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No longer attracted to my girlfriend

nails1 · 2014-12-19 21:20:05

My girlfriend has gained a lot of weight over the past year and I find myself less and less attracted to her. I no longer wish to have sex with her but still love her which I don't think she realises. Am I best to tell her about how I truly feel or does this sound selfish?

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#692 26-12-2014 11:57pm
lightspeed

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any chance you could suggest for a new years resolution that you want to get into shape but you want her to try and do the same as with you both doing it, you can provide support for each other to keep up with an exercise program.

Then suggest you both try eat more healthy and clear out the fatty high sugar foods.

If you can initiate the above, you can start in the new year and start by weighing yourselves to see what your current weight is and set goals. She might take notice herself if she can see from the scales that she put on a few pounds.

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