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Brandy and Cigars MkII

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Happy Bitthday Pem, have a great day hon xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Thanks guys :D

    Why is it when you are nice to someone who is a dick they just turn into more of a dick? :rolleyes:


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    Pembily wrote: »
    Thanks guys :D

    Yer welcome!
    Pembily wrote: »
    Why is it when you are nice to someone who is a dick they just turn into more of a dick? :rolleyes:

    One of a couple of things.

    - What they are doing does not appear to be received as dickish behaviour. They'll end up just doing it more as it seems to be acceptable.

    - They just couldn't care less the affect their behaviour / atitude has on other people.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Happy birthday Peeeeeeeeeeeeeeem!


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Victoria Salty Principal


    Happy birthday pemb!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Pembily wrote: »

    Why is it when you are nice to someone who is a dick they just turn into more of a dick? :rolleyes:

    It'sbecause you're letting them away with being a dick ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Sauve wrote: »
    It'sbecause you're letting them away with being a dick ;)
    Hahah, I fixed it and they coped :D +1 to me :D

    I also go flowers for my bday :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Pembily wrote: »

    I also go flowers for my bday :D

    Yer welcome.

    >.>

    :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Yer welcome.

    >.>

    :pac:
    Funny I thought they were from girl friends living in Oz :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Or so it would seeeeem!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Or so it would seeeeem!

    Ah bless, you've great taste! Didn't peg you as a pink guy :P :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,084 ✭✭✭Hyperbullet


    Happy Birthday Pemb!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    MMMMMM I got chocolate fudge cake :D:D:D


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,763 Mod ✭✭✭✭ToxicPaddy


    Happy Birthday Pem.......... :)


    Afternoon all..


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,763 Mod ✭✭✭✭ToxicPaddy


    Pembily wrote: »
    MMMMMM I got chocolate fudge cake :D:D:D

    Jeez yer making up for your time off chocolate with a vengeance!! :pac:


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 4,644 Mod ✭✭✭✭Daisies


    Pembily wrote: »
    I also go flowers for my bday :D
    Pembily wrote: »
    MMMMMM I got chocolate fudge cake :D:D:D

    I'm jealous! Enjoy the day x x

    Do you ever just want to punch your boss over email? Currently attempting to reply civilly to an email that I can see being taken in the wrong context!:rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,399 ✭✭✭KamiKazeKitten


    Happy birthday Pem, have a good 'un! :)


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,763 Mod ✭✭✭✭ToxicPaddy


    Daisies wrote: »
    Do you ever just want to punch your boss..

    I had that feeling on a daily basis with my old boss.. problem was I used to sit beside him so it was hard to hide my anger. Used to go upstairs and take it out on cardboard boxes. Punched the living fook outta them!!

    Another issue was that outside work he was a nice guy!!

    You just can't win sometimes :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    ToxicPaddy wrote: »
    Jeez yer making up for your time off chocolate with a vengeance!! :pac:
    I am also giving it (and jellies) up for Lent so will be off it again for 6 weeks!
    Daisies wrote: »
    I'm jealous! Enjoy the day x x

    Do you ever just want to punch your boss over email? Currently attempting to reply civilly to an email that I can see being taken in the wrong context!:rolleyes:

    Thanks :D I used to get that but my new boss is a legend :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,074 ✭✭✭smallBiscuit


    ToxicPaddy wrote: »
    I had that feeling on a daily basis with my old boss.. problem was I used to sit beside him so it was hard to hide my anger. Used to go upstairs and take it out on cardboard boxes. Punched the living fook outta them!!

    Another issue was that outside work he was a nice guy!!

    You just can't win sometimes :(
    My last boss I had major issues with, I never once had a meeting that didn't end up as a fight. Didn't help that as soon as she became my manager I blackmailed a pay rise out of her :D

    But new one seems pretty good, so far. No blackmail ...... yet :pac:


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  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,763 Mod ✭✭✭✭ToxicPaddy


    My last boss I had major issues with, I never once had a meeting that didn't end up as a fight. Didn't help that as soon as she became my manager I blackmailed a pay rise out of her :D

    But new one seems pretty good, so far. No blackmail ...... yet :pac:

    I didnt need to blackmail anyone, he did a good enough job of making himself known for the wrong reasons as it was. I just kept my head down, did my work and got spotted by the people who matter for the right reasons.. ;)


  • Administrators Posts: 55,101 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,763 Mod ✭✭✭✭ToxicPaddy


    awec wrote: »
    I'm thinking of getting one of those mini fridges for my desk.

    I recommend one of these :D

    FA_Heineken_Fridge_HR-21-5.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Drinking time :D


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 19,076 CMod ✭✭✭✭The Black Oil


    On hold for 50 minutes...


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 4,644 Mod ✭✭✭✭Daisies


    My last boss I had major issues with, I never once had a meeting that didn't end up as a fight. Didn't help that as soon as she became my manager I blackmailed a pay rise out of her :D

    But new one seems pretty good, so far. No blackmail ...... yet :pac:
    ToxicPaddy wrote: »
    I didnt need to blackmail anyone, he did a good enough job of making himself known for the wrong reasons as it was. I just kept my head down, did my work and got spotted by the people who matter for the right reasons.. ;)

    Had a bit of a rant to the guy that trained me. Sent a blunt email about their unrealistic expectations and the need for trained support staff and feel a bit better. Tomorrow should be interesting!


  • Administrators Posts: 55,101 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,166 ✭✭✭Stereomaniac


    Ah I dunno. I have had managers who have tried to coax me into backing down, nicey nicey.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 4,644 Mod ✭✭✭✭Daisies


    awec wrote: »
    So long as you were constructive in your criticism I'm sure they can't really complain. :)
    Ah I dunno. I have had managers who have tried to coax me into backing down, nicey nicey.

    I find it a lot easier to state things eloquently when I have time to think about it. That's why I prefer email to phone conversations.

    But to be honest, I know that if things don't improve I'll hand in my notice and move and it doesn't bother me. Sure Pem is holding a room in her apartment for me, right Pem?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,404 ✭✭✭✭Pembily


    Pem is drunk on a school night but most DEFO has a room (only half mind) for you up here :D


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