Armchair Andy


    Ever had reason to call security or the cops on a punter?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Hi
    Yes I'm Irish
    I was on a dating site a few years ago and was offered money for sex ! It was as simple as that. The seed had been planted in my head from then on.
    "Happy hooker" is a tough one really. I'm happy about a lot af aspects of what I do. I have a thick skin and am happy to do what I do, if I didn't I wouldn't be doing it and that's been honest
    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Hi Laura

    This is a subject which has always fascinated me, so apologies in advance for bombarding you with questions. I'll limit myself to a few to start, and thanks for your time.

    Are you Irish?

    What brought you into this kind of work?

    What are your thoughts on the "Happy Hooker"/"all sex workers are exploited" duality?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Ever had reason to call security or the cops on a punter?

    No I've been very lucky, I only see regulars now and am comfortable with these guys so luckily I know I won't need to ever do this


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Bredabe wrote: »
    Hi Laura, has anything funny happened to you in your work?

    Funny ? As in what way ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 100 ✭✭Sparky_7


    Whats the most money you've made in a week


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Hi, are you fully tax compliant?

    I do have a "normal" job too and do pay tax yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,170 ✭✭✭Bredabe


    Humorous, I find ppl can be unintentionally hilarious

    "Have you ever wagged your tail so hard you fell over"?-Brod Higgins.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Sparky_7 wrote: »
    Whats the most money you've made in a week

    I only do this part time, 3 days or 4 max. After all costs the most I've made was 1200€ Weekly


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭Armchair Andy


    No I've been very lucky, I only see regulars now and am comfortable with these guys so luckily I know I won't need to ever do this


    Brilliant. Must've been hard starting out not knowing who or what was coming through the door.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    Hi Laura, what's the single biggest lesson you've learned since taking up this "career"? Thanks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,353 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    Funny ? As in what way ?



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,074 ✭✭✭Thespoofer


    Hi Laura

    I've been in a few situations when I've been abroad with a few friends where they have used the services of prostitutes in local bordellos.
    Even though the women there were beautiful I never found a need to take one as ' it wouldn't be real ' if you know what I mean, and believe me I love sex as much as the next guy.

    Have you ever been in a situation where you've said to yourself I would actually sleep with a client for free ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Brilliant. Must've been hard starting out not knowing who or what was coming through the door.

    It was, it was completely nerve wrecking! It took at least 6 months to get a regular clientele


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Thespoofer wrote: »
    Hi Laura

    I've been in a few situations when I've been abroad with a few friends where they have used the services of prostitutes in local bordellos.
    Even though the women there were beautiful I never found a need to take one as ' it wouldn't be real ' if you know what I mean, and believe me I love sex as much as the next guy.

    Have you ever been in a situation where you've said to yourself I would actually sleep with a client for free ?

    Haha yes I have! I have met quiet a few young attractive guys! Guys who I would 100% be interested in in a "normal" situation


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    dudara wrote: »
    Hi Laura, what's the single biggest lesson you've learned since taking up this "career"? Thanks

    I've learned to be a great actress and a good have a good memory :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    Hi, would you recommend this as a career option to young girls unsure about what they want to do in life?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 232 ✭✭Flibble


    Very interesting AMA, thanks for doing this :)

    A friend of mine dabbled in a little bit of dominatrix work, and i never get enough of her stories, lol, so I'll be subbing to this thread!!

    What is the strangest kink you've been asked to indulge?

    Where do you work from- do you visit your clients or have you an apartment especially for visits?

    Do you ever accompany your clients on 'dates' outside the bedroom, or do you restrict it to sex?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,348 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    What kind of people are your best customers? What kind are your worst?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,833 ✭✭✭✭ThisRegard


    I have met quiet a few young attractive guys!

    Why do you think such guys employ your services then?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Flibble wrote: »
    Very interesting AMA, thanks for doing this :)

    A friend of mine dabbled in a little bit of dominatrix work, and i never get enough of her stories, lol, so I'll be subbing to this thread!!

    What is the strangest kink you've been asked to indulge?

    Where do you work from- do you visit your clients or have you an apartment especially for visits?

    Do you ever accompany your clients on 'dates' outside the bedroom, or do you restrict it to sex?

    I was asked once to relieve myself ... as in open my bowels on front of him !!! I didn't do it ! Nasty .

    I've been to dinner quiet a few times with clients yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Brilliant AMA, thanks for volunteering your time Lara.

    Are you in a relationship? How does your work affect your personal sex life? Would you tell partners what you do, how have they taken it?

    Do family and friends know what you do, would they be supportive?

    How long do you think you'll keep working in the industry?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    What kind of people are your best customers? What kind are your worst?
    There's such a range of different guys. The most respectful are the older gentlemen thou. The worst are the very young guys !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 232 ✭✭Flibble


    If your client base is made up largely of regulars, where do you see the line between what you do and the arrangement between a sugar baby/daddy?


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,572 ✭✭✭Colser


    If you found out that your own partner had been going to escorts how would feel about it?Would you consider it cheating and would it be a deal-breaker?

    Interesting thread,thanks.


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Brilliant AMA, thanks for volunteering your time Lara.

    Are you in a relationship? How does your work affect your personal sex life? Would you tell partners what you do, how have they taken it?

    Do family and friends know what you do, would they be supportive?

    How long do you think you'll keep working in the industry?

    No I'm not in a relationship at the moment. It dosnt affect my personal sex life at all. I'm very good at switching off to what I do in secret. I know that might be hard to believe but it's true, for me anyway. I've learned not to feel guilty anymore about what I do and when I leave and go home to my own house I can genuinely switch off from it.
    No I definitely would never tell a partner what I do. Who's to say that if we finish up he won't go telling people. Only one person knows I do this and that's the way it's going to stay


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Colser wrote: »
    If you found out that your own partner had been going to escorts how would feel about it?Would you consider it cheating and would it be a deal-breaker?

    Interesting thread,thanks.

    Hhmmm good question but I will admit I'd be devastated and as hypocritical as it sounds I would finish it with him yes.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,268 ✭✭✭✭uck51js9zml2yt


    I do have a "normal" job too and do pay tax yes

    I think he meant tax complaint with your additional job !!
    How do you inform revenue about the income stream?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    I think he meant tax complaint with your additional job !!
    How do you inform revenue about the income stream?

    I know what he meant and I'm sure he knows the answer himself !!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    Is this a lifelong career for you, as in is it a long term plan?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    When you take on a new client how scary is it that he could turn aggressive? What protection do you have in place in case someone turns nasty?

    Have you ever been contacted by someone you know or someone famous?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    222233 wrote: »
    Is this a lifelong career for you, as in is it a long term plan?

    I honestly don't know how long I will do it. It suits me at the moment thou


  • Boards.ie Employee Posts: 12,597 ✭✭✭✭✭Boards.ie: Niamh
    Boards.ie Community Manager


    Alcoheda do not post in this thread again


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,002 ✭✭✭dev100


    Hhmmm good question but I will admit I'd be devastated and as hypocritical as it sounds I would finish it with him yes.

    Why so ?

    Do your clients be the young single type or the rich older married man or is there a certain type who would use your services more than most ? Do you enjoy the sex or is it purely a transaction fee for your time ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1 roywilljenks


    Wow.. interesting read! Thanks Laura!


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    When you take on a new client how scary is it that he could turn aggressive? What protection do you have in place in case someone turns nasty?

    Have you ever been contacted by someone you know or someone famous?

    As I said previously I am lucky enough now to have enough regular clients so I don't need to meet strangers anymore but yes it was very scary not knowing who was coming to the door.
    Where I work from thou they would be very silly to try anything nasty
    I havnt been contacted by anyone I know thank god


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    dev100 wrote: »
    Why so ?

    Do your clients be the young single type or the rich older married man or is there a certain type who would use your services more than most ? Do you enjoy the sex or is it purely a transaction fee for your time ?

    It's honestly a good mix. 90% are married thou
    I enjoy it with the attractive guys yes


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    I honestly don't know how long I will do it. It suits me at the moment thou

    I just have a few more, then I promise I'll leave - I have always wanted to speak with an escort!!

    How do you find your clients, as in do you market your services or is it word of mouth?

    How do you prevent STI's e.g if a condom breaks or someone has some form of oral/genital warts, herpes etc?

    Have you ever turned a client down for being really unhygienic?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,399 ✭✭✭✭Collie D


    I havnt been contacted by anyone I know thank god

    Interesting thread.

    I know you've said you have regular clients/customers/dates/whatever you call them so you probably don't need to advertise now but when starting out did you not have a photo on a website and were you not worried about someone you know seeing you eg the boss at your daytime job?


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,572 ✭✭✭Colser


    Have you ever refused someone because of their lack of hygiene?How do you know that they won't be one of the unwashed before you get started...have you ever just had to stop after starting because they were stomach churning?What excuse do you give if you can't go ahead with it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,227 ✭✭✭✭JCX BXC


    This may be a bit blunt, but do you have an STD?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    222233 wrote: »
    I just have a few more, then I promise I'll leave - I have always wanted to speak with an escort!!

    How do you find your clients, as in do you market your services or is it word of mouth?

    How do you prevent STI's e.g if a condom breaks or someone performs or someone has some form of oral/genital warts, herpes etc?

    Have you ever turned a client down for being really unhygienic?

    Ask as many questions as you want, I don't mind.
    I advertise online that's how I meet them
    I've never had a comdom break ! Touch wood.
    I've never had to turn away a client. They all know to shower beforehand and if they looked like they had warts I wouldn't hesitate to turn them away.

    I get tested for STIs regularly too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭Carlos Orange


    It's honestly a good mix. 90% are married thou

    What do you provide that they can't/don't get at home?
    Are they in sexless marriages?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    JCX BXC wrote: »
    This may be a bit blunt, but do you have an STD?

    What a ridiculous question ..... next


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,773 ✭✭✭connemara man


    Do you find it lonely as it's not something you talk about with your friends and family?

    Do you have friends who are also escorts? A network in that sense?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 138 ✭✭SGSM


    Wait so you wouldn't tell a partner you do this??? Seriously? When did cheating stop being a big deal?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,846 ✭✭✭✭Liam McPoyle


    Has someone you knew/recognised ever tried to avail of your services?

    Does anyone in "the real world" know what your side line is?

    You seem quite well balanced, I've seen documentaries about sex workers and some of them came across as quite sad as in emotionally damaged (for want of a better word). Do you ever leave a job and think, I cant be dealing with this anymore?

    Ever fell for a client?

    Do you like toast?


  • Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Collie D wrote: »
    Interesting thread.

    I know you've said you have regular clients/customers/dates/whatever you call them so you probably don't need to advertise now but when starting out did you not have a photo on a website and were you not worried about someone you know seeing you eg the boss at your daytime job?

    I still advertise ! It's the only way they will see I'm working in their area! I'd never call or txt my clients ! I do have photos up but Ireland's a small country so no my face will never be on show


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