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Would you date a single mother?

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    #152
    kikilarue2
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    TeaBagMania wrote: »
    Ray Defeated Wax wrote: »
    How ignorant...

    Says the single mother looking for a sugar daddy

    Why the hell would anyone want the wrecked village bike when 18 year old girls are coming on the market everyday

    Ugh.


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    #153
    B.A._Baracus
    Registered Users Posts: 11,173 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    In an ideal situation dating a woman with kids would be no issue. Sure if you like her why not.
    That said... when is it ever an ideal situation in this world? The father could be poking his head around causing you grief. Kids might hate you. Imagine being step-daddy to a moody 14yo who constantly reminds that you are not their daddy. She (mother) will always feel that the kids come first (fair enough on one hand, but that's also not fair to you as well)

    I get it... some guys have successful relationships with mothers with kids. But the successul ones don't mean all will be like that.
    At the risk of getting a bashing from other boards members. Just hook up with a mother. Think long... and very hard before anything else.


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    #154
    pgj2015
    Registered Users Posts: 8,938 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    B.A._Baracus wrote: »
    In an ideal situation dating a woman with kids would be no issue. Sure if you like her why not.
    That said... when is it ever an ideal situation in this world? The father could be poking his head around causing you grief. Kids might hate you. Imagine being step-daddy to a moody 14yo who constantly reminds that you are not their daddy. She (mother) will always feel that the kids come first (fair enough on one hand, but that's also not fair to you as well)

    I get it... some guys have successful relationships with mothers with kids. But the successul ones don't mean all will be like that.
    At the risk of getting a bashing from other boards members. Just hook up with a mother. Think long... and very hard before anything else.




    hooking up with her could be risky as well, iv had the chance to hook up with single mothers and chose not to, what if you add to the kids she has:eek:


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    #155
    _blaaz
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    pgj2015 wrote: »
    hooking up with her could be risky as well, iv had the chance to hook up with single mothers and chose not to, what if you add to the kids she has:eek:

    Buy a condom.and dont be so tight


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    #156
    VegetaIRL8e
    Registered Users Posts: 92 ✭✭VegetaIRL8e


    Interesting topic.
    I've as a single free male dated women with child(ren) that were dependent on their mom. No real issue with it. Relationships just didnt work out for other reasons.

    I now find myself contemplating going back into the world of dating, but this time as a single dad and I dont know how I feel about it. Obviously dating a single mom now means 2 kids involved and while that I dont mind I'm more scared of will women with no children date me or are they now a grp that's shut off to me. Would you date a single dad?


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    #157
    pgj2015
    Registered Users Posts: 8,938 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    _blaaz wrote: »
    Buy a condom.and dont be so tight




    the condom could break.:(


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    #158
    TeaBagMania
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    pgj2015 wrote: »
    the condom could break.:(

    Vasectomy my friend, best investment you will ever make.

    Nail and Bail with no worries


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    #159
    tipphunter82
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    Not all single mothers want a relationship. Some just want some fun at the weekend as they are too tied down to their kid(s) and jobs during the week to have time for a relationship.


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    #160
    [Deleted User]
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    It wouldn't be ideal for me personally, but few relationships are absolutely ideal. If you met someone you really liked and got along with as well as being attracted to, you shared the same sense of humour and values, had similar goals and opinions and clicked in every way and they also have a child, it seems like a lot of potential happiness landed in your lap for the sake of adapting to a little person you might get very fond of and enjoy having around anyway.

    As for never being the most important thing in the mans life, that's easy. Kids come first, always (or nearly always). If the man didn't put his child first then I'd probably be completely uninterested in him as a person as I don't see that as a positive trait.


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    #161
    RhubarbCrumble
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    Not quite single (well, technically he was) but I went out with a separated father before. Never ever ever again.

    His kids were spoiled little madams. I met his ex wife a few times and she was lovely. She said to me herself that the kids (her own children remember) were way too spoilt by him.
    She wasn't bad mouthing him or anything. They still got on fine, but it was absolutely true.


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    #162
    [Deleted User]
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    Dated a few single mums..........
    Current and hopefully last girlfriend has no kids.


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    #163
    m5ex9oqjawdg2i
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    TeaBagMania wrote: »
    Says the single mother looking for a sugar daddy

    What are you talking about?
    Why the hell would anyone want the wrecked village bike when 18 year old girls are coming on the market everyday

    If that's one of your life goals, good look to you. As for the use of the word "bastard", it's incredibly distasteful and just shows us all the type of person you truly are.


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    #164
    TeaBagMania
    Registered Users Posts: 1,192 ✭✭✭TeaBagMania


    Ray Defeated Wax wrote: »
    As for the use of the word "bastard", it's incredibly distasteful and just shows us all the type of person you truly are.

    says the wrecked village bike with a bonafide bastard


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    #165
    Buford T. Justice XIX
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    TeaBagMania wrote: »
    says the wrecked village bike with a bonafide bastard

    Mod note: TeaBagMania, don't post in this thread again.

    Buford T. Justice


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