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Being forced to use your "Irish" name at school

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  • #632
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    Dan_Solo wrote: »
    So that'd be four times you've been told that a minor's name will not be broadcast to the world on boards.ie?
    Difficult concept for you?

    No one is asking for the name to be posted, an example would be good.


  • #633
    hoodwinked
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    Dan_Solo wrote: »
    English speaking schools aren't English immersive? So what language do they use then?

    they use the English language but they don't immerse you in it!


  • #634
    Boo2112
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 114 ✭✭Boo2112


    MadsL wrote: »
    Completely uncalled for jibe.

    She hasn't used her full name in years, and I don't give a damn. The only reason it was on her birth cert was to make travelling easier.

    Then you don't know anything about the process of applying for permanent residency in the US (Green Card)

    So you gave her a name so it would make it easy for her to travel, she then dropped that name and changed the other one and you're blaming the school for the confusion regarding a passport and greencard?


  • #635
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    HondaSami wrote: »
    No one is asking for the name to be posted, an example would be good.

    I have given numerous examples - I'm not posting personalised Cliff notes for you as you owe me an apology for your massively condescending and uneccesarily personal comment earlier.


  • #636
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    MadsL wrote: »
    Completely uncalled for jibe.

    She hasn't used her full name in years, and I don't give a damn. The only reason it was on her birth cert was to make travelling easier.

    Maybe but it seems to be a problem for you imo. Sorry but that's how it's coming across now.
    The thread started out with the Irish name then changed to passports and other names now it's all about what name she will choose at 18, bottom line she is changing her name at 18 and this is what the thread should have been about.

    You want her to have your name to make travelling easier but she has dropped it during school and you want it changed back.


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  • #637
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    Boo2112 wrote: »
    So you gave her a name so it would make it easy for her to travel, she then dropped that name and changed the other one and you're blaming the school for the confusion regarding a passport and greencard?

    God almighty does no-one actually read posts here!!!!!!!!!!


  • #638
    Dan_Solo
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    hoodwinked wrote: »
    and if you read the thread title its

    Being forced to use your "Irish" name at school

    hence the confusion its saying it is her irish name but she's being forced to use it no?
    That's if you pretend either inverted commas don't exist or that they don't change the meaning of a sentence in any way.


  • #639
    robinph
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 24,146 Mod ✭✭✭✭robinph


    laoch na mona wrote: »
    If she is in a gaelscoil then it makes sense seen as they wouldn't use English



    Eoin is not the Irish for John

    Eoin will be equivalent of Ian which is equivalent of John which is equivalent of Jean which is equivalent of Sean. I'm sure there are many other spellings and possible variations.

    But someone called John has the right to determine what they are known by, and not their teacher.


  • #640
    Boo2112
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 114 ✭✭Boo2112


    MadsL wrote: »
    God almighty does no-one actually read posts here!!!!!!!!!!

    Surely those should be question marks? Anyway obviously I did read the posts, is that not the situation regarding her name?


  • #641
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    MadsL wrote: »
    I have given numerous examples - I'm not posting personalised Cliff notes for you as you owe me an apology for your massively condescending and uneccesarily personal comment earlier.

    I will apologise if it makes you feel better but it will not alter the facts or what i think. Will an empty public apology make you feel better?


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  • #642
    Dan_Solo
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    HondaSami wrote: »
    Maybe but it seems to be a problem for you imo. Sorry but that's how it's coming across now.
    The thread started out with the Irish name then changed to passports and other names now it's all about what name she will choose at 18, bottom line she is changing her name at 18 and this is what the thread should have been about.
    Er, but the school has made up a new name for her and she doesn't like it? Did that bit get deleted from history or can we only now talk about what you want to talk about?


  • #643
    reprazant
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,416 ✭✭✭reprazant


    MadsL wrote: »
    I have given numerous examples - I'm not posting personalised Cliff notes for you as you owe me an apology for your massively condescending and uneccesarily personal comment earlier.

    Since you are coming across as massively condescending in most of your posts, you probably owe everyone an apology tbf.


  • #644
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,801 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    As far as i was aware, our society leaves it up to parents to name their children. It is not for a school to take its own version of this name and use it on their documents. It is frankly outrageous that anybody would defend this.
    If i enrole a child in a gaelscoil or any other school, i will write the child's name on the admissions forms, what authority does a school have to change the character, spelling or language that name is written in? None.


  • #645
    Dan_Solo
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    reprazant wrote: »
    Since you are coming across as massively condescending in most of your posts, you probably owe everyone an apology tbf.
    Although it'll have to be as Gaeilge to suit the O'Mafia here.


  • #646
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    HondaSami wrote: »
    Maybe but it seems to be a problem for you imo. Sorry but that's how it's coming across now.
    The thread started out with the Irish name then changed to passports and other names now it's all about what name she will choose at 18, bottom line she is changing her name at 18 and this is what the thread should have been about.

    You want her to have your name to make travelling easier but she has dropped it during school and you want it changed back.

    Do you just decide to make things up to fit how you view the situation? Completely wrong. And you are now 'correcting' my thread? priceless. Arrogant much.

    The only reason I mentioned it is because her school records are just complicating things uninvited. We did not ask for those records to be in a name that she doesn't use.


  • #647
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    Dan_Solo wrote: »
    Er, but the school has made up a new name for her and she doesn't like it? Did that bit get deleted from history or can we only now talk about what you want to talk about?

    But she is changing her name at 18 anyway, the name her parents gave her btw, the school name is only used in school, it has no bearing on the real issue imo, The issue is the name on her passport when she reaches 18yrs.


  • #648
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    reprazant wrote: »
    Since you are coming across as massively condescending in most of your posts, you probably owe everyone an apology tbf.

    I get condescending when people don't bother to read what I post and then make up what I said or ask for me to say it again so they don't have to scroll back a page.


  • #649
    Boo2112
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 114 ✭✭Boo2112


    MadsL wrote: »
    Do you just decide to make things up to fit how you view the situation? Completely wrong. And you are now 'correcting' my thread? priceless. Arrogant much.

    The only reason I mentioned it is because her school records are just complicating things uninvited. We did not ask for those records to be in a name that she doesn't use.

    Wouldn't things be this complicated anyway since she is using a name that isn't on her birth cert?


  • #650
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    HondaSami wrote: »
    I will apologise if it makes you feel better but it will not alter the facts or what i think. Will an empty public apology make you feel better?

    Would it stop you making empty and insulting speculations about circumstances I haven't shared?


  • #651
    mcmoustache
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,236 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    i hate it when people ask "what's your name in english?".
    i blame christianity. biblical names were translated into every language that christianity infested so names like john and mary have translations in loads of languages.
    my name is irish and doesn't have an english or polish version so asking for the English version makes no sense.

    i'm rambling now but the point i want to make is that a name is a name. i have my irish one and if someone wants to use an english name, gaelscoil or not, they should be allowed.


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  • #652
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    MadsL wrote: »
    Do you just decide to make things up to fit how you view the situation? Completely wrong. And you are now 'correcting' my thread? priceless. Arrogant much.

    The only reason I mentioned it is because her school records are just complicating things uninvited. We did not ask for those records to be in a name that she doesn't use.


    Sorry if im arrogant but i fail to see how her being called Aine instead of Ann for eg in school would complicate anything.


  • #653
    ballsymchugh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,940 ✭✭✭ballsymchugh


    why oh why don't you complain to the school on her behalf?
    so what if she doesn't want your help, she's a teenager and as you put it before 'teenagers, eh?'

    what is it about people who complain to others except to the person who can actually do something about it?


  • #654
    Dan_Solo
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    HondaSami wrote: »
    But she is changing her name at 18 anyway, the name her parents gave her btw, the school name is only used in school, it has no bearing on the real issue imo, The issue is the name on her passport when she reaches 18yrs.
    Didn't know you were the OP here to tell us what the issue is.
    And if it's not important, there's no need to defend Gaelscoils insisting on mistranslating names, is there?


  • #655
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,801 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    HondaSami wrote: »
    Sorry if im arrogant but i fail to see how her being called Aine instead of Ann for eg in school would complicate anything.

    Its not her ****ing name. It is up.to parents to name their children not schools.


  • #656
    Iwasfrozen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,250 ✭✭✭✭Iwasfrozen


    HondaSami wrote: »
    Sorry if im arrogant but i fail to see how her being called Aine instead of Ann for eg in school would complicate anything.
    You don't get it do you? It's not about complicating anything it's about identity! I had my Irish teacher translate my name in secondary school but I politely asked him to stop and he did. God love him if he had refused!


  • #657
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    MadsL wrote: »
    Would it stop you making empty and insulting speculations about circumstances I haven't shared?

    You have not shared them but it's what i have picked up from reading the thread.
    I will apologise but the issue is the name and the passport not the school as you have lead us to believe.

    I'm sorry. That's me done. Good luck with it anyway. :)


  • #658
    reprazant
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,416 ✭✭✭reprazant


    MadsL wrote: »
    I get condescending when people don't bother to read what I post and then make up what I said or ask for me to say it again so they don't have to scroll back a page.

    If you say so. I have found you to be defensive, belittling and condescending from the start of this thread but then it seems to be just you as you are quite similar in most of your threads. Sneering at people who have a different opinion to you does not equate to debating with them.

    Also, the thread is 44 pages long. People are not necessarily going to remember everything that has been said in it.


  • #659
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    HondaSami wrote: »
    Sorry if im arrogant but i fail to see how her being called Aine instead of Ann for eg in school would complicate anything.

    It does when A. You have to show 2 years usage to change the name on a passport and more importantly B. the list of documentation is massive for a Green Card. I was at the Embassy for my interview and heard a woman who had to resubmit and start her whole application process because her documentation was Pat not Patricia as on her birth cert.


  • #660
    Dan_Solo
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    reprazant wrote: »
    Also, the thread is 44 pages long. People are not necessarily going to remember everything that has been said in it.
    Hasn't stopped plenty of people posting their opinion on facts they've imagined might be in those 44 pages though has it.


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  • #661
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    MadsL I'm confused. Do you think that the school calling your daughter by the wrong name will cause problems if she goes to apply for a greencard?


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