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Belfast rape trial - all 4 found not guilty Mod Note post one

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,520 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    Strazdas wrote: »
    They were in fact along with her stained jeans.

    Considering she didn't wear them afterwards, I'm unsure of the benefit of them being in evidence.

    She says she put them in her pocket before putting on her trousers and leaving.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    Do people really not see how Ireland is preceived abroad.
    Had anyone been abroad for a considerable length of time, that is talking on here?
    We are seen as an alcoholic, misogynistic nation.
    You do know other countries don-t treat women the same way that we do?
    Ive lived in Spain for a considerable length of time. I have lived in different countries (teaching English). Spain is known for having a macho culture. I was treated with 10 times more respect in Spain than I was in Ireland.
    Youve got to look at ourselves. Hatred of women in Ireland has been passed from father and son down for generations. How do we change it? Do you want to continue on like this? Teach the next generation to hate?

    Why are you still living in this alcohol drenched, misogynistic ****hole then?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,520 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    The whole consent training thing is also pointless. This case would be identical either way.

    Unless you have proof it's all he said/she said/they said.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,793 ✭✭✭tritium


    Do people really not see how Ireland is preceived abroad.
    Had anyone been abroad for a considerable length of time, that is talking on here?
    We are seen as an alcoholic, misogynistic nation.
    You do know other countries don-t treat women the same way that we do?
    Ive lived in Spain for a considerable length of time. I have lived in different countries (teaching English). Spain is known for having a macho culture. I was treated with 10 times more respect in Spain than I was in Ireland.
    Youve got to look at ourselves. Hatred of women in Ireland has been passed from father and son down for generations. How do we change it? Do you want to continue on like this? Teach the next generation to hate?

    This is the Spain whose capital took a stand against manspreading on public transport thanks to the valiant fight for equality by the party “women in struggle”

    Yeah, if that’s your vision for the future I’ll pass


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,814 ✭✭✭irishman86


    irishrebe wrote: »
    Sheltered life? How cute. I grew up on an estate in Clondalkin. I've worked in developing countries. I've seen all sorts. But sure, yeah, 'sheltered life', whatever makes you feel better. I didn't say 'bravado' didn't exist, BTW, I said the people who use it are immature, insecure, sad tossers. You're really doing 'young lads' a disservice by saying they all go on like that.

    Disservice ah stop
    Good for you on seeing all sorts, it makes it all the funnier that you deny people speaking like this
    If not sheltered, blind is the word that has to describe you and well tbh thats a lot worse


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭HappyAsLarE


    Funny how all the women hating men love their mammies and wives more than anyone else.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,327 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Just saw this absolute drivel on twitter with 2k likes.

    When will this recent culture of perpetual self-victimisation end? It's just gotten utterly ridiculous thanks to the disconnect to reality offered by the internet. When challenged, in the real world, on these 'flash card' statements, very few can actually back it up with reasoned debate.

    When will these people actually get off their keyboards and interact with the real world? Reality may not be perfect....but it's a lot better than this warped, twisted vision being constantly peddled.
    They don't want reality TF, that's the thing. The problem with victim/victimiser rhetoric is it is a near gold standard given of totalitarian thought. Every single tinpot totalitarian movement, politic, or state runs with this out of the gate. Every one of them. Paint themselves as the victims and some group as the victimisers and rally together under a banner of self righteousness in the sainthood of the Blessed Victim until the usual endgame of the accused victimisers being turned into actual victims. Name any totalitarian, "ism", or state in history and you will see this is one of the main narrative of all of them. I'm not suggesting feminists are going to end up putting men on cattle trucks(that would be too much like hard work and they'd need men to do the dirty work), but the mechanism that leads to that is the same.

    I love how yer wan in that tweet asked "are we always to blame". The irony bypass with these people is staggering. That's also the victim narrative of course. We can't be to blame, the victimiser is always to blame in the end. Like women can't be sexist[insert privilege here], no matter what level of sexism they're displaying. It can't compute for the victimhood peddlers. Women are always agentless victims, men are always to blame.
    Always a victim.

    I wonder do they realise that they could do the same as men. Be wary of other people, require trust to be gained over time and experience, and not put yourself into dodgy positions without having friends nearby to back you up?

    Doesn't mean you have to be actively suspicious of everyone, but put your personal safety first. Seems logical to me.
    Stop mansplaining, gas lighting and victim blaming you man cur you.

    Let's face it K, you're asking people who refuse to take any personal responsibility because it is always someone else's(Men™) fault. Again this does not compute. For a few reasons. The victim is blameless and responsibility requires dropping the narcissism(never gonna happen. it's the scourge of the 21st century) and actually making changes. That's a bridge to far for them.
    What alternate system do they hope to overhaul the current court system with?

    To hell with due process, presumption of innocence and right to a fair trial?
    They don't know UG. That's the thing. They have zero clue beyond shouting down with this sorta thing. If it doesn't fit in a tweet or a hashtag, or a hastily penned banner it's completely bloody beyond them. Even if they did get the utopia they can't measure or define, they'd still be whinging. They'll never be satisfied.

    In another time of real social and political foment in the West that actually took to the streets rather than iPhones; to quote Lennon; John, not Vladimir...



    "You say you want a revolution.../...You say you got a real solution
    Well, you know, we'd all love to see the plan".


    At least some then claimed to have "real solutions". All this lot can do is channel pure ChickThink™, that is; feels trumps facts, rhetoric trumps explanation, blaming trumps self examination, shouting trumps dialogue, blocking trumps debate. #alwaysbelievewomen(exceptwhenitdoesntsuit)

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,814 ✭✭✭irishman86


    Do people really not see how Ireland is preceived abroad.
    Had anyone been abroad for a considerable length of time, that is talking on here?
    We are seen as an alcoholic, misogynistic nation.
    You do know other countries don-t treat women the same way that we do?
    Ive lived in Spain for a considerable length of time. I have lived in different countries (teaching English). Spain is known for having a macho culture. I was treated with 10 times more respect in Spain than I was in Ireland.
    Youve got to look at ourselves. Hatred of women in Ireland has been passed from father and son down for generations. How do we change it? Do you want to continue on like this? Teach the next generation to hate?

    Christ you are so full of bull****
    I'm french married to a latin and have lived in over 20 countries. People view Irish people as fun happy people
    My latin wife said she enjoys walking down streets without getting whistled at and sexual points of view been thrown at her
    You seriously need to stop making stuff up
    Hatred of women ffs, people like you are the problem not the solution


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭HappyAsLarE


    irishman86 wrote: »
    Christ you are so full of bull****
    I'm french married to a latin and have lived in over 20 countries. People view Irish people as fun happy people
    My latin wife said she enjoys walking down streets without getting whistled at and sexual points of view been thrown at her
    You seriously need to stop making stuff up
    Hatred of women ffs, people like you are the problem not the solution

    Haha this is so true. Irish women are adored by Irish men by and large. Ask an Italian woman walking by a building site what it’s like to be objectified with wolf whistling!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,476 ✭✭✭Mrs Shuttleworth


    GreeBo wrote: »
    Sorry for adding annoying facts...but if men are having sex before getting to know someone...by definition doesn't that mean there are also women having sex with men they don't know?

    The woman by and large expects something to come of it.

    The man doesn't.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 554 ✭✭✭Creol1


    JP Liz V1 wrote: »
    What did he say so bad that he is getting sued, there is worse tweets

    Whether to bring a defamation case isn't just based on the content of a statement, but also factors such as how public it was (in this case, very public given the number of followers the senator had) and whether the person being accused of defamation would have the means to pay damages.

    A lawyer is going to be reluctant to sue any old randomer on the Internet for this reason, but O'Riordain is a Senator and former minister, so fairly well-off financially.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,856 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    Would it be mad to close the thread ?

    The hysteriameter has gone way off the scale.

    It is almost at a stage this is getting way more energy than say the efforts to restoring the assembly in the North.
    People are not even as energised about homelessness.

    Lock the thread ?

    We live in the age when an allegation is enough.
    When the the Taoiseach of the country can be photographed with an accuser while her accused is waiting to go willingly in to court to defend himself then you know trials, evidence etc are irrelevant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Rodin


    What do you think - Will Aodhan issue a full retraction and apology?

    I think he better.
    I'd sue him too if I were in that position.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭HappyAsLarE


    <SNIP>

    This is the reality - there are double standards for men and women when it comes to promiscuity. A lad is a legend if he keeps pulling, a girl is a slapper. But for valid reason. It is ingrained in our biolical evolution - a woman HAS to be choosy, because she gets pregnant. So being choosy results in ‘superior’ offspring and benefits survival of a species. A man can technically father many children in a single day and walk away. He doesn’t need to be anywhere near as choosy.

    This is the cause of our judgment as lads being legends and girls being slappers. Don’t dismiss how fundamental this instinct is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,022 ✭✭✭anthonyjmaher


    pupaxxx wrote: »
    One rotten apple, does not make them all bad... That's all, I'll say.
    It's this point that really gets me though. There was a case last year where a Traveller gang broke in to a house where there was a family with small kids and terrorised them before leaving with their money. On RTE, the callers to Liveline were not even allowed to refer to them as a Traveller gang as Joe Duffy was "concerned"that this would lead to ALL Travellers being stereotyped as thugs and criminals. Yet since the verdict in this case, we have heard sweeping, patronising statements about how men need to taught about consent and the suggestion that men should attend consent classes.

    Surely if RTE think it's not right to punish all Travellers for the actions of a few, then it's not right to punish ALL men for the words of a few. You talk about your inequality?? They make me f**king sick with their double standards to be honest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,402 ✭✭✭Pac1Man


    The woman by and large expects something to come of it.

    The man doesn't.

    You were probably better off saying nothing!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,859 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake


    Yup and tomorrow they're ramping it up..... march to Dept of Justice.


    https://twitter.com/RuthCoppingerTD/status/979725517946580998

    On a Saturday, when there's no-one home? Or are they planning on marching the the UK Ministry of Justice under whose remit this case fell?

    Weapons-grade stupidity either way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,859 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake


    Also I notice #suemePaddy trending on twitter...... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

    latest?cb=20130629034453


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,670 ✭✭✭Hoboo


    The woman by and large expects something to come of it.

    The man doesn't.

    By in large the man always expects to come, the woman doesn't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 379 ✭✭Appledreams15


    On a Saturday, when there's no-one home? Or are they planning on marching the the UK Ministry of Justice under whose remit this case fell?

    Weapons-grade stupidity either way.

    Do you know what the protest is about? Educate yourself honey. Assuming on the internet is the worst way that you can fail.

    It is about the legal systems in both the republic and Northen Ireland failing women in rape cases.

    Everyone clear? Good.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,075 ✭✭✭Fann Linn


    On a Saturday, when there's no-one home? Or are they planning on marching the the UK Ministry of Justice under whose remit this case fell?

    Weapons-grade stupidity either way.


    Women gone mad.










    Runs for cover.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,075 ✭✭✭Fann Linn


    Do you know what the protest is about? Educate yourself honey. Assuming on the internet is the worst way that you can fail.

    It is about the legal systems in both the republic and Northen Ireland failing women in rape cases.

    Everyone clear? Good.

    Whats the perception on the witness, Dara? Did she fail the justice system?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,919 ✭✭✭✭blanch152


    Do you know what the protest is about? Educate yourself honey. Assuming on the internet is the worst way that you can fail.

    It is about the legal systems in both the republic and Northen Ireland failing women in rape cases.

    Everyone clear? Good.


    Yes, let me see, are they annoyed about the South letting the public into rape trials? Oh, we don't do that.

    Are they annoyed about the accused being named, therefore raising the risk of the accuser being identified? Oh, we don't do that either.

    Are they annoyed about the innocent until guilty beyond a reasonable doubt premise? Hopefully not.

    So what is it they are annoyed about?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Rodin


    Do you know what the protest is about? Educate yourself honey. Assuming on the internet is the worst way that you can fail.

    It is about the legal systems in both the republic and Northen Ireland failing women in rape cases.

    Everyone clear? Good.

    That assumes a rape (a criminal offence) occurred. In this case it was deemed by 11 people who sat through all the evidence for 9 weeks, that a rape did not occur. And it took them less than 4 hours to decide that.
    Very definitive.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32 retired00


    Also I notice #suemePaddy trending on twitter...... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

    latest?cb=20130629034453

    the left can't meme


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Vladimir Poontang


    It's a classic case of hysteria


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,856 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    blanch152 wrote: »
    Yes, let me see, are they annoyed about the South letting the public into rape trials? Oh, we don't do that.

    Are they annoyed about the accused being named, therefore raising the risk of the accuser being identified? Oh, we don't do that either.

    Are they annoyed about the innocent until guilty beyond a reasonable doubt premise? Hopefully not.

    So what is it they are annoyed about?

    They mostly are annoyed that an allegation has not turned out to have any evidence to back it up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,029 ✭✭✭um7y1h83ge06nx


    The woman by and large expects something to come of it.

    The man doesn't.

    :-) You would be surprised, very surprised.

    I'm not directing this specifically at you, honestly, but I do wonder how much life experience some people have when it comes to sex and all that goes with it.


  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,381 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    Tigger wrote: »
    Are we allowed refer to it and quote or paraphrase it z?

    I would say that referring to it without discussing the contents would be very difficult, and quoting or paraphrasing it are definitely out I'm afraid. IMO it's probably safest to not discuss it at all.
    I hear you but IMHO, that’s probably one of the lesser liabelous posts I’ve seen on social media over the last few days- you might wish to revise your warning for ANY item of social media commentary that appears to liable anyone connected with the trial and to think first before quoting ?

    It may well be mild in comparison to some of the other stuff that's out there, but as it stands it's the only social media post that we've received direct guidance on. However I would like to think that posters here are clued in enough to recognise where a post quotes a social media post that could be potentially problematic to Boards if it were allowed to remain, that they would report it so it can be reviewed on its own merits.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 379 ✭✭Appledreams15


    Rodin wrote: »
    That assumes a rape (a criminal offence) occurred. In this case it was deemed by 11 people who sat through all the evidence for 9 weeks, that a rape did not occur. And it took them less than 4 hours to decide that.
    Very definitive.

    One day men will look back and be shamed of how they treated women at this time.

    Just the same as how we look back at how we locked women up in magdelene laundries after they were raped, and we are shamed at that.

    The women protesting are not protesting just at this case but at all the wider issues of misogynistic culture in Ireland.


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