Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

LaraLushhhhh

eviltwin wrote: »

Do you think you'll miss it when you stop? Having gotten used to the extra money can you afford to stop, would your lifestyle suffer?

How do you stop yourself saying anything when you hear someone talking rubbish about escorting or referring to sex workers in a degrading way?

I wouldn't engage in the conversation! Just play dumb

SimonTemplar

Thanks a lot for answering these questions. I have a few...

I believe there is legislation soon criminalizing the purchase of sex. How do you predict that will affect your business?

If Ireland's escort business dried up due to this legislation, would you give up escorting or move to a more escort friendly jurisdiction such as Germany or Holland?

Do you have a distinction between the words 'escort' and 'prostitute'?

knucklehead6

tenreds wrote: »

Has anyone here pmd you yet for your services great tread btw

Well she's said she's not taking new clients, so it doesn't matter.

LaraLushhhhh

SimonTemplar wrote: »

Thanks a lot for answering these questions. I have a few...

I believe there is legislation soon criminalizing the purchase of sex. How do you predict that will affect your business?

If Ireland's escort business dried up due to this legislation, would you give up escorting or move to a more escort friendly jurisdiction such as Germany or Holland?

Do you have a distinction between the words 'escort' and 'prostitute'?

If business dried up and laws became tighter I'd stop. No amount of money would be worth the stress or worry. I wouldn't move country to do this no.
I could argue and say there's a big difference but at the end of the day it is what it is.

gman2k

Whats your opinion on Ruhama?
Do you believe to any extent that they are interested in the welfare of women, or are they just the nuns up to their usual antics?

SimonTemplar

Thanks for answering.
Has any of your regular clients mentioned the upcoming new legislation and if it will affect their habits?

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5

When you first started the work, were you surprised by your own reaction and how you handled it? What I mean is, were you thinking it would be really easy and it was difficult, or vice versa? Or was it all pretty much as you expected?

You seem to have a very forthright and pragmatic attitude to sex, would you say that you had were unusual in that respect before taking up the work and that contributed to your decision to start or has the work affected your attitude?

Do you have any outlet for talking about your work? Any customer facing job I've been in (which your job basically is) going out and blowing off steam and shootin the shít with colleagues has been an important part of the job, it just seems like it'd be lonely not to have it!

Do you take pride in what you do and try to be the best you can? Like do you..research? Upskill?

Colser

Going back to your early days... when you met up with strangers do you think that if you were far from good looking that they would still have gone ahead with the appointment..in other words do you think that for some men it doesn't matter what the woman looks like?

Gloomtastic!

Have you got an action plan worked out if you are arrested while working?

midlandsmissus

Were you ever totally revolted by someone and couldn't go ahead with it?

LaraLushhhhh

gman2k wrote: »

Whats your opinion on Ruhama?
Do you believe to any extent that they are interested in the welfare of women, or are they just the nuns up to their usual antics?

They claim to be non judgemental and offer discreet help which sounds great I guess. There's plenty of organisations available to escorts. Nuns are the last place I'd be going for help anyway if I needed it

irish_goat

Do you offer a 2min special? Asking for a friend...

Also, what sort of level of attractiveness are the majority of your clients? Is it generally less attractive sorts who can't find women (apart from the unhappy husband clients)?

bajer101

Gloomtastic! wrote: »

Have you got an action plan worked out if you are arrested while working?

I don't think she can be arrested. She is not doing anything illegal unless she is sharing a premises with other escorts, in which case they can be charged with maintaining a brothel. At the moment the law doesn't prohibit two consenting adults having sex if money changes hands - and rightly so. That will all change soon though when the Catholic Church driven legislation will make it illegal.

small town girl

Really interesting conversation, thanks for your honesty

Have you found your attitude to men and relationships have changed since you started your escort work three years ago?

Have your opinions on yourself changed since then (positive or negative)?

Do you talk much about your experiences with anyone? I ask because in the past when I've done difficult charity work I've had to debrief with person in charge at end of shift, to leave it behind me essentially.

Thanks in advance

LaraLushhhhh

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Were you ever totally revolted by someone and couldn't go ahead with it?

Once. He was disgusting. Smelly and high as a kite. Sent him to have a shower and he was still disgusting afterwards. It was in the early days and I was terrified that if I didn't go with it then he could turn on me so I got the job done as quickly as possible.
Needless to say I didn't let him return .

Mister Vain

Did you hire a professional photographer to take photos for your profile, and if so, are they heavily retouched like a lot of the escort photos I see?

midlandsmissus

Why did you want to do this thread?

Toots

Really interesting Amazing!

Have you ever had a client request or offer to pay extra to not use condoms?

You mentioned you use hotels to meet clients - do you rotate between the same few hotels all the time, or do you always use a different one?

Do clients ever just not show up?

pebbles21

Do you ever have an orgasm with your clients and if so , does it happen regularly?

LaraLushhhhh

small town girl wrote: »

Really interesting conversation, thanks for your honesty

Have you found your attitude to men and relationships have changed since you started your escort work three years ago?

Have your opinions on yourself changed since then (positive or negative)?

Do you talk much about your experiences with anyone? I ask because in the past when I've done difficult charity work I've had to debrief with person in charge at end of shift, to leave it behind me essentially.

Thanks in advance

I see men in a completely different light now. I find myself looking at married couples all the time and thinking to myself hhmmm I wonder if he sees escorts. You have to understand, a lot of my clients have grown to trust me. They have shown me pics of their stunning wives and beautiful children so now I know that it can be any man I know! My dad, my brother, my uncle , my brother in law .... anyone. And on the other hand I find myself looking at women and think hhmmm I wonder if she does what I do.
I've become hard as nails over the last couple of years. I've developed a thick skin and I take everything anyone says to me now especially men I've dated with a pinch of salt.
What I do will always be going on and men will always visit us. It's terrible for wives and girlfriends but it's fact.
I have one friend who I can vent to at times if I need to but as I've already said I've learned to leave it at the back of my mind once I'm home.

mikeoneilly

LaraLushhhhh wrote: »

My prices have gone up ! I didn't have a clue what I was doing at the start but I quickly learned.

My phone is constantly ringing but I only answer regulars

Make a whitelist then !

Boaty

You say you haven't saved much, what happens when you stop being an escort and all of a sudden the part time normal job isn't able to support your past lifestyle.
Do you not think friends and family will suspect something was up?

LaraLushhhhh

pebbles21 wrote: »

Do you ever have an orgasm with your clients and if so , does it happen regularly?

In 3 years it's happened once !

LaraLushhhhh

Boaty wrote: »

You say you haven't saved much, what happens when you stop being an escort and all of a sudden the part time normal job isn't able to support your past lifestyle.
Do you not think friends and family will suspect something was up?

I'll have enough saved to be comfortable enough and to work a full time job. As I said I have my house and my car. I don't have anyone relying on me to feed or cloth them so I think I'll manage

SimonTemplar

You mention you have one friend who knows about this part of your life. What was that person's reaction when you told him/her?

midlandsmissus

LaraLushhhhh wrote: »

pebbles21 wrote: »

Do you ever have an orgasm with your clients and if so , does it happen regularly?

In 3 years it's happened once !

Same in normal life lol. Why do you think many men are so uneducated/uncaring about making a woman orgasm.

BigBulldog

What do you do with all the extra dosh you are making?
Have u a coke habit or are you paying off loans etc

eviltwin

Have you been in a relationship since you started and how does it impact on your sex life, does it make it less special?

LaraLushhhhh

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Why did you want to do this thread?

To show people that escorts arnt all miserable and not all locked up in houses with no choices as to who we see and what hours we want to work .

Mister Vain

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Why do you think many men are so uneducated/uncaring about making a woman orgasm.

That's a bit of a leap.