Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

LaraLushhhhh

HONKEY TONK wrote: »

Great AMA

If a guy books an hour and false starts within the first 5 minutes, Does he get a chance to redeem himself or is it just chitchat for the next 55min or is he send packing straight after?

Yip he can stay the whole hour if he wants. I've often made them coffee and chatted for the rest of the time. I've no problem with that at all and I've no problem with him redeeming himself again either

LaraLushhhhh

bajer101 wrote: »

Do you have to stop work when you have your period?

I've that covered but thanks for the concern :P

Bonavox

Do you stay in the hotel room for the night once the client leaves? Seems like an awful waste

Taltos

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dev100

Do you do one night stands if you met someone on a night out or is sex just a for profit adventure now ? Does it taint your view of men knowing what is going on ?

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Jan_de_Bakker

Hi,
Good reading on this thread, I've always thought most of these women would be exploited and forced into it, reading this has
shown me otherwise tho - good to see there is ethical options for guys out there.

What is your opinions on men that use them ?
Do you secretly despise them ? - or do you respect them as long as they respect you and see it purely as
a business transaction ?

XsApollo

How big is your collection of lingerie?
And do you have all the outfits that one could imagine could go with the profession?

LaraLushhhhh

Jan_de_Bakker wrote: »

Hi,
Good reading on this thread, I've always thought most of these women would be exploited and forced into it, reading this has
shown me otherwise tho - good to see there is ethical options for guys out there.

What is your opinions on men that use them ?
Do you secretly despise them ? - or do you respect them as long as they respect you and see it purely as
a business transaction ?

No I definitely don't despise them! It's purely a business transaction and if I didn't see them they would do a business transaction with someone else

bajer101

LaraLushhhhh wrote: »

I've that covered but thanks for the concern :P

Re the period question, does that mean that you take meds that prevent your period? If so, are there any health or possible fertility implications?

Penny Tration

Possibly a little personal, but it's the one question I can't get out of my mind -


You say you'd never tell a future partner about this occupation, and you also say it'd be no real difficulty to stop if you meet someone you want to marry.


But.... Could you marry someone after lying to them for the entire relationship, and essentially cheating on them the whole time? Or have you resigned yourself to being single for however long you continue in your line of work, and mean that you intend to never tell a future partner about your PAST line of work?

I'm not judging you, I'm genuinely curious as to how you could play that one out.

Sleeper12

Sparky_7 wrote:

Whats the most money you've made in a week

I'm a plumber and no one would ask the same question here . Funny how people think about things

Surreptitious

Hi Lara. The first guy online that offered you money, did you go ahead with that and how did you feel straight after? Would you consider yourself attractive and sexy or does the work you do help make you feel that way?

DANNY2014

Sleeper12 wrote: »

I'm a plumber and no one would ask the same question here . Funny how people think about things

How much do you make a week so???


Btw great ama...

masculinist

1) Have you ever been robbed ?

2) Has a client ever refused to pay after the deed ?

3) Has a client ever robbed his money back ?

4) Have you ever voluntarily refunded a client who wasnt happy with the experience ?

5) What can you do if you are robbed or a client refuses to pay ? Do you have some sort of private security ?

6) Have you any contact with gangster types ?

7) Has anyone ever asked you for protection money ? e.g a gangster type

8) Since you said you have a regular job , I'd assume you have no criminal record. Have you ever come been known to the Gardai because of an investigation ?

LaraLushhhhh

Penny Tration wrote: »

Possibly a little personal, but it's the one question I can't get out of my mind -


You say you'd never tell a future partner about this occupation, and you also say it'd be no real difficulty to stop if you meet someone you want to marry.


But.... Could you marry someone after lying to them for the entire relationship, and essentially cheating on them the whole time? Or have you resigned yourself to being single for however long you continue in your line of work, and mean that you intend to never tell a future partner about your PAST line of work?

I'm not judging you, I'm genuinely curious as to how you could play that one out.

I'm single now and probably will be for the foreseeable future. I'm a happy singleton.
I will NEVER tell a future partner.
I will never feel guilty for what I do.
I have absolutely no problem whatsoever keeping this secret for as long as I live.
I won't be doing this forever and certainly won't be doing it when I'm married with children.

bajer101

Would you prefer the current legal situation where there is very little chance of you or your clients being prosecuted and you can earn tax free, or would you prefer it was legalised and you had to become tax compliant?

LaraLushhhhh

Sleeper12 wrote: »

I'm a plumber and no one would ask the same question here . Funny how people think about things

The most I've made is 1200€ for 3-4 days work

eviltwin

Do you think you'll miss it when you stop? Having gotten used to the extra money can you afford to stop, would your lifestyle suffer?

How do you stop yourself saying anything when you hear someone talking rubbish about escorting or referring to sex workers in a degrading way?

eviltwin

LaraLushhhhh wrote: »

I'm single now and probably will be for the foreseeable future. I'm a happy singleton.
I will NEVER tell a future partner.
I will never feel guilty for what I do.
I have absolutely no problem whatsoever keeping this secret for as long as I live.
I won't be doing this forever and certainly won't be doing it when I'm married with children.

Why, are you ashamed? Do you feel people will judge you?

LaraLushhhhh

masculinist wrote: »

1) Have you ever been robbed ?

2) Has a client ever refused to pay after the deed ?

3) Has a client ever robbed his money back ?

4) Have you ever voluntarily refunded a client who wasnt happy with the experience ?

5) What can you do if you are robbed or a client refuses to pay ? Do you have some sort of private security ?

6) Have you any contact with gangster types ?

7) Has anyone ever asked you for protection money ? e.g a gangster type

8) Since you said you have a regular job , I'd assume you have no criminal record. Have you ever come been known to the Gardai because of an investigation ?

1. No
2. No because money changes hands first
3.no
4. I'm good at what I do
5. No comment
6. No lol
7. No
8. I got a speeding fine once

LaraLushhhhh

eviltwin wrote: »

Why, are you ashamed? Do you feel people will judge you?

People would judge of course they would. I would never do that to my family

Armchair Andy

eviltwin wrote:

Why, are you ashamed? Do you feel people will judge you?

Ashamed or not, she'll be judged unfortunately.
And AMA has nothing to be ashamed of.

LaraLushhhhh

Surreptitious wrote: »

Hi Lara. The first guy online that offered you money, did you go ahead with that and how did you feel straight after? Would you consider yourself attractive and sexy or does the work you do help make you feel that way?

Yes I did it. 400€ for seeing him for 15 minutes.
Yes I'm attractive and sexy ! Sorry if that sounds big headed.

knucklehead6

You've said you only deal with regular clients nowadays.

Do you still take on new clients and allow them become regular? Or is it just with the same men from now on in.

HeidiHeidi

What age are you?

(even roughly)

masculinist

LaraLushhhhh wrote: »

1. No
2. No because money changes hands first
3.no
4. I'm good at what I do
5. No comment
6. No lol
7. No
8. I got a speeding fine once

Thanks lol

Heres an interesting question:


If you met someone , fell in love , didnt tell them , got married/engaged etc , had kids etc , do you ever worry that your partners best friend might turn out to have been one of your clients ? Or his dad or brother ? Or even half his small village ? :eek:

How would you handle or feel about that ? Would you worry about it eventually getting back to him ?

LaraLushhhhh

knucklehead6 wrote: »

You've said you only deal with regular clients nowadays.

Do you still take on new clients and allow them become regular? Or is it just with the same men from now on in.

No I wouldn't see new clients. It was the most stressful time of my life for the first few months opening the door to strangers not knowing who was going to be there so fortunately I don't have to worry about that anymore

Hollister11

Do you do anything your clients want, or do you have boudries?

What do you do if a client refuses to pay?

LaraLushhhhh

masculinist wrote: »

Thanks lol

Heres an interesting question:


If you met someone , fell in love , didnt tell them , got married/engaged etc , had kids etc , do you ever worry that your partners best friend might turn out to have been one of your clients ? Or his dad or brother ? Or even half his small village ? :eek:

How would you handle or feel about that ? Would you worry about it eventually getting back to him ?

Deny, deny deny

Sleeper12

LaraLushhhhh wrote:

The most I've made is 1200€ for 3-4 days work

At times I have made more. I only say this because someone would ask you the question in the first place but wouldn't usually ask me. Totally respect for your choices