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Relaxation of restrictions Part II

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 510 ✭✭✭trapp


    Mental health is something everyone can help other out and it just not a deal with it yourself problem. You can reach out to people ring them, text then, Skype them, play video game online with them, if they are within your 2km zone a hello through the window and a wave could do wonders. We are in this together

    Oh great.

    I've lost my job and all my social outlets.

    We're heading for a recession in the midst of a global pandemic.

    But playing a video game will help.

    Dear oh dear oh dear my poor friend.

    Also the idea that we're all in this together is a load of crap. When it's over life will be very different and some will be a lot better off than others.

    Wake up my poor man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,252 ✭✭✭✭_Kaiser_


    trapp wrote: »
    That is debatable.

    It sounds terrible to say but how many would willingly give up their jobs and become dependent on the state to save an elderly relative for another year or two?

    And how many of the elderly relatives would, if given the choice, see their grandchildren's lives ruined to keep them alive for a little while longer?

    Everybody dies my poor man, it's the one certainty in life that none of us can avoid.

    There's a lot of truth to this, even if it's considered impolitic to say it.

    Quality of life is far more important than quantity, especially as you get older.

    I for one would not ever want to become a burden or source of pain for my loved ones, and I certainly don't want to spend my last years suffering or in and out of hospital and on machines while becoming so thin it was like something from those ads for Africa - I watched my own mother waste away like that in her last 2 years and it was a relief and release for her when she finally died.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭bloodless_coup


    Downlinz wrote: »
    What have you got going on in your life that justifies spreading a deadly virus and potentially killing people?

    For a start I want to go to the hardware store to get some shelves, and filler.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,339 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    trapp wrote: »
    Waving at someone through a window isn't going to solve losing employment, losing whatever sport or club one might be part of and losing a sense of purpose in their lives which is what many are facing.

    You haven't a clue my poor friend.

    Excuse me you have no idea about me I was giving tip to try and help people during this time who may feel isolated so reign in the superior complex of yours.

    I have missed and lost a lot of things over these 8 weeks as have others. We can try and be there for people but no ots better to be a keyboard warrior to moan and complain. This place really has become unsavory. Give some a sense of purpose show them there can be a light at the end of the tunnel. Be a human and actually talk and encourage each other.

    This lockdown is ending however if people like you decide I know people and just mess about we will be back to where we were 8 weeks ago and the what for those people with mental health problem or jobs


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,339 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    doylefe wrote: »
    For a start I want to go to the hardware store to get some shelves, and filler.

    I know plenty that have been open for weeks with click and collect do some research on google


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Downlinz


    doylefe wrote: »
    For a start I want to go to the hardware store to get some shelves, and filler.

    https://www.diy.com/
    https://www.woodies.ie/

    You're welcome, and nobody needs to die for it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 510 ✭✭✭trapp


    Excuse me you have no idea about me I was giving tip to try and help people during this time who may feel isolated so reign in the superior complex of yours.

    I have missed and lost a lot of things over these 8 weeks as have others. We can try and be there for people but no ots better to be a keyboard warrior to moan and complain. This place really has become unsavory. Give some a sense of purpose show them there can be a light at the end of the tunnel. Be a human and actually talk and encourage each other.

    This lockdown is ending however if people like you decide I know people and just mess about we will be back to where we were 8 weeks ago and the what for those people with mental health problem or jobs

    You are contradicting yourself my poor friend because being human and social is exactly what the lockdown prevents us from doing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,550 ✭✭✭JoeA3


    road_high wrote: »
    They need to take that Holohan lad off air asap. I can't stand him and his pontificating. I'm sick listening to him, hearing about him. He wasn't elected by any of us (but i can smell a Seanad nomination in the offing), he has no authority to speak on matters of law and order/governance. If that other lemon Drew Harris wants to lecture us let him do it.
    The media re so completely rubbish and compliant. Maybe we need to pay again for good journalism? Because it appears to be a dead profession now in this country.

    ++1. Nail on head.

    Irish journalism is a complete joke. Listen to say the likes of Matt Cooper on Today FM. That guy used to be a serious journalist, as difficult as that is to believe. These days he has a show filled with contributions from “journalists” from the likes of journal.ie. On the other channel we have a bankrupt ex bookmaker, ex Fine Gael TD, no credibility whatsoever. And as for RTE... turn it on tonight and you have 600k per year Tubs “sincerely” reminding us yet again what we must do. It’s nauseating.

    Tony H is nailed on for a Seanad seat. All that cervical cancer business is a mere distant memory for him.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭bloodless_coup


    Downlinz wrote: »
    https://www.diy.com/
    https://www.woodies.ie/

    You're welcome, and nobody needs to die for it.

    Outrageous delivery costs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,332 ✭✭✭Tenzor07


    doylefe wrote: »
    Outrageous delivery costs.

    Cheaper than a Funeral though right?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,858 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    I've kind of stopped watching the news now. It's such mindless repetition and basically a government mouthpiece (I freely admit I voted and usually vote FG) but starting to see why they lost the last election so badly the past few weeks- the arrogance, lack of communication/drip feeding of info., the sheer lack of empathy and dogedness, the constant "we're right and you're wrong"- all things their detractors were talking about last Feb- i dismissed in the main as I figured the economy was ticking along so well that they were wrong. And now they've shot that to pieces as well. The more I see of Harris and Varadkar (Though i din't find him as bad) the more they irritate me. Harris reminds me of that arsehole in school that thought he knew everything and has his nose stuck in everything.
    Both devoid of any common touch or concern how the less fortunate or soon to be less fortunate might be struggling.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 510 ✭✭✭trapp


    JoeA3 wrote: »
    ++1. Nail on head.

    Irish journalism is a complete joke. Listen to say the likes of Matt Cooper on Today FM. That guy used to be a serious journalist, as difficult as that is to believe. These days he has a show filled with contributions from “journalists” from the likes of journal.ie. On the other channel we have a bankrupt ex bookmaker, ex Fine Gael TD, no credibility whatsoever. And as for RTE... turn it on tonight and you have 600k per year Tubs “sincerely” reminding us yet again what we must do. It’s nauseating.

    Tony H is nailed on for a Seanad seat. All that cervical cancer business is a mere distant memory for him.

    For what it's worth I think Tony H is doing quite well and looks much more competent than others in his position around the world.

    But journalists and media should be ashamed.

    Taking every word himself and Nolan say as gospel.

    What happened to journalists challenging, discussing instead of just lapping everything up.

    George lee, tubridy, bowers and so on are all a joke.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,252 ✭✭✭✭_Kaiser_


    doylefe wrote: »
    Outrageous delivery costs.

    Plus no guarantee on when you'll get it. Ordered a lawnmower overa fortnight ago from Woodies and got an email this week saying they still can't provde an ETA


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭bloodless_coup


    Tenzor07 wrote: »
    Cheaper than a Funeral though right?

    Unless I go on a shooting spree on my trip to the hardware the probability of killing someone is tiny. I'd be more likely to kill someone in a car crash on my way there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 155 ✭✭Zetor19


    Do any other countries have the CMO on the tv every single night giving press conferences like Juergen klopp as a matter of interest? Surely just give the numbers on the news would be enough and maybe a weekly press conference from Holohan.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,858 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    JoeA3 wrote: »
    ++1. Nail on head.

    Irish journalism is a complete joke. Listen to say the likes of Matt Cooper on Today FM. That guy used to be a serious journalist, as difficult as that is to believe. These days he has a show filled with contributions from “journalists” from the likes of journal.ie. On the other channel we have a bankrupt ex bookmaker, ex Fine Gael TD, no credibility whatsoever. And as for RTE... turn it on tonight and you have 600k per year Tubs “sincerely” reminding us yet again what we must do. It’s nauseating.

    Tony H is nailed on for a Seanad seat. All that cervical cancer business is a mere distant memory for him.

    When you see the likes of him sniffing around the media and the government sniffing around him you can be damn sure a Seanad seat is in the offing. There's always another agenda with these people- as there is with Harris and Varadkar. And you or I's welfare are a long way down the list i can assure you!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,332 ✭✭✭Tenzor07


    doylefe wrote: »
    Unless I go on a shooting spree on my trip to the hardware the probability of killing someone is tiny. I'd be more likely to kill someone in a car crash on my way there.

    That's the kind of attitude that will see the lockdown restrictions kept in place for the next 5 weeks!
    Stay home, save lives!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,339 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    trapp wrote: »
    Oh great.

    I've lost my job and all my social outlets.

    We're heading for a recession in the midst of a global pandemic.

    But playing a video game will help.

    Dear oh dear oh dear my poor friend.

    Also the idea that we're all in this together is a load of crap. When it's over life will be very different and some will be a lot better off than others.

    Wake up my poor man.

    Will first of all I am sorry you lost your job. Playing a game was 1 of my suggestion. You said you have lost your social outlets will so have loads others myself included. We are in this together it is not crap it's not just me me me. Your right after this there will be changes. You can either get up and do something (within the confines of this lockdown for now) or just moan and say poor me. Try the first one


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 510 ✭✭✭trapp


    Zetor19 wrote: »
    Do any other countries have the CMO on the tv every single night giving press conferences like Juergen klopp as a matter of interest? Surely just give the numbers on the news would be enough and maybe a weekly press conference from Holohan.

    This 100%

    That Prof Nolan was centre stage last night.

    Who exactly is he and who put him in charge of the country?

    He does seem good at what he does in fairness but do they need to be centre stage every night?

    They are giving advice, not orders or at least they should be giving advice not orders.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 510 ✭✭✭trapp


    Will first of all I am sorry you lost your job. Playing a game was 1 of my suggestion. You said you have lost your social outlets will so have loads others myself included. We are in this together it is not crap it's not just me me me. Your right after this there will be changes. You can either get up and do something (within the confines of this lockdown for now) or just moan and say poor me. Try the first one

    We're not.

    And believing we are is naive.

    I appreciate the rest of what you said here and it makes sense.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,621 ✭✭✭FintanMcluskey


    JoeA3 wrote: »
    ++1. Nail on head.

    Irish journalism is a complete joke. Listen to say the likes of Matt Cooper on Today FM. That guy used to be a serious journalist, as difficult as that is to believe. These days he has a show filled with contributions from “journalists” from the likes of journal.ie. On the other channel we have a bankrupt ex bookmaker, ex Fine Gael TD, no credibility whatsoever. And as for RTE... turn it on tonight and you have 600k per year Tubs “sincerely” reminding us yet again what we must do. It’s nauseating.

    Tony H is nailed on for a Seanad seat. All that cervical cancer business is a mere distant memory for him.

    Id like this 10 times if I could. 15 years ago Matt Cooper was a must listen for me. For every topic as you said. But now hes a stifled goon. Investigating journalism is dead now. STFAH


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,550 ✭✭✭JoeA3


    Zetor19 wrote: »
    Do any other countries have the CMO on the tv every single night giving press conferences like Juergen klopp as a matter of interest? Surely just give the numbers on the news would be enough and maybe a weekly press conference from Holohan.

    lol. I really wish we could go back to a diet of Jurgen Klopp and I say that as a Man United fan.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,858 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    trapp wrote: »
    This 100%

    That Prof Nolan was centre stage last night.

    Who exactly is he and who put him in charge of the country?

    He does seem good at what he does in fairness but do they need to be centre stage every night?

    They are giving advice, not orders or at least they should be giving advice not orders.

    Well St. Tony didn't sound like he was offering mere advice- more than idle threats I thought but when you have nodding dogs like our media are he can say what he likes without anyone reprimanding him for going way beyond his brief.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,858 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    Tenzor07 wrote: »
    That's the kind of attitude that will see the lockdown restrictions kept in place for the next 5 weeks!
    Stay home, save lives!

    Unless he's going around licking the paint brushes then it's highly unlikely I would think.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,339 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    trapp wrote: »
    You are contradicting yourself my poor friend because being human and social is exactly what the lockdown prevents us from doing.

    No it doesn't. Just because you can not be in front of someone does not mean you can not be social. My family have a Whattss app group and we chat daily. So have I one with ones I work with. 1 of them is home and is scared stiff due to an underlying health issue but I call and we talk every day. I take part in discord chats come here to see what people are doing. So you can still be social just in different ways. You just have to think


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Downlinz wrote: »
    Some serious rhetoric here I've seen repeated plenty.

    We can stay at home, only making essential trips out for supplies for as long as is required, it's pretty easy actually. We don't need lattes or to go to bowling alleys.

    The economic point is debatable. Most businesses are pretty happy at the moment with government paying their workers and shielding them from eating the costs of vastly reduced business, they certainly wouldn't appreciate that being removed until we reach a point where the majority feel confident to mingle in public again.
    In terms of the national picture, a single lockdown with a steady recovery after is in all of our best interests. A lockdown - open - lockdown ping pong game serves nobody.

    Not to be callous but in terms of mental health that's an issue for you to deal with. It's a pandemic, it's not a happy time and most people are going to feel the effects of it. If you're only bemoaning boredom and quality of life then I think you're fortunate it's not much worse to be mourning relatives in isolation or fighting for your own life.

    Way to go and completely miss the point I was making.
    We can all agree that the curve has been flattened.
    The virus is here to stay & cases will inevitably spike when we reopen services, regardless of when we do that, so can you please explain what logic there is in continuing lockdown?

    Why is opening services in June preferable to May, because you seem to be basing that off absolutely nothing?
    It’s actually inevitable that this won’t be the only lockdown anyway.
    If the health service gets overwhelmed we will have to stay home again to limit the spread to ensure our hospitals don’t collapse.
    So how can you possibly know that staying home for another month, or three months, will ensure that there’ll be a steady recovery and there won’t be another lockdown?
    It’s delaying the inevitable. This is a pandemic, there is nothing steady about it.
    The virus doesn’t care how well we’ve behaved by staying home.

    I didn’t mention anything about lattes or going bowling so lose the sneering attitude on that front.
    You appear to be completely ignorant to the catastrophic effect this is having on many people’s lives.
    I don’t even work in retail or hospitality, I work a professional role in what most would have considered to be a ‘safe bet’ industry and my job is gone.
    In my immediate family, both my brothers & my dad have lost theirs too.
    I have elderly relatives & neighbours who are so depressed & miserable from the isolation that they no longer fear the virus and just want to be with their loved ones again. This is having a horrific effect on people and isn’t simply ‘boredom’ as you have repeatedly dismissed it as.

    We are all responsible for our mental health on a personal level but as you said yourself, this is a pandemic.
    Mass unemployment, social isolation, lack of distraction and separation from loved ones is a perfect recipe for a huge surge in suicides in the next few months.
    It’s the elephant in the room no one wants to acknowledge, yourself in particular with your unhelpful advice about it being each persons own responsibility to look after themselves.

    We can’t stay home indefinitely or there will simply be nothing to return to. The country will collapse & the people with it, with the stress we’ve all been under over the last few months.
    It’s not reasonable to expect mass blind compliance for much longer.
    People need hope.
    I am way more fearful of the consequences of people rebelling & flouting the rules completely because they can’t take any more, than I am of a controlled reopening of society with clear guidelines for everyone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,339 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    Zetor19 wrote: »
    Do any other countries have the CMO on the tv every single night giving press conferences like Juergen klopp as a matter of interest? Surely just give the numbers on the news would be enough and maybe a weekly press conference from Holohan.

    America did until Trump stopped him as he was going off message. The UK do as do Scotland also. I think Australia also did


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,332 ✭✭✭Tenzor07


    road_high wrote: »
    Unless he's going around licking the paint brushes then it's highly unlikely I would think.

    If he sneezes on the Hyacinths people will die!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,207 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    trapp wrote: »
    That is debatable.

    It sounds terrible to say but how many would willingly give up their jobs and become dependent on the state to save an elderly relative for another year or two?

    And how many of the elderly relatives would, if given the choice, see their grandchildren's lives ruined to keep them alive for a little while longer?

    Everybody dies my poor man, it's the one certainty in life that none of us can avoid.

    I dont think you and indeed many like you, actually get it.
    Which is why there have to be laws and enforcement of same to keep some semblance of check on the virus.
    It's not JUST elderly relatives that will die and get sick and die from other issues IF we didn't have this level of a lock down.
    Many more people would be sick, in hospital, in ICU and dead from this disease and if the hospitals were to be overwhelmed many more people would die from other illnesses for a variety of reasons.

    While the current situation isn't ideal there's no food shortages, no energy shortages, generally, no major money shortages (yet), the weather has been good and the restrictions aren't THAT onerous in comparison to what could happen should the virus take hold.


    There probably will be some loosening of restrictions over the coming month, but large gatherings are gone for at least 6-9 months, social distancing is in for the long haul and internation travel is/should be off the agenda from the vast majority of people. That's unfortunately what has to happen.

    Kids are generally very resilient - their lives wont be "ruined" (in general) as a result of this, not in globally relative terms anyway.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,790 ✭✭✭Benimar


    No it doesn't. Just because you can not be in front of someone does not mean you can not be social. My family have a Whattss app group and we chat daily. So have I one with ones I work with. 1 of them is home and is scared stiff due to an underlying health issue but I call and we talk every day. I take part in discord chats come here to see what people are doing. So you can still be social just in different ways. You just have to think

    Exactly.

    I have a morning coffee at least once a week with my work colleague, lunch another day with other work colleagues and a couple of drinks every Saturday night with mates. All done through Zoom/WhatsApp etc


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