Scummiest thing you've ever done?

Broke up with the missus about 7 years ago for 18 months & spent a year completing tinder,

Every Saturday it was someone new & one or twice two people new, Problem was some of them where really nice people but i never had any attention of seeing them after we done the business, So makes me feel bad,

Also as a teen we robbed someone's shed that was full of alcohol

We knew the person who owned it and knew they went on holidays so we jumped over the wall and stole it all, We threw a party wit free drink for everyone & actually invited the daughter from that house , no idea how she never coped on ,

I never lied & said things where going places but i think some thought that was the natural progression

Some didn't care & they where the funniest, I just felt a bit soulless or something , Actually it also made me think why do people give out about dating apps some very very nice people out there,

I have done a lot of things that would probably be classified as scummy by others, but I just don’t feel bad about them.

There are things that I have regretted though. One was me completely losing my **** and attacking someone in full view of the only family member I cared about, which terrified them. I don’t regret the attack itself but I never meant to scare my family member who suffered as a result.

The second one is strange because I am not even sure why I did it. I built a rat trap and then watched the rat drown. It actually made me feel sad though and I never did it again.

Why would I? Get people with better jaw muscle structure to do it.

I will discuss my own scummy memory in a moment, but first let me digress and tell you about something similar to, but far more planned than your story.

I shared a house back in the 80s with this family who were weirdly close to each other. There was a girl, about 18 we will call "Jenny" and her older brother (about 25) Peter (not real names). This was the 80s in London, there were a lot of one-night stands going on, and both of them would often bring people back to the house for it. They would try and do it as noisily as possible to embarrass the other party, who could see that the mother was in the living room watching TV, and the walls were thin.

Jenny and Peter had this game that when peter brought a girl home, Jenny would listen outside the door, and once they were obviously at it, would come in to the room and say that she was making tea, and would peter like one? Peter, not breaking his stride would answer no, and Jenny would then ask the mortified girl that peter was banging if she would like one, or perhaps a coffee? They used to laugh at how mortified the guest would get. An odd family, and that was by no means the oddest of things that went on there.

As for my own scummiest moment, I dumped a girlfriend, by letter, when I was young and immature. I also forgot it was Valentine's day, and she opened it thinking it was a card . . I still cringe when i think of it, and i haven't treated anyone that way in more than 30 years since.

Many years later, I was dumped by text by a girl I'd been with for a year. i regarded that as payback.

C635

Ta ****? Tea obviously.

I got on very well with her parents, I still do. I’d see them from time to time when I’m down at home and we’d always salute one another meaning they obviously were never told about the shît either. The breakup was due to ongoing serious issues on her side, her parents were well aware of it and there was no issue with me in their eyes.

Where did I say I wouldn’t have a problem with her telling people I shît in her chest of drawers? A few mutual friends know but only because I’ve told them, they can’t tell their girlfriends or wives because they’d probably be told not to pal around with me anymore.

As I thought, you have anger issues, only someone with anger issues would do what you did to your ex. If I did that I wouldn't ever tell anyone about it, the mind boggles as to why you told people about it.

I detest people who use personal relationships for career progression. Definitely falls into scummy behaviour anyway!

For a bit of background I'd been single for a while but I was chasing my now fiance for a little bit this was 16 years ago now at this stage and of course when I was getting nowhere I was still going to discos and shifting the odd one here and there well anyway I had shifted this local girl " lets call her her mary " and she wasn't the best looking girl and to be honest i'd no intention of anything with her , so we shifted at a few discos and nothing really came of it , then I gave her number while well under the influence and sure enough the following friday she let me know that she was to be babysitting only 10 mins up the road from me , me with nothing else to do went up and would have got the ride but for the child waking up , now in none of this time had I mentioned getting in a relationship or anything of the sort

so the local GAA dinner dance comes up in a big hall type place and I finally start to make some headway with my now fiance and we start kissing etc on the dancefloor and i'm on cloud nine , when a mate of mine comes up to me and says man there's a super model out the front looking for you and she's crying. so now i'm really confused , so I got out to the front out of curiosity

and low and behold there's Mary in floods of tears saying I broke her heart and she saw me kissing the other girl , and rather harshly and i still think of it to this day , told her to **** off that I only met up with her cos i was either drunk or bored and to go home before you make a bigger show of yourself ....very scummy , the same girl started spreading around the local town that my fiance had stolen me from her , absolute bunny boiler but i was very unfair with her all the same

It wasn’t out of anger, I broke up with her. She was acting the cow so I did it for a laugh. My angry poos are for the morning after a hot curry.