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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    Its just strange that im labelled vulnerable due to my stance against prostitutes, if favourable, I wouldnt be seen as vulnerable? yet a person who has gone to 20+ is seen as perfectly normal.

    I haven't labelled you "vulnerable" at all. You choose to persistently present male sexuality as a vulnerability being exploited, and you also persistently base abstract assertions on your subjective feelings and attitudes. I just did the math.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The point is rather simple. You're passing judgment on something you have absolutely no knowledge of. i.e. Sex. Nevermind about Prostitution. This discussion and your opinions revolve around sex. If we were talking about murder, or something obviously ****ed up, then I might have more sympathy for your position, but we're not. We're talking about something which is part of our essence. To have sex.

    Here, I think a 12 year old knows the difference. I dont think I need to go riding a few hookers along with a few normal women to understand the difference now do I?

    Actually since you continue to make these kind of remarks, you obviously do. Not the prostitutes but the normal women, definitely. How can you give a balanced, and informed opinion on something you have no knowledge about? And watching a few porn movies isn't going to give you much help.

    here's a question for you.. and I know a 12 year old wont know the answer. Do you know what it feels like to have an orgasm while buried deep inside a beautiful woman?
    Its a prior opinion. I will always be that way, its something I will always see as a mechanism of relief for the desperate and idiotic.

    Self formed Limiting beliefs... :rolleyes: You're choosing to be this way. And you're choosing to dismiss other peoples choices because you're afraid to deal with life. You complained about people going to prostitutes because they're giving up on life, and yet you, yourself, have already given up.
    I assume your speaking of a sexual partner. I understand, you've enlightened me and given me hope in life. But what you've just said has showed visiting a prostitute to be an experience void of this, as its just so formal.

    Formal? You don't know what it is like. You keep making assumptions based on air...

    And I stated clearly in my reply to you that I was talking about sex. Not about going to a prostitute.
    I dont find myself attracted to many girls. I dont share the same ideas of 'socialising', therefore, its quite rare i'd find a girl im attracted to. Most girls my age wear ugg boots. Time they grow up a little.

    Time for you grow up, rather than passing off your baggage on to other people.

    Look, I don't want to insult you. I'm really trying to be nice about all of this. But you've constructed a world around yourself, and nobody is going to be able to get in, until you step out of it. Everyone is going to be less than your exacting standards, and it'll always be their fault in one way or another.

    I don't like to drink. I really hate getting drunk. I also have no interest in sports of any description. And 15 years ago, this was all there was for socialising in a small Irish town. Woe is me. I found alternatives. Now 15 years on, you should get off your arse and find those alternatives that suit you.

    And the simple fact is that you don't know what kind of girl suits you. Oh, you can decide that you like this kind of girl, but you don't have any practical knowledge of whats its like to be with them (in every meaning of the word). Until you go out and get some real experience, you'll continue to limit yourself. (and others) --- Its like having a crush on a girl, who you never speak to. You watch from afar amazed at how beautiful she is, and you form an idea of how she is in many aspects of her life. This continues for a while, and then one weekend you get to know her, and realise she's nothing like how you imagined her, and in fact she's a waste of space... Until you experience someone you wont know who they are regardless of how much thought you invest.
    I went back to a girls house the other week, didnt know her or anything, but chatted awayto her when I arrived back. As I talked on, I got more discussed with myself, I though, got ive nothing in common with her, what am I doing here? Thats not me - one night stands. Why is it that you feel I 'need' go to off and **** some randomers, 'ah shur jaysus im irish like' ? Im one to like to get to know a girl first.

    Actually i didn't say you needed to get a one-night stand. I said you need to get some experience of sex. You're not really reading what i've said and making assumptions again. The type & manner of the sex is entirely up to you. I really don't care. But I would like for you to know the difference between good sex, great sex, orgasmic sex, bad sex, sloppy sex, and woefully horrible sex. Get my drift?
    Relief of tension at a price? Hmm, just so appealing isnt it.

    Again, you didn't read what I said.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    Actually since you continue to make these kind of remarks, you obviously do. Not the prostitutes but the normal women, definitely. How can you give a balanced, and informed opinion on something you have no knowledge about?

    All im saying is I see a stark difference in going to a prostitute and having sex on merit. The physical act, I cant see it about much different, but the whole idea of actually paying for it is simply shows that the client is desperate, and compelled to have sex, ie insecure. I dont see why the client would feel such a desperate need to get off. Peer pressure comes to mind! We're not real men unless we know how to pleasure a woman in the right ways. Perhaps thats it. It would make sense to so many.
    here's a question for you.. and I know a 12 year old wont know the answer. Do you know what it feels like to have an orgasm while buried deep inside a beautiful woman?

    TO me it doesnt count with a prostitute, its totally different. Surely, even I, could secure ones services within a few days. Merit? joy? No. You see, I personally, dont find any possible outcomes from going visiting a prostitute. You obviously did back in the day, it helped you psychologically, perhaps it made you feel more comfortable when with other girls.
    Self formed Limiting beliefs... :rolleyes: You're choosing to be this way. And you're choosing to dismiss other peoples choices because you're afraid to deal with life. You complained about people going to prostitutes because they're giving up on life, and yet you, yourself, have already given up.

    Not really, I have a lot of hope when I finish college. travel etc, but ill accept I wont be the same man without having went to a few prostitutes:)
    Formal? You don't know what it is like. You keep making assumptions based on air...

    And I stated clearly in my reply to you that I was talking about sex. Not about going to a prostitute.

    Systematic I should say.
    Time for you grow up, rather than passing off your baggage on to other people.

    Look, I don't want to insult you. I'm really trying to be nice about all of this. But you've constructed a world around yourself, and nobody is going to be able to get in, until you step out of it. Everyone is going to be less than your exacting standards, and it'll always be their fault in one way or another.

    Why should I pretend to myself that the world is a different place that it really is to me? Why should I force myself into another state of extistence? Most people my age are immature to me. They wouldnt share the same interests as me, and see enyojment in 'gettin locked and ridin'. but hey, I should read a few self-help books, learn how to think differently.
    I don't like to drink. I really hate getting drunk. I also have no interest in sports of any description. And 15 years ago, this was all there was for socialising in a small Irish town. Woe is me. I found alternatives. Now 15 years on, you should get off your arse and find those alternatives that suit you.

    And alternatives for me? None, not in this narrow-minded country. there's nothing for a 20 yr old like me who doesnt like the whole drinking culture, well, nothing in terms of socialising. The music I like, well the gigs I go to, they're about 70-80% men, no joke. I dont believe in using the internet as a means of gaining friendship. Fine, you will be baffled as ultimately ill be the one to suffer, but im stubborn. Im willing to ride the storm.
    And the simple fact is that you don't know what kind of girl suits you. Oh, you can decide that you like this kind of girl, but you don't have any practical knowledge of whats its like to be with them (in every meaning of the word). Until you go out and get some real experience, you'll continue to limit yourself. (and others) --- Its like having a crush on a girl, who you never speak to. You watch from afar amazed at how beautiful she is, and you form an idea of how she is in many aspects of her life. This continues for a while, and then one weekend you get to know her, and realise she's nothing like how you imagined her, and in fact she's a waste of space... Until you experience someone you wont know who they are regardless of how much thought you invest.

    True, been there, well, still am, kind of. But she was a rarity, liked the same music as me, wasnt a 'mad wan' for heading out on the tear. Was far more mature than your typical Irish girl, sadly, despite only living down the road from me, ive been unable to bump into her, missed the chance of a decade lets say. Hard to pick yourself up when knowing that she was a rare type, and that the vast majority of other girls her age arent my kettle of fish. Thats life.

    but to say I should go visit a prostitute and it may help me? Haha....
    Actually i didn't say you needed to get a one-night stand. I said you need to get some experience of sex. You're not really reading what i've said and making assumptions again. The type & manner of the sex is entirely up to you. I really don't care. But I would like for you to know the difference between good sex, great sex, orgasmic sex, bad sex, sloppy sex, and woefully horrible sex. Get my drift?

    I have little interest in sex for the whole, im only 20. Im just of the opinion that prostitution is pathetic, along with the clientel. Really, can you see one or two sexual experiences changing me? I'd say id end up being like: 'and lads go out with the ultimate goal of this'



    Again, you didn't read what I said.[/quote]

    I did.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    aare wrote: »
    I haven't labelled you "vulnerable" at all. You choose to persistently present male sexuality as a vulnerability being exploited, and you also persistently base abstract assertions on your subjective feelings and attitudes. I just did the math.
    yup, I do see it as vulnerable. Perhaps others do. Especially in this country which is only gaining full sexual liberation as of late. When a lad forks out a couple of hundred for sex, is there not something wrong?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    All im saying is I see a stark difference in going to a prostitute and having sex on merit.

    There is no such things as "having sex on merit". You do not "earn" sex, it is not a judgement or a validation. Sex is an interaction between 2 people on any terms they need it to be.
    yup, I do see it as vulnerable. Perhaps others do. Especially in this country which is only gaining full sexual liberation as of late. When a lad forks out a couple of hundred for sex, is there not something wrong?

    Absolutely not, he is simply respecting the needs and nature of the prostitute who is respecting his needs and nature in return.

    I think you would want to find your own sexual liberation before you comment on Ireland's.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    aare wrote: »
    Sex is an interaction between 2 people on any terms they need it to be.

    Not a nice take on life is it.

    Money......... money.
    aare wrote: »
    Absolutely not, he is simply respecting the needs and nature of the prostitute who is respecting his needs and nature in return.

    Needs? Its desperation. Nothing but. What will happen if he doesnt get sex? Will he grab a rope?

    aare wrote: »
    I think you would want to find your own sexual liberation before you comment on Ireland's.

    So I need to **** a hooker, em, that will compound, sorry solve so much wont it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    So I need to **** a hooker, em, that will compound, sorry solve so much wont it.

    No, to be honest, you attitude to women and sex seems so disturbed and distorted that I would personally rather you stayed away from both until you have had some real help with that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    My attitude to women? I feel its rather normal. Fine my attitude to prostitutes, ill admit I regard them as scum, same as all other criminals. But to say my attitude with women is disturbed, well now, please quote me on that one, really.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    All im saying is I see a stark difference in going to a prostitute and having sex on merit. The physical act, I cant see it about much different, but the whole idea of actually paying for it is simply shows that the client is desperate, and compelled to have sex, ie insecure. I dont see why the client would feel such a desperate need to get off.

    Lets go back to the basics. When you do finally have sex with a woman and you receive a great experience, you will in turn want to have such an experience again. And since every woman is different, and the manner that you have sex is different, you will have no problem with trying different types of women to receive said experience. Basically, once you experience good sex, you'll want to have it again.

    But you won't truly understand this, because you haven't had such an experience. Which makes discussing this with you rather silly.
    Peer pressure comes to mind! We're not real men unless we know how to pleasure a woman in the right ways. Perhaps thats it. It would make sense to so many.

    Peer Pressure? Err, i doubt it. The peer pressure that men feel is to go out and score in a public setting. Not to have a prostitute unless a group of friends is in Amsterdam or such. [and peer pressue tends to disappear towards the end of college/uni]
    TO me it doesnt count with a prostitute, its totally different.

    You have one experience of sex with one woman. AND it was bad. So why does your opinion have any merit at all? Seriously. We're not talking about rugby where anyone can learn the rules and comment on the manner of play. We're talking about a personal experience between two people, and more complicated than just about any other social interaction.
    Surely, even I, could secure ones services within a few days. Merit? joy? No. You see, I personally, dont find any possible outcomes from going visiting a prostitute. You obviously did back in the day, it helped you psychologically, perhaps it made you feel more comfortable when with other girls.

    Nope. Prostitutes only made me feel more comfortable when it came to having some expertise in having sex. Knowing various positions, and being aware of the options available.

    What made me comfortable with girls, was going out, talking to girls, flirting with girls, and ultimately going out with girls. You really should try it..

    I've said it many times in this thread. The only aspect that a prostitute provides is sex, and a non-judgmental setting where you can try different forms of sex.
    Not really, I have a lot of hope when I finish college. travel etc, but ill accept I wont be the same man without having went to a few prostitutes:)

    Its not about going to prostitutes. You can't seem to look beyond a certain point. I've said that you need to get more experience about sex. Not prostitutes, Sex. And I really hope for your sake, that you have sex again before you leave college, otherwise you'll just be a painful experience to any girl you sleep with. (considering the baggage you're carrying around)
    Systematic I should say.

    I'd rather you didn't, since its not applicable to your situation. :rolleyes:
    Why should I pretend to myself that the world is a different place that it really is to me? Why should I force myself into another state of extistence? Most people my age are immature to me. They wouldnt share the same interests as me, and see enyojment in 'gettin locked and ridin'. but hey, I should read a few self-help books, learn how to think differently.

    Yup. Stop playing yourself up as a victim. Stop blaming everyone else for your mistakes, or bad judgments. You have a fair few social problems, and you really should look to fixing your own personal problems. You're no longer a teenager but an adult. Other Adults wont put up with your nonsense.
    And alternatives for me? None, not in this narrow-minded country. there's nothing for a 20 yr old like me who doesnt like the whole drinking culture, well, nothing in terms of socialising. The music I like, well the gigs I go to, they're about 70-80% men, no joke. I dont believe in using the internet as a means of gaining friendship. Fine, you will be baffled as ultimately ill be the one to suffer, but im stubborn. Im willing to ride the storm.

    You're willing to make a corner in your world, and hide from the world. Thats not stubbornness.
    True, been there, well, still am, kind of. But she was a rarity, liked the same music as me, wasnt a 'mad wan' for heading out on the tear. Was far more mature than your typical Irish girl, sadly, despite only living down the road from me, ive been unable to bump into her, missed the chance of a decade lets say. Hard to pick yourself up when knowing that she was a rare type, and that the vast majority of other girls her age arent my kettle of fish. Thats life.

    Ahhh... You fit the profile. Just another stalker waiting for a mission. And you don't think you have more than a few issues after writing that?
    but to say I should go visit a prostitute and it may help me? Haha....

    Which I never did.
    I have little interest in sex for the whole, im only 20. Im just of the opinion that prostitution is pathetic, along with the clientel. Really, can you see one or two sexual experiences changing me? I'd say id end up being like: 'and lads go out with the ultimate goal of this'

    You're a child in my eyes. Not because of your age. I know plenty of 20 year olds I have plenty of respect for. You're a child because of your unwillingness to experience life. Which has nothing to do with prostitution or this thread.
    I did.

    Nope. You scanned it, and rewrote it in you head to suit yourself.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    yup, I do see it as vulnerable. Perhaps others do. Especially in this country which is only gaining full sexual liberation as of late. When a lad forks out a couple of hundred for sex, is there not something wrong?

    You don't see yourself as being a hindrance to full sexual liberation in your opinions on people who avail of prostitutes ? You've created many definite views about sex so far in your life, which outside of the prostitution issue, proclaim yourself as being against most degrees of sexual liberation.


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  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My attitude to women? I feel its rather normal. Fine my attitude to prostitutes, ill admit I regard them as scum, same as all other criminals. But to say my attitude with women is disturbed, well now, please quote me on that one, really.

    I'd say that your attitude to sex is more disturbing, and since you haven't said that you weren't heterosexual, your attitudes towards women are also disturbing...

    As for prostitutes, you attitudes mark you as being dodgy, since you have zero experience of knowing any. You have a preconceived notion that all are bad, and all are... evil to a point. Its a reflection of your attitude to sex. And your opinions on sex are not normal to say the least.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    I'd say that your attitude to sex is more disturbing, and since you haven't said that you weren't heterosexual, your attitudes towards women are also disturbing...

    As for prostitutes, you attitudes mark you as being dodgy, since you have zero experience of knowing any. You have a preconceived notion that all are bad, and all are... evil to a point. Its a reflection of your attitude to sex. And your opinions on sex are not normal to say the least.
    what has sexuality have to do with it? What exactly is disturbing about my attitude to women? What exactly have I said about the female that has left you disturbed?

    Fine, you see my attitude towards prostitutes as awful, but I understand you, as they were a tool of necessity for you, in order for you to gain your sensous pleasure / make you a more complete person etc.

    Well, what is normal regarding sex? Should i be out riding periodically? If I fail in my quest for sex, should I decide to pay for it, and ultimately relieve these 'tensions' im told I have. I've just reached a stage where I can no longer tolerate lads with their usual 'jeez, i need to get my hole soon or ill crack up man'. Its a bit pathetic, keeping up with the boys, wanting to be seen as out there and succeeding.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,956 ✭✭✭layke


    Hi

    I live in Brisbane these days (Queensland) and prostitution is legal here.

    Still waiting to hear all these horror stories that I have read about trafficing of women and the like. It just doesn't really happen here. There are actually suprisingly few drug users who resort to prostitution over here to. The vast majority are in fact well educated women.

    I work in IT (dept of education) over here and I remember a story recently of a primary school teacher who was caught with a second job at night working the brothels. The dept obviously gave her a choice, quit the prostitution or lose your job as a teacher.... she went to work in the brothel because she made $400-500 per hour. Her choice well educated and enjoyed her nightlife work.

    I've never had sex with a prostitute, because I suppose I did well on the genetic lottery but friends of mine do who are not so fortunate looking or just don't see sex as some holy sacred thing. Also they have no qualm about making it public to other people.

    Anyway as far as I'm concerned making it illegal has created more problems then making it legal.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    Lets go back to the basics. When you do finally have sex with a woman and you receive a great experience, you will in turn want to have such an experience again. And since every woman is different, and the manner that you have sex is different, you will have no problem with trying different types of women to receive said experience. Basically, once you experience good sex, you'll want to have it again.

    Nah, seriously, its not silly at all. Do you honestly think a few more sexual experiences will provoke me into becoming partial to the idea of prostitution? Im sure it would boost my confidence around women. Yeah, good sex, for you it can be achieved with any person, from what it seems. As I tend to warm to like-minded girls, I cant ever see myself enjoying having sex with any girl at all. Not all men are that mad for it. I know a few lads who are up on 20+ women and they all have the same rhetoric - its cracked up to be way more than it is, ie 'peer pressure'. Echoes of how drunkeness was described to me as a youngster.

    Peer Pressure? Err, i doubt it. The peer pressure that men feel is to go out and score in a public setting. Not to have a prostitute unless a group of friends is in Amsterdam or such.

    Well, im told I need to have sex in order to be able to decide whether I would visit a prostitute. How would it change anything? I will always cringe at the idea, but alas, im being told its something of an essential for me to sort my 'disturbing' self out.

    You have one experience of sex with one woman. AND it was bad. So why does your opinion have any merit at all? Seriously. We're not talking about rugby where anyone can learn the rules and comment on the manner of play. We're talking about a personal experience between two people, and more complicated than just about any other social interaction.

    So, by your logic, if it had been a good experience, coupled with another or so, I would now be visiting prostitutes. I would now have a taste for it? I wouldnt be able to hold back?

    Nope. Prostitutes only made me feel more comfortable when it came to having some expertise in having sex. Knowing various positions, and being aware of the options available.

    Ah, so you were insecure as to how women would percieve you sexually. You felt compounded to avail of these services simply so you could improve your game, so girls would think you were something you were not. No such willingness to work your way up? I should start reading pick-up books shouldn't I? Knowing you, you'd probably be an advocate.
    What made me comfortable with girls, was going out, talking to girls, flirting with girls, and ultimately going out with girls. You really should try it..

    Ya, flirt with girls I dont find myself attracted to? Im not a niteclub person, so im in a minority my age in a socialising sense. The places I go are what we might label 'cockfests', as not much girls my age would be mad into their techno or house etc. They enjoy their r'n'b down in the student niteclubs. You must understand that I go for a certain type of girl, and would not attain any happiness from having any girl as my partner.
    I've said it many times in this thread. The only aspect that a prostitute provides is sex, and a non-judgmental setting where you can try different forms of sex.

    As I said, where's the willingness to work up? Trial and error, thats the essence of life. Here I am putting out an arguement on the opposite end of the spectrum of yours, now I can (well im trying) see the middle ground. It seems that I differ from the vast majority of men who are just plain 'mad for sex'. I see paying for it as relief from desperation, whereas you see it as clay pidgeon.
    Its not about going to prostitutes. You can't seem to look beyond a certain point. I've said that you need to get more experience about sex. Not prostitutes, Sex. And I really hope for your sake, that you have sex again before you leave college, otherwise you'll just be a painful experience to any girl you sleep with. (considering the baggage you're carrying around)

    Very insecure talk there. why should I be 'experienced'? Why should this girl expect this of me? If she was truly attracted to me, would this initiality throw her off me? 'she might tell her friends'. Oh god,

    Yup. Stop playing yourself up as a victim. Stop blaming everyone else for your mistakes, or bad judgments. You have a fair few social problems, and you really should look to fixing your own personal problems. You're no longer a teenager but an adult. Other Adults wont put up with your nonsense.

    Victim of what? by saying that I enjoy different ideas of socialising? I dont really have any social problems, care to enlighten me as to what problems you see in me. I enjoy meeting new people. I head out as much as any student, have the laugh and all, so where do I lack in a social sence? And nonsense? Where am I nonsensical? Should I be going out with the willingness to **** anything? Start my climb on the sexual ladder? Id be a real man then. Perhaps I should learn all these new sexual positions you felt compelled to learn back in the day. The girls would be falling all over for me.

    You're willing to make a corner in your world, and hide from the world. Thats not stubbornness.

    Im not hiding from anyone. I would say what im saying to anyone in a general conversation.

    Ahhh... You fit the profile. Just another stalker waiting for a mission. And you don't think you have more than a few issues after writing that?

    No, I would have gotten paranoid about your comment had it not been that two close relatives of mine told me of the same problem they had with girls when they were a little older than me (early 20s). but the advice given was 'ride your way out of it', which is what I had in mind as to what your reply was going to contain.

    So I guess liking a girl means a have 'issues'? Seriously, if your going to reiterate on anything else, please do so on this one.


    You're a child in my eyes. Not because of your age. I know plenty of 20 year olds I have plenty of respect for. You're a child because of your unwillingness to experience life. Which has nothing to do with prostitution or this thread.

    I do embrace life, I enjoy it as much as anyone, but in your eyes, my attitudes on sex with a prostitute and the idea of 'getting me whole' make me a child. So, if I go to a 'brazzer' am I deemed to be appreciative of life?


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    layke wrote: »
    Hi

    I live in Brisbane these days (Queensland) and prostitution is legal here.

    Still waiting to hear all these horror stories that I have read about trafficing of women and the like. It just doesn't really happen here. There are actually suprisingly few drug users who resort to prostitution over here to. The vast majority are in fact well educated women.

    I work in IT (dept of education) over here and I remember a story recently of a primary school teacher who was caught with a second job at night working the brothels. The dept obviously gave her a choice, quit the prostitution or lose your job as a teacher.... she went to work in the brothel because she made $400-500 per hour. Her choice well educated and enjoyed her nightlife work.

    I've never had sex with a prostitute, because I suppose I did well on the genetic lottery but friends of mine do who are not so fortunate looking or just don't see sex as some holy sacred thing. Also they have no qualm about making it public to other people.

    Anyway as far as I'm concerned making it illegal has created more problems then making it legal.

    haha... i lived in brisbane for almost two years, out in Kelvin grove. Lovely city, with amazing people.

    I went to one brothel during my whole time there, and didn't stay long because there was nobody i was interested in. Well, actually it was because i was more curious than actually wanting anything.

    There are more issues in Australia though when it comes to trafficking of women & young girls. Especially Asian girls. Although it happens more in areas like Sydney or Melbourne.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    what has sexuality have to do with it?

    Because being Hetrossexual you would be interacting with Women... so your opinions about sex would affect the women you would come into contact with.
    What exactly is disturbing about my attitude to women? What exactly have I said about the female that has left you disturbed?

    I find your attitude about sex to be disturbing... not about your attitude about women. I just figure that one leads to the other.
    Fine, you see my attitude towards prostitutes as awful, but I understand you, as they were a tool of necessity for you, in order for you to gain your sensous pleasure / make you a more complete person etc.

    A person is the sum of all their experiences and what they have learnt from those experiences.

    You don't understand me, because you're unwilling to understand. I can write reams of information on boards.ie explaining how I feel about things, but you will continue to misunderstand because you don't want to understand.
    Well, what is normal regarding sex? Should i be out riding periodically?

    You don't see anything odd in the sequence of those two questions, and the wording that you use? When talking about sex its always about how much, and you use terms like whores & riding. For me, thats an indication of your attitude towards this subject.
    If I fail in my quest for sex, should I decide to pay for it, and ultimately relieve these 'tensions' im told I have. I've just reached a stage where I can no longer tolerate lads with their usual 'jeez, i need to get my hole soon or ill crack up man'. Its a bit pathetic, keeping up with the boys, wanting to be seen as out there and succeeding.

    You don't have sex for other people. You do it initially for yourself. Ultimately you have sex to bring pleasure to someone else. If you don't see any value in that, then maybe you are better off not having sex. Personally, I can't see anything positive in you, which might benefit your potential partner.

    I'd appreciate what you say more, if you had some experience of "keeping up with the boys" before you started saying how pathetic it is. You keep making sweeping judgments on aspects of life which you have no experience of.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Nah, seriously, its not silly at all. Do you honestly think a few more sexual experiences will provoke me into becoming partial to the idea of prostitution?

    You continue to miss the point. We are talking about sex. Not prostitution. Hence the fact that I've put so much of my previous post in bold and underlined. :rolleyes:

    I deleted the rest of my replies simply because its not worth talking to you about this. We had a similar discussion a few weeks ago on this subject. You disappeared, and have come back again posting the same stuff all over again. You said that you had thought long about it, but frankly judging by your posts, you haven't.

    It doesn't matter what I say. You have these corrupt little ideas which rule your life. You can't see outside of your opinions. You can't even read what is written here without misunderstanding it or plain ignoring what is said. I'm not sure which. And I don't really care, beyond the potential that your opinions might someday hurt someone. Which i think you're fully capable of doing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    Because being Hetrossexual you would be interacting with Women... so your opinions about sex would affect the women you would come into contact with.

    I find your attitude about sex to be disturbing... not about your attitude about women. I just figure that one leads to the other.

    So by lacking the want to go out and just have sex with any random person who means nothing to me, im all of a sudden disturbing. You hold thw view that its between two people on whatever terms, within reason of course, whereas I believe its on mutual, more emotive terms. Whats disturbing really?
    A person is the sum of all their experiences and what they have learnt from those experiences.

    You don't understand me, because you're unwilling to understand. I can write reams of information on boards.ie explaining how I feel about things, but you will continue to misunderstand because you don't want to understand.

    Yeah, but my views in opposition to paying for sex now mean I am unwilling to experience life. So sex = life?
    You don't see anything odd in the sequence of those two questions, and the wording that you use? When talking about sex its always about how much, and you use terms like whores & riding. For me, thats an indication of your attitude towards this subject.

    I never use the word riding. I just use it to describe the typical man and his sexual desires, 'go ridin etc', burying etc, they're all the same. And whore? well, whats wrong with that?
    You don't have sex for other people. You do it initially for yourself. Ultimately you have sex to bring pleasure to someone else. If you don't see any value in that, then maybe you are better off not having sex. Personally, I can't see anything positive in you, which might benefit your potential partner.

    Aye, sex is absolutely 100% regards a partner eh? So personality doesnt count or anything? Just sex. thats all eh?
    I'd appreciate what you say more, if you had some experience of "keeping up with the boys" before you started saying how pathetic it is. You keep making sweeping judgments on aspects of life which you have no experience of.

    so I need to stick my hand in the fire to tell you it burns? Is seeing it all around me not enough from which I can voice an opinion? You've maintained all along that I should go have sex a few times, and come back to me, but thats stupid in the sense that I wouldnt gain anything from it. Ive slept with 4 girls, but never felt the necessary attraction to them to have sex, would I have a more valid insight on prostitution and how pathetic it is if I had had sex with those girls? No. really, no.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    It doesn't matter what I say. You have these corrupt little ideas which rule your life.

    As is his, misguided, right...what worries me is that he seems to think those same corrupt little ideas should dictate everybody else's life too, ideally, whether they like it or not.
    You can't see outside of your opinions. You can't even read what is written here without misunderstanding it or plain ignoring what is said. I'm not sure which. And I don't really care, beyond the potential that your opinions might someday hurt someone. Which i think you're fully capable of doing.

    I agree...I find the idea of how he will treat any woman very, very worrying myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    aare wrote: »
    I agree...I find the idea of how he will treat any woman very, very worrying myself.

    Why so? What aspects will be worrying?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,787 ✭✭✭g5fd6ow0hseima


    corrupt little ideas

    so by me being impartial to the idea of having sex with a stranger, without any emotional attachements means I have corrupt ideas? I fail to see how these are corrupt. Seriously, explain how they are corrupt please. So, by me not having had a few women under my belt, I am all of a sudden corrupt for labelling someone pathetic for going to visit a prostitute? will i become uncorrupted if i begin to develop a mindset whereas I have a goal of having sex with girls who mean nothing to me, and just serve as a few seconds of enjoyment? how can I be, in your mindset, non-corrupted?

    Seriously, not every lad feels the need to be well up on their sexual prowess, not every lad is insecure in that sense. Do I need regular sex to be able to understand the world around me? Obviously you had a preoccupation with sex when you were younger - you had to get better at sex, whereas with me, I tend to laugh at that. But im corrupt I guess.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭synd


    Actually, I'm not intentionally missing your point... I only partially agree with you. Prostitution in various european countries like Spain and Germany is more accepted than other countries. You made the sweeping point, not me.

    More or less accepted doesn't change the fact that basic cultural valuation system remains the same. Theft for instance is treated differently in various societies however theft itself is generally seen as undesirable.

    A system that pre-disposes a large group of people to theft (culturally undesirable) is inherently exploitative.
    As for being an undesirable occupation, sure. But as i posted a few pages ago, there are plenty of undesirable occupations which people continue to place themselves in.

    Yes people place themselves in what are culturally regarded undesirable positions due to economic necessity - invariably it is those of lower socio economic standing who must occupy such positions therefore re-enforcing class domination.

    There you go again... subjugation... ok. Explain to me where this occurs, and in some detail.

    When one person is coerced into doing something they and their given society regard culturally/socially degrading in order to survive.

    BTW - Don't bother trying to divorce individual valuation from social valuation the prior is predicated upon the later. A woman might consider sex for money degrading however this is not an atomized opinion - its a cultural construction.
    The problem with making massive generalisations is that it is you yourself that places yourself in that position. I'm not Straw manning your position. You do so yourself by labeling people into categories.

    Categorization is a tool that facilitates social understanding - those who deny class categories often do so in order to obscure the nature of social hierarchy.
    So, if more people from wealthy backgrounds were involved you would have no problem with the industry?

    None whatsoever - or to be more specific - under conditions of social equality I wouldn't have a problem with it.
    I had a relationship with a girl who loved to be slapped during sex. It was one of the ways she would orgasm, but I hate any degree of violence during sex. I refused to do it, so she lost out on what she considered a fair thing to do during sex. Another example would be the case of Anal sex, which many couples are unwilling to do together.

    Why exactly do you refuse to slap her ? the more appropriate question which I doubt youl answer given the implications.

    I get a massage from the spa down the road. She becomes a tool in your eyes. In my eyes she's a person doing her job.

    Yes, shes a wage laborer - a tool of capitalist exploitation.

    Sure, and yet not to the degree you continue to suggest. And i continue to argue against. We are all tools to some degree.

    True, however democratization could undermine this process.

    Show me one country or existing successful system which entails what you suggest.. Otherwise, you're not really dealing with reality.

    Plenty of historical examples - Anarchist Catalonia, Argentinian factory movement, Chipias under the EZLN ect.


    Your impression of equality could be another mans slavery.

    If you want to engage in idiosyncratic re-definition and call participatory democracy slavery then feel free. Electoral decision making may seem like slavery compared to monarchy from the subjective position of a monarch - however the monarchs opinion doesn't really concern me.

    One mans elephant is another mans tiger - thats nice, except the elephant is still a ****ing elephant !

    After living in China, I'm not so quick to assume that western society is free and just. That assumptions on other cultures are so well informed, and balanced. The basic fact is that everyone has their own version as to what equality, liberty etc entails, and comparison of those opinions would show up a wide range of differences.

    People of a despotic disposition tend to focus on relativism quite a bit - ie - (monarchy and slavery could mean freedom to some)

    Smacks of apologetic service to tyranny

    Why not? You asked a question, i answered it.

    (For a second time) - Id appreciate an answer considering this question reveals the point your attempting to obscure.

    If a concentual market transaction between two people is always legitimate then why would it be wrong to torture a starving woman in exchange for food ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    Why so? What aspects will be worrying?

    Leif, this is not the place to go into that. If you want to post to personal issues, I (and I am sure, others) will be happy to respond to you.


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    synd wrote: »
    More or less accepted doesn't change the fact that basic cultural valuation system remains the same. Theft for instance is treated differently in various societies however theft itself is generally seen as undesirable.

    But in your example of theft while disapproved and illegal, has its own breakdown & divisions of severity, and the punishments given out reflect the seriousness of the crime, dependent on the country in question.

    Just as different countries have different viewpoints about the severity of prostitution and the negative effects it has on its own culture. If any.
    A system that pre-disposes a large group of people to theft (culturally undesirable) is inherently exploitative.

    You've already pointed out that in your eyes every common day system is exploitative. Why should we consider this as being any different?
    Yes people place themselves in what are culturally regarded undesirable positions due to economic necessity - invariably it is those of lower socio economic standing who must occupy such positions therefore re-enforcing class domination.

    yes, and? You're not proving anything different to what I've been saying. In many cases it falls down to what they themselves see that they should be doing based on cultural expectations... Their backgrounds suggest the manner of employment that they might consider suitable for them.

    But the problem is the people who insist that they should stay within these limitations. That they can't have something better. Someone like you. That suggests that they cannot be anything more than what went before.
    When one person is coerced into doing something they and their given society regard culturally/socially degrading in order to survive.

    And? So the one needs the other? So if the person involved does not feel that they are being coerced then... what?
    BTW - Don't bother trying to divorce individual valuation from social valuation the prior is predicated upon the later. A woman might consider sex for money degrading however this is not an atomized opinion - its a cultural construction.

    A cultural construction... hmm... err... yes... Actually, nope. The point of modern society is individualism. People seek to be different from the traditional norms, while remaining within society. Admittedly, many of these differences have been promoted so much so, that people in seeking to be different, become the same within a sub-culture. The last forty years has shown the movement away from "social constructions".

    You love your generalisations. The simple fact is that people seek to think for themselves, and for the most part, what was culturally disapproved thirty years ago, is no longer disapproved, and in some cases embraced. Thats life. Change. Consider the changes in different societies regarding Gay marriage, Childrens rights, Equality, drugs, etc. Things change.
    Categorization is a tool that facilitates social understanding - those who deny class categories often do so in order to obscure the nature of social hierarchy.

    Categorization is a tool to limit perception into the real world. Categorization is for people who want to think in abstract economic and social terms. Abstract. Keep the people away from you and deal with sterile general terminology.
    Why exactly do you refuse to slap her ? the more appropriate question which I doubt youl answer given the implications.

    haha... why would i refuse to answer.. ? I don't get any kicks from slapping girls during sex. Oh My.., is that strange? :rolleyes:
    Yes, shes a wage laborer - a tool of capitalist exploitation.

    rofl.. you crack me up. :D Am i really supposed to take that answer seriously?
    True, however democratization could undermine this process.

    I doubt it.
    Plenty of historical examples - Anarchist Catalonia, Argentinian factory movement, Chipias under the EZLN ect.

    On a country level? /sigh...
    If you want to engage in idiosyncratic re-definition and call participatory democracy slavery then feel free. Electoral decision making may seem like slavery compared to monarchy from the subjective position of a monarch - however the monarchs opinion doesn't really concern me.

    One mans elephant is another mans tiger - thats nice, except the elephant is still a ****ing elephant !

    I'm not particularly bothered the opinions of those at the top. I'm more concerned about how your opinions would seek to change and shape the world in such an image that you suggest. Which would in turn affect my own world. I don't particularly want to live in the world that you talk about.
    People of a despotic disposition tend to focus on relativism quite a bit - ie - (monarchy and slavery could mean freedom to some)

    Smacks of apologetic service to tyranny

    I much prefer reality. Thanks.
    (For a second time) - Id appreciate an answer considering this question reveals the point your attempting to obscure.

    Attempting to obscure? lol. I answered your original question.

    I don't feel any need to explain my position on human rights to you...

    And I'm curious why you took so long to reply to this thread if I was so intent on obscuring.... :rolleyes:

    You see, I still think you're unwilling or unable to actually talk about prostitution. You throw in formal and political terms, which is just another way of filling space. Just like in interviews, many politicians cannot answer straight questions. They need to throw in flowery phrases to cover their lack of knowledge. I can't see much difference. It was the same a few weeks back, when you responded before, and the same now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    Can I just point out that prostitution (and I DO mean "pillowing" not Geisha) was, and largely is, still an honored profession, in Japan, and was, at various times, not only an honoured profession, but even a religious obligation in ancient Egypt, Rome and Greece.

    "Courtesans" (ie "high class hookers") were some of the most influential women in Europe, throughout history until, at least, the 18th century, and arguably, after it.

    Likewise the ladies of "Monte", in Dublin, and "Storeyville" in New Orleans in the 19th and early 20th century, albeit on a smaller, more local, scale.

    There was even the Byzantine equivalent of a Bangkok bar girl who became joint Empress, and made sweeping reforms in the working conditions of women in prostitution that remain unequalled, anywhere, today.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    PS. THIS particular woman certainly does consider "sex for money" degrading and distasteful...but nowhere near as degrading and distasteful as:
    • Being used for casual sex for free
    • Destitution


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭synd


    Just as different countries have different viewpoints about the severity of prostitution and the negative effects it has on its own culture. If any.

    The degree to which something is considered undesirable differs - the point was that the European cultural valuation system remain the same at the base.
    You've already pointed out that in your eyes every common day system is exploitative. Why should we consider this as being any different?

    We shouldn't
    yes, and? You're not proving anything different to what I've been saying. In many cases it falls down to what they themselves see that they should be doing based on cultural expectations... Their backgrounds suggest the manner of employment that they might consider suitable for them.

    Im reiterating that any given social system which facilitates class subordination is oppressive.
    But the problem is the people who insist that they should stay within these limitations. That they can't have something better. Someone like you. That suggests that they cannot be anything more than what went before.

    Change is only possible through re-organization based around democratization (participatory).
    And? So the one needs the other? So if the person involved does not feel that they are being coerced then... what?

    People who occupy the lowest social strata do feel coerced - in that occupying low social position generally entails feelings of subordination, disempowerment act. Furthermore they are sedated by the self serving liberal myth that social re-organization is impossible.
    A cultural construction... hmm... err... yes... Actually, nope. The point of modern society is individualism. People seek to be different from the traditional norms, while remaining within society. Admittedly, many of these differences have been promoted so much so, that people in seeking to be different, become the same within a sub-culture. The last forty years has shown the movement away from "social constructions".

    Methological individualism is nonsense - people are not atomized agents. Every opinion, action or thought is entirely predicated upon pre-existing (communal) standards. The existence of sub cultures is testament to this - subcultures define themselves in relation to prevalent social patterns.

    Funny enough methological individualism is itself a (social construction ). That upper class ideology strongly undermines notions of class solidarity is a contradiction in action :D- the irony is lost on some.
    You love your generalizations. The simple fact is that people seek to think for themselves, and for the most part, what was culturally disapproved thirty years ago, is no longer disapproved, and in some cases embraced. That’s life. Change. Consider the changes in different societies regarding Gay marriage, Children’s rights, Equality, drugs, etc. Things change.

    Yes large scale social movements - class struggle further evidence of social cohesion.
    Categorization is a tool to limit perception into the real world. Categorization is for people who want to think in abstract economic and social terms. Abstract. Keep the people away from you and deal with sterile general terminology.

    Individualism allows no understanding at all. Denial of sociological language amounts to idiocy - ie an army is an amalgamation of individuals who share a common condition have common goals ect.


    haha... why would i refuse to answer.. ? I don't get any kicks from slapping girls during sex. Oh My.., is that strange? :rolleyes:

    You conveniently ignored the question (again).

    WHY do you not get your kicks from slapping woman ?

    rofl.. you crack me up. :DAm i really supposed to take that answer seriously?

    Well shes not receiving the full value of her labor for one - the surplus value of her service is expropriated by force of the fact she owned no capital. Simple economics that you should be able to grasp given your love of (reality).


    I doubt it.

    doubt away


    On a country level? /sigh...

    Given that the movements referred too generally seek to dismantle the nation state the question is irrelevant - in that due to their rejection of government they can never attain national power - (it goes against there principals).


    I'm not particularly bothered the opinions of those at the top. I'm more concerned about how your opinions would seek to change and shape the world in such an image that you suggest. Which would in turn affect my own world. I don't particularly want to live in the world that you talk about.

    Democratization of workplace capital and the disintegration of government is the proposal.

    I much prefer reality. Thanks.

    Today’s dream is tomorrows reality




    I don't feel any need to explain my position on human rights to you...

    Il take it that your aware of the implications of answering then. I smell infantile liberalism :D

    Again - why not, surely concentual market transitions should be allowed ?

    And I'm curious why you took so long to reply to this thread if I was so intent on obscuring.... :rolleyes:

    I don’t sit at the computer all day - I have things to do.
    You see, I still think you're unwilling or unable to actually talk about prostitution. You throw in formal and political terms, which is just another way of filling space. Just like in interviews, many politicians cannot answer straight questions. They need to throw in flowery phrases to cover their lack of knowledge. I can't see much difference. It was the same a few weeks back, when you responded before, and the same now.

    Your oversimplifying the topic in true liberal style - then again Im aware of the ideological necessity given the implications of reducing it to its economic base,

    The core of this argument is socio economic class exploitation


  • Posts: 16,208 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    synd wrote: »
    The degree to which something is considered undesirable differs - the point was that the European cultural valuation system remain the same at the base.

    At its base. But nothing exists in the real world as a base character. You're not talking about reality.
    Im reiterating that any given social system which facilitates class subordination is oppressive.

    Wooptie-do. And the point of re-iterating such a stance is?
    Change is only possible through re-organization based around democratization (participatory).

    Thats Very narrow minded. Change happens through the desire for change. From any manner of sources.
    People who occupy the lowest social strata do feel coerced - in that occupying low social position generally entails feelings of subordination, disempowerment act. Furthermore they are sedated by the self serving liberal myth that social re-organization is impossible.

    Nah.. people who are in the lowest strata care about putting food on the table, and paying their rent. It is people like yourself who is not on the lowest social position that care so much about subordination or disempowerment. People who are at those lowest scales care about improving their lives in small manageable ways that are least likely to back-fire on them.
    Methological individualism is nonsense - people are not atomized agents. Every opinion, action or thought is entirely predicated upon pre-existing (communal) standards. The existence of sub cultures is testament to this - subcultures define themselves in relation to prevalent social patterns.

    Funny enough methological individualism is itself a (social construction ). That upper class ideology strongly undermines notions of class solidarity is a contradiction in action :D- the irony is lost on some.

    Sounds rubbish, tbh. What you describe is an absolute and absolutes only exist in sterile environments. And the world we live in is not a sterile environment. Randomness exists, and change occurs from the least likely of sources.
    Individualism allows no understanding at all. Denial of sociological language amounts to idiocy - ie an army is an amalgamation of individuals who share a common condition have common goals ect.

    Show me an army that is that focused....? Every organisation in world creates divisions within itself. We are not ants born from a hive.
    You conveniently ignored the question (again).

    WHY do you not get your kicks from slapping woman ?

    Nope. Ignored? Nope. I just don't see any reason why I should answer you..
    Well shes not receiving the full value of her labor for one - the surplus value of her service is expropriated by force of the fact she owned no capital. Simple economics that you should be able to grasp given your love of (reality).

    She provides a service which is a massage. She advertises, and I purchase the service at the rate of value which she promotes. She then provides the service, and I go home after paying her for the service.

    How is she not receiving her full value, when she determines the value of the service, and gets paid for the service?
    Given that the movements referred too generally seek to dismantle the nation state the question is irrelevant - in that due to their rejection of government they can never attain national power - (it goes against there principals).

    Then its a useless answer. The point is that you can't show me such a system that is successfully working on a country level.
    Today’s dream is tomorrows reality

    Somehow I think you might be waiting a long time for your reality to come into force.
    Il take it that your aware of the implications of answering then. I smell infantile liberalism :D

    Again - why not, surely concentual market transitions should be allowed ?

    I answered your original question. Simple.
    Your oversimplifying the topic in true liberal style - then again Im aware of the ideological necessity given the implications of reducing it to its economic base,

    The core of this argument is socio economic class exploitation

    Oversimplifying?. Have you actually read the other replies to this thread? You are the only one that has written in the format that you do. Throwing in generalized words which obviously have political, and economic backgrounds to them. TBH, reading your posts are a pain in the ass, simply because they're so hard to understand. I didn't swallow an economic dictionary when i was young.

    The core of this argument is that you view prostitutes as being exploited, and dominated in society. Yes? Am I right? Or should I have thrown in Socio economic terms as well..?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,581 ✭✭✭aare


    Nah.. people who are in the lowest strata care about putting food on the table, and paying their rent. It is people like yourself who is not on the lowest social position that care so much about subordination or disempowerment. People who are at those lowest scales care about improving their lives in small manageable ways that are least likely to back-fire on them.

    How hard can it be to understand that?

    Yet so many people don't.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭synd


    At its base. But nothing exists in the real world as a base character. You're not talking about reality.

    You've missed the point ie - stratification based on basic cultural valuation remains intact.
    Nah.. people who are in the lowest strata care about putting food on the table, and paying their rent. It is people like yourself who is not on the lowest social position that care so much about subordination or disempowerment. People who are at those lowest scales care about improving their lives in small manageable ways that are least likely to back-fire on them.

    People who occupy the lowest social strata disproportionately exhibit signs of social dis-empowerment - manifested in crime, drug abuse ect. Their subordinated position within the economic system pre-disposes them to crime brought about by cultural alienation and material deprivation. Improving conditions in small manageable ways is a short term goal that alleviates immediate problems without targeting the basic cause of the problems in question.
    Sounds rubbish, tbh. What you describe is an absolute and absolutes only exist in sterile environments. And the world we live in is not a sterile environment. Randomness exists, and change occurs from the least likely of sources.

    Show me where randomness exists in society ?
    Show me an army that is that focused....? Every organization in world creates divisions within itself. We are not ants born from a hive.

    Every social group has divisions within itself - the point is that an army is a social group, like a class.
    Nope. Ignored? Nope. I just don't see any reason why I should answer you..

    Again - why don't you consider it appropriate to slap woman for gratification ?
    How is she not receiving her full value, when she determines the value of the service, and gets paid for the service?

    She doesn't determine the proportion of value she accumulates for providing the service because her labor is a commodity in the possession of a capitalist. When a wage laborer produces a good or service they receive a portion in wage and the rest is taken as surplus value/profit -

    This socially created wealth is then invested in capital which is used as the basis for further expropriation.
    Then its a useless answer. The point is that you can't show me such a system that is successfully working on a country level.

    No, its a useless question given that it cant be answered - state communism is an oxymoron :D
    I answered your original question. Simple.

    You have answered nothing - because (i gather) you understand the implications of giving any answer. Again - Why are you opposed to a consensual market transaction that involves torture for food ?
    Oversimplifying?. Have you actually read the other replies to this thread? You are the only one that has written in the format that you do. Throwing in generalized words which obviously have political, and economic backgrounds to them. TBH, reading your posts are a pain in the ass, simply because they're so hard to understand. I didn't swallow an economic dictionary when i was young.

    Everything has a political and economic background - using expanded terminology allows for more comprehensive communication. You should increase your vocabulary.
    The core of this argument is that you view prostitutes as being exploited, and dominated in society. Yes? Am I right? Or should I have thrown in Socio economic terms as well..?

    The core of this argument is that society entails various degrees of exploitation - those who occupy the lowest social position are subject to the highest degree of economic class exploitation.


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