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How to approach teacher about my brother's non-uniform coat being seized?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭The J Stands for Jay


    What kind of a school has policies on the coats that can or can't be worn?



  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 8,269 Mod ✭✭✭✭HildaOgdenx




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,052 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Any school with an oddly expensive uniform coat that can only be bought from one shop in the area; and no explanation of why its so extremely expensive.

    Which is a huge amount of them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭The J Stands for Jay




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,894 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    In an an accident scenario as I posited, I'd imagine the School's solicitor first metting with the principal upon receiving the notice of legal action from the parent's, would include something along the lines of: 'Are you fuc*ing insane? What the f*ck did you think would happen?'

    Yes, the degree to which Irish schools seem to be up-themselves with what hey think their remit is and what they can get away with is incredible. It no longer beggars my belief that the government take no action to remind schools that education is a compulsory legal requirement, taxpayer funded and draw some lines in the sand for them. The sheer laziness of the Irish government is breathtaking.

    I went to a school that insisted students wear their full uniform while travelling to and from school. I was literally the only student I am aware of who cycled. In wet weather, I wore a bright yellow jacket and yellow over-trousers (this was years before flourescent fabrics were available), which I removed on arriving at school, which despite being truly up-itself, never once in 5 years ever took issue with my non-compliance with their stupid rules. This was in another country known for it's down-to earth practicality and sensibility.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,323 ✭✭✭SteM


    I did my Leaving in 1990 and our school did, even back then. We had a school jacket and it had to be hung up in the morning, if a non-school jacket was spotted on the racks then you would be reported for it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭The J Stands for Jay


    My school, in the 1990s, had a uniform that consisted of trousers (girls could wear a skirt if they wanted), a shirt and a jumper that had to be bought from the school. Of you wore a tie, it had to be grey. Otherwise, you could do what you wanted, and sort of shoes, coats, bags, etc. I understand that since then they've put in rules around facial jewellery and they limit the shoes to black ones (think they still allow black trainers). This all seems much more reasonable than sock inspections and school coats that are mentioned on here.



  • Posts: 519 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Worst one I ever encountered was a school where the uniform stated a grey or white shirt. This was even printed in the homework notebook. I turned up in a grey short and was given a lecturing by a teacher about what a “disgrace” I was with my “auld grey shirt”.

    We used to have to wear our blazers and no coat unless it was absolutely freezing too. I got stopped in a shopping centre by a teacher because I had my coat over my blazer. She gave out to me and reported it !

    I can’t say I enjoyed the place. It sort of saw itself as a boot camp to mould upstanding 1950s accountants.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,052 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    My school in the 90s - navy trousers/skirt, navy jumper, blue shirt, no logos so cheapest stuff from Dunnes absolutely fine. Black footwear of any kind, even fully black runners were usually allowed.

    My school now - crest and collared jumper (very expensive), crested jacket (actually not that expensive weirdly), specific tartan kilt for girls (they do allow trousers recently though - of course the kilt is very expensive), specific tie (guess what - very expensive for what it is), *a PE uniform* which is 65 quid, formal dress shoes (no heels for girls), specific colour socks, a specific lab coat... I'm sure if they could check any other items of clothing they'd have a specific one too.

    This is a VEC school, but one with absolute notions.

    They used to let you do the state exams in normal clothes but that's changed too.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,894 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    The OP seems to be absent; not surprising, he now seems more concerned about cumpulsory vaccinations than getting his 'brother's' hi-viz jacket back: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117926712#Comment_117926712



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan



    You want the boy(adult) and/or his adult sister to compromise but not the school? The school are the ones acting intransigently. They should bend a little themselves. I can understand the school having rules but this is a clear case of pettiness. Those rules are to ensure that pupils conform to the prescribed dress code. This guy wasn't flouncing around the school grounds in a leather Gestapo trench coat or an obnoxious P-Diddy style fur or a denim jacket plastered in Slayer and Megadeth patches. He wore a hi-vis over his school jacket for safety FFS and some dick of a teacher went on a power trip. From my experience school coats are usually made of wool. In a downpour wool gets soaked. The smart thing would be to wear a water-proof poncho over the coat/blazer if it was bucketing down. Of course this plank of a teacher would probably have some issue with that too. The teacher could very easily have taken the lad aside and asked him to explain himself. If the guy said he wore the hi-vis for safety then only an idiot would have a problem with that. The teacher could simply have told him to take the hi-vis off once he stepped onto school grounds in future as he walked his bike to the bicycle shed. No harm done. Apologise! Apologise for what? Being responsible and conscientous?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭mohawk


    It’s complete BS but lots of schools now have these school jackets that you have to wear. Many are piss poor quality too. Not suitable for getting caught in the rain while waiting for the bus. It just seems like a new way of controlling students. Creating the next generation of conformity.



  • Posts: 519 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Well, having experienced school on the continent I would say Irish schools are variable, but a lot of them appear to be in their own weird island bubble mentality.

    I found the comparison here was stark. You were never treated as a young adult. Everything was rules, uniforms, lines, rules, rules and more rules all enforced by rather patronising busybodies. I found many of the 16 - 18 year olds often to be incredibly immature and I think it came from that atmosphere. It felt like I had regressed a few years.

    I think the first and most striking thing for me was when I first arrived back, a teacher took me apart for absolutely no reason other than she didn’t like my shoes, which were fully compliant with the uniform. I got given out to for having my hair combed ffs. I used to just normally have a bit of a trendy hair style. Nothing outlandish, just it had a bit of style to it.

    I think to be quite honest it was a sort of “who do you think you are with your notions” kind of thing. She always had it in for me.

    I got so much hassle about religious stuff too. Opting out of the actual class was one thing, until our maths and Irish teacher would insist everyone stood up to say the Our Father or the equivalent in Irish at the start of her classes and gave me a bollocking for not blessing myself.

    It's an odd juxtaposition with Irish society in general, which is fairly easy going. You’d wonder why the schools are so strange though.

    Basically from what I could see of Irish schooling dressing in an hideous, impractical uniform that was designed by a nun as a form of penance seemed to be the norm.

    You don’t realise how weird Irish schools are because you all went to one and you’re basically institutionalised into thinking that’s what schools are like. Sister Assumpta chasing people around with a hurl isn’t all that far back.

    Honestly on issues like this Ireland at times seems to have very little in common with European peers.

    I’ve nephews and nieces in ET and Gaelscoileanna, and the atmosphere appears to be far, far more modern than the majority of schools here.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 583 ✭✭✭noplacehere


    I remember being absolutely fascinated when we were told to survey parents about the uniform (which as a teacher I thought was completely mad, kilt, junior/senior different colours the whole lot!) and something like 90%+ of parents voted to keep it as is.

    Genuinely couldn’t get over it.


    I’m a shocker for policing it, I genuinely don’t even see it. I do be too busy and I’m just not observant enough. It’d want to be miles off for me to notice 🤣



  • Posts: 519 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Well, school systems are cultural and Irish school culture is quite fixated on uniforms it seems.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,036 ✭✭✭growleaves


    @Convolved 'It's an odd juxtaposition with Irish society in general, which is fairly easy going. '

    There is tall poppy syndrome though imo.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,636 ✭✭✭dotsman


    I don't think you understand the thread, or my post.

    He wasn't wearing a hi-vis vest. He was wearing his own jacket instead of the school one. His excuse is that his own one has better visibility. I am the one suggesting he wear a hi-vis one over his school one (or over no jacket on warm days etc).

    And of course he should apologise. He intentionally broke the rules rather than trying to find a suitable workaround. As an adult, if you don't like a particular law, that doesn't give you license to break it (without consequence). You try to have the law changed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭ShatterAlan


    +1

    I'd hazard that a bicycle helmet also doesn't conform to the dress code. I wonder what this teacher would have to say if he confiscated someone's helmet and that cyclist then cracked their head open on the journey home after school.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,052 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Refusing to apologise to a power-tripper who is treating an adult like a child is how you try to get something changed. Apologising to them for an imagined infraction is absolutely and utterly not,



  • Posts: 519 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Oh big time! I know when I moved back it was very definitely “Would you look at him! With his notions!”

    I learned pretty fast to just avoid people who’ve got the begrudery problem…



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,636 ✭✭✭dotsman


    The 18-year-old who is acting like like a spoiled little child?

    It's not a necessarily a "power-trip" when a teacher attempts to teach a child some discipline.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,052 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    The student wore a jacket. That's it. You're projecting the spoiled little child stuff.

    There's no child for a teacher to discipline, there is a tyrant who stole a jacket off an adult though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,894 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    Doing the sensible thing with regards to personal and basic road safety is acting like a spoiled child? Your concept of mindless obedience to 'rules' irrespective of common or legal sense, is very Irish.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,439 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Dunno what sorta schools you'll went to.

    I went to school in the eighties and can remember a student throwing a punch at a teacher over where a bike was parked .

    The two of them boxed each other around for moment or two , then shook hands and went about their business.

    They were father and son , so I suppose they were well used to each other.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 771 ✭✭✭PmMeUrDogs


    @Jeremy Sproket your brother was 15 in April according to a post in your last uniform thread? So how's he 18 now?


    Methinks there's some fibbing going on



  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 8,269 Mod ✭✭✭✭HildaOgdenx


    It's been pointed out a few times that all is not as it seems, to put it mildly, but some posters are determined to believe it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,777 ✭✭✭✭MEGA BRO WOLF 5000




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,636 ✭✭✭dotsman


    The student intentionally chose to wear a jacket that contravened the dress code. Simple as.

    There was no stealing involved. Or did my teacher "steal" my water pistol from me when I was using it in class when I was a kid?


    This has nothing to do with "personal and basic road safety". If that was the child's concern, they could have worn a hi-vis vest which is the standard/common thing to do. Instead they chose to wear a completely different jacket to the one that goes against the dress code and then refuses to apologise when they are disciplined for doing so.


    From the responses on this thread, I can really see why there are growing scumbag/woke cultures growing in Ireland. People unable to deal with very simple rules and handle the situation as adults. instead of dealing with an everyday conflict, they want to call the guards, call the teach a "Meany" and describe the situation as tyranny. FFS. Grow a pair, and a brain, and move on.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,052 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    This post is an incoherent mess.

    Standing up to a power-tripping teacher treating an adult like a child has nothing to do with scumbag culture. The only scumbag here is the teacher, letting power go to their head to steal a jacket

    "woke culture" doesn't exist except in the brains of the permanently afraid.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket




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