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Calls for Graham Linehan to be removed from Prime Debate on transgender issues!

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,500 ✭✭✭Dick phelan


    Is there any issue that effects so few and yet gets so much coverage? Like honestly how many transgender people are there even in the country, I honestly only know of 1 lad that is. It's an issue that seems to get a seriously disproportionate amount of coverage, asking people to change what has been scientific fact of literally centuries to avoid hurting the feelings of a tiny minority. There are two genders Male and Female if you want to know which you are have a look downstairs,

    I feel sad for trans people i really do, must be horrible to basically not be able to deal with who you are and to be so unhappy with it. That said just because you feel like X or want to be X doesn't mean you are. Maybe i want to be a Japanese Samurai but no matter how much i feel like one or want to be one the fact is I'm a white man from Ireland and nobody should have to entertain my delusions.


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Hence my extremely clear caveat that I was speaking only for myself. What part of that did you find confusing?

    I'm not confused at all.
    The question was asked as to how many women "are comfortable sharing a dressing room with a pre-op trans woman".

    It is important to emphasise the while some women such as yourself don't have a difficulty with it, there are many many women who do.

    To draw an analogy, I would not be comfortable seeking an abortion. I can only speak for myself on the point.
    I support and vote for the rights of other women to have one close to home and without judgement.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,543 ✭✭✭Dante7


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    I can only speak for myself, but it wouldn't bother me in the least. Same as I have no issue sharing unisex bathrooms with men.

    Would it bother you if you were a beatician and you were forced, by law to wax a self identifying trans woman's balls?
    Would it bother you if you were confined in a woman's only institution and were sexually assualted by a woman with a penis?
    Would it bother you if you were in a changing room shower and a woman washed her penis and balls beside you?
    Would it bother you if children were being misdiagnised as gender dysphoric and given hormone blockers and possibly surgery only for it to be a phase they were going through?

    It bothers me that in today's climate, even attempting to discuss these issues will get you labelled a transphobe and a bigot.


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    Is there any issue that effects so few and yet gets so much coverage? Like honestly how many transgender people are there even in the country, I honestly only know of 1 lad that is. It's an issue that seems to get a seriously disproportionate amount of coverage, asking people to change what has been scientific fact of literally centuries to avoid hurting the feelings of a tiny minority. There are two genders Male and Female if you want to know which you are have a look downstairs,

    I feel sad for trans people i really do, must be horrible to basically not be able to deal with who you are and to be so unhappy with it. That said just because you feel like X or want to be X doesn't mean you are. Maybe i want to be a Japanese Samurai but no matter how much i feel like one or want to be one the fact is I'm a white man from Ireland and nobody should have to entertain my delusions.

    Dick, I think its a bit harsh to describe it as a delusion.
    And, like many, you might be a little bit unclear in thinking that gender=sex.

    The pity of the whole trans debate is that it has made gender stereotypes equivalent to genetic sex.
    I might be male, but love knitting.
    I might be female but love hurling.
    Sex is not the same as gender.

    But, in trans theory, if my little boy wants to play with Barbie and wear a princess costume, then he must be a girl "locked' in a boy's body.

    This, to me, is the pity of it.
    Why can't my daughter be interested in backwoods survival stuff and enjoy gutting a fish and be good at Maths. And still be a girl.
    Why can't my son be kind, sensitive, good with small children, and excel at cooking. And still be a boy?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    ceadaoin. wrote: »
    He's been banned from Twitter and interviewed by the police due to complaints of transphobia from a frankly dodgy character who happens to be a trans woman. This person also targeted his wife's business and tried to incite people to attack it. And has targeted other people in the past. Anyway linehan refused to back down and continues to talk about the issues/problems with "self id". Seems they are going for the controversy angle to get viewers in. Why are people trying to stop it though? Surely if he really is a raging bigot then the more airtime the better so that people can see it?

    My thoughts too. I don’t understand the whole thing of getting people with massively unpopular views or whatever removed from discussions. If what they say is so bad or so easy to refute, then what have people got to fear? Just debate them and if your case is more logical than theirs, you’ll come out on top and show them up.

    Have to say though, the wires seem to be coming a bit loose in Linehan’s head. I’m a fan of much of his work but as a person - oof! It’s not that I disagree with all his points on the topic - I’m very against preteens being given medication to stave off puberty, for example - but he just comes across unhinged.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,543 ✭✭✭Dante7


    "Transgender woman goes crazy after being misgendered"

    https://youtu.be/TgiOjhkiuhw


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,183 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    StopWatch wrote: »
    I'm unsure how I feel here,but In what way is the writer of Father Ted an expert panel member?

    That's a silly thing to say..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    seamus wrote: »
    He's probably gone off the rails tbh. In a discussion where he insists that trans is a mental illness, Linehan probably needs psychiatric help of his own. It's an obsession for him at this stage.
    What kind of medical professional diagnoses gender dysphoria?


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    What kind of medical professional diagnoses gender dysphoria?

    https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/gender-dysphoria/what-is-gender-dysphoria
    Psychiatrists
    :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,169 ✭✭✭chicorytip


    ironwalk wrote:
    I'm not confused at all. The question was asked as to how many women "are comfortable sharing a dressing room with a pre-op trans woman".


    Why are we even having this discussion and why does RTE deem the topic worthy of broadcast. Just how many of these "transgender" people are there in a small country like ours? The number must be minute. I don't know if this kind of transformative surgery is available in the Republic of Ireland and as to what exactly it entails, well, my mind boggles. It would be interesting to see any Dept. of Health data on the matter, if it's available. Let's talk about issues that really matter such as the huge problems of alcoholism, drug addiction, mental illness and suicide affecting our young people.
    Let these shemale freaks bugger off to England with themselves.


    Mod-Banned


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    Why not? There’s no indication that RTÉ is going to give in, is there?

    I dont know but Iv seen the twitter campaign against him.

    His ideas are dangerous, we can repeat the highly successful section 31 censorship of SF and the campaign to ban discussion of abortion :pac::pac:


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    chicorytip wrote: »
    Why are we even having this discussion and why does RTE deem the topic worthy of broadcast. Just how many of these "transgender" people are there in a small country like ours? The number must be minute. I don't know if this kind of transformative surgery is available in the Republic of Ireland and as to what exactly it entails, well, my mind boggles. It would be interesting to see any Dept. of Health data on the matter, if it's available. Let's talk about issues that really matter such as the huge problems of alcoholism, drug addiction, mental illness and suicide affecting our young people.
    Let these shemale freaks bugger off to England with themselves.

    See in the interest of fairness, I can't agree with you there.
    You could insert "homosexuality" for transgender into your paragraph.
    How acceptable would it be to say "let these homosexual freaks bugger off to England with themselves".
    That's just another version of Irish intolerance, exporting our issues.

    No, I'm delighted RTE are having a debate. I hope it's a fair one. I hope they hear equally from both sides and that they insist on facts not feelings.
    I hope that whatever small number of transgender people there are in this country, that they feel safe and supported.
    I hope they understand that, while we're trying to work out how best to support them, that we also have a duty to safeguard women who's rights may be impacted. (And of course, transmen, who seem to get lost in this debate).
    I hope that whatever your struggle or difficulty is, that we support you, even if its not one of the "huge problems" that we have.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,076 ✭✭✭JMNolan


    RTE will 100% cave rather than appear to be in anyway other than completely loony left.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,169 ✭✭✭chicorytip


    ironwalk wrote:
    See in the interest of fairness, I can't agree with you there. You could insert "homosexuality" for transgender into your paragraph. How acceptable would it be to say "let these homosexual freaks bugger off to England with themselves". That's just another version of Irish intolerance, exporting our issues.


    No, honestly. The actual number of gay/lesbian people among the general population is 2 to 3 %. Transgenders, I would reckon, would number a one ten-thousanth of that figure. My feck off to England comment was not meant literally, of course, but really, we need to have a sense of perspective about how highly issues such as this should rank in our national discourse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    chicorytip wrote: »
    Why are we even having this discussion and why does RTE deem the topic worthy of broadcast.


    We’re having these discussions because it’s a topic that’s becoming more and more relevant for people in modern Irish society. RTÉ deem the topic worthy of broadcast because it’s considered a current affairs topic, just like many of the issues you mentioned below which RTE have also covered in great depth and detail on numerous programmes, not just current affairs programmes.

    Just how many of these "transgender" people are there in a small country like ours? The number must be minute.


    It’s true, the number that we know of is minuscule, but that number has been increasing exponentially over the last decade or so. It’s still minuscule, but there appears to be an increasing trend in the number of people who identify as transgender. Therefore RTÉ having noticed how the trend is going in the UK and the backlash that is happening over there, decide in their wisdom that it’s a topical issue ripe for generating controversy and increasing their own viewership - give the two extremes a platform, grab popcorn, sit back and watch them go at it. Advertisers will pay a fortune for ad slots because they know people will be watching. RTÉ makes more money.

    I don't know if this kind of transformative surgery is available in the Republic of Ireland and as to what exactly it entails, well, my mind boggles. It would be interesting to see any Dept. of Health data on the matter, if it's available. Let's talk about issues that really matter such as the huge problems of alcoholism, drug addiction, mental illness and suicide affecting our young people.
    Let these shemale freaks bugger off to England with themselves.


    There’s plenty of data available from the HSE and numerous other organisations, but the reality is that in Ireland at least, there’s not much more to it as of the passing into law of the Gender Recognition Act of 2015 than “I think, therefore I am” so to speak - one only has to apply to be legally recognised as their preferred gender, and set in motion a series of events that from that day on they are to be legally recognised as their preferred gender. Surgery is not required, and more and more people who identify as transgender are foregoing surgery in favour simply of social transition, which is peeing off a lot of the “Old Guard” as it were, who complain about people identifying themselves as transgender when they haven’t gone through medical or surgical transition and have no interest in or intention of doing so.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,279 ✭✭✭The Bishop Basher


    What kind of medical professional diagnoses gender dysphoria?
    ironwalk wrote: »

    We're not allowed go there in these discussion for some reason.

    Probably because facts get in the way of their ideology.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    ironwalk wrote: »
    I get the impression they are. Ask how many are comfortable sharing a dressing room with a pre-op trans woman.
    Dial Hard wrote: »
    I can only speak for myself, but it wouldn't bother me in the least. Same as I have no issue sharing unisex bathrooms with men.

    Dial, my elderly mother would get a start and would probably apologise, imagining that she had wandered into the wrong changing room. It would bother her. She wouldn't be able to wander around the dressing room.

    There are lots of women who are from non-Christian religious backgrounds who would have a problem with using a changing room or bathroom with men.

    I'd have a problem with my teenager sharing with a teenage male-bodied person, in a dressing room, or a Scout tent, or a bathroom etc etc etc.
    And what if there is a female sexual predator in the tent or in the bathroom?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    And what if there is a female sexual predator in the tent or in the bathroom?


    Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator!



    Cat, meet pigeons :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    ironwalk wrote: »
    How has it got to the point that being concerned with woman's right is now equivalent to being "anti-trans".
    Nobody was talking about women's rights. I was responding to a post which claimed that most women would agree with Linehan, i.e. that most women were anti-trans.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,846 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    chicorytip wrote: »
    Why are we even having this discussion and why does RTE deem the topic worthy of broadcast. Just how many of these "transgender" people are there in a small country like ours?

    Well I started the thread because I saw the article online regarding the Primetime debate.
    I think we're having this debate because we need to find the right way to go forward for our country.
    People are generally unsure of what the whole thing entails and how a young kid may decided they want to change gender.
    What age can they start the process?
    How will this matter be discussed in school?
    When do you say yes/the doctor says yes to your kid changing gender?
    What are the consequences?
    We all knew guys who may have being a bit feminine or girls who were masculine grow up or may have being ourselves. Will it be sold to these people they may have gender issues in the future.


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator!



    Cat, meet pigeons :p

    Ah, here lads.
    Men have the advantage in physical strength.
    I have a fair chance against any female who wants to have a go; against even a mediocre man, nope, I'm going to come off badly injured.
    Even a man who is shorter than me.
    And, I'm on the tall, physically fit, well built end of the female spectrum.

    You can muddy the waters by asking "what about women who kill/hit/rape/abuse" but the chances of me coming across one, is vanishingly small.
    A man who can do that?
    I could have one in my home, every time I go out at night, every time I have a drink out.

    How many times have you been abused, against your will, by a woman?
    Cos, for the vast majority of women, we have lots of stories of being touched-up or threatened by men.
    Not all men, before you say it, but the subset seems to get around.
    And I don't know which one of you it is, so I have to treat you all as if you're Schrödinger's rapist.


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    seamus wrote: »
    Nobody was talking about women's rights. I was responding to a post which claimed that most women would agree with Linehan, i.e. that most women were anti-trans.

    Nope, not buying that one either.
    I am talking about women's rights.
    G Linehan, as far as I can see, is also asserting protective rights for women. Not anti-trans.
    It is not a logical progression that agreeing with Linehan = anti-trans.

    Agree with his concerns for the potential loss of women rights, does not equal anti-trans.
    Agree that predatory men will abuse trans rights to get at women, does not equal anti-trans.
    Concern about children's hard-won safeguarding, does not equal anti-trans.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,480 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    I think all these transgender controversies stem from one simple thing - most ppl do not accept the idea that one is internally one gender and outwardly another. Most ppl think it's a psychological issue. I do to. I have no doubt transgenders believe fully they are internally the opposite gender to their body and I don't see how anyone would have a problem with that per se. I don't. So being transphobic don't make much sense to me. Being nasty to minorities just for the sake of it is not on but having said that I'm not sure how widespread that is anyway.

    Disagreeing with transgender rights of the kind we are hearing a lot of recently is a completely different thing to thoughtless transphobia. Radical transfolk are demanding this that and other and it is thoroughly right that these things are vigorously debated before any new rights are given.

    It doesn't matter how accepting society is of ppl with gender dysphoria, this is not enough for the trans radicals. They know full well what most ppl's opinion is of gender dysphoria which I mentioned and all these issues concerning toilets etc is an attempt by them to change ppl's view on the issue, to force ppl to accept something they don't without conclusive proof which at this moment in time I don't think exists. Demanding preferred pronouns is a great example of how trans radicals are trying to hack an acceptance of their views on the issue, as if if they can get ppl to speak in a certain way that's equivalent to one thinking a certain way, the way they want. That tactic could only end in disaster and if there is a rise in transphobia their tactic would be the reason for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    ironwalk wrote: »
    Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator!



    Cat, meet pigeons :p


    You can muddy the waters by asking "what about women who kill/hit/rape/abuse" but the chances of me coming across one, is vanishingly small.
    Interesting - so what are the chances of being raped or sexually abused by a transgender female?

    In two years that we've legally allowed for self-identification of gender here, how many such incidents have we seen?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,190 ✭✭✭Rory28


    Regarding the Trans women going into female prisons. Where should we put them? In with the males?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,211 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    ironwalk wrote: »
    Ah, here lads.
    Men have the advantage in physical strength.
    I have a fair chance against any female who wants to have a go; against even a mediocre man, nope, I'm going to come off badly injured.
    Even a man who is shorter than me.
    And, I'm on the tall, physically fit, well built end of the female spectrum.

    You can muddy the waters by asking "what about women who kill/hit/rape/abuse" but the chances of me coming across one, is vanishingly small.
    A man who can do that?
    I could have one in my home, every time I go out at night, every time I have a drink out.

    How many times have you been abused, against your will, by a woman?
    Cos, for the vast majority of women, we have lots of stories of being touched-up or threatened by men.
    Not all men, before you say it, but the subset seems to get around.
    And I don't know which one of you it is, so I have to treat you all as if you're Schrödinger's rapist.


    My post was in jest (I tend to do that sometimes :pac:), but since you’ve taken it seriously, I can at least reassure you that the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused by someone who identifies themselves as transgender, is a lot more slim than the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused, by someone who identifies themselves as a man.

    You’re perfectly entitled of course to treat all men as though they are Shrodingers rapist, but that only marks you out as one of those ideologues behind this idea of “rape culture”, when in reality the number of men who commit rape is around 7% - you’re unlikely ever to be raped, and even less likely to be raped by someone who identifies themselves as transgender.

    You can go back to muddying the waters now.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,731 ✭✭✭jam_mac_jam


    Rory28 wrote: »
    Regarding the Trans women going into female prisons. Where should we put them? In with the males?

    No, I wouldn't. Could you start a separate area or am I being trans phobic. The issue as I see it is that there are places for women, for their safety and its not fair on women to give up this safety for the rights of others. Its not a zero sum game though and I don't think that trans women should be in mens prisons for their safety.


    I can put up with it in toilets and changing rooms but I think domestic violence and prisons should be women who were born women only.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,190 ✭✭✭Rory28


    No, I wouldn't. Could you start a separate area or am I being trans phobic.

    As odd as it sounds I think this is the only solution. Really dont see an alternative because you cannot rely on the guards 100% of the time to stop sh1t happening.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator!



    Cat, meet pigeons :p

    Would you like something to help you stir that Jack? :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Is Linehan anti-trans? That’s a genuine question, I don’t know an awful lot about his Twitter outbursts on the topic.

    It’s just, if he is expressing reservations about things like pre-teens being given medication to block puberty or questioning whether young teenagers should undergo sex-change surgery, that doesn’t necessarily indicate that he is anti-trans, does it?

    Has he gone farther than this, made openly anti-trans statements?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,492 ✭✭✭Sir Oxman


    seamus wrote: »
    Yes. He is unwilling to entertain any discussion on it unless it meets with his opinion, or even show respect to anyone else in such a discussion.

    He's probably gone off the rails tbh. In a discussion where he insists that trans is a mental illness, Linehan probably needs psychiatric help of his own. It's an obsession for him at this stage.


    That is untrue.
    His whole point is the stifling of any debate for example, which even attempts to query the rights of prescribing puberty blockers to young kids.


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    Interesting - so what are the chances of being raped or sexually abused by a transgender female?

    In two years that we've legally allowed for self-identification of gender here, how many such incidents have we seen?

    I'm not going to engage with muddying the water.

    Again, predatory men may use the expansion of trans rights to target women.
    Again, if, if a transgender man who identified as female decided to have a go, then I've got little recourse. Some men even find that notion titillating.

    We have seen elsewhere beauticians asked to wax a self identifying transwoman's balls?
    We have seen women, confined in a women's only institution and were sexually assaulted by a "woman" with a penis.

    So, what are the chances? Don't know, but not one that I'm willing to take.
    How many incidents? Don't know, but if it's foreseeable, why wait for one?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,079 ✭✭✭✭Tom Mann Centuria


    If you read his time line on twitter, he has trans people who support him, and men and women who are supportive of him.

    I think he's a smug individual, but for whatever reason he's deep into this subject and if he has been asked for an opinion, and is happy to voice his argument, he should be allowed to do it.

    Oh well, give me an easy life and a peaceful death.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,471 ✭✭✭EdgeCase


    ironwalk wrote: »
    How many times have you been abused, against your will, by a woman?
    Cos, for the vast majority of women, we have lots of stories of being touched-up or threatened by men.

    Quite a few times actually.

    I've been shoved up against a wall by a woman and had a rather horrible smoker's tongue shoved into my mouth. I'd zero interest in her.

    I've had my rear pinched, grabbed, I've been fondled on dance floors, I've been shouted at for being less than responsive to flirting. I've had absolutely obnoxious women sit on my lap.

    I largely ignored it and wasn't really that freaked about it but it does happen. I would say tho I did find the being corned and forced to kiss someone pretty gross though. I had to wash my mouth out with beer.

    I don't mind flirting but some of that stuff is absolutely taking the piss.

    I'm bi, so I've experienced similar very unwanted attention from lads too. Including someone who tried to push me into a car when I was about 19 and seemed to think that because I was bi I would somehow be automatically interested ... Absolutely not the case!

    This isn't whataboutary btw. I think it's way way out of line when anyone behaves like a sex pest.

    It's usually a mix of alcohol, a brass neck and hormones in many cases it'll just be stupid flirty nonsense but some people go WAY beyond that and that's where you're very much into the realms of sexual assault.

    I'd say guys can be more threatening because they're usually physically bigger (not always tho).

    There's a lot to be said for getting the concept of consent into everyone's heads.


  • Registered Users Posts: 19 CaptainPants


    I think its kind of funny to watch Graham getting hauled over the coals, given that he is the textbook example of how social media ruins minds. I followed him on Twitter once and was amazed to see that the guy who wrote Father Ted would talk in such creepy Stepfordy wokespeak almost all the time.

    It was all "Toxic Masculinty" this and "Allyship" that - every word a tombstone for an actual thought. So to see him be outwoked by the even woker is kind of funny. That said, on Trans issues what he's saying is close to most people's opinion on this, which is basically that though we should of course treat trans people with the respect they deserve, we should be careful about giving access to women only spaces to just anybody that says they are trans, and that there is definitely some issues surrounding kids transitioning.

    To the wokebots this is 'hate'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    ironwalk wrote: »
    Nope, not buying that one either.
    I am talking about women's rights.
    The poster I was responding to, wasn't.

    Linehan is a self-identified "trans-exclusionary" feminist.

    Which is by definition an anti-trans position.

    Being for "women's rights" does not make one anti-trans. Being for "women's rights (except trans women)" does make you anti-trans.

    What I funniest about this stuff is that TERFs like Linehan focus exclusively on the "female" part. Nobody freaks out about "women in the men's changing room" or "women in men's sports". Anti-trans viewpoints are focussed almost exclusively on trans females, and the apparent damage they can do. How they are trying to make "real" women unsafe.

    At the root of this belief is an inherent anti-male bias. The belief that all men are violent sexual predators who cannot help ourselves, and a man even if he identifies as a woman, presents a danger to women and their rights.

    TERFs, like Linehan, are the raving, man-hating, misandrist feminists that the denizens of AH claim are lurking around every corner.

    Yet I can guarantee you'll all be on his side because, "Well, sure of course they're not women, this is lefty craziness".


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    My post was in jest (I tend to do that sometimes :pac:), but since you’ve taken it seriously, I can at least reassure you that the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused by someone who identifies themselves as transgender, is a lot more slim than the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused, by someone who identifies themselves as a man.

    You’re perfectly entitled of course to treat all men as though they are Shrodingers rapist, but that only marks you out as one of those ideologues behind this idea of “rape culture”, when in reality the number of men who commit rape is around 7% - you’re unlikely ever to be raped, and even less likely to be raped by someone who identifies themselves as transgender.

    You can go back to muddying the waters now.

    Was it in jest? Many a true word etc etc.
    If you read back on my posts, you'll see that my concern is solely with the subset of men, who will (and have) used trans rights to enter women's spaces in order to abuse and hurt.
    I suspect that the risk of being hurt by a transgender wo/man is exactly the same as being hurt by any other male bodied person.

    As for the dismissal of women's risk of being hurt by men....are you seriously dismissing that, on an Irish forum, given our history?
    I may have a slim chance of being raped, but no woman goes out without it being in the back of their heads.
    I will continue to treat unknown men as if they are potential abusers because until I know you're safe, then I'm going to treat you as unsafe. (and here's the thing, in my personal experience, abusive men have been teachers, classmates, randomers on the Luas, boyfriends etc).

    And if you have any of the following: a mother/wife/sister/female partner/daughter , then I urge you to consider my earlier examples.
    Then tell me, whether women's protections should be dismantled for trans rights.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,536 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    ironwalk wrote: »
    Was it in jest? Many a true word etc etc.
    If you read back on my posts, you'll see that my concern is solely with the subset of men, who will (and have) used trans rights to enter women's spaces in order to abuse and hurt.
    I suspect that the risk of being hurt by a transgender wo/man is exactly the same as being hurt by any other male bodied person.

    As for the dismissal of women's risk of being hurt by men....are you seriously dismissing that, on an Irish forum, given our history?
    I may have a slim chance of being raped, but no woman goes out without it being in the back of their heads.
    I will continue to treat unknown men as if they are potential abusers because until I know you're safe, then I'm going to treat you as unsafe. (and here's the thing, in my personal experience, abusive men have been teachers, classmates, randomers on the Luas, boyfriends etc).

    And if you have any of the following: a mother/wife/sister/female partner/daughter , then I urge you to consider my earlier examples.
    Then tell me, whether women's protections should be dismantled for trans rights.


    Nobody is dismissing anything. What was said is very simple. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man who is pretending to identify as a woman is so low as to be non-existent.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    ironwalk wrote: »
    Interesting - so what are the chances of being raped or sexually abused by a transgender female?

    In two years that we've legally allowed for self-identification of gender here, how many such incidents have we seen?

    I'm not going to engage with muddying the water.

    Again, predatory men may use the expansion of trans rights to target women.
    Again, if, if a transgender man who identified as female decided to have a go, then I've got little recourse. Some men even find that notion titillating.

    We have seen elsewhere beauticians asked to wax a self identifying transwoman's balls?
    We have seen women, confined in a women's only institution and were sexually assaulted by a "woman" with a penis.

    So, what are the chances? Don't know, but not one that I'm willing to take.
    How many incidents? Don't know, but if it's foreseeable, why wait for one?
    But you're happy to "wait for one" from a female sexual predator?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    Nobody is dismissing anything. What was said is very simple. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man who is pretending to identify as a woman is so low as to be non-existent.


    The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low

    So low, that most women have experienced some version of it.
    Or, are you denying what women tell you about their lives?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,657 ✭✭✭CalamariFritti


    So after a brief google it appears that somewhere between 1 in 200 to 300 people identifiy as transgender to varying degrees.

    Of course these people should not be discriminated against and supported instead and their rights and dignity protected like every one else’s but I didn’t realise that those numbers justify it becoming ‘a new thing’.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,536 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    ironwalk wrote: »
    The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low

    So low, that most women have experienced some version of it.
    Or, are you denying what women tell you about their lives?


    define "most women" and "assault"


  • Registered Users Posts: 250 ✭✭ironwalk


    But you're happy to "wait for one" from a female sexual predator?

    Nope, didn't say that, don't put words in my mouth.
    But, I've only ever had one woman push the line, and I was able to push back. No fear that she would strangle me, or punch my teeth in.

    Have had lots of experience of men not listening when I said 'no'. Always with the worry that they'd take it badly and lash out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,397 ✭✭✭✭blanch152


    Nobody is dismissing anything. What was said is very simple. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man who is pretending to identify as a woman is so low as to be non-existent.


    https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2018/oct/11/transgender-prisoner-who-sexually-assaulted-inmates-jailed-for-life

    The tale of Karen White is interesting. While, on the one hand, you can argue that the percentage of men who are likely to commit a sexually motivated crime on women is higher than the percentage of transgender women who are likely to commit a sexually motivated crime on women, and I would fully accept that, unless someone else can produce statistics that differ. I would also accept that the proportion of women likely to commit a sexually motivated crime on women is less than the percentage of transgender women who are likely to commit a sexually motivated crime on women. Therefore, in allowing transgender women to access "women-only" areas, there is an increased risk to women.

    However, a crime depends on a number of factors, and that argument only addresses one, that of motivation. A second, and often more important factor, is opportunity. Thousands of people might pick up a bag of cash lying on the ground, but most of us never get the opportunity. Transgender women get an opportunity that men don't, through access.

    The case of Karen White illustrates that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    Nobody is dismissing anything. What was said is very simple. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man who is pretending to identify as a woman is so low as to be non-existent.

    Sadly there have been quite a few reports from lesbians across the UK that such assaults have happened in women only clubs. Too many from too wide a geographical area to be dismissed.
    I do not for a second believe the perpetrators of these assaults are genuinely trans, I think they are predatory men acting out some 'I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body' scenario. The descriptions of these men is that they are simply dressed in women's clothes with bad wigs.
    I know too many people (MTF AND FTM) who are genuinely transitioning and have seen the time and care they take to 'learn' to express their real gender to think for a second any of them would think putting on a frock/suit is all there is to it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,920 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    ironwalk wrote: »
    So, what are the chances? Don't know, but not one that I'm willing to take.
    How many incidents? Don't know, but if it's foreseeable, why wait for one?

    By that logic, we should segregate both genders entirely in case of an incident. But we don't, because in the real world, we know that it's completely impossible to legislate for such things.

    The fact of the matter is that you, your daughter, your elderly mother and any other woman is far more likely to be sexually assaulted by a partner, friend, ex or man otherwise known to her than by the bogeyman pretending to be transgender that you seem to be convinced will be hiding in every bathroom and changing room.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,119 ✭✭✭Gravelly


    for whatever reason he's deep into this subject

    One could almost say balls deep, if that's not an act of violence against transsomethingorother.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    So after a brief google it appears that somewhere between 1 in 200 to 300 people identifiy as transgender to varying degrees.

    Of course these people should not be discriminated against and supported instead and their rights and dignity protected like every one else’s but I didn’t realise that those numbers justify it becoming ‘a new thing’.

    That seems quite high a number actually. That’d be around 16,000 people in Ireland.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,711 ✭✭✭keano_afc


    I used to like Irish Simpsons Fans Facebook group until they deleted this, because it was offensive and they hate Linehan anyway.

    470927.jpeg

    That group used to be funny until it started being a liberal mouthpiece. I was banned for posting a pro-life meme.


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