People who hire hookers?

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 07:41PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Marketing.

Nobody accuses Apple of hypnosis or brainwashing and they manage to market shiny turds to people who think they're the shizz.

I suppose like anything else, "good" is an entirely subjective standard. There are enough people that think iPhones are 'good' in order that Apple makes quite a nice profit. There are many more people whose opinion differs, and so in order to increase their market share, Apple must convince these people to purchase their iPhone, in the same way as a sex worker will attempt to convince people that they should choose to avail of her services as she provides a service that is superior to her competition.

It's basic marketing.

total nonsense

you can't trick someone into thinking they just had a good shag, a good shag is a good shag

Saralee4 · 13-03-2015 07:42PM

nokia69 wrote: »

agreed

but on AVERAGE a hooker would tend to be more skilful than the AVERAGE woman

Any hooker will sleep with you though beautiful, tall, small, fat, slim. The 'average woman' that is willing to sleep with you is different than the 'average woman' that will sleep with another guy. What an average woman is to you is different to another man.

Mick Jaggers average woman is completely different to the average woman who will sleep with you for free. What Mick Jagger considers average might be considered a goddess to you.

Maybe if you were able to get the 'average woman' that the other guy is getting then then your opinion would be different.

jbtarmac121 · 13-03-2015 07:43PM

nokia69 wrote: »

total nonsense

you can't trick someone into thinking they just had a good shag, a good shag is a good shag

agreed. crazy stuff by the other poster.

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 07:47PM

nokia69 wrote: »

agreed

but on AVERAGE a hooker would tend to be more skilful than the AVERAGE woman

Maybe, but there are too many variables involved. Ever have sex with a woman after a lengthy spell of abstaining from masturbation so you end up cumming after a couple of minutes? Yet to another woman you could be a machine. Then there's the temperature of the room, the type of jondom used, how drunk you are, how hot she is etc etc, the list goes on. Sometimes sex is great and sometimes its crap. Whether or not money was exchanged before hand doesn't make a difference.

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 07:49PM

Saralee4 wrote: »

Any hooker will sleep with you though beautiful, tall, small, fat, slim. The 'average woman' that is willing to sleep with you is different than the 'average woman' that will sleep with another guy. What an average woman is to you is different to another man.

Mick Jaggers average woman is completely different to the average woman who will sleep with you for free. What Mick Jagger considers average might be considered a goddess to you.

Maybe if you were able to get the 'average woman' that the other guy is getting then then your opinion would be different.

when I say average I could have said random

its not about looks

I don't know why people can't accept that experience and practice can make you better in bed

I mean is a 19 year old virgin lightly to be as good in bed as a 30 year old who has had plenty of sex with a number of different partners

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 07:51PM

nokia69 wrote: »

when I say average I could have said random

its not about looks

I don't know why people can't accept that experience and practice can make you better in bed

I mean is a 19 year old virgin lightly to be as good in bed as a 30 year old who has had plenty of sex with a number of different partners

She could be if she looked like Margot Robbie and you had a real connection with her. Experience doesn't always equal quality.

Saralee4 · 13-03-2015 07:52PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Marketing.

Nobody accuses Apple of hypnosis or brainwashing and they manage to market shiny turds to people who think they're the shizz.

I suppose like anything else, "good" is an entirely subjective standard. There are enough people that think iPhones are 'good' in order that Apple makes quite a nice profit. There are many more people whose opinion differs, and so in order to increase their market share, Apple must convince these people to purchase their iPhone, in the same way as a sex worker will attempt to convince people that they should choose to avail of her services as she provides a service that is superior to her competition.

It's basic marketing.

agree with this jack and also there is the possibility that the man himself has to convince himself that he is paying for a 'better' product.

Whatever anyone says, it is not ideal to have to pay for sex so to justify it there needs to be something extraordinary according to the man.

of course there are beautiful hookers but he generalises that these hookers are better sexually than other beautiful women (whom he has probably not experienced and has no chance of experiencing) so that he does not have to deal with the fact that they just wont sleep with them. He places the issue on 'average women' in general and their performance rather than accept that it is him who cannot get the girl he really desires and the girl who is willing to go that extra mile for him. its a defence mechanism.

Saralee4 · 13-03-2015 07:56PM

nokia69 wrote: »

I don't know why people can't accept that experience and practice can make you better in bed

I mean is a 19 year old virgin lightly to be as good in bed as a 30 year old who has had plenty of sex with a number of different partners

its not about looks yet it has been continuously argued in this thread that you get top quality model looks from the hookers?

really? I am quite sure, there are many men who would go for a 19 year old woman over a 30 year old. and there are many men who would find the fact that she is a virgin a huge turn on.

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 07:56PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

She could be if she looked like Margot Robbie and you had a real connection with her. Experience doesn't always equal quality.

but I would bet that Margot is far better in bed today than she was the first time she had sex

Baby Jane · 13-03-2015 07:57PM

To be honest, while some really negative things were being said about women earlier on this thread (men: be wary of women, because gold-digging and screwing you over... well that's just what women do.... except when men remarry for a "better" model or something - real mental Return Of Kings sh-t) I can't disagree that a prostitute will be really good at the auld sexual techniques.

Saralee4 · 13-03-2015 07:57PM

nokia69 wrote: »

but I would bet that Margot is far better in bed today than she was the first time she had sex

are you one of those granny chasers nokia69

imagine, the experience they have!

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 08:00PM

nokia69 wrote: »

but I would bet that Margot is far better in bed today than she was the first time she had sex

That doesn't mean that sex with a virgin Margot wouldn't be enjoyable though. You could meet an experienced 30 year old who has had more pricks than a second hand dart board, but that doesn't mean she's going to light your world on fire. As I said, there are too many variables when it comes to enjoyable sex.

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 08:01PM

Saralee4 wrote: »

are you one of those granny chasers nokia69 imagine, the experience they have!

na not really

but when I was in my early 20s I got lucky with an older lady who was proof that experience counts for a lot

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 08:02PM

Saralee4 wrote: »

are you one of those granny chasers nokia69 imagine, the experience they have!

Once you've had grey there's no other way. :pac:

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 08:03PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

That doesn't mean that sex with a virgin Margot wouldn't be enjoyable though. You could meet an experienced 30 year old who has had more pricks than a second hand dart board, but that doesn't mean she's going to light your world on fire. As I said, there are too many variables when it comes to enjoyable sex.

of course not

even bad sex is good

13-03-2015 08:03PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

That doesn't mean that sex with a virgin Margot wouldn't be enjoyable though. You could meet an experienced 30 year old who has had more pricks than a second hand dart board, but that doesn't mean she's going to light your world on fire. As I said, there are too many variables when it comes to enjoyable sex.

What a truly horrible expression.

One eyed Jack · 13-03-2015 08:04PM

nokia69 wrote: »

total nonsense

you can't trick someone into thinking they just had a good shag, a good shag is a good shag

And yet that's exactly what they do, and these people pay for the experience.

Fools and their money, eh?

Then again, if you neither know any better, or if you simply don't care, that's a whole other story, but to suggest that anything is better while ignoring the fact you have to pay for it, is total nonsense.

In fact, it's actually been suggested as the motivation for some people that paying for it is part of the attraction of the experience. I can't disagree with that, if that's what makes the experience better for them, but again, that's a whole other story.

There are an infinite number of reasons really as to why people avail of the services of sex workers, it's quite literally impossible to pin it down to one single reason, but any of those reasons, apart from the aspect of either convenience, or paying for it, or simply the thrill of knowing they do it; there is simply nothing that a person can avail of with a sex worker that they couldn't avail of with another person without paying for the experience.

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 08:05PM

nokia69 wrote: »

of course not

even bad sex is good

I disagree.

Candie wrote: »

What a truly horrible expression.

I've heard a lot worse.

jbtarmac121 · 13-03-2015 08:07PM

Saralee4 wrote: »

agree with this jack and also there is the possibility that the man himself has to convince himself that he is paying for a 'better' product.

Whatever anyone says, it is not ideal to have to pay for sex so to justify it there needs to be something extraordinary according to the man.

of course there are beautiful hookers but he generalises that these hookers are better sexually than other beautiful women (whom he has probably not experienced and has no chance of experiencing) so that he does not have to deal with the fact that they just wont sleep with them. He places the issue on 'average women' in general and their performance rather than accept that it is him who cannot get the girl he really desires and the girl who is willing to go that extra mile for him. its a defence mechanism.

In order to pull girls on the same looks level as hookers regularly the guy would need to be extremely good looking or have some fame or something.

strobe · 13-03-2015 08:07PM

Candie wrote: »

What a truly horrible expression.

Are there any similar one's for men I wonder?

He's been in more holes than a Chilean minor with a death wish?

Bah, I'm no good at these kinds of things. Anyone got any good ones?

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 08:09PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

That doesn't mean that sex with a virgin Margot wouldn't be enjoyable though. You could meet an experienced 30 year old who has had more pricks than a second hand dart board, but that doesn't mean she's going to light your world on fire. As I said, there are too many variables when it comes to enjoyable sex.

I never said it wouldn't be enjoyable

what is it about some people, just because I say something is good does not mean I'm saying the other thing is awful

Mister Vain · 13-03-2015 08:11PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

And yet that's exactly what they do, and these people pay for the experience.

Even if that is the case, would it really matter if the man had a good time? I know I posted that Total Recall clip for a laugh earlier, but it got me thinking about the implanting of memories. The man could look back on the experience in years to come and only have fond memories of it.

One eyed Jack · 13-03-2015 08:20PM

nokia69 wrote: »

na not really

but when I was in my early 20s I got lucky with an older lady who was proof that experience counts for a lot

Exactly. You got lucky. Neither age nor experience counted for anything in that encounter. That particular woman just knew how to push all the right buttons with you, but that anecdote presents no compelling evidence to suggest that her previous sexual partners, nor her future sexual partners, would share your opinion of their encounter, based on their experience, or indeed, lack thereof.

lavdad · 13-03-2015 08:20PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

When you can't get laid what are you supposed to do? Same thing everyone else does, make an effort to improve your chances by putting yourself out there more. The more you put yourself out there, the more you increase your chances of meeting someone of the opposite sex who has the same interest in you as you do in them. Your mates who are getting women every night are able to do so because they're taking the risk of putting themselves out there.

What an oversimplification. It's exactly like saying to someone with depression "cheer up and think happy thoughts" and you know you wouldn't ever make any such remark. There are deep mental inhibitions which prevent some men from being able to interact with women at a level adequate enough to result in any kind of a romantic or sexual leeway.

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 08:26PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

but to suggest that anything is better while ignoring the fact you have to pay for

the money makes no difference

a good shag is a good shag

One eyed Jack · 13-03-2015 08:26PM

lavdad wrote: »

What an oversimplification. It's exactly like saying to someone with depression "cheer up and think happy thoughts" and you know you wouldn't ever make any such remark. There are deep mental inhibitions which prevent some men from being able to interact with women at a level adequate enough to result in any kind of a romantic or sexual leeway.

You're right, I wouldn't, because I don't see the two scenarios as being in any way comparable, and what is actually oversimplifying, is comparing the two scenarios as you've just done.

One eyed Jack · 13-03-2015 08:31PM

nokia69 wrote: »

the money is makes no difference

a good shag is a good shag

Clearly to some people, what they consider a good experience is actually fundamentally dependent on not just the fact they pay for it, but also how much they pay for it.

nokia69 · 13-03-2015 08:36PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Clearly to some people, what they consider a good experience is actually fundamentally dependent on not just the fact they pay for it, but also how much they pay for it.

I don't think so

they pay the money first and there is no guarantee or claim that paying extra will result in better sex

if the sex was good or not can only be decided at the end, and its not possible to trick someone into believing that a bad shag was good

One eyed Jack · 13-03-2015 08:38PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

Even if that is the case, would it really matter if the man had a good time? I know I posted that Total Recall clip for a laugh earlier, but it got me thinking about the implanting of memories. The man could look back on the experience in years to come and only have fond memories of it.

Would it matter to whom? To me personally? Give a fiddlers tbh what he thinks of it, he can have as many fond memories as he likes, long as he doesn't constantly waffle on about it, unless he's paying me to listen to him of course, then he can waffle about whatever he wants. In the meantime I'll probably be tuned out thinking about what's for dinner or whatever :pac:

Pleasurable Pursuit · 13-03-2015 08:38PM

You know it's just as likely that a non chef can cook as well as a professional chef, It's all about perceptions, you can't generalise. What one person might like another might not.

People who hire hookers?

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