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Asking someone out on the street

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    #122
    Gimme A Pound
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,482 ✭✭✭Gimme A Pound


    rusty cole wrote: »
    if a census taker stops you on the street and you find them attractive, chances are you'll stop or at least slow down. If they're not attractive to you then you'll casually keep walking. So what have we learned???? on looks alone, if he's interested or attracted to you, he'll stop or you'll at least know by his reaction. if he seems smiley and attentive, it's official, he'll DO YOU!! That's why shops hire hot staff, to get the opposite sex in the door!! once in, hey, they may even spend and that's half the battle.

    what happens after is down to compatibility , chemistry, simpatico etc etc…

    But first you need to stop him, if you really want to know.

    Climb him like a tree??really?? I'd keep that stuff to myself!
    It's a line from the film Bridesmaids so I'd say it's meant jokingly.

    Is it really that bad though? Far more vulgar things get said about women here. Check out the thread about the private school lads having sex with prostitutes in Zambia.


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    #123
    lonewolf1961
    Registered Users Posts: 701 ✭✭✭lonewolf1961


    women fought for equal rights . now they have equal rights . get up the courage and just ask the guy out . if you want something in life you have to ask for it . climb that tree .:)


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    #124
    JoeyJJ
    Registered Users Posts: 3,663 ✭✭✭JoeyJJ


    Do it and do it quick, he could be working his notice and totally change his routine and direction.


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    #125
    J Mysterio
    Registered Users Posts: 11,035 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    rusty cole wrote: »
    what happens after is down to compatibility , chemistry, simpatico etc etc…


    rusty cole wrote: »
    Climb him like a tree??really?? I'd keep that stuff to myself!

    Jeez... Shut up, she's only getting going!


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    #126
    silverharp
    Registered Users Posts: 17,849 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Just walk up to him and introduce yourself "hi, I'd like to introduce myself, im your new girlfriend!"

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



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    #127
    Mackmatic
    Registered Users Posts: 52 ✭✭Mackmatic


    There is a couple of things you need to realise here:

    1. Stop being a coward and just ask him.

    2. You are gonna have to update this thread regardless of outcome

    3. We need pics to verify you really are "gorgeous"

    Best of luck


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    #128
    lonewolf1961
    Registered Users Posts: 701 ✭✭✭lonewolf1961


    Mackmatic wrote: »
    There is a couple of things you need to realise here:

    1. Stop being a coward and just ask him.

    2. You are gonna have to update this thread regardless of outcome

    3. We need pics to verify you really are "gorgeous"

    Best of luck
    Yeah best of luck .


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    #129
    [Deleted User]
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    Kiara Eager Radiologist wrote: »
    It's a line from the film Bridesmaids so I'd say it's meant jokingly.

    Is it really that bad though? Far more vulgar things get said about women here. Check out the thread about the private school lads having sex with prostitutes in Zambia.


    I know I saw the film, its grand I just meant tone it down with that stuff til you get a few drinks in..
    then ask I'm if he wants a bang of your gee in the mouth! never fails!


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    #130
    the purple tin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    OP where are you? I hope he didn't turn out to be an irish Fritzl.


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    #131
    Prominent_Dawg
    Registered Users Posts: 986 ✭✭✭Prominent_Dawg


    You could put your phone on the ground a little before you pass him, act like you lost something as he pass's, if he has any decency he'll ask if everything is ok, tell him you're just after misplacing your phone and would he mind calling it, give him your number then retrieve your phone, thank him and wait for him to call again!


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    #132
    Discodog
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    lonewolf1961 wrote: »
    I new a girl who worked in this coffee shop a long time back she was a cracker so one day i asked her out and she said yeah why not . if your not in you can,t win .. God loves a trier .....:)  HOPE I SPELLED ALL THAT RIGHT !

    When I was younger we had a friend who was a milkman. If we were in a club he would simply walk up to a girl, ask for a shag & get a slap. We would disown him but then we realised that he was getting more sex than the rest of us.


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    #133
    Red_Wake
    Registered Users Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭Red_Wake


    Discodog wrote: »
    lonewolf1961 wrote: »
    I new a girl who worked in this coffee shop a long time back she was a cracker so one day i asked her out and she said yeah why not . if your not in you can,t win .. God loves a trier .....:)  HOPE I SPELLED ALL THAT RIGHT !

    When I was younger we had a friend who was a milkman.  If we were in a club he would simply walk up to a girl, ask for a shag & get a slap.  We would disown him but then we realised that he was getting more sex than the rest of us.
    Sounds like he leaving cream all over.


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    #134
    [Deleted User]
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    Prominent_Dawg wrote: »
    You could put your phone on the ground a little before you pass him, act like you lost something as he pass's, if he has any decency he'll ask if everything is ok, tell him you're just after misplacing your phone and would he mind calling it, give him your number then retrieve your phone, thank him and wait for him to call again!

    that or he'll think you're off your meds!


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    #135
    Arrival
    Closed Accounts Posts: 779 ✭✭✭Arrival


    Prominent_Dawg wrote: »
    You could put your phone on the ground a little before you pass him, act like you lost something as he pass's, if he has any decency he'll ask if everything is ok, tell him you're just after misplacing your phone and would he mind calling it, give him your number then retrieve your phone, thank him and wait for him to call again!

    What's with all the passiveness amongst Irish women on here? Ye are all about your Independence and equality with men nowadays so why not step up to the plate that men have always historically done and actually put yourselves out there instead of still leaving it all up to men with these stupid subtle games and gestures. Why should she wait for him to call when at that stage she'll already have his number too and could simply send a text? It's so easy. This is why foreign women are so alluring to Irish men nowadays, there's none of these stupid games and they're actually straightforward with showing interest


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    #136
    Prominent_Dawg
    Registered Users Posts: 986 ✭✭✭Prominent_Dawg


    Discodog wrote: »
    When I was younger we had a friend who was a milkman. If we were in a club he would simply walk up to a girl, ask for a shag & get a slap. We would disown him but then we realised that he was getting more sex than the rest of us.

    I love when a guy that has every reason not to be, but is confident af, a guy can go from 0-10!


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    #137
    Prominent_Dawg
    Registered Users Posts: 986 ✭✭✭Prominent_Dawg


    Arrival wrote: »
    What's with all the passiveness amongst Irish women on here? Ye are all about your Independence and equality with men nowadays so why not step up to the plate that men have always historically done and actually put yourselves out there instead of still leaving it all up to men with these stupid subtle games and gestures. Why should she wait for him to call when at that stage she'll already have his number too and could simply send a text? It's so easy. This is why foreign women are so alluring to Irish men nowadays, there's none of these stupid games and they're actually straightforward with showing interest

    Personally I just wouldn't have the courage to do that.. but If I wanted something bad enough I'd find a way


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    #138
    fryup
    Registered Users Posts: 18,069 ✭✭✭✭fryup


    the purple tin wrote: »
    OP where are you? I hope he didn't turn out to be an irish Fritzl.

    she's probably in the basement as we speak :eek:

    help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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    #139
    the purple tin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    fryup wrote: »
    she's probably in the basement as we speak :eek:

    help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    :pac:


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    #140
    Bigus
    Registered Users Posts: 4,940 ✭✭✭Bigus


    Just say to him tickle your arse with a feather, and when he says whah, say particularly nasty weather, and take it from there.

    https://youtu.be/-N9xKImBgnY



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    #141
    lonewolf1961
    Registered Users Posts: 701 ✭✭✭lonewolf1961


    www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4p_3scB_8c


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    #142
    Day Lewin
    Registered Users Posts: 4,621 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


    Well? @OP

    Its been a whole week. Did you take any of these excellent suggestions?
    We are nothing if not helpful, you've got to admit.

    Did you try any of them? Any action? I want to hear the outcome!


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    #143
    irishproduce
    Registered Users Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭irishproduce


    Arrival wrote: »
    What's with all the passiveness amongst Irish women on here? Ye are all about your Independence and equality with men nowadays so why not step up to the plate that men have always historically done and actually put yourselves out there instead of still leaving it all up to men with these stupid subtle games and gestures. Why should she wait for him to call when at that stage she'll already have his number too and could simply send a text? It's so easy. This is why foreign women are so alluring to Irish men nowadays, there's none of these stupid games and they're actually straightforward with showing interest

    Because it is much more attractive in a women to be modest


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    #144
    clintondaly
    Registered Users Posts: 1,813 ✭✭✭clintondaly


    We are all still awaiting the outcome of someone in a similar situation last year

    https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057714355

    So if anything does happen we would like to be updated :)


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    #145
    BrokenArrows
    Registered Users Posts: 7,500 ✭✭✭BrokenArrows


    OP probably started a conversation and the voice that came out of him made her run a mile. Some bogger cork high pitched "how's it going like hey"


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    #146
    Relikk
    Registered Users Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭Relikk


    BrokenArrows wrote: »
    OP probably started a conversation and the voice that came out of him made her run a mile. Some bogger cork high pitched "how's it going like hey"

    Sigh... I suppose I'm going to have to be the one to post it now.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvbujX4hXOg


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    #147
    BrokenArrows
    Registered Users Posts: 7,500 ✭✭✭BrokenArrows


    Relikk wrote: »
    Sigh... I suppose I'm going to have to be the one to post it now.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvbujX4hXOg

    Haha. I knew there was something like that but i couldnt find it.


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    #148
    the purple tin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    clintondaly wrote: »
    We are all still awaiting the outcome of someone in a similar situation last year

    https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057714355

    So if anything does happen we would like to be updated :)
    They all bottle it in the end :rolleyes:


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    #149
    weemcd
    Registered Users Posts: 6,420 ✭✭✭weemcd


    Any word?


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