Is it wrong to look at a woman's arse these days?

wandatowell · 26-03-2016 8:44am

I love a good arse.

One eyed Jack · 26-03-2016 8:44am

thattequilagirl wrote: »

It depends on the context, like if the girl is walking down the street in front of you..,

Yeah that's happened a couple of times alright where the girl was walking in front of me and was doing that whole hypnotic hip sway movement, I'd to cross the street to get out from behind her because i wasn't looking where I was going!!

smash · 26-03-2016 8:46am

thattequilagirl wrote: »

It depends on the context, like if the girl is walking down the street in front of you..,

Hey, if she's in front of you and she's going the same route then any length of time is fair game...

Menas · 26-03-2016 8:47am

smash wrote: »

Hey, if she's in front of you and she's going the same route then any length of time is fair game...

Unless you adjust your route to follow her!

smash · 26-03-2016 8:53am

Menas wrote: »

Unless you adjust your route to follow her!

Well... yea

Day Lewin · 26-03-2016 8:59am

Seriously, if ever the day comes when a man doesn't notice a nice arse, I will know the whole place has gone to hell in a handcart.

It's natural for them to look. Anyone who wants to keep their arse out of sight, should keep it out of sight.

Come to that, I am a woman and I do appreciate a pretty arse on a man.

Pink Fairy · 26-03-2016 9:09am

steddyeddy wrote: »

My missus has a great bum. Was only complimenting her on it last night.

Yeah, so was I !

Pink Fairy · 26-03-2016 9:10am

smash wrote: »

After how many seconds does a look officially become a stare?

367 I believe

DrPhilG · 26-03-2016 9:32am

TerrorFirmer wrote: »

http://i.imgur.com/2FLhR.jpg

The only thing I can think of when someone brings up this topic.

That picture perfectly explains my usual argument when I hear a woman waffling on about how men are perverts for looking at cleavage.

If something is very noticeable, then it's very noticeable. If I walked into the room with my zip down and knob swinging loose, then I would get stares. That doesn't mean those staring are perverts, or even attracted to me/it. They're just spotting something that is very noticeable.

(note, I have never actually carried out the experiment described above...)

Of course when the very noticeable thing is also very attractive, it is all the more difficult not to stare.

One eyed Jack · 26-03-2016 9:39am

DrPhilG wrote: »

That picture perfectly explains my usual argument when I hear a woman waffling on about how men are perverts for looking at cleavage.

If something is very noticeable, then it's very noticeable. If I walked into the room with my zip down and knob swinging loose, then I would get stares. That doesn't mean those staring are perverts, or even attracted to me/it. They're just spotting something that is very noticeable.

(note, I have never actually carried out the experiment described above...)

Of course when the very noticeable thing is also very attractive, it is all the more difficult not to stare.

Genuinely, how often does anyone hear that from women?

More women have pointed out to me I'm flying low (when I am flying low), than I have ever heard going on about how men are perverts for looking at cleavage!

ToddyDoody · 26-03-2016 9:42am

Is it wrong to take a photo of a woman's arse with a smartphone to save for later? (or would that be offensive to the arse)

thattequilagirl · 26-03-2016 9:46am

ToddyDoody wrote: »

Is it wrong to take a photo of a woman's arse with a smartphone to save for later? (or would that be offensive to the arse)

Yes.

smash · 26-03-2016 9:47am

ToddyDoody wrote: »

Is it wrong to take a photo of a woman's arse with a smartphone to save for later?

Yes. You should really use a DSLR.

DrPhilG · 26-03-2016 10:05am

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Genuinely, how often does anyone hear that from women?

I am in a 95% female working environment so it does get mentioned, usually linked in from some other section of the "men are pigs" theory.

tampopo · 26-03-2016 10:09am

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

What makes a great arse then?

Cycling. And more cycling.

smash · 26-03-2016 10:12am

tampopo wrote: »

Cycling. And more cycling.

And squats

Day Lewin · 26-03-2016 10:17am

smash wrote: »

And squats

Thumbs up to cycling, (don't know about squats.)
And walking UPHILL. I am serious. Next time you are walking uphill, touch a palm over your crease-between-thigh-and-bottom. Thats where the muscle is that supports it all. You can feel it working.

One eyed Jack · 26-03-2016 10:19am

DrPhilG wrote: »

I am in a 95% female working environment so it does get mentioned, usually linked in from some other section of the "men are pigs" theory.

Just because you work mostly with women is completely unrelated to how often, if ever, it's been mentioned. I've always worked with women who have told me straight out I'm a woeful pervert, not for staring at their cleavage or their arse though, they're used to that

The whole men are pigs thing? Well that's why I asked how often anyone hears that stuff, because I rarely ever hear it tbh, and it's usually only said when a man is behaving like a pig!

smash · 26-03-2016 10:22am

katemarch wrote: »

Thumbs up to cycling, (don't know about squats.)
And walking UPHILL. I am serious. Next time you are walking uphill, touch a palm over your crease-between-thigh-and-bottom. Thats where the muscle is that supports it all. You can feel it working.

Can I just touch someone else's instead?

Kerrydude1981 · 26-03-2016 10:25am

And what about these Freddy jeans jeans lads? They should be outlawed

https://www.google.ie/search?q=freddy+jeans&biw=1745&bih=868&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=0ahUKEwjR0v6Akd7LAhVC7RQKHSNFAt0Q_AUIBigB

No I take that back they should be made mandatory

One eyed Jack · 26-03-2016 10:30am

Kerrydude1981 wrote: »

And what about these Freddy jeans jeans lads? They should be outlawed

https://www.google.ie/search?q=freddy+jeans&biw=1745&bih=868&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=0ahUKEwjR0v6Akd7LAhVC7RQKHSNFAt0Q_AUIBigB

No I take that back they should be made mandatory

They look awful!! :eek:

(and this is why nobody can agree on what makes a nice bum!)

Penfailed · 26-03-2016 10:34am

When did 'leggings' become 'yoga pants'?!

IamtheWalrus · 26-03-2016 10:34am

Arse beats boobs any day. A nice arse isn't just pleasing on the eye - it's what it represents; the person looks after themselves, has self respect. Boobs just exist and don't say much about the girl.

Has anyone noticed that the classier a girl is, the smaller her boobs.

26-03-2016 10:36am

smash wrote: »

Can I just touch someone else's instead?

You can touch mine. It's in bed right now covered in pink cotton and white stars.

One eyed Jack · 26-03-2016 10:36am

IamtheWalrus wrote: »

Arse beats boobs any day. A nice arse isn't just pleasing on the eye - it's what it represents; the person looks after themselves, has self respect. Boobs just exist and don't say much about the girl.

Has anyone noticed that the classier a girl is, the smaller her boobs.

Huh?

smash · 26-03-2016 10:48am

Kerrydude1981 wrote: »

And what about these Freddy jeans jeans lads? They should be outlawed

https://www.google.ie/search?q=freddy+jeans&biw=1745&bih=868&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=0ahUKEwjR0v6Akd7LAhVC7RQKHSNFAt0Q_AUIBigB

No I take that back they should be made mandatory

Wonder bras, chicken fillets, fake tan, hair extensions, fake eyelashes, gel nails, bum lifting jeans... Jesus, at least with lads we are what we say on the tin!

CruelCoin · 26-03-2016 10:56am

smash wrote: »

Wonder bras, chicken fillets, fake tan, hair extensions, fake eyelashes, gel nails, bum lifting jeans... Jesus, at least with lads we are what we say on the tin!

You sure about that?

The metro, man-bagging, scarf wearing, man-bunning hipster hordes would say otherwise.

smash · 26-03-2016 11:01am

CruelCoin wrote: »

You sure about that?

The metro, man-bagging, scarf wearing, man-bunning hipster hordes would say otherwise.

Wearing a scarf or carrying a bag doesn't shape your body in to something it isn't.

Pat Mustard · 26-03-2016 11:33am

smash wrote: »

After how many seconds does a look officially become a stare?

After a couple of hours, the police may ask you to move on.

Lavinia · 26-03-2016 11:49am

Hey OP, I'm not sure what the question is actually? :pac:

If girl does not notice you are checking her.. umm.. posterior..

how could she be offended?

Or you wonder if other people notice you are doing it then would you be embarrassed about it and feeling like some kind of a perv?

Or is it you want the girl to notice that you are checking her behind and you are jut not sure what kind of reaction she would have?

thanks!:P

.G. · 26-03-2016 11:53am

The inventor of those Freddys needs some kind of award. Superb.

ToddyDoody · 26-03-2016 1:29pm

smash wrote: »

Yes. You should really use a DSLR.

The thread needs another visual?

http://www.menprovement.com/ass-pictures/

laserlad2010 · 26-03-2016 1:31pm

I've been told i've a great bum, for a guy. Once heard a girl comment "check out that lad's bum" as I walked by. I had a beer or two so it could have been imagined, I don't care, I've had my fun:P

26-03-2016 2:46pm

Let's all become subscribers and join the sex and sexuality forum. We can talk about bums to our hearts (and boobs and man parts) delight.

Potential Underachiever · 26-03-2016 3:00pm

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

You've clearly thought about it

Correct, I put a lot of thought into it! I'm Fassinated!

26-03-2016 3:07pm

Potential Underachiever wrote: »

Correct, I put a lot of thought into it! I'm Fassinated!

Brilliant!

Pat Mustard · 26-03-2016 3:08pm

laserlad2010 wrote: »

I've been told i've a great bum, for a guy. Once heard a girl comment "check out that lad's bum" as I walked by. I had a beer or two so it could have been imagined, I don't care, I've had my fun:P

Perhaps you misheard?

Were you walking with your Mum?

sheep? · 26-03-2016 3:16pm

Potential Underachiever wrote: »

Correct, I put a lot of thought into it! I'm Fassinated!

Cheeky!

TheHillOfDoom · 26-03-2016 3:24pm

I love this clip from Friends where Ross and Rachel manage to get Emma to laugh by singing 'Baby's got back'.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kYYuKbxa30

smash · 26-03-2016 3:30pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Let's all become subscribers and join the sex and sexuality forum. We can talk about bums to our hearts (and boobs and man parts) delight.

It's a trap. That forum is useless.

laserlad2010 · 26-03-2016 11:10pm

Pat Mustard wrote: »

Perhaps you misheard?

Were you walking with your Mum?

I may have misheard, as I pointed out "I may have imagined"

Could ye not just be happy for another man who got a compliment, real or imagined

gormdubhgorm · 26-03-2016 11:42pm

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

What makes a great arse then?

A little bit toned I would say. But not Grace Jones type that is too muscular.

Pink Fairy · 27-03-2016 6:35am

gormdubhgorm wrote: »

A little bit toned I would say. But not Grace Jones type that is too muscular.

Grace Jones is a pensioner, I doubt her arse is very muscular these times

JackieBauer · 27-03-2016 6:48am

This thread has been mature enough. Yet the Sex forum is for paying customers only.

Interesting.

Menas · 27-03-2016 7:52am

I dreamt about bottoms last night. Wonderful Ladies wobbly bottoms. This thread has a lot to answer for.

smash · 27-03-2016 8:04am

Menas wrote: »

I dreamt about bottoms last night. Wonderful Ladies wobbly bottoms. This thread has a lot to answer for.

Did you wake up stuck to your duvet?

Menas · 27-03-2016 8:05am

smash wrote: »

Did you wake up stuck to your duvet?

Behave!

smash · 27-03-2016 8:06am

Menas wrote: »

Behave!

That's a yes then :pac:

Galwayguy35 · 27-03-2016 8:10am

Don't see anything wrong with it, there was a woman in Aldi yesterday in a pair of tight jeans and I'd say there wasn't one fella there that didn't notice what a fine arse she had.

As long as someone isn't being a leech sure what harm, it's not as if women don't be checking out the fellas as well.

Pink Fairy · 27-03-2016 8:21am

Galwayguy35 wrote: »

Don't see anything wrong with it, there was a woman in Aldi yesterday in a pair of tight jeans and I'd say there wasn't one fella there that didn't notice what a fine arse she had.

As long as someone isn't being a leech sure what harm, it's not as if women don't be checking out the fellas as well.

Indeed, all you have to say to any woman is "workman in snickers" and their necks do an owl-like 180° to catch a glimpse of whatever bum is wearing it

Is it wrong to look at a woman's arse these days?

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