GF too quiet in the bedroom.

Sam Quentin

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

I know most of ye are taking the Mick if ye pardon the ecpression�� but seriously what would ye do,

OK...
I would realise that I dont find her attractive anymore and shoot the breeeeeze.
Don't feel guilty about it, if her friends gave her similar advise then she would leave you

Surreptitious

Sam Quentin wrote: »

OK...
I would realise that I dont find her attractive anymore and shoot the breeeeeze.
Don't feel guilty about it, if her friends gave her similar advise then she would leave you

What are you on about? You want him to make small talk with her?

Larbre34

Sam Quentin wrote: »

I'm the opposite, my gf only has to sit in front of the mirror topless(with her 36DD's)and brush her hair and could be all over in a flash

Then you awaken.

Richard Hillman

I hope she filled out her consent form

One eyed Jack

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

Ya it frustrates the hell out of me and I'm hard mostly but go soft after few minutes playing with her as she's not doing anything to me to keep me up

Sounds to me like sex is more of a chore than something either of ye actually enjoy tbh.

Tommysocks11

We do talk about it and it leads to rows mostly and I just want to make her happy and contented

Larbre34

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Sounds to me like sex is more of a chore than something either of ye actually enjoy tbh.

Agree. Its depressing that so many people seem to go through the motions and may never know what a brilliant sex life is like. In that event, our hero should be trying a new partner, until he meets someone more in his tune.

thebull85

OP do you get random horns throughout the day or in the morning? If thats not happening there is something medically wrong. You seem like you could only be in your 30s.

I only ask because a friend of mine was going through the same thing and that was one of the first questions he was asked when he seen a doctor about it.

Cupcake_Crisis

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

We do talk about it and it leads to rows mostly and I just want to make her happy and contented

How long have yiz been together?

Larbre34

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

We do talk about it and it leads to rows mostly and I just want to make her happy and contented

That should be a two way street chief. And it should come easily (pardon the pun), not be a stressor.

PARlance

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

Ya it frustrates the hell out of me and I'm hard mostly but go soft after few minutes playing with her as


she's not doing anything to me to keep me up

Stop playing with her as so Tommy

guestwifi

Maybe ya have to be hard already, but worth a shot...

VainHard Bendix

PARlance wrote: »

Stop playing with her as so Tommy

Tongue in cheek remark.

Tommysocks11

Over 2 years together and yes I do get erect randomly so no medical issue I think, maybe anxiety??

Larbre34

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

maybe anxiety??

Hmm. What could possibly have brought that on?

Cupcake_Crisis

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

Over 2 years together and yes I do get erect randomly so no medical issue I think, maybe anxiety??

Could be anxiety, could be that you’re very aware that she’s not participating when you do do the deed. Which is not on imo.

riffmongous

If you want a job done right, you've got to do it yourself.

Ficheall

Sounds like she's causing the anxiety and thus the issue, OP, and if you stick with her, it's an anxiety that will persist, and then when you do eventually break up with her, it will also affect you with the next lady because it's something you will inevitably be thinking about. Get rid, asap.

Sam Quentin

Surreptitious wrote: »

What are you on about? You want him to make small talk with her?

NO...
That means 'GET OUT OF DODGE'.
run, scarper, skapiche, hit the road etc etc
Leave her áss...

Donald Trump

OP,

Perhaps you'd prefer if your partner was the one with the raging hard willy??

...........Just sayin'


By the way, I'm surprised she's still up for more after the regular pokings she does be getting off the other posters on here

Surreptitious

Sam Quentin wrote: »

NO...
That means 'GET OUT OF DODGE'.
run, scarper, skapiche, hit the road etc etc
Leave her áss...

No it doesn't mean that. Get a grip of the English language before you make a bigger fool online of yourself than you have already with your other posts.

Robocopwannabe

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

Over 2 years together and yes I do get erect randomly so no medical issue I think, maybe anxiety??

Without sounding blunt, it’s very hard to fcuk a corpse, if she doesn’t participate, you wont keep a hard on. Perhaps you need to get rid. Or maybe ye need something to spice up your sex life. Maybe you need to let her fcuk another man. Post a pic and I’ll tell you how I’m fixed 😜😜😜

the_syco

Tommysocks11 wrote: »

I do talk and all she says is every other man I've been with were always hard from kissing and ready for action

Sounds like your GF is a princess. Maybe dump her, and leave her go back to those other men?

Irish_rat

Sounds like yer non-compatible in the bedroom. It would be a deal breaker for me and only two years in.

893bet

Sam Quentin wrote: »

I'm the opposite, my gf only has to sit in front of the mirror topless(with her 36DD's)and brush her hair and could be all over in a flash

How do you handle it if she has the curtains closed?

corks finest

Yakult wrote: »

Have you tried romancing the stone?

Pump her up more

khaldrogo

Talk to her

EPAndlee

thebull85 wrote: »

Just thumb it in.

Be like trying to get a marshmallow into a piggy bank

wirelessdude01

cloudatlas wrote:

Why don't you communicate with your partner?

Dolls don't answer back.ðŸ˜

Littlehorny

Sound's to me that only one persons happiness matters in this relationship, tell her that as you're both unhappy then its time to call it quits and move on. Absolutely no point wasting years of you'r life on a crappy situation.