Has he lost interest?

Sugarloaf12345 · 2018-09-28 13:44:12

I have been seeing a guy for two months now and we meet up on average about 1-3 times per week. I stayed over at his Tuesday night and before I left Wednesday morning I asked if he was going drinking with mates this weekend. He said no and asked me I said no. He then said if his mates were doing something non alcohol…

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#152 10-10-2018 07:58AM

milli milli

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Now with lots of casual sex, friends with benefits, open relationships, swinging etc there are no rules anymore.

I think it’s a really horrible time for dating. People are being used and cast aside. Of course it’s a wonderful time if you’re playing the field, as long as both parties are aware of each other’s intentions.
Generally they’re not, hence the ghosting, benching, breadcrumbing and posts like this.
I hate that this is the new ‘norm’ now. ‘Oh everyone is doing it, so it’s ok’ - where is your discernment and judgement and general manners?

I think you just have to get really good at reading signs, look at actions over words, and presume the other is probably seeing other people at the same time.

I really hope there is some kind of backlash against this type of dating. There might be a resurrection of old-skool dating, with flowers, courting and all that! Hipsters, bring this back please!

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