Trying to conceive/Planned parenthood/Assisted Reproduction Chat thread.

Neyite

Ms2011 wrote: »

This is a positive OPK for me, never quite as dark as the control line but definately a positive.

Yup, that was like mine too. Especially on my lucky cycle.

The thing to remember is that the LH surge can last only hours. So you could be at work while you get it, or sleeping, and only catch the beginning or the end of the surge - enough to change the stick, but still paler than supposed to be. But as far as I was concerned, as soon as I saw the line, I assumed it was a good thing.

I used the access diagnostics cheapies sticks like yours Ms2011. Grand cheap yokes they are!

Ms2011

Neyite wrote: »

I used the access diagnostics cheapies sticks like yours Ms2011. Grand cheap yokes they are!

Yeah cheap but effective, not planning on ttc again until this time next year but as they are so cheap I'm using them at the minute, 1) to get familiar with my cycle again & 2) cos I miss peeing on sticks lol!!

Neyite

Ms2011 wrote: »

Yeah cheap but effective, not planning on ttc again until this time next year but as they are so cheap I'm using them at the minute, 1) to get familiar with my cycle again & 2) cos I miss peeing on sticks lol!!

Me too! I had a Mc in Jan, but not really trying until the summer. And even then its very casual, having a rough idea of my cycle but not being stressed about it. But I've also got engaged, so we might be holding off until after a wedding. Hmmm...decisions... but I'm so broody.

Ms2011

Neyite wrote: »

Me too! I had a Mc in Jan, but not really trying until the summer. And even then its very casual, having a rough idea of my cycle but not being stressed about it. But I've also got engaged, so we might be holding off until after a wedding. Hmmm...decisions... but I'm so broody.

Sorry to heard about the mc

Congrats on your engagment, getting married in March myself so no babas allowed before then plus I'd like to use next summer to try toilet train the little fella if he's ready then I can think about ttc again with a clear head.

Broody as hell though hence me lurking here

bobskii

Can I ask a question that's bothered me for awhile,I get loads of cm at the start of my high fertile days but then when im hitting peak fertility(on my monitor) its not so visible,does this not affect the whole process??Sorry if that's tmi!
Had a chat with my husband today he wants us to try clane fertility clinic,says he wasn't impressed with the way we were treated in the hari the last day we were up.Its not like him to be like that,think irs probably because I got so upset!

Neyite

bobskii wrote: »

Can I ask a question that's bothered me for awhile,I get loads of cm at the start of my high fertile days but then when im hitting peak fertility(on my monitor) its not so visible,does this not affect the whole process??Sorry if that's tmi!
Had a chat with my husband today he wants us to try clane fertility clinic,says he wasn't impressed with the way we were treated in the hari the last day we were up.Its not like him to be like that,think irs probably because I got so upset!

It is probably fine. Sperm should ideally be waiting for the egg (since eggie only lasts 12 hrs) so by the time you are hitting high peak and probably ovulating, the cm has done its job in the days before, if you see what I mean?

I do think you should try another clinic. Its important that you feel comfortable and trust the medics that you are paying. I felt like adopting the nurses in our clinic and I felt very comfortable with our consultant, which makes the process much easier on you. You'll be stressed enough anyway, why add to it?

bobskii

That makes sense Neyite,thanks for that!I think i will look into Clane it would make life alot easier tooCos i dont mind drivin there,drivin in dublin is more nerve wrackin for me than what i'd be going up for!!Which Clinic do you attend?

Neyite

bobskii wrote: »

That makes sense Neyite,thanks for that!I think i will look into Clane it would make life alot easier tooCos i dont mind drivin there,drivin in dublin is more nerve wrackin for me than what i'd be going up for!!Which Clinic do you attend?

I was in the west so attended Galway. Have a little scamp at home thanks to them.

Penny Dreadful

My period is now a week late so I'm getting pretty hopeful at this stage. Sods law being what it is I'll probably get it this evening :rolleyes:
I have taken a sneaky test and got a negative however this test was in the evening time around 6pm. I drink a lot during the day (around 2 litres of water and a mug or two of tea) so my urine is very light coloured so I know that the hormone levels are likely to have been very low.
If its still late in a week I'll take another test first thing on a Saturday morning with husband (who I now think is lovely rather than wanting to tear his hair out as per my previous post # 4784 - thought it was bad case of PMT but now who knows:)) waiting on the other side of the bathroom door.
Hopefully we'll have something to celebrate and not have to go to work afterwards.
Negative tests with no period don't always mean that you're not pregnant though do they? A blood test from a GP would confirm wouldn't it?

yellow hen

Penny you can definitely get a false negative... Especially on the cheaper tests. Buy a clearblue one next time and test early in the morning. Best of luck!

Penny Dreadful

yellow hen wrote: »

Penny you can definitely get a false negative... Especially on the cheaper tests. Buy a clearblue one next time and test early in the morning. Best of luck!

Thank you! I checked the Pink Pad app that I have been using and I'm 9 days late according to it. My boobs are tender too and seem to be a little bigger (but I could well be imagning that ).
Its funny, in the previous months if my period was even only due or half a day late I was out with the tests and getting upset at the negatives.
Then at the end of May I realised that I'd been rather OTT with everything and was being somewhat impatient with myself and my body I decided to chill out.
We went on holidays and had a fantastic relaxing time. Got my period as soon as I came home so no magic was worked there but I had at least calmed down a bit.
Now when I actually have a reason to take a test I'm scared to.
Its amazing how much capacity we all have to hope isn't it:)

MurdyWurdy

I second getting a clearblue test and trying again in a few days. When I went to my GP because I had had three positive tests he took my word for it and didn't do any test of his own. You can definitely get false negatives (I did for days) but not false positives. Best of luck - I have everything crossed for you!

Ms2011

Penny I didn't get a positive until 11dpo so your definately still in the game, good luck :-)

Penny Dreadful

Ms2011 wrote: »

Penny I didn't get a positive until 11dpo so your definately still in the game, good luck :-)

My ovulation date (if the ap and my counting is correct was July 27th (was fertile from 22nd - 27th). Despite wanting to kill each other we managed to be tolerant long enough to do the deed on the 25th and 27th.

So if my ovulation did take place on the 27th then I am 20 days past ovulation if I'm correct?
My period was due August 7th so that would mean I am 9 days late.

I was in Tesco yesterday and bought two of their own brand tests (€5.75 for 2 compared to €28 for the Clear Blue Digital - maybe that was an OPK ) should I have splashed the cash
I'm going to try to wait another while before testing.

angeldelight

Penny I just wanted to say good luck, I'm lurking here at the minute and have my fingers crossed for you

yellow hen

Penny Dreadful wrote: »

Thank you! I checked the Pink Pad app that I have been using and I'm 9 days late according to it. My boobs are tender too and seem to be a little bigger (but I could well be imagning that ).
Its funny, in the previous months if my period was even only due or half a day late I was out with the tests and getting upset at the negatives.
Then at the end of May I realised that I'd been rather OTT with everything and was being somewhat impatient with myself and my body I decided to chill out.
We went on holidays and had a fantastic relaxing time. Got my period as soon as I came home so no magic was worked there but I had at least calmed down a bit.
Now when I actually have a reason to take a test I'm scared to.
Its amazing how much capacity we all have to hope isn't it:)

You're actually describing me almost this time last year. I gave up testing and tried to relax about it all, had a few drinks, even started smoking again (yes I know bad habit!). Fast forward 14 months and I'm here with a 5 month old.

We all need to hope and that's a good thing, juy don't let it rule your life.

By the way, the month where I finally did get my positive, was the one month where I didn't have any symptoms. That in itself was the telltale in hindsight!

Will be watching this thread for your test results... Good luck!

Penny Dreadful

Well it looks like hope tricked me once again.
I got my period this morning.
Sad about it as had really started to think it might have happened this time.
Anyhow going to remain positive (phaha positive) and keep on trying.
Have the appointment with my acupuncturist in the next week or so.
By this time next year I hope we've all had cause to meet up in on of the other parenting forums!
Xxxxx enjoy the weekend everyone

Lucuma

Aww..hard luck Penny! I logged on just to see how you got on with your first thing in the morning Clearblue test! If it's any consolation Aunt Flo just arrived for me today as well, just after I got a BFN
Can't help feeling gutted but am also very gutted for you after being over a week late - life can be a b&*%h!!!
Cheer yourself up with a nice glass of vino this eve, you deserve it after that let down

chin up,
L

Lucuma

Ms2011 wrote: »

Congrats on your engagment, getting married in March

Seems like wedding bells are in the air in here - congratulations Neyite and Ms2011!!

Lucuma

Penny Dreadful wrote: »

I was in Tesco yesterday and bought two of their own brand tests (€5.75 for 2 compared to €28 for the Clear Blue Digital - maybe that was an OPK ) .

I got 2 Clearblue digital preg tests in the chemist today for 17 euro something, if that gives you an indication

Betsie_xr3i

Dunnes stores have a 2pack of the clearblue digital tests on offer for €12 just to let ye know ladies ;-)

stickybean

Sorry Penny - had my fingers crossed for you pet xxx

bobskii

Penny Dreadful wrote: »

Well it looks like hope tricked me once again.
I got my period this morning.
Sad about it as had really started to think it might have happened this time.
Anyhow going to remain positive (phaha positive) and keep on trying.
Have the appointment with my acupuncturist in the next week or so.
By this time next year I hope we've all had cause to meet up in on of the other parenting forums!
Xxxxx enjoy the weekend everyone

disappointments are tough but as ya said start afresh for the next cycle!I find the acupuncture good,even if its just ta get to lie down for an hour uninterrupted!!

Lucuma

I went to doc yest for d 1st time to discuss ttc. She took blood samples & swabs and she's going to do a full screen : thyroid, diabetes, blood count, STIs, hormone levels. It'll be good to know either way if there's any physical impediment to trying to conceive.
She was talking about PCOS and she said the main symptoms are:
-tend to struggle with your weight
-more hair on your body
-acne
-irregularly long cycles

She said coz I have short as opposed to long cycles & none of d other symptoms that I most likely don't have that. She also said that coz I always (i.e. pre pill) had short cycles that's normal for me and isn't an issue (phew!)
Just posting this info in case it helps someone else.

Lucuma

Oh and the GP also mentioned she'll test to see if I was vaccinated against Rubella or not. Apparently those of us born between 1978 and 1985 (or roughly those dates) are the ones that didn't necessarily receive both MMR jabs when we were kids and so we might not be immune to Rubella (german measles). She said that measles/mumps aren't that serious if you get them while pregnant but Rubella can be so she said that if it turns out that I"m not vaccinated she will vaccinate me against it now. She said the only downside is that you can't ttc for 1 month afterwards :eek:

stickybean

Hey Lucmua, great to hear you are getting started with the test, the next set will be your day 3 and day 21 bloods to see if you are ovlulating. Are you TTC long?

Penny Dreadful

Lucuma wrote: »

Oh and the GP also mentioned she'll test to see if I was vaccinated against Rubella or not. Apparently those of us born between 1978 and 1985 (or roughly those dates) are the ones that didn't necessarily receive both MMR jabs when we were kids and so we might not be immune to Rubella (german measles). She said that measles/mumps aren't that serious if you get them while pregnant but Rubella can be so she said that if it turns out that I"m not vaccinated she will vaccinate me against it now. She said the only downside is that you can't ttc for 1 month afterwards :eek:

Having your immunity levels checked it a really good idea. I had mine checked last year when I mentioned to my GP that I was going to try for a baby after Christmas.
I was born in 1977 and wasn't vaccinated against any of the MMR illnesses and got them all. Thankfully my immunity levels were still high enough.
My aunt contracted rubella while pregnant with one of my cousins and his eye sight has been severely affected as a result. He was born in 72/73.
Getting the vaccine is very important.

MurdyWurdy

Penny Dreadful wrote: »

Having your immunity levels checked it a really good idea. I had mine checked last year when I mentioned to my GP that I was going to try for a baby after Christmas.
I was born in 1977 and wasn't vaccinated against any of the MMR illnesses and got them all. Thankfully my immunity levels were still high enough.
My aunt contracted rubella while pregnant with one of my cousins and his eye sight has been severely affected as a result. He was born in 72/73.
Getting the vaccine is very important.

I think it's great that the GP is checking for you now Lucuma. They do test you at your booking in appointment at the hospital but sure your 12 weeks by then so it could be too late. Hopefully the docs tests help!

My hubby had all the MMR illnesses as a child but his aunt swears he got the vaccination. She says if you get the MMR you still get the illnesses but milder. Surely this can't be true or all pregnant women or women trying to conceive would still be at risk? thinking he didn't get it.

pwurple

MurdyWurdy wrote: »

I think it's great that the GP is checking for you now Lucuma. They do test you at your booking in appointment at the hospital but sure your 12 weeks by then so it could be too late. Hopefully the docs tests help!

My hubby had all the MMR illnesses as a child but his aunt swears he got the vaccination. She says if you get the MMR you still get the illnesses but milder. Surely this can't be true or all pregnant women or women trying to conceive would still be at risk? thinking he didn't get it.

No vaccine gives 100% protection. The MMR also gets a booster, which a lot of parents forget about.

I didn't get the MMR as a child, and got measles only. I got vaccinated as an adult later.

Lucuma

stickybean wrote: »

Hey Lucmua, great to hear you are getting started with the test, the next set will be your day 3 and day 21 bloods to see if you are ovlulating. Are you TTC long?

Hi Stickybean, I've been trying less than a year and I'm under 35 so in theory it's too early for me to be getting the day 3 and day 21 bloods done. However I will probably get them done in the next few months alright. In October I'll be a year off the pill and that's only a few months away.

My other half is going about getting his semen analysed now and he rang a GP (in Dublin) and was told that GP doesn't do it they can only give him a referral to a specialist clinic where he will get an appointment in 2 weeks. Is this normal? I thought GPs did semen analysis. Does anyone have any advice to share?