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What the Loungers did Next... [off topic chat]
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Pixie-Fairy wrote: »But no one would have coitus with me.
Im just feeling bleh about myself
Don't feel bleh, you're cool!
And uh, stuff?0 -
SarahBeep! wrote: »Same!! I'm only getting contract hours at work (4 ) so I'm applying to see if I'm entitled to any SW as I'm finished college. Blehhhhh. I just feel so blehhhh!
You should be! I started off with 4 hours and i was put on x and o forms. Im now on 7 being dropped to 6 wooo
Go in and see what you can do. You will need a letter from your college to say you are finished!0 -
Pixie-Fairy wrote: »You should be! I started off with 4 hours and i was put on x and o forms. Im now on 7 being dropped to 6 wooo
Go in and see what you can do. You will need a letter from your college to say you are finished!
Have the letter alright, got it today!!
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SarahBeep! wrote: »Have the letter alright, got it today!!
And I totally get you feeling bleh. Bleh
Go in tomorrow and you will have to fill out a fcuk tonne of forms!
Im baking tomorrow so im taking out all of my frustration then!0 -
PhysiologyRocks wrote: »But think of the freshy cleanliness of new sheets.
<snuggles into duvet and sighs happily>
I changed my bedsheets. I decided I deserve a snuggly bed tonight.
Things have been getting me to since a bad discussion with a doctor last week. I went to my GP. He had some laid out the tough reality of things to me, but he was lovely and helpful and I really believe in him. One of the truths is that my mother is having a hard time with me being trans, which I know but this is the first time I've heard someone say it out loud, and it was obvious he was caring for me in saying it too. So I had a little cry in the GP's surgery.
That weighed on my mind as I got a lift home. The drive ended with me having another cry while I wee'd (Sexeh!) and a big cry in my bed. Then I had a big emotional chat with my mother, which involved cries of various intensities and lengths. And all in all my evening has been extremely cathartic, I feel much better but I have a regular reality of life to face.
I do not like my job and I do not like the industry I'm in and I picked the entirely wrong thing to do with my education and career. I'm good at what I do but I'll never be the best at it. I just don't have the temperament for it. I don't like the attitudes that prevail and I don't like how people conduct themselves. I thought it was that I was lazy and didn't want to work when in reality it's that I simply don't like what I'm doing.
I like talking to people. I like making people happy. I like caring for people. I don't like seeing people sad and upset. I would go out of my way to help someone and I ****ing love making people feel better about themselves. I'm going to have to think about this for a few days and let it rest in my mind, but I'll be spending time thinking how I can change my scenario. Even if that means giving up on my private jet and fancy home with craft room, dark room and pinball arcade.
Edit: tl:dr I was miserable, cried a lot, talked to people, then came up with a plan. Knowing the problem is half the battle (or at least some proportion of it.)0 -
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Pixie-Fairy wrote: »Im just feeling bleh about myself.
I can relate. I used to have horrible periods, they would be really heavy, last about 3 weeks and id only get them twice a year. I lost the weight and they were still heavy but would last a week and a half to 2 weeks and i would be in agony!
Hope you get cuddles and chocolate soon!
Feel better soon xx
That sounds awful Mine aren't heavy, I just feel bleh the week before and the week of the period. Only two weeks of normality every month. Thank you, even though I'm supposed to be on a diet, there's Aero in the fridge and a J in the house so I should be good soon SarahBeep! wrote: »Same!! I'm only getting contract hours at work (4 ) so I'm applying to see if I'm entitled to any SW as I'm finished college. Blehhhhh. I just feel so blehhhh!
You should definitely be entitled to something, and it'll definitely be worth it if you're on less than a three-day week. I'll probably only get 3-4 days a week, but that'll have to do me!0 -
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Ilyana 2.0 wrote: »Feel better soon xx
That sounds awful Mine aren't heavy, I just feel bleh the week before and the week of the period. Only two weeks of normality every month. Thank you, even though I'm supposed to be on a diet, there's Aero in the fridge and a J in the house so I should be good soon
Feck the diet, when you need chocolate, you need chocolate!
Oh if you ever feel bleh or bored or just want something to do when J is at work and you are down feel free to give me a pm if you wanna do stuff I only work 2 days a week 
Lyaiera I hope you feel better soon! Big hugs for you my dear! xx0 -
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Pixie-Fairy wrote: »Feck the diet, when you need chocolate, you need chocolate!
Oh if you ever feel bleh or bored or just want something to do when J is at work and you are down feel free to give me a pm if you wanna do stuff I only work 2 days a week
True..and it is orange Aero.... :P
Aw that's so sweet, thank you! He often has to work while I'm here, and there are only so many DVDs I can watch :pac: I just might take you up on that sometime
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WesternNight wrote: »Hold. Up.
WHAT? :eek:
My mam works in the primary school I went to, she invited her, she's hawt, I met her
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I'm back!! \o/ Had to shut up shop while I went into 'exam mode'
Exams arse thoroughly kicked
Turned 21
Had a mental 21st where I shifted my old primary school teacher :eek:
My job is safe and I'm a team leader now :cool:
I'M GOING TO CERN ON FRIDAY :cool: :cool:
How's everything!? Someone catch me up plox
LOL!! I shifted my old history teacher the night of my LC results!
Meanwhile, this describes me!!!
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Pixie-Fairy wrote: »LOL!! I shifted my old history teacher the night of my LC results!
Meanwhile, this describes me!!!
And by old you mean former history teacher and not actually old, yes?0 -
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My mam works in the primary school I went to, she invited her, she's hawt, I met herPixie-Fairy wrote: »LOL!! I shifted my old history teacher the night of my LC results!
But... that's... I don't even.
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Sneaky bonus bank holiday, spent it sitting out in the sun with himself in Greenwich, so good
On the Airlink now though, feckin normality. Busy day ahead in work tomorrow... need to get an important fix done and get a release sorted!0 -
WesternNight wrote: »But... that's... I don't even.
:eek:
Shift is just a shift! And we were both shítfaced :pac:
This is stuck in my head!
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Yeah. I just need to figure out how now. I know I want to do something involving people, preferably individuals. I just don't know how I get into that from where I am. Going back to studying would involve money I don't have and if I did have I'd spend on medical stuff. I'm at a bit of a loss, but I'll keep thinking. I don't want to spring another serious chat on anyone tonight so I'll keep an eye on things. Maybe if I could use my business qualifications to get me into something care related on the business side while I save and do part time education in the meantime.
If you want to chat about it feel free to PM, I've just gone through similar 0 -
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One of the people in here had a kid recently and he sent an email saying thanks for the collection present... few of the people on my team never saw any collection but would like to do something small. I hear the best thing is to avoid the clothes and toys and go straight for practical
any ideas?
You can't go wrong with a Next voucher.
Other than that find out what nappies/wipes they're using and get them feck loads (bigger sizes in nappies than currently).
Bibs bibs bibs bibs bibs. I used about 5 a day on James, drool monster.0
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