One eyed Jack wrote: » Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator! Cat, meet pigeons
seamus wrote: » Nobody was talking about women's rights. I was responding to a post which claimed that most women would agree with Linehan, i.e. that most women were anti-trans.
ironwalk wrote: » One eyed Jack wrote: » Don’t be silly, there’s no such thing as a female sexual predator! Cat, meet pigeons You can muddy the waters by asking "what about women who kill/hit/rape/abuse" but the chances of me coming across one, is vanishingly small.
ironwalk wrote: » Ah, here lads. Men have the advantage in physical strength. I have a fair chance against any female who wants to have a go; against even a mediocre man, nope, I'm going to come off badly injured. Even a man who is shorter than me. And, I'm on the tall, physically fit, well built end of the female spectrum.You can muddy the waters by asking "what about women who kill/hit/rape/abuse" but the chances of me coming across one, is vanishingly small. A man who can do that? I could have one in my home, every time I go out at night, every time I have a drink out. How many times have you been abused, against your will, by a woman? Cos, for the vast majority of women, we have lots of stories of being touched-up or threatened by men. Not all men, before you say it, but the subset seems to get around. And I don't know which one of you it is, so I have to treat you all as if you're Schrödinger's rapist.
Rory28 wrote: » Regarding the Trans women going into female prisons. Where should we put them? In with the males?
jam_mac_jam wrote: » No, I wouldn't. Could you start a separate area or am I being trans phobic.
seamus wrote: » Yes. He is unwilling to entertain any discussion on it unless it meets with his opinion, or even show respect to anyone else in such a discussion. He's probably gone off the rails tbh. In a discussion where he insists that trans is a mental illness, Linehan probably needs psychiatric help of his own. It's an obsession for him at this stage.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Interesting - so what are the chances of being raped or sexually abused by a transgender female? In two years that we've legally allowed for self-identification of gender here, how many such incidents have we seen?
ironwalk wrote: » How many times have you been abused, against your will, by a woman? Cos, for the vast majority of women, we have lots of stories of being touched-up or threatened by men.
ironwalk wrote: » Nope, not buying that one either. I am talking about women's rights.
One eyed Jack wrote: » My post was in jest (I tend to do that sometimes :pac:), but since you’ve taken it seriously, I can at least reassure you that the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused by someone who identifies themselves as transgender, is a lot more slim than the risk of you or your loved ones being killed, hit, raped or abused, by someone who identifies themselves as a man. You’re perfectly entitled of course to treat all men as though they are Shrodingers rapist, but that only marks you out as one of those ideologues behind this idea of “rape culture”, when in reality the number of men who commit rape is around 7% - you’re unlikely ever to be raped, and even less likely to be raped by someone who identifies themselves as transgender. You can go back to muddying the waters now.
ironwalk wrote: » Was it in jest? Many a true word etc etc. If you read back on my posts, you'll see that my concern is solely with the subset of men, who will (and have) used trans rights to enter women's spaces in order to abuse and hurt. I suspect that the risk of being hurt by a transgender wo/man is exactly the same as being hurt by any other male bodied person. As for the dismissal of women's risk of being hurt by men....are you seriously dismissing that, on an Irish forum, given our history? I may have a slim chance of being raped, but no woman goes out without it being in the back of their heads. I will continue to treat unknown men as if they are potential abusers because until I know you're safe, then I'm going to treat you as unsafe. (and here's the thing, in my personal experience, abusive men have been teachers, classmates, randomers on the Luas, boyfriends etc). And if you have any of the following: a mother/wife/sister/female partner/daughter , then I urge you to consider my earlier examples. Then tell me, whether women's protections should be dismantled for trans rights.
ironwalk wrote: » AndrewJRenko wrote: » Interesting - so what are the chances of being raped or sexually abused by a transgender female? In two years that we've legally allowed for self-identification of gender here, how many such incidents have we seen? I'm not going to engage with muddying the water. Again, predatory men may use the expansion of trans rights to target women. Again, if, if a transgender man who identified as female decided to have a go, then I've got little recourse. Some men even find that notion titillating. We have seen elsewhere beauticians asked to wax a self identifying transwoman's balls? We have seen women, confined in a women's only institution and were sexually assaulted by a "woman" with a penis. So, what are the chances? Don't know, but not one that I'm willing to take. How many incidents? Don't know, but if it's foreseeable, why wait for one?
ohnonotgmail wrote: » Nobody is dismissing anything. What was said is very simple. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low. The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man who is pretending to identify as a woman is so low as to be non-existent.
ironwalk wrote: » The chances of a woman being assaulted by a man is low So low, that most women have experienced some version of it. Or, are you denying what women tell you about their lives?
AndrewJRenko wrote: » But you're happy to "wait for one" from a female sexual predator?
ironwalk wrote: » So, what are the chances? Don't know, but not one that I'm willing to take. How many incidents? Don't know, but if it's foreseeable, why wait for one?
Tom Mann Centuria wrote: » for whatever reason he's deep into this subject
CalamariFritti wrote: » So after a brief google it appears that somewhere between 1 in 200 to 300 people identifiy as transgender to varying degrees. Of course these people should not be discriminated against and supported instead and their rights and dignity protected like every one else’s but I didn’t realise that those numbers justify it becoming ‘a new thing’.
Will I Am Not wrote: » I used to like Irish Simpsons Fans Facebook group until they deleted this, because it was offensive and they hate Linehan anyway.