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Men's rights on Abortion?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 94 ✭✭veronymus


    do you know if a pregnant woman is killed is there a bigger punishment for the accused compared to if the woman was not pregnant?

    I stand to be corrected but as far as I know it would have no effect on a murder charge. I'm going out on a limb here as I don't know of any such case, but I guess it may be considered an aggravating factor on a manslaughter charge because the judge will have discretion in sentencing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,834 ✭✭✭Mark Hamill


    maybe read properly before you assume you understand someone elses point of view. abortion is when the offspring is still living inside the mother.

    I thought the whole point of the anti-choice side was that the baby in the womb is the same as the baby outside?
    Also, as gctest50 mentioned, there is the Bruce Effect, which is when certain animals abort their own pregnancies.
    if we agree that some animals murder their children in the wild, does that mean its ok to do?

    they also rape each other.

    Animals doing something doesn't make it right or wrong, but it does contradict anyone saying they don't do it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 807 ✭✭✭Jenneke87


    I had to have all three of my pregnancies terminated, or " the babies killed" as some of you like to call it. Only that is the reason I'm currently alive. I'm grateful that in my home country there is abortion on demand so that women, when they need to, can safely terminate.
    I believe that some pro-lifers massively misunderstand how difficult it is to make that decision. We don't go in there    with a smile on our faces in anticipation of the free tea and cookies will get after the procedure. In my country murder will get you 25 years. If you " kill" at six weeks gestation the fetus is the size of a grain of rice, yet some of you want to put the two on equal footing, it's just bizarre..To become completely without rights just because you can get pregnant is truly a scary idea and one, I bet that wouldn't even be discussed if men could get pregnant. I also wonder if those that are pro-life and claim that poverty of lack of finances to properly raise is not a reason to abort a child would financially support a woman so she can keep it, but we all know the answer..Suddenly the child is no longer their business..
    Three days ago, here, a 19 year old girl gave birth, put the baby in a plastic bag  and left it to die on the balcony, which the baby did. I was horrified, first of all for the baby but also because, if she truly did not want the baby, she could have safely terminated the pregnancy. I'm sure the baby was now far more aware of it's impending death than it would have been had she terminated. 
    A pregnancy and it's continuation is between the woman, her partner if still on scene and her GP and no-one else.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    I thought the whole point of the anti-choice side was that the baby in the womb is the same as the baby outside?
    Also, as gctest50 mentioned, there is the Bruce Effect, which is when certain animals abort their own pregnancies.


    Animals doing something doesn't make it right or wrong, but it does contradict anyone saying they don't do it.
    I said they dont have abortions. anyway it made things more confusing because people quote out of context or havent read everything


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    Jenneke87 wrote: »
    I had to have all three of my pregnancies terminated, or " the babies killed" as some of you like to call it. Only that is the reason I'm currently alive. I'm grateful that in my home country there is abortion on demand so that women, when they need to, can safely terminate.
    I believe that some pro-lifers massively misunderstand how difficult it is to make that decision. We don't go in there with a smile on our faces in anticipation of the free tea and cookies will get after the procedure. In my country murder will get you 25 years. If you " kill" at six weeks gestation the fetus is the size of a grain of rice, yet some of you want to put the two on equal footing, it's just bizarre..To become completely without rights just because you can get pregnant is truly a scary idea and one, I bet that wouldn't even be discussed if men could get pregnant. I also wonder if those that are pro-life and claim that poverty of lack of finances to properly raise is not a reason to abort a child would financially support a woman so she can keep it, but we all know the answer..Suddenly the child is no longer their business..
    Three days ago, here, a 19 year old girl gave birth, put the baby in a plastic bag and left it to die on the balcony, which the baby did. I was horrified, first of all for the baby but also because, if she truly did not want the baby, she could have safely terminated the pregnancy. I'm sure the baby was now far more aware of it's impending death than it would have been had she terminated.
    A pregnancy and it's continuation is between the woman, her partner if still on scene and her GP and no-one else.
    I have no problem with that, thats morally acceptable, it was the only option. I think euthanasia should be allowed, I would still call it killing, because thats the word used to describe when you end the life of an organism. people attach their own emotions to the word.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,537 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    Jenneke87 wrote: »
    I had to have all three of my pregnancies terminated, or " the babies killed" as some of you like to call it. Only that is the reason I'm currently alive. I'm grateful that in my home country there is abortion on demand so that women, when they need to, can safely terminate.

    as far as i'm concerned you are a medically necessary case and you should have access to abortion. i don't believe we need abortion on demand for cases like yours however.
    Jenneke87 wrote: »
    I believe that some pro-lifers massively misunderstand how difficult it is to make that decision. We don't go in there with a smile on our faces in anticipation of the free tea and cookies will get after the procedure. In my country murder will get you 25 years. If you " kill" at six weeks gestation the fetus is the size of a grain of rice, yet some of you want to put the two on equal footing, it's just bizarre..To become completely without rights just because you can get pregnant is truly a scary idea and one, I bet that wouldn't even be discussed if men could get pregnant.

    the 2 technically aren't on an equal footing, even with constitutional protection for the unborn. the unborn only have a right to life. that is all. and even then it is as much as is practical to uphold it. so the mother does have the greater rights from what i can see.
    Jenneke87 wrote: »
    I also wonder if those that are pro-life and claim that poverty of lack of finances to properly raise is not a reason to abort a child would financially support a woman so she can keep it, but we all know the answer..Suddenly the child is no longer their business..

    us pro-life of that view already support such children via our taxes, the wellfare system. it's absolutely right that it exists and helps to support parents who are in difficulty.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    have no problem with that, thats morally acceptable, it was the only option. I think euthanasia should be allowed, I would still call it killing, because thats the word used to describe when you end the life of an organism. people attach their own emotions to the word.

    It’s this kind of talk that annoys me.
    Who made you the authority on what is and isn’t morally acceptable?
    Regardless, why should any woman have to justify terminating a pregnancy to you, to see if their reason is morally acceptable?

    Why should I have to live my life, and indeed, have my healthcare restricted, because of your morals? Especially when I disagree with you? I don’t even know you?

    In my opinion making any woman continue with a pregnancy she doesn’t want is morally unacceptable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    It’s this kind of talk that annoys me.
    Who made you the authority on what is and isn’t morally acceptable?
    Regardless, why should any woman have to justify terminating a pregnancy to you, to see if their reason is morally acceptable?

    Why should I have to live my life, and indeed, have my healthcare restricted, because of your morals? Especially when I disagree with you? I don’t even know you?

    In my opinion making any woman continue with a pregnancy she doesn’t want is morally unacceptable.

    we are going around in circles heres

    theres a law thats in place, I dont aggree with many aspects of it but thats the law. I didnt make the law, but thats the current authority

    Im only offering my own point of view. even when the morals I hold are in agreement with a poster here you try to paint me as the bad guy.

    I see people all the time talk about how drugs are evil, while they drink and smoke themselves. Im not allowed use natural plant extracts because someone else decided they have control over my body, but I can buy a product with cancer causing additives and destroy my body with that ,because the law says thats ok

    if someone wants to change the law they need to justify their reasons to their fellow citizens, it seems you disagree with how civilized society works, and i dont blame you for that.

    Im not the bad guy here, Im expressing my own opinion on life, its not an easy subject to talk about, which is why some people refuse to even try discuss it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,597 ✭✭✭gctest50



    I said they dont have abortions...........

    You said :

    ..... No other species aborts their own children. Its not very humane


    "Auto-abortion" !!!!

    Gelada monkeys in the wild abort their pregnancies if a new dominant male takes over

    The ones that do, tend to fare better - easy to see why that's the way it is


    see :
    I have no problem with abortions for medical reasons, but we are headed towards the same type of system used as other countries which is morally wrong. If you cant see that you are blind. I'm not religious, but I value human life. It should be given a chance to grow up and experience being a human. No other species aborts their own children. Its not very humane


    #inb4appeal2nature


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    gctest50 wrote: »
    You said :




    "Auto-abortion" !!!!

    Gelada monkeys in the wild abort their pregnancies if a new dominant male takes over

    The ones that do, tend to fare better - easy to see why that's the way it is


    see :
    they suffer a miscarriage, there is no scientific evidence to show that they are giving themselves abortions. it seems to be a biological processes that happens under certain environmental conditions. they dont use special tools or natural medicines to terminate their pregnancy



    it seems like you want to prove me wrong on small details, rather than tackle the core subject

    try harder next time


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    It’s this kind of talk that annoys me.
    Who made you the authority on what is and isn’t morally acceptable?
    .
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Democracy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    I think you might be caught up in semantics gctest50


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,597 ✭✭✭gctest50


    I think you might be caught up in semantics gctest50

    and you come out with :

    they suffer a miscarriage,




    there is no scientific evidence to show that they are giving themselves abortions. it seems to be a biological processes that happens under certain environmental conditions. they dont use special tools or natural medicines to terminate their pregnancy

    Evolution - they don't need "special tools or natural medicines"

    If a lab mouse that's a few days pregnant smells the urine of a strange male her prolactin will drop and she will spontaneously abort ( miscarry if scairt of the a word ) because dopamine

    ...........

    it seems to be a biological processes

    .....

    What do you think was going to happen ? Little Gelada abortion clinics pop up ?

    Evolution - the ones that do the auto-terminating fare better



    it seems like you want to prove me wrong on small details, rather than tackle the core subject

    #it'sallaboutmeeeee again i see


    It was one of your main points, that we are "going against nature" :


    This is what you said :
    ......

    No other species aborts their own children. Its not very humane


    Seems your posts are filled with ye olde appeal to nature

    From this thread :
    ...........


    I see people all the time talk about how drugs are evil, while they drink and smoke themselves.

    Im not allowed use natural plant extracts because someone else decided they have control over my body, but I can buy a product with cancer causing additives and destroy my body with that ,because the law says thats ok


    Can't believe your trying to slip in " natural plant extracts" are good-because-nature with no-abortion is-good-because-natural to the thread


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    what youre talking about is something completely different to human abortions, dont throw semantics back at me.

    if a woman is in a club and spots a more physically attractive male should she go and get an abortion because the new male will provide a genetically superior offspring? that sounds alot like eugenic abortion


    the bruce effect has not been confirmed in geladas, but you seem to want to keep that species in your argument. they have miscarriages when a new alpha male enters the group. or he just kills her children so they can have more with him as the father.
    should a new boyfriend be allowed kill a womans child from her previous partner like the geladas you are fond of?


    you can keep twisting my words but it wont change anything. I also mentioned MDMA which is not a natural plant extract, I didnt want to have to cover all the various drugs that I'm not allowed put in my body which are safe when used correctly


    "#it'sallaboutmeeeee"
    look at you picking my posts apart and framing them to suit your own narrative with your condescending tone

    if you believe we should behave like apes perhaps you would like to finish this argument like apes, I assume you're a male?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭_Dara_


    will it get the same kind of support from liberals as Repeal?
    or will that situation remain the same because men are 'privileged' and should be happy with what they have

    In the current climate, probably not but in the future, I think it might. The world is not ready for legal abortion yet. I don’t think it’s a “thing” in any country in the world yet.

    Voting against repeal for that reason would be pretty spiteful; there’s an “if I can’t have something, neither can you” vibe to it. (I honestly think very few would vote against repeal for that reason alone) The two issues won’t be decided together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,834 ✭✭✭Mark Hamill


    if you believe we should behave like apes perhaps you would like to finish this argument like apes, I assume you're a male?

    The point, as is obvious to most everyone else, is that animals having abortions contradicts your appeal to nature fallacy. And it is a fallacy because whether or not animals do it is entirely irrelevant. Animals don't post on the internet either, doesn't make it right or wrong.

    Still, interesting to see threats of violence when you are called out for your fallacies. Shows your lack of forethought in your position and your lack of confidence in your arguments.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue



    The very ironic part about your original post is that while you sympathised, and agreed her abortion was morally acceptable in your eyes, you are still going to vote No in order to stop the "bad" abortions you don't agree with.

    Which means that women like her will continue having to risk their health and lives, just so you can sleep easy knowing the "bad" abortions have been stopped....Except they haven't. 4k abortions happen every year.
    It just makes it unsafe for those who do need to travel.

    What are these women to you, collateral damage? Do you think its morally acceptable for women to have to risk their health and lives, so that we can proudly declare we're an abortion free country? (even though we aren't)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    The very ironic part about your original post is that while you sympathised, and agreed her abortion was morally acceptable in your eyes, you are still going to vote No in order to stop the "bad" abortions you don't agree with.

    Which means that women like her will continue having to risk their health and lives, just so you can sleep easy knowing the "bad" abortions have been stopped....Except they haven't. 4k abortions happen every year.
    It just makes it unsafe for those who do need to travel.

    What are these women to you, collateral damage? Do you think its morally acceptable for women to have to risk their health and lives, so that we can proudly declare we're an abortion free country? (even though we aren't)
    you assume wrong

    under the current legislation an abortion can be allowed to protect a woman's life, if that's not being allowed to happen there is something wrong with those in control of hospitals, not the law


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    The point, as is obvious to most everyone else, is that animals having abortions contradicts your appeal to nature fallacy. And it is a fallacy because whether or not animals do it is entirely irrelevant. Animals don't post on the internet either, doesn't make it right or wrong.

    Still, interesting to see threats of violence when you are called out for your fallacies. Shows your lack of forethought in your position and your lack of confidence in your arguments.


    I dont know how many times I have to point out that its not the same as what humans do. Can I kill a womans infant children from another man so that I can make more children with her using my own DNA?



    Trees have an 'internet', they use their roots and their leaves to communicate with each other. Mushrooms also do the same type of communication thru soil, they breathe in oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide just like us.



    that particular poster is fond of apes , I refuted their points and humorlessly gave them an option for conclusion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    The very ironic part about your original post is that while you sympathised, and agreed her abortion was morally acceptable in your eyes, you are still going to vote No in order to stop the "bad" abortions you don't agree with.

    Which means that women like her will continue having to risk their health and lives, just so you can sleep easy knowing the "bad" abortions have been stopped....Except they haven't. 4k abortions happen every year.
    It just makes it unsafe for those who do need to travel.

    What are these women to you, collateral damage? Do you think its morally acceptable for women to have to risk their health and lives, so that we can proudly declare we're an abortion free country? (even though we aren't)

    can we have a discussion here and not an argument? are those 4,000 abortions because a womans life is in danger from the pregnancy, and why are they not allowed happen in Ireland if the life of the mother is in danger? you could try educate me instead of trying to guilt trip me

    and of course I dont think its morally acceptable for a woman to die because she hasnt been allowed an abortion


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    can we have a discussion here and not an argument? are those 4,000 abortions because a womans life is in danger from the pregnancy, and why are they not allowed happen in Ireland if the life of the mother is in danger? you could try educate me instead of trying to guilt trip me

    and of course I dont think its morally acceptable for a woman to die because she hasnt been allowed an abortion

    No, some of them happen because the foetus has FFA and they can't be administered here and some happen because the woman chose to have an abortion


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    unlike alot of people I have an open mind, I just wish people would be honest when they spoke, instead of using dishonest tactics


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    No, some of them happen because the foetus has FFA and they can't be administered here and some happen because the woman chose to have an abortion
    it would be nice to have a proper break down of the numbers


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,597 ✭✭✭gctest50



    the bruce effect has not been confirmed in geladas, but you seem to want to keep that species in your argument.


    you missed this part :

    gctest50 wrote: »
    .........

    If a lab mouse that's a few days pregnant smells the urine of a strange male her prolactin will drop and she will spontaneously abort ( miscarry if scairt of the A word ) because dopamine





    they have miscarriages when a new alpha male enters the group.

    or he just kills her children so they can have more with him as the father.

    OR ? OR ? OR ? that is the WHOLE POINT of them spontaneously aborting - to avoid infanticide by the new dominant male

    The ones that do this fare better


    if you believe we should behave like apes perhaps you would like to finish this argument like apes, I assume you're a male?

    They warn about people like that on the internet, start some conversation and then turn it into about meeting up


    What then ? meet up, then say lets have some drugs instead because arguing and fighting is bad :

    That's like something Jeffrey Dahmer would do

    I also mentioned MDMA which is not a natural plant extract,
    I didnt want to have to cover all the various drugs that I'm not allowed put in my body which are safe when used correctly








    qft:
    what youre talking about is something completely different to human abortions, dont throw semantics back at me.

    if a woman is in a club and spots a more physically attractive male should she go and get an abortion because the new male will provide a genetically superior offspring? that sounds alot like eugenic abortion


    the bruce effect has not been confirmed in geladas, but you seem to want to keep that species in your argument. they have miscarriages when a new alpha male enters the group. or he just kills her children so they can have more with him as the father.
    should a new boyfriend be allowed kill a womans child from her previous partner like the geladas you are fond of?


    you can keep twisting my words but it wont change anything. I also mentioned MDMA which is not a natural plant extract, I didnt want to have to cover all the various drugs that I'm not allowed put in my body which are safe when used correctly


    "#it'sallaboutmeeeee"
    look at you picking my posts apart and framing them to suit your own narrative with your condescending tone

    if you believe we should behave like apes perhaps you would like to finish this argument like apes, I assume you're a male?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    gctest50 wrote: »

    That's like something Jeffrey Dahmer would do










    that sums you up nicely, cowardly throwing insults and mocking strangers on the internet

    I'm like a cannibal serial killer sex offender?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    Ive mentioned mdma, but Ive never used it. Im aware of it medicinal benefits, it would also improve social interactions within societies, which is one of the main reasons it's illegal. lets leave the strawman building out of this


  • Posts: 19,178 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    what are the medicinal benefits of mdma?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    bubblypop wrote: »
    what are the medicinal benefits of mdma?


    https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/ecstasy-could-be-breakthrough-therapy-for-soldiers-others-suffering-from-ptsd/2017/08/26/009314ca-842f-11e7-b359-15a3617c767b_story.html



    Theres research being conducted at the moment on it being used to treat depression and PTSD . And so far the results are extremely positive

    Psilocybin also has great potential

    street drugs are not safe because you dont know what the ingredients are, but pure mdma is safe when used at the correct dosage

    Some people are micro dosing LSD, again it's also helping fight depression and other mental illnesses , but it also has positive side effects. When the dosage is small there are no physical impairments, a person can function as 'normal' at work without raising any suspicion of 'being on drugs'

    https://www.highbeam.com/Search?searchTerm=mdma+ptsd


    'Magic Mushroom' Chemical Eases Cancer Despair


    Hallucinogenic drug psilocybin relieved depression, anxiety quickly and lasted for months, studies found
    https://www.webmd.com/cancer/news/20161201/magic-mushroom-chemical-eases-cancer-patients-despair#1


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,834 ✭✭✭Mark Hamill


    I dont know how many times I have to point out that its not the same as what humans do. Can I kill a womans infant children from another man so that I can make more children with her using my own DNA?

    Why they do it is irrelevant, animals still have abortions. They stop otherwise healthy pregnancies by themselves.
    Trees have an 'internet', they use their roots and their leaves to communicate with each other. Mushrooms also do the same type of communication thru soil, they breathe in oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide just like us.

    SNIP adds nothing

    Please stop saying whatever random nonsense comes into you head. Trees and mushrooms have an internet? Do they have modems and network cards? Whats their version of 4chan, tree moss?
    that particular poster is fond of apes , I refuted their points and humorlessly gave them an option for conclusion.

    It's the lack of humor that makes it seem like a threat of violence.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    Why they do it is irrelevant, animals still have abortions. They stop otherwise healthy pregnancies by themselves.

    SNIP adds nothing

    Please stop saying whatever random nonsense comes into you head. Trees and mushrooms have an internet? Do they have modems and network cards? Whats their version of 4chan, tree moss?


    It's the lack of humor that makes it seem like a threat of violence.

    Hidden under your feet is an information superhighway that allows plants to communicate and help each other out. It’s made of fungi
    http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20141111-plants-have-a-hidden-internet


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