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What's the craic (pun intended) with anal sex?

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  • #32
    Homer
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    90% tighter.. 10% warmer ;)


  • #33
    arybvtcw0eolkf
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    KathleenGrant wrote: »
    I was separated about 10 years ago and was on the dating scene for a while. 3 different men were keen to have anal sex to the point of being insistent. One had never done it and really wanted to try it. The other 2 insisted that because I had a few children sex in the normal way would not be as good for them as anal sex.

    You just weren't arsed?


  • #34
    Wibbs
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    Avatar MIA wrote: »
    A lot of prep required too to ensure it's a pleasing experience.
    Aye, though one of the women I knew who was into it was well practiced and so was "easy" for her. Now I far prefer the normal route(or is that root), but it's what revved her engine so game ball and it was hardly a penance for me so.. But yeah the standard way did almost nothing for her. She seemed almost insensitive to feelings there(beyond the obvious "button"). She had no kids either, or no other physical issues, just the way she was built. Whereas some women are extremely sensitive there. Varies a lot IME.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #35
    Wibbs
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    Wheety wrote: »
    I'd also say it's because of porn. Changes young lads perception of sex. Categories devoted to anal on every porn site. Young men (and women) have much easier access to hard core porn than any other generation before. They get used to normal sex porn and seek something different to get their kicks. That then translates to real life.
    +1. A few years back one woman was surprised that I wasn't into the whole facial thing. She didn't like it but assumed men really did, again from porn and previous guys who wanted it, again from porn.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #36
    PARlance
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    I fear for society's holes with all this porn.


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  • #37
    Porklife
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    Wibbs wrote: »
    Sound like small mickey syndrome to me TBH. Now granted I've only slept with three women who have had kids, but I didn't notice any difference on that score(if anything it was a little better as one could go deeper, so to speak). Of course physical trauma from birth can affect some women, but to that degree on average? The idea that more sex makes things more roomy is also nonsense in my humble. Like anything people differ in size, men and women, but the vast majority are around an average. The snuggest I ever came across(missus!!) was also a woman who had the most partners.

    Porn definitely is a factor. American stuff is obsessed with bum stuff. For what reasons I'm not sure on. The "dirty" aspect must loom large in what can be a conservative culture. Plus porn has to up the ante from basic in out stuff to keep getting sales/hits. A mate of mine who's circumcised has a major thing for it and he being less sensitive means he gets more from it and reckons this is why it's more a thing for Americans as they're majority like him? Might be something to it.

    I've tried the other way so to speak, but didn't particularly enjoy it TBH. Much prefer the way designed for purpose.

    Your post makes perfect sense. Where do you stand on the losing respect side of things? This guy isn't being pushy at all but I know he wants to and he's very well endowed so I'm a little bit scared but my main worry is that he'll look at me differently afterwards, even subconsciously. What do you think about that?


  • #38
    Gimme A Pound
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,482 ✭✭✭Gimme A Pound


    Porklife wrote: »
    Interesting. My concern is if he'll lose respect for me if I do it.
    If he loses respect for you for doing something HE wants... say bye bye.

    Also I don't think it's a good idea to be doing it if you don't enjoy it. I know when you're in a relationship you make compromises, but a casual encounter or just dating? Really not ideal. Don't seek approval so much.


  • #39
    [Deleted User]
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    Porklife wrote: »
    Interesting. My concern is if he'll lose respect for me if I do it.

    Very old fashioned view by you.
    Maybe you treat sex like something you give to him?
    Maybe you should just relax & enjoy it


  • #40
    Gimme A Pound
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    Wibbs wrote: »
    +1. A few years back one woman was surprised that I wasn't into the whole facial thing. She didn't like it but assumed men really did, again from porn and previous guys who wanted it, again from porn.
    Horrible. Really hate that kinda porn.


  • #41
    Porklife
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    KathleenGrant wrote: »
    One guy actually said my "withholding it" was a sign i may be a hostile partner in the future so I spared him from my hostility and finished it there and then.

    Bahahaha.... Oohh you're so hostile not letting me shove my dick up your arse. Wonder how 'hostile' he'd be roles reserved. What a manipulative (albeit so transparent) loser. You're well rid lady!


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  • #42
    Avatar MIA
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    Wibbs wrote: »
    +1. A few years back one woman was surprised that I wasn't into the whole facial thing. She didn't like it but assumed men really did, again from porn and previous guys who wanted it, again from porn.

    Jesus, how does that even come up in conversation?

    Having a nice meal, some polite conversation, having a mutual jibe about that idiot Trump.

    You walk her back to her apartment, holding hands.

    You get invited for coffee.

    There's some awkward fumbling with clothes.

    Things start to get heavy.

    And then the guy says, "okay if I cum on your face?"

    Strange.


  • #43
    Wibbs
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    Porklife wrote: »
    Your post makes perfect sense. Where do you stand on the losing respect side of things? This guy isn't being pushy at all but I know he wants to and he's very well endowed so I'm a little bit scared but my main worry is that he'll look at me differently afterwards, even subconsciously. What do you think about that?
    There's always some give and take, but jaysus if a guy loses respect for you for doing something he's requesting then he's not much use to you.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #44
    Porklife
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    Avatar MIA wrote: »
    Jesus, how does that even come up in conversation?

    Having a nice meal, some polite conversation, having a mutual jibe about that idiot Trump.

    You walk her back to her apartment, holding hands.

    You get invited for coffee.

    There's some awkward fumbling with clothes.

    Things start to get heavy.

    And then the guy says, "okay if I cum on your face?"

    Strange.

    That has literally happened to me!


  • #45
    Avatar MIA
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    Porklife wrote: »
    That has literally happened to me!

    Answer. Do you think your mammy allowed your daddy to do that?

    There'll be no sex of any kind mind, he'll likely whimper out the door :pac:


  • #46
    Wibbs
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    Avatar MIA wrote: »
    Jesus, how does that even come up in conversation?

    Having a nice meal, some polite conversation, having a mutual jibe about that idiot Trump.

    You walk her back to her apartment, holding hands.

    You get invited for coffee.

    There's some awkward fumbling with clothes.

    Things start to get heavy.

    And then the guy says, "okay if I cum on your face?"

    Strange.
    I dunno Av, I'm not a woman, or a gay fella, so... :D From what I gather from women mates it's not usually kicking off on the first fumble, this kinda thing comes up(missus!!) when more comfort has been built later on. And some of the stuff mates of mine have told me... Like one she was going with this guy for a few months and was all normal in the bedroom dept, even vanilla, then one evening they were in the shower together - as you do, save water and that - and he asked her to pee on him and he'd pee on her. That this was his big turn on. Nekkid women do it for me, but each to their own I suppose. And that wasn't the oddest out of the blue request. Some were well dodgy like overly aggressive sex stuff. Though I've had that from one or two women who wanted me to get get physical in a way far outa my comfort zone. There's nought as queer as folk.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #47
    Wibbs
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    Avatar MIA wrote: »
    Answer. Do you think your mammy allowed your daddy to do that?
    If he comes back with "yeah and I used to fiddle with meself watching through a keyhole". RUN! :D

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #48
    Avatar MIA
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    Wibbs wrote: »
    If he comes back with "yeah and I used to fiddle with meself watching through a keyhole". RUN! :D

    "Ah, that explains it. Fire away so". :pac:


  • #49
    Franz Von Peppercorn
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    bubblypop wrote: »
    Very old fashioned view by you.
    Maybe you treat sex like something you give to him?
    Maybe you should just relax & enjoy it

    She doesn’t really want to do it.


  • #50
    Porklife
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    You wouldn't believe some of the stuff I've had guys say to me or try to do and I'm very open minded. I was recently on a date with a guy... a first date may I add, and he went to go for a cigarette. I was sitting at the bar and before he went he goes.. Oh, this will keep you company while I'm gone. He hands me his phone (weird as we'd only just met) and shows me a video of a woman, spreadeagle being licked out by a dog! I was stunned!!! Needless to say, we didn't go home and do it doggy style!


  • #51
    Wibbs
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    Porklife wrote: »
    You wouldn't believe some of the stuff I've had guys say to me or try to do and I'm very open minded. I was recently on a date with a guy... a first date may I add, and he went to go for a cigarette. I was sitting at the bar and before he went he goes.. Oh, this will keep you company while I'm gone. He hands me his phone (weird as we'd only just met) and shows me a video of a woman, spreadeagle being licked out by a dog! I was stunned!!! Needless to say, we didn't go home and do it doggy style!
    What the actual f... :eek:

    A couple of things occur to me with someone like that, foremost among them if its coming from someone who's not a teenager is that maybe this has worked for them in the past? Which is another level of weird. Or he's just a weirdo.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



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  • #52
    Avatar MIA
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    Porklife wrote: »
    Needless to say, we didn't go home and do it doggy style!

    Just plain missionary then? :P


  • #53
    [Deleted User]
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    Porklife wrote: »
    You wouldn't believe some of the stuff I've had guys say to me or try to do and I'm very open minded. I was recently on a date with a guy... a first date may I add, and he went to go for a cigarette. I was sitting at the bar and before he went he goes.. Oh, this will keep you company while I'm gone. He hands me his phone (weird as we'd only just met) and shows me a video of a woman, spreadeagle being licked out by a dog! I was stunned!!! Needless to say, we didn't go home and do it doggy style!

    Can this thread just be about your dating stories from here on please?


  • #54
    Idbatterim
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    Vag is so vanilla!


  • #55
    arybvtcw0eolkf
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    Porklife wrote: »
    You wouldn't believe some of the stuff I've had guys say to me or try to do and I'm very open minded. I was recently on a date with a guy... a first date may I add, and he went to go for a cigarette. I was sitting at the bar and before he went he goes.. Oh, this will keep you company while I'm gone. He hands me his phone (weird as we'd only just met) and shows me a video of a woman, spreadeagle being licked out by a dog! I was stunned!!! Needless to say, we didn't go home and do it doggy style!

    And that ladies and gentlemen is how you give a dog a bone :D


  • #56
    Porklife
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    Ramsi wrote: »
    This thread is a wind up.

    How? Are you saying I'm pretending a guy hasn't asked me to do this and I'm looking for opinions? No idea how that would be a wind up.. Bizarre


  • #57
    Porklife
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Having heard similar from men and women mates(and weirder stuff) on the mating/dating scene little surprises me TBH. I've experienced a few occasions of the Weird myself. One situation was after a few times going out, flics, dinner and drinking and all seemed grand. Back to her place and room for some fumbling fun, I become aware that the door is ajar and someone is there. I'm all WTF? and yer wan tells me that it's just her (woman) roommate and she sometimes likes to watch and this turns them both on. Now my fumblings are barely adequate for observation for the woman I"m directly fumbling so an audience is hardly welcome and since she was only into watching... And no I didn't put on a show. :D

    Haha oh my god!! That's so odd! A guy I know had a similar experience but the person who was watching came into the room and asked for money... Mommy, mommy, can I have five euro? It was her child! Apparently she casually said, my purse is over there on the floor and carried on!


  • #58
    Avatar MIA
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    Porklife wrote: »
    Haha oh my god!! That's so odd! A guy I know had a similar experience but the person who was watching came into the room and asked for money... Mommy, mommy, can I have five euro? It was her child! Apparently she casually said, my purse is over there on the floor and carried on!

    What I've learned most from this thread is that I've lead a sheltered sex life. :o


  • #59
    KathleenGrant
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    Avatar MIA wrote: »
    What I've learned most from this thread is that I've lead a sheltered sex life. :o

    Me too. I must be so boring.


  • #60
    Purple Mountain
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    I got a tattoo a few years ago on my Kardassian that says 'Exit Only'.
    That puts paid to any requests.

    To thine own self be true



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  • #61
    sk8erboii
    Site Banned Posts: 1,253 ✭✭✭sk8erboii


    Anal sex isnt anything special. When i dated a girl in 2010 (we were 16) she was pretty ready to give it up on the first two weeks. Same with every girl since then. To be fair i tend to be friends with art types so theyre more liberal when it comes to sex


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